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stu
05-31-2006, 06:00 AM
hi i am a guy wondering if size does mater to women( not men!!) and if so tell me :?

alright no one has a say on this very important topic!!

Thenightflier66
05-31-2006, 11:17 AM
hi i am a guy wondering if size does mater to women( not men!!) and if so tell me :?

alright no one has a say on this very important topic!!

Best way to find out, is to ask the woman you're about to have sex with.

ndm
05-31-2006, 05:23 PM
I've always thought and asked about that but no one gives a realistic and honest answer.

I think I'm defeated on this one. If you find out then please let me know too.

OnFire
05-31-2006, 09:17 PM
I read somewhere that after 4 inches women do not have much sensitivity in their vagina. So aslong as you are going over 4 i think you shouldnt worry to much :wink: .

Of course this is what I heard and I am not a women so thats just what I think.

Cthulhu
06-02-2006, 03:18 AM
Well, if it really does matter, I'm shit out of luck.

Rain
06-02-2006, 05:22 AM
Yes, size matters. The earlier comment about the 4 inches is pretty close. (I'd say at least 5 inches). For me, width is more important than length though.

Rain
06-03-2006, 01:26 PM
I should have added this to my earlier reply. If you're small, try different positions that will penetrate her deeper, like doggie style or missionary with her legs over your shoulders (knees apart). There's always ways to compensate. :wink: You don't have to be big to be a great lover.

JeffTheMan
06-03-2006, 03:10 PM
I'm 6 inches long 2 inches thick is that good enough for any woman?

Rain
06-04-2006, 01:47 AM
Jeff,

Yep :P
But I think you already knew that

WiltallicA
06-04-2006, 04:58 AM
I feel like a general right now :lol:

Great info Rain.

carrot_cutter
06-04-2006, 10:59 AM
How would you measure thickness though? Would it be from one side to the other? Or around the circumfrence? Or something else?

mystic
06-04-2006, 12:07 PM
Measure the circumfrence. Girth, to me, is more important then length.

carrot_cutter
06-05-2006, 01:55 AM
Alright great. Circumfrence is good then. :D

ShakeZula
06-05-2006, 07:11 PM
Looking at it from this end, it strikes me as the constant worry of a younger guy. Not that I'm that old (27), but at some point in the last couple of years or so, maybe less, I just came to the realization that this is what I got, it's not going to get bigger, and whether it's "big enough" or not is irrelevant. Girls seem to have fun and if I am constantly questioning my ability, I really am going to be a lousy lover because I'll be to preoccupied with what she thinks of my dick to focus on her, and that's a total waste of both our times.

Learn to use it or stick to jerkin' off. If you don't have the control you want or you really are just Tiny Tim in pants, learn to eat pussy. It makes up for a lot of other...shortcomings (pardon the pun). And really, I think that we Americans are somewhat uniquely fixated on the orgasm. Girls are not always going to cum, and there's just nothing we as guys can do about that. Instead of making each one about "am I big enough to get her off" or just "will she get off" in general and basing our masculinity on it, learn to just have fun and please her. The more relaxed she is, the more likely she is to cum in the first place. If she's worried that you're worried then no one is going to come away from the experience thinking "man, that was a great lay".

Just my thoughts.

–S–

artep
06-07-2006, 09:29 AM
Actually I think size matters, depending on the occasion. If I'm going to have a one-night-stand, so purely based on lust, I like his cock to be a bit longer and thicker than average.
But with my boyfriend, who's cock is just average, size doesn't matter at all. He gets me off all the time.

Reach Deep
06-07-2006, 08:21 PM
Size does really matter. But you should know how to work it too. This is where suitable positions come into play.

For super-sized guys, please go gently or let the girl take control.

Later!

Cthulhu
06-07-2006, 09:09 PM
Maybe this question is stemming from some deep-seated insecurity, but I'm a bit confused about girth comments here. I have always thought of girth as circumfrence, in which case I would've expected most guys to be above 5 inches around, as that is my circumfrence, and from what I have seen from porn pics and such most dudes are bigger. But such comments as

I'd take a guy with four inches long with three inches of girth over ten inches with half-inch girth any day

have led me to believe that girth is referring to width rather than circumfrence. So which is it?

Bigwater
06-08-2006, 05:02 AM
I get what you are saying clthu, but, how the heck are you suppose to mesure around you're dick :o , do you use a tape? cause all my life i've been using cm. so how long is 19cm? :wink:

Cthulhu
06-08-2006, 07:12 PM
Pretty long, not sure exactly but over 7 inches I think. For measuring around your dick I just used a tape measurer.

onecrazyag
06-08-2006, 10:16 PM
question about size. i'm 19 white male, and i'm a little over 6in long and around 2-2.5in wide. i feel that my cock is a little skinny. it seems like girth compensates length, but what do you do with a skinny dick?

also, i'm obviously done going through puberty, but will my cock grow anymore?

