? Men and Women!

[RegressOffender]

Would you knowingly allow your 13-17 yr old son/daughter have sex in your home? Would allow the aforementioned to have sex in your home, while you were there? As a man, I do not want to know that someone is having sex with any of my daughters, even though in my life span I have violated numerous girls, women, and ladies sexually, the thought of my own daughters being penetrated makes me ill.

Men and women, when and if you have had a talk with the kids about sex, did you explain, especially to your daughters, that oral sex is more intimate then actual sexual intercourse, and that before her virginity should be saved for marriage? Your opinions!!

[xiara74]

I don't have kids.

I think being in denial about your kids sexuality isn't healthy.

As for saving anything for marriage?! I wouldn't be encouraging anyone along those lines.

x74

[tricki]

I'm a daughter of strict parents and i was always told that they would rather it happen in the house than in some dirty motel or in the back of someones car. So they knew i was safe and wasnt being taking for a ride(excuse the pun). T x

[Dimebag1966]

My mother was very strict and never let me have a girl in my bed room. So sex was off the cards if she was in

[RegressOffender]

I don't have kids.

I think being in denial about your kids sexuality isn't healthy.

As for saving anything for marriage?! I wouldn't be encouraging anyone along those lines.

x74

Far from denial, do not know i wrote anywhere about me saying that my daughters are not sexually active. Did not say that I would say anything about, saving anything for marriage.:cool:

[RegressOffender]

I'm a daughter of strict parents and i was always told that they would rather it happen in the house than in some dirty motel or in the back of someones car. So they knew i was safe and wasnt being taking for a ride(excuse the pun). T x

Does not have to take place in a dirty motel, all r not dirty. All I know is that the only people in my house having sex, in my house are the two adults responsible for the very lives of the three girls produced by those adults. I am not saying that my 16 or 14 yr old may not be sexually active, they say they are not, so I go with that, since we have great lines of communication with our kids.

[xiara74]

Men and women, when and if you have had a talk with the kids about sex, did you explain, especially to your daughters, that oral sex is more intimate then actual sexual intercourse, and that before her virginity should be saved for marriage? Your opinions!!

This bit didn't make much sense to me.
Sounded like you were talking about saving something for marriage. . .

x74

[stronghold]

even though in my life span I have violated numerous girls, women, and ladies sexually, the thought of my own daughters being penetrated makes me ill.

Before I give you my opinion,..would you please clarify for me (us), what you meant by "violated"?

[XxElitexX]

Before I give you my opinion,..would you please clarify for me (us), what you meant by "violated"?

Yeah, because it didn't sound pleasant or wanted...

[sharesmypussy]

Not my 13 year old, but around 16-17, yes I would.

Thankfully my son is only 11 so I don't have to worry about this yet!

[xiara74]

Before I give you my opinion,..would you please clarify for me (us), what you meant by "violated"?

I think that's just his way of saying that he's had sex with a lot of women.

His choice of words aren't great but it's par for the course.

Women are often portrayed as "victims" when it comes to sexual relationships. He could've easily have said that the women violated him.

x74

[stronghold]

I think that's just his way of saying that he's had sex with a lot of women.

His choice of words aren't great but it's par for the course.

Women are often portrayed as "victims" when it comes to sexual relationships. He could've easily have said that the women violated him.

x74
Thats what I am hoping for. Im afraid with some of the pedophile post's and such,..Im worried that, that is what he meant.

[Destor]

I don't have kids.

I think being in denial about your kids sexuality isn't healthy.

As for saving anything for marriage?! I wouldn't be encouraging anyone along those lines.

x74

Being in denial about your kids sexuality is a bit different from freely allowing them to have sex under your roof.

I wouldn't allow my hypothetical 13 year old daughter or son to freely have sex in my house, that's too young. I would be sitting down and discussing the situation with them.

16-17 is more acceptable.

[xiara74]

Being in denial about your kids sexuality is a bit different from freely allowing them to have sex under your roof.

I wouldn't allow my hypothetical 13 year old daughter or son to freely have sex in my house, that's too young. I would be sitting down and discussing the situation with them.

16-17 is more acceptable.

Neither would I. But over and above the age of consent, they should be allowed to do it at home.

x74

[Destor]

Agreed

allowing your 13 year old to freely have sex in your house is asking for a pregnant 13 year old. While not allowing it is no guarantee that something along those lines won't happen, it seems like a sensible precaution.

[gottaride]

hmmm, seems like all young kids hookup and fuck, lord knows, mine are nearing the age! My biggest concern is for them to not be easy, have standards, and be responsible. And i have informed them about how young boys are... I'm not going to monitor their every move, but am not going to allow them to just run around and do whatever! I know a few guys who have said the same thing you're saying, "I stuck my dick in anything that moved! Now I have a precious daughter!" Well, tell you girls how horny young men get girls in bed, without the details, you know what to do! Forwarned is forarmed and you can be a grandpa later than sooner! btw, ya, I ran amuk too, and I am guilty, so I'm not on my highhorse, just trying to be realistic!

[Ghostrider939]

hmmm, seems like all young kids hookup and fuck, lord knows, mine are nearing the age! My biggest concern is for them to not be easy, have standards, and be responsible. And i have informed them about how young boys are... I'm not going to monitor their every move, but am not going to allow them to just run around and do whatever! I know a few guys who have said the same thing you're saying, "I stuck my dick in anything that moved! Now I have a precious daughter!" Well, tell you girls how horny young men get girls in bed, without the details, you know what to do! Forwarned is forarmed and you can be a grandpa later than sooner! btw, ya, I ran amuk too, and I am guilty, so I'm not on my highhorse, just trying to be realistic!

Most of the replies in this stream are as intelligent and responsible as gottaride.
Intelligent communication, advising of pros and cons and making the age 16-17
and YES I would be comfortable with them having sex in their own room. I was a virgin at 23 and am now happily married (33 years of marriage)

[geileklodders]

Got a 14-y.o son and two grown-up daughters. Never made a problem of that though the missus has some mixed feelings. To the eldest, I've said when she was something like 13 years old: I'd prefer you'd wait a few years but if things happen, there's where you find the condoms.

Simply because you can forbid as much as you want, it won't help. The eldest daughter definitely waited a few years. As for the second, she lives with my ex and I assume she's been partying. The boy recently said he doesn't feel ready yet.

It's probably more useful to help them get some standards than forbidding.

[NoTopNoCollar]

Agreed

allowing your 13 year old to freely have sex in your house is asking for a pregnant 13 year old. While not allowing it is no guarantee that something along those lines won't happen, it seems like a sensible precaution.


Both my daughters and my son were educated and able to speak freely and ask questions about sex at any time while they were growing up. They were enough at ease to be able to ask for condoms and when both my girls decided they were ready, were put on the pill as well as being aware that it did not protect them from STD's. My youngest was 13 when she brought her boyfriend (14) home and asked to go get the pill. Was I happy? No. I asked them to wait, but they did not want to. I gave them enough privacy and time to explore each other and answered question after question. Six months down the road, they had sex for the first time. No pregnant teens in my house. I would rather they were responsible and had a place that is safe and comfortable, then to sneak away and do something that would end in having to raise a child when they're not ready.