View Full Version : Anal sex?
Rated R SuperStar
06-03-2006, 03:53 PM
Any one have any good ideas of how to get my girlfreand to do anal? She has done it befor with me but she is not all the great about doing it! Help!
ib-6ub-9
06-04-2006, 12:27 AM
it is tough to get someone to do anal when they are uncomfortable with it. try starting with a long back massage, spend lots of time on her back, butt and legs. then when she is real relaxed kiss you way from her neck, down her back (slowly) to her cheeks spend a some time nibbling and licking, then spread her cheeks and work your way to her butt hole. if she allows you to continue tease her with your tongue, this will get some women real hot. if you get this far i would roll her over and give her oral, during this i would slip a finger in the back door and hope it gets her off. i would not try anal the first couple of times unless she suggests it, but who knows.
good luck
WiltallicA
06-04-2006, 05:05 AM
I think anal sex is purely a hard cock fetish, so first get her to crave pleasuring it (oral), and making it cum. Next thing you know shell want to feel it in her tighest whole.
And uh be slow, gentle, and extremely excessive wit the spit lube job lol
ShakeZula
06-05-2006, 07:30 PM
What was her reasoning for not liking it? To big, to painful, not enough lube, just doesn't like feeling like she's got to crap, she feels dirty, all this is very pertinent. Before you can talk her into it you need to identify why she doesn't want to do it in the first place. And really, talking her in to it is not an option since she'll either do it or won't. Unless she'll do it even though she hates it to make you happy, in which case, if you're any kind of decent guy, you won't make her.
If you get back to us on what exactly she doesn't like, we can proceed from there. If it's a technique issue, that can be worked out. If it's an emotional issue (the 'I feel dirty' aspect) then your chances aren't good. Either way, it all depends on what her feelings are about it.
Oh, and this isn't porn, get real lube. KY always worked good for me. A little goes a long way. If you've got sensitive skin though and you're riding bareback, don't get the kind that gives a gentle warming sensation. Shit gave me a rash if I didn't wash up immeditately after sex. Either way, make sure the lube is water-based.
–S–
ThornyRose
06-11-2006, 10:54 AM
MY ex and I tried it during a drunken sex night, it worked fine, but I think that time was her trying to do everything she could think of to please me.. It was a year or two later that we tried it again,, we do video of our love bouts, and that was a lead in for me to suggest it.
It is not something to rush, and if your partner knows that you will be gentle, then she will be more likley to give it a try. If a finger in the anus right at climax time, may spur her to stronger climaxes, if it does then you are home free. Always plenty of K-Y and not just on the outside, squeeze some inside..
The old "I'll try it if you will" bit sometimes works too.
piggit
06-11-2006, 08:29 PM
it is tough to get someone to do anal when they are uncomfortable with it. try starting with a long back massage, spend lots of time on her back, butt and legs. then when she is real relaxed kiss you way from her neck, down her back (slowly) to her cheeks spend a some time nibbling and licking, then spread her cheeks and work your way to her butt hole. if she allows you to continue tease her with your tongue, this will get some women real hot. if you get this far i would roll her over and give her oral, during this i would slip a finger in the back door and hope it gets her off. i would not try anal the first couple of times unless she suggests it, but who knows.
good luck
Mmm. that would certainly work for me. starting out orally is HUGE! once the tongue and fingers get their job done, she'll be asking for more. or at least, i would be.
good luck!
s0ulfi3nd
06-12-2006, 03:26 AM
it is tough to get someone to do anal when they are uncomfortable with it. try starting with a long back massage, spend lots of time on her back, butt and legs. then when she is real relaxed kiss you way from her neck, down her back (slowly) to her cheeks spend a some time nibbling and licking, then spread her cheeks and work your way to her butt hole. if she allows you to continue tease her with your tongue, this will get some women real hot. if you get this far i would roll her over and give her oral, during this i would slip a finger in the back door and hope it gets her off. i would not try anal the first couple of times unless she suggests it, but who knows.
good luck
Mmm. that would certainly work for me. starting out orally is HUGE! once the tongue and fingers get their job done, she'll be asking for more. or at least, i would be.
good luck!
Agreed by me as well, Ill say women prefer oral sex over sex because its a better feeling considering alot of guys suck at both, lets put this into a view for everyone, a guy who eats a good pussy is like a woman who can suck a good cock, not tryin to sound sexist or anything but Being a man who eats pussy like its sunday night dinner is a great thing to be because a woman would keep you round for longer if you can do it good, learned from experience. laterdayz
s0ulfi3nd
06-13-2006, 06:49 AM
Alright curious for everyone here would you have anal sex with someone? I think its extremely hot myself but others think different. And what are your thoughts on it?
artep
06-13-2006, 07:26 AM
I love it as an addition to normal sex. I can really get off by getting anally fucked (and my clit is being stimulated) But I need to get fucked the 'normal' way first.