CoryMM
06-08-2006, 10:17 PM
Okay now don't laugh, but is a 4.5 inch length and a 1.5 inch girth acceptable? I see 6 as being average or 5.5, not sure on girth. But being 18 and all, I wonder if I'm done growing, or have a little time left. :(

I hope I'm not too small. Reassureance please :cry:

artep
06-09-2006, 08:33 AM
what do you do with a skinny dick?

Well, that's an interesting question. Although I wrote size doeze matter for me. And I love the whole package; when I get a big cock to mess around with I want it to be long AND thick.
When a cock is long enough, but not too thick, I'll use it for anal sex for sure!
Especially in a threesome, a long and thick cock in my vagina and a thinner one in my ass... (i'm getting wet just by walking down memory lane... :P )

s3xtOy
06-17-2006, 10:54 PM
when does my dick stop growing? i wonder how big my final size will be... :?

Corleon
06-18-2006, 01:35 AM
when does my dick stop growing? i wonder how big my final size will be... :?
I'm guessing around when you're 20 that'll be about as big as it's gona ever get.

Doc
06-18-2006, 03:10 AM
I guess from what i'm reading that I fall into the average category, But from experience, I believe in the whole package. Forplay,love making, and after glow. So when the wife and I make love We get the real deal.
Doc.

WiltallicA
06-18-2006, 04:41 AM
Did anyone here ever hear of google? GOOGLE IT!

WiltallicA
06-18-2006, 04:42 AM
Is a long dick ever painful? I thought I herd of to long.

PlzrBob
06-18-2006, 05:35 AM
I've learned as I greww older and wiser that, when it comes to pleasing a woman that thing hangin between your legs has about 25% of the ability to bring a permenant smile to her face. It's the other things that make sex a true outta body experiance. :roll:

piggit
06-18-2006, 07:13 AM
Is a long dick ever painful? I thought I herd of to long.absolutely!

dirtyboy1907
06-18-2006, 04:03 PM
Is a long dick ever painful? I thought I herd of to long.
i have a little larger than average penis and there are some positions that are just downright painfull for my girlfriend and i to do (for her, not me). usually the positions are ones that maxamize penetration and minimize size of the vagina.
So yes, in some cases having a long(er) penis is not a good thing.

Nympho
06-18-2006, 08:19 PM
I really don't think that size matters,although it is a bonus :wink: but I also think that it is a matter of oppinion. Just like a man may like a girl with a particular body type, some girls like a particular size..

Also, I agress with the comment that it's the WHOLE person that makes the difference, not just one part of the body.

ndm
06-18-2006, 09:39 PM
Thanks for that nympho, I think that is a comment worthy of note and most men forget.

Nympho
06-18-2006, 10:43 PM
Thanks for that nympho, I think that is a comment worthy of note and most men forget.
:D You're welcome

PlzrBob
06-20-2006, 12:04 AM
will this be sufficiant

tea_merchant
06-20-2006, 04:06 AM
will this be sufficiant

cool man ....cool man

i have 5.5 .... am i in the club ????? :?

pervypete
06-21-2006, 01:25 PM
Surely being to big is not good, if you cant get it all in its a waste. but then I'm not very big 5+ " only so I would think that wouldn't I

ChronoTriggerJM
06-22-2006, 12:39 AM
I'm 7 Long and I wish I was smaller sometimes Honest to god, I think your in the perfect range if your like 5 1/2 to 6 1/2 area. I've never gotten a girl that can give me insane deepthroat (like all the way down licking my balls kinda thing), I've tried a few positions that she wont let me do anymore because they hurt, I've damage a cervix, and I've never been able to atempt anal sex :/ IMHO I wish I was smaller sometimes, and having that random super erection is the pits :/

zozoqwerty
07-14-2006, 03:59 AM
i hav 6 inch
or 7 inch
i lov porn
i am sex addict

Vore
07-15-2006, 01:36 AM
Right im 16, and have 6.5 inch lenght and dunno about gurth :S

Is that ok, and will it get bigger?

Rain
07-15-2006, 08:44 AM
Right im 16, and have 6.5 inch lenght and dunno about gurth :S

Is that ok, and will it get bigger?

I don't know if you'll grow anymore, but if you don't you'll be fine. 6.5 is plenty.

sexboi
07-15-2006, 11:26 PM
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baller16
07-15-2006, 11:33 PM
riiight

ShakeZula
07-17-2006, 06:37 PM
Maybe someone can answer this for me. A friend of mine said that she'd been with a guy with a huge dick before and that whenever he got an erection, he would actually get dizzy sometimes and have trouble keeping it up because it would literally draw too much blood from his brain. The relationship didn't last long because he did not take extra measures to make sure he didn't hurt her with his big schlong, but I'm just wondering if anyone else has heard of this?

–S–

gibino
07-17-2006, 11:11 PM
I have a friend whose schlong we call "the battleship." He was dating a *ahem* very loose girl, and he did actually hurt her with the battleship.

Nympho
07-17-2006, 11:37 PM
Yeah, women can be hurt by an overly long penis...

However, I have never heard of the blood-flow problem before. :shock:

DontTurnAway
07-29-2006, 04:17 PM
Okay call me a perv, but I like mine long and thick.
Mostly long... and thick...
lmao.
But thats becouse I like it Deep... And wide..
You know what? I guess I'm just a perv...

bnthrdntht
07-30-2006, 02:56 PM
not me i don't like em long (sorry but i'd rather not cry out in pain when the end of my uterus is battered and bruised) i prefer thickness and my hubby is as thick as a pack of cigarettes and that hurts every fucking time but i always have orgasms relatively quickly after it adjusts to his size

but i've been with a guy who was 8 1/2 and there was no adjusting and i ended up crying during it because it hurt so bad

but i guess it depends on the woman

iwanafuckyou
07-31-2006, 04:13 AM
im half white/asain i am about 5.5 and 1.5 is that good? and im 17

NaughtyNed
07-31-2006, 08:28 AM
I allways thaught that ,"It int the size of the boat , its the motion of the ocian, that counts,

Well i have never mesured mine , but i do know that its big enough to fill a pram , and im kinda happy with that ,

:-)

lidia
08-01-2006, 05:31 AM
Size DOES matter ... BUT only in relation to technique! The worse fuck I ever had was from the largest dick I ever had!

All else being the same, then sure size matters. But the truth of the matter is all else is seldom the same.

Kimiko
08-01-2006, 05:44 PM
I think other people have commented to this effect, but could we please all agree on what we mean by "girth" or "thickness"?

A penis that is one inch in diameter (one inch across) has a circumference of 3.14 inches (measure it by wrapping a tape measure around it).

My husband's, as of this morning, was a little over two inches in diameter at the biggest part of the head, so that's well over six inches in circumference. He's plenty big enough, but a long way from the biggest I've ever seen.

I agree with the girls who don't like real long ones, though. That can really hurt when they "hit bottom". In my experience, most guys that are that long have learned to take it easy.

sally1984
08-03-2007, 09:59 AM
I really don't think that size matters,although it is a bonus :wink:

As I already posted in another thread, in general size doesn't matter. If you can use it, your girl will get pleasure anyway.


I also think that it is a matter of oppinion. Just like a man may like a girl with a particular body type, some girls like a particular size..

That's true too, it's very exciting for me to see a big dick (sight is an important sense for girls too).
I had some well hung guys and I still remember when I saw the biggest I've ever had. When he took his pants off, I was astounded and amazed:eek: , I got suddenly wet!
Sex was great, but I think because I was over excited rather than for the size itself.
Anyway I insisted to measure it, It was over 9 inches and thick... It was a pity I didn't take any picture! :rolleyes:

bigbird
08-03-2007, 10:03 AM
I think other people have commented to this effect, but could we please all agree on what we mean by "girth" or "thickness"?

A penis that is one inch in diameter (one inch across) has a circumference of 3.14 inches (measure it by wrapping a tape measure around it).

My husband's, as of this morning, was a little over two inches in diameter at the biggest part of the head, so that's well over six inches in circumference. He's plenty big enough, but a long way from the biggest I've ever seen.

I agree with the girls who don't like real long ones, though. That can really hurt when they "hit bottom". In my experience, most guys that are that long have learned to take it easy.


Bring your tape measure over here will you?:-D

al2744an
08-03-2007, 10:05 AM
Bring your tape measure over here will you?:-D

or in my case your Micrometer !!! :D

bigbird
08-03-2007, 10:09 AM
or in my case your Micrometer !!! :D



LOL - just so long as it can be adjusted to measure feet !

friend4fantasy
08-03-2007, 03:42 PM
Technique is everything no matter what size you are. Lasting longer is a good thing too. A woman doesn't want a guy (no matter what size) that only lasts 30 seconds.

Size Queen
08-23-2007, 08:22 PM
I have to say that for me it matters!
I had good sex with medium dicks too but the bigger has always been the best for me. With a big dick I feel my pussy totally filled, it's a totally different sensation that makes me having multiple orgasms!:mrgreen:

pds37
08-23-2007, 08:41 PM
what's a guy who just makes it to 5" going to do????

fortunately my tongue and fingers work wonders