Semen/Blowjob Question

[picklespam]

Am I the only one who doesn't like kissing your partner after they give you a blowjob or swallow your cum? I just find it disgusting that my penis has been in her mouth and I know that when we're kissing. Same for cum. Knowing she swallowed, I find it weird/gross kissing her knowing semen has been in her mouth. Does anyone else have this problem? (Sorry If there has been a thread on this before or something) :confused:

[Wif4rent]

So I would guess that you are not a lover of cream-pies....

Sarah x x x

[picklespam]

So I would guess that you are not a lover of cream-pies....

Sarah x x x
Nope, Not a fan of eating girls out either. Some people have called me names for that :P

[Wif4rent]

Nope, Not a fan of eating girls out either. Some people have called me names for that :P

Selfish ?

But each to their own, personally I don't like rimming and my partner loves to have it done on him.

But I don't do it !

Sarah x x x

[cumdumper]

Am I the only one who doesn't like kissing your partner after they give you a blowjob or swallow your cum? I just find it disgusting that my penis has been in her mouth and I know that when we're kissing. Same for cum. Knowing she swallowed, I find it weird/gross kissing her knowing semen has been in her mouth. Does anyone else have this problem? (Sorry If there has been a thread on this before or something) :confused:
The first thought that comes to mind is "do not expect her to be your partner for any great length of time".

[Kimiko]

That was my first thought as well. There are few things worse than a squeamish, germaphobic lover. :mad:

[sullygom]

Am I the only one who doesn't like kissing your partner after they give you a blowjob or swallow your cum? I just find it disgusting that my penis has been in her mouth and I know that when we're kissing. Same for cum. Knowing she swallowed, I find it weird/gross kissing her knowing semen has been in her mouth. Does anyone else have this problem? (Sorry If there has been a thread on this before or something) :confused:

There appears to be little hope for you in this oral and god forgive (for you) anal sex world !!
Personally I love to ejaculate in my partner's vagina, kiss it and transfer our mutual juices mouth to mouth....fucking disgusting what !!!:excited:

[picklespam]

I think you guys have me kind of wrong. I still kiss her and everything, but I just find it weird. Do you get it? :\
Edit: I love Anal, and love getting oral, but don't exactly love giving it.

[Rothko]

all I can saw is Wow!! So you expect your lover to have your cock in her mouth and swallow your cum and I assume you expect her to enjoy doing so, but find the whole buisiness sufficiently repulsive as to want no further part in it once you have sattisfied yourself..

[Kimiko]

I think you guys have me kind of wrong. I still kiss her and everything, but I just find it weird. Do you get it? :\
Edit: I love Anal, and love getting oral, but don't exactly love giving it.

So, it's okay with you that she sucks your cock, that you cum in her mouth, that she swallows it...but YOU get all weird at the thought of tasting your own cum or licking her pussy. Are you even aware of the glaring double standard involved here?

It's a good thing for you, I guess, that your partner is more open-minded than you are. I would have long since departed for greener pastures.

[Rothko]

So, it's okay with you that she sucks your cock, that you cum in her mouth, that she swallows it...but YOU get all weird at the thought of tasting your own cum or licking her pussy. Are you even aware of the glaring double standard involved here?

It's a good thing for you, I guess, that your partner is more open-minded than you are. I would have long since departed for greener pastures.

Agreed, pretty much what I said previously.. Well put!!!

[BiSexMansBud]

I really hate to say this but you do sound a bit selfish..sorry but you are happy for your partner to suck your cock and swallow your cum but you don't like giving oral sex or kissing her after she has swallowed your cum..

You plainly have a mental block about semen, either the taste or some issue about it..as for not being willing to give her oral pleasure..my oh my.

I guess you are very fortunate to have such a patient and giving lover..

Can you put your finger on what it is that all this revulsion stems from..maybe work through it with your partner..maybe spread some tasty sauces on her and clean her up...add some flavours to the event, but please address this issue before you wind up married to the five sisters for life.

[picklespam]

I kind of wish I got a better response from this thread. Its not me being selfish, It's mainly me and her telling each other what we want and don't wanna do. Its not like Im "OH DO ALL THIS STUFF TO ME AND ILL GIVE YOU NOTHING". I was just asking If anyone else thought it was weird to kiss someone after they had your semen in their mouth.
I probably won't be posting more in this thread, just to prevent further arguing.

[Rothko]

OK well in direct answer to your question. No I dont mind and certainly dont think it weird to kiss your lover after having cum in their mouth. I dont think it weird to eat my lovers pussy once I have cum inside her either. I can think of nothing more pleasurable than eating my wifes pussy

[mickydoos]

The thought crosses my mind but she's nice enough to suck it so im nice enough to give her a kiss/ go down on her. To be fair i love going down on women anyway but ho hum.

[bitchesonmyjock]

The first thought that comes to mind is "do not expect her to be your partner for any great length of time".
Lol...yeah because that's what really makes it or breaks it with a girl lol
You guys crack me up, I've never been with a woman who was pissed about me not kissing her after nutting in her mouth. I think normal human beings can understand that shit is gross. As for guy not eating pussy though, stop being a bitch. I can get it if you just got done fucking and didn't wanna, but before fucking it shouldn't be an issue unless you're a bitch.