I like to be double penetrated the most, but since i'm with someone now we use a vibrator in my pussy when he fucks my ass.
So, yes anal sex is hot,but only as addition to the play :lol:
Ditto on everything Artep said.
Yer, i love giving anal to my current girl. I think its a real turn on, but its discustin to get a bj afterwoulds :shock:
Asley82
06-16-2006, 04:33 AM
anal is great my bf gives me anal every time we fuck. i also agree with artep about dp
valkyrie
06-20-2006, 11:03 PM
I think anal is the hottest of all. It's a real sign of trusting love. I don't get to do it very often, cause my wife really has to be super turned on to want it, but lately she's gotten more into doin me with a strap-on, so hopefully she's coming around to it.
piggit
06-21-2006, 03:25 AM
mmmmm anal. Oh, did I say that out loud?
Once I was doing the wife anally, and had her viborater in her pussy at the same time. I never have seen her gush so much in my life.
PlzrBob
06-23-2006, 11:57 PM
My partner craves it, She is insistant on returning the favor as well, so the strap-on is her way of relating to me as I do her...And I must admit she is an expert at Anally bringing me to climax..... Horayyyy for womens rights :lol:
xojillianxo
06-24-2006, 07:41 AM
I love it, and almost would choose it over my pussy. Just feels so much different.
cardoc6366
07-01-2006, 06:17 AM
love it and wife loves it too but afraid to admit it unless we are wasted wish she didnt feel different straight
crystal
07-07-2006, 11:29 AM
i love anal sex its so hot... my gf likes it too but won't admit it
hotf1
07-08-2006, 05:20 AM
I like to do it but my wife just can't get into it. She's tried but just can't relax enough.
My ex and I ass fucked all the time. She loved it. We'd get a vibrator and she'd fuck her pussy with it and I'd fuck her ass. The vibration from the vibrator thru that thin wall is amazing. I'd pull my cock out and shoot all over her back.
Tokugawa
07-08-2006, 12:36 PM
One of my greatest fantasies is to be fucked in the ass with a strap on by a domianant older woman so yes I definatly think it's hot
ThornyRose
07-22-2006, 08:08 PM
An ass man to admire the view, but when my ex and I go for it, I am afraid of hurting her, and have a hard time keeping it hard.. Always the best was with a dildo in her pussy..She claims to love it. But I wonder..
bnthrdntht
07-22-2006, 08:44 PM
i think anal sex is very hot i love it
LukiePoo
07-23-2006, 08:52 AM
i wish i could voice an opinion on the subject. me and my girlfriend cant seem to get it right. can any of u tell me how u did it the first time? we use lots of lube and i spend a pretty long time trying to work it with my finger but it never works when i try to put my dick in.
artep
07-23-2006, 11:02 AM
Maybe your girl isn't relaxed enough.
edit: get her drunk :wink:
Maybe your girl isn't relaxed enough.
edit: get her drunk :wink:
Yup the first time my wife and I done it
she was drunk!
sexboi_is_back
07-23-2006, 07:16 PM
so u raped her basiclly
so u raped her basiclly
I don't think he meant she was passed out or to the point that she didn't know what she was doing. Having a few drinks helps you relax and be more daring sexually sometimes.
ShakeZula
07-24-2006, 10:23 AM
I like anal sex in the giving but not recieving fashion. For some reason I really crave it after drinking. It was all good though 'cause my last girlfriend really craved it after drinking as well. I'm starting to chub-up just thinking about it.
–S–
LittleMiss
07-25-2006, 03:00 PM
Me and my boyfriend have tried it, and got him inside me and all but i just couldnt take the pain despite all the lube used.
Going to try again soon though 'cos the whole idea of it turns me on big time! I have done it before with a guy when i was drunk, but i dont remember it very well, and i dont want that to be the case this time.
I have to admit, I'm of two minds on the subject.
Psychologically, it's absolutely awesome. There's nothing quite like the thrill of penetrating a woman's ass. The taboo/domination/etc. issues combine to make it absolutely intoxicating.
Physically, on the other hand, it's a different story. Bottom line (NPI), I just don't think it's that great a way to get off. You only really feel anything right at the anus itself -- unlike when your cock's in a vagina or mouth, where you really feel the stimulation along the entire length of your shaft.
So strictly from a physical standpoint, I'd take "regular" sex or a good blowjob over anal sex any day. (Heck, I'd even prefer one of my wife's handjobs -- but she is spectacular at that particular skill.) But, you know, sometimes you want the thrill of it, so it's a nice source of spice.
All of this is from a personal standpoint only, of course. If my wife really wanted it that way regularly, I'd be more than happy to service her however she pleased. As it happens, she can take it or leave it though.
sensualluvr
08-04-2006, 04:04 AM
I will be honest... I was one of those it took forever for me to get used to. I also said no for about 6 months and my husband was very understanding! but, we also kept talking about it. How I over came it was getting used to my butt being played with first. RIMJOB, RIMJOB, RIMJOB!! Now its one of my favorite things... having you but licked is amazing and then was his fingers, and then a toy and then him. It was a process just keep trying with understanding. Good luck!! Its worth the wait if you get the end result.
fastone
08-04-2006, 11:17 PM
there are 2 VERRY important rules you must remember, 1; get it greassy 2; put it in easy. no matter how much fun it is for you , if she does not enjoy it it will never happen again.
LittleMiss
08-06-2006, 11:33 PM
Or you could just respect the fact she doesn't want to do it. Or communicate. Ask her why she doesn't like it, and if you could do anything to make it enjoyable for her.
Corleon
08-07-2006, 12:52 AM
A. anal isnt very enjoyable by females its purely a hardcock fetish. B. you could just break up w/ her and get a girlfriend who would do anal w/ you.
A. anal isnt very enjoyable by females its purely a hardcock fetish. B. you could just break up w/ her and get a girlfriend who would do anal w/ you.
A. I LOVE anal sex, very enjoyable!
B. *shaking her head*
Thunderdome7
08-08-2006, 04:17 AM
One word: Lube.
Plus, make sure you aren't ignoring her pussy while you're having anal sex. Since there's a good chance she'll need her arms to support herself, finger her pussy while you fuck her ass, it'll lead to her having an amazing orgasm.
iwanafuckyou
08-12-2006, 01:35 AM
would anything happen to you if you put sperm inside your ass from a cock? like sum1 bangin u with sperm on his cock?
Yes, you end up having a wet asshole.
iwanafuckyou
08-12-2006, 02:07 AM
is that bad?
Cumsthesun
08-12-2006, 04:15 AM
STD"S are bad... if your both clean enjoy the cumbutt
bnthrdntht
08-12-2006, 04:16 AM
um no not really oh and lmao to Rain...just know that the person is clean
AdamB
08-12-2006, 05:05 AM
would anything happen to you if you put sperm inside your ass from a cock?
If the person who had sex with you is free or any sexually transmitable diseases, there's probably no issue for you. If the person has AIDS, you may well die. If the person has another STD, you'll probably be infected too. From the perspective of the one doing the thrusting, fecal matter and bateria can give one a bad infection. The moral of the story is to always use a condom.
nikki1979
08-25-2006, 09:48 PM
it always makes me fart....wet farts...lmao
Kimiko
08-25-2006, 10:11 PM
lol
Rain, you kill me sometimes. I spit up diet coke on my monitor!
madmax400f
09-11-2006, 07:06 PM
I've seen alot of topics about men that like anal stimulation, but how many of you admit it or talk to your close freinds about it? I enjoy it and can talk about it here, but to tell my friends? I'm afraid of the reaction I might get. Any thoughts or comments?
Kimiko
09-11-2006, 07:08 PM
I find it difficult to believe that men sit around with each other and discuss anal sex, under any circumstances. But my information is limited. :wink:
al_d_virgin(-_-)
09-11-2006, 07:10 PM
I've never think of putting anything inside my ass. Aside from tissue papers or water to clean it ofcourse but not deep enough to be considered sexual. :P
pookey227
09-11-2006, 09:07 PM
Eh, I could talk about 'butt fucking' with my buddies but 'anal sex' theyd give me the eyebrow lol
i could only talk about it on a forum like this where we are all anonimous(sp) to each other to a degree.
herr_oe
09-12-2006, 10:43 AM
I enjoy fingers and tools up my bum. Also have a dream to one day have a cock up my ass. My g/f sometimes finger fuck me while sucking me off... something that gives me create pleasure.
Never told any friends about it, don't think is a matter to discuss. Instead go to sauna places where i can enjoy this type of action with other men or discuss it in forms like this...
TheSickness
09-13-2006, 12:02 AM
AHAHAHAHAHA today in art class am sitting there and my friend ian drawn a picture and show it to me..its a guy fucking a girl up the ass. am like...ahahah butt sex? hes like..no..SURPRISE butt sex..am like %-)
pookey227
09-13-2006, 01:54 AM
rofl hi five man, and told u, if u would have said "haha anal sex?" hed have hