normal guy talk?

[lillian1]

Okay , when I was about 3 months pregnant my boyfriend[now husband] phone dialed me and he didn't know. I heard him say "sometimes I want to have a girl on the side." At first I couldn't beleive it was him untill I heard his friend say "thats messed up if she's having your kid" I fliped out and called him over and over untill he picked up. At first he said it wasn't him , then made up another story, and finally he said its just how guys talk. I think about it every day. I would understand if he said a girl was hot or something but i can't get over him telling people he wants to cheat on me. Is it guy talk??

[baller16]

no it's not guys talk about getting girls and stuff like that but they don't talk about things like that loosely

[Furred Goddess]

Okay , when I was about 3 months pregnant my boyfriend[now husband] phone dialed me and he didn't know. I heard him say "sometimes I want to have a girl on the side." At first I couldn't beleive it was him untill I heard his friend say "thats messed up if she's having your kid" I fliped out and called him over and over untill he picked up. At first he said it wasn't him , then made up another story, and finally he said its just how guys talk. I think about it every day. I would understand if he said a girl was hot or something but i can't get over him telling people he wants to cheat on me. Is it guy talk?? Some guys are pigs like that (Not all so put your pitchforks away). I have this male friend who is always talking about cheating on his girl when she isn't around. He doesn't have the stones to actually do it but he sure talks big. He has even tried to get my husband to engage in that kind of talk to which he replied, "Why do I need to cheat on my wife, she lets me have fun with her girlfriends." Just keep an eye on your man, sounds like he is a bad news type.

[Nick Nayme]

It would be unusual ( very unusual ) for a guy to tell you that unless he was serious.

[Rain]

Hmm...I'm very much against cheating and I have to admit, I've said things like that to a friend of mine. I'm not proud of it, but sometimes we say things out of anger or frustration that we don't mean. My husband doesn't know that I've said it though and if he did, he probably wouldn't trust me either.

[theman]

I to don't beleave it is normal guy talk, I have a friend that would fuck a snake if he had the chance.
But who knows, maybe it was just talk!
In marrage trust is a big factor, and if you don't trust him, then it is over before it even started.
Just keep a eye on him for a while, and if the same B.S. pops back up, then send him to the curb!

[wh1337]

I would not consider this guy talk...was their grunting in the background, you know, from all of the other pigs.

[gibino]

Rain is right. If my loved ones knew everything I thought, they would hate me. That's not the point. Life is about how you treat each other.

Some guys talk like that. They are the jerks. I had a fried (the same one that got fired for following a girl around a grocery store) who told me that he just couldn't handle the monogamy - a joke considering that he was nailing bar skanks and chicks from his home town almost monthly. He actually asked me to split an escort with him, with the intention of getting a hotel room, taking turns fucking her. I couldn't.

[gibino]

Oh, and, was he talking about someone specific, or just the thought of having a side lay? Guys, even committed ones, talk about how hot specific girls are without really intending any physical infidelity. Of course, if the specific girl is actually a possibility, it might be a problem. But it usually isn't.

[LK6D9]

Does it matter now, he's your husband, apparantly it didn't bother you that bad. And think about the time leading up to that conversation, were yall arguin, what's goin on, and I still don't understand how you heard the conversation on accident. If he ment it yall wouldn't be married. Let it ride.

[LittleMiss]

It depends. How was your sex life when you were pregnant for a start?
He may have just been feeling frustrated. it doesnt mean he actually would.
"Sometimes I want"
I would interpret that as sometimes he feels like he could do with some no-strings sex, as long as he doesnt actually do it i think thats fair enough if you two were dealing with having a baby. NOT fair enough to go and do it, but fair enough to find the idea attractive.

but hey, you married him. Why do that if you dont trust him?

[ForcedOs]

Sounds like you should get with his friend, he at least has sense to say what your husband said was messed up.

[afrosamurai]

Okay , when I was about 3 months pregnant my boyfriend[now husband] phone dialed me and he didn't know. I heard him say "sometimes I want to have a girl on the side." At first I couldn't beleive it was him untill I heard his friend say "thats messed up if she's having your kid" I fliped out and called him over and over untill he picked up. At first he said it wasn't him , then made up another story, and finally he said its just how guys talk. I think about it every day. I would understand if he said a girl was hot or something but i can't get over him telling people he wants to cheat on me. Is it guy talk??


can u still have sex at 3 months? cuz if not, then u could have just caught him in the middle of a sentence while he was complainin

[AzaC]

well let me say as a guy I think that ocassionally we say shit that just comes out and we don't take into account how fucked up it is, to me I would never say anything to that extent about someone I was connected to on that level and having a kid with, but I don't know him, this is definatly shit you need to confront him about, its not the way guys talk but yeah, sometimes fucked up shit comes out that we'd turn the clock on if we got the chance, I don't know the guy so I won't judge, fucked up, but its really between you too

[BeatItUpRight]

My boys and I talk like that sometimes so I would say yea guys talk like that, for example if we see a girl walkin we might say "would you hit that" and they'll respond. Jus depends on what kind of friends and how good he knows them.

[jims45651]

Who da fuck is normal in here,,,roflmfao,,

[Slyscape]

He's a dick. Run and find a man that will be a father to your child and a good man to you.