[BiSexMansBud]

I kind of wish I got a better response from this thread. Its not me being selfish, It's mainly me and her telling each other what we want and don't wanna do. Its not like Im "OH DO ALL THIS STUFF TO ME AND ILL GIVE YOU NOTHING". I was just asking If anyone else thought it was weird to kiss someone after they had your semen in their mouth.
I probably won't be posting more in this thread, just to prevent further arguing.

Well then to answer your question directly..Yes I think it's weird..But thats people for you..

No one is arguing with you but people are plainly a little surprised and have given their opinions..I haven't read all the posts but I don't think anyone was rude..ignore them if they were. If you think this is arguing go take a look in the general discussion section, I assure you this thread is a walk on the beach..;).

So there you go..sorry if you are dissapointed with the response thats the internet for you..people never get the answers they were expecting..don't take it to heart..there are some very good people here..:)

[deadly_dalia]

Sorry dude, I've always felt that dudes with your "problems" are just kids who haven't grown up and learned to enjoy the full extent of a sex and woman's body yet because it's "icky." To me it really is an issue of maturity.

[bitchesonmyjock]

Sorry dude, I've always felt that dudes with your "problems" are just kids who haven't grown up and learned to enjoy the full extent of a sex and woman's body yet because it's "icky." To me it really is an issue of maturity.
I agree...it's very strange for heterosexual men to not like semen getting in their mouth :rolleyes:

[knoxvillainswife]

There's lots of men like you out there. There's women that refuse to do certain things, it's not so strange that some men don't like doing stuff either.

[kuzione]

i always find it very hot when i am getting a bj and she stops in the middle to kiss me. I find it just as hot when i have cum in her mouth and we share a messy cummy kiss.

[10incheshard]

No, your not the only person that is like that. I, personally, don't have a problem with it but experienced it before with women. Its women out there that don't want to kiss after they have had their pussy eaten. I used to date a girl that would make me go to the bathroom to rinse my mouth out and wash my face after I eat her pussy. She would do the same after sucking my dick. It did shock me at first, but, I just got used to it and went with the flow.

[Michael Clemens]

No, it's not weird to have hang ups about that. Many men have the same issue. I would bet that many of the men who say they enjoy it do so because it is weird or taboo. To me the taste of cum isn't all that. If offered I would choose a beer over a glass of cum. However, in the heat of the moment I enjoy it for many of the same reasons you find it disgusting.

[mdesk66]

Sorry dude, I've always felt that dudes with your "problems" are just kids who haven't grown up and learned to enjoy the full extent of a sex and woman's body yet because it's "icky." To me it really is an issue of maturity.

well said dalia :) back in the day (when I was in my late teens, early twenties) I used to be put off by my own cum for some reason, I cant tell you why. As I got older that feeling just went away after I dated a certain woman and I actually started getting raging hardons after I came in a her mouth! I think it was because of the 1st girl that actually begged me to kiss her after-the look in her eyes and the tone just made me so horny (after I just came) that we went crazy. . . making out heavily for about 20 minutes and then having sex. That was my turnaround point. . .now I looooove it :)

[deadly_dalia]

well said dalia :) back in the day (when I was in my late teens, early twenties) I used to be put off by my own cum for some reason, I cant tell you why. As I got older that feeling just went away after I dated a certain woman and I actually started getting raging hardons after I came in a her mouth! I think it was because of the 1st girl that actually begged me to kiss her after-the look in her eyes and the tone just made me so horny (after I just came) that we went crazy. . . making out heavily for about 20 minutes and then having sex. That was my turnaround point. . .now I looooove it :)


I like your story. It confirms how I feel. I feel that a lot of men go through this, although I'm not sure. I've just kinda noticed that it's something kids in high school were grossed out about and now that I've been talking to older men they have no problem with it. So that's why I feel it's an issue of maturity and really learning to have good sex... not just penis-in-vagina-that's-it-sex.

[Ovid58]

Am I the only one who doesn't like kissing your partner after they give you a blowjob or swallow your cum? I just find it disgusting that my penis has been in her mouth and I know that when we're kissing. Same for cum. Knowing she swallowed, I find it weird/gross kissing her knowing semen has been in her mouth. Does anyone else have this problem? (Sorry If there has been a thread on this before or something) :confused:

Funny, but I've met DOZENS of women who just have had the DECENCY to wash their mouths after a BJ and ONLY AFTERWARDS to have the idea to kiss me!!! :p

Personally, if a woman sucks my dick, I have no problem kissing her, BUT... THEY DID have a problem!!!

Anyway, life isn't like some folks are trying to describe on this forum... :p

So, don't worry! YOU are just normal!

And NOBODY is entitled to tell you to do things that disgust you!

So, just act as you feel, and let the others criticize you as long as they feel like doing it! ;)

[budman34]

I kiss my wife after she sucks my cock. No big deal to me. She does not swallow, so don't know about that, but sure I would if she did because I would be so happy that she did swallow!

[Couple4Fun]

When its me and my wife, a creampie is delicious! Sounds wierd but it is hers and mine and somehow is just hot. With other women sometimes the creampie is good, sometimes its not. With guys who suck me dry, sometimes i feel like it, sometimes i don't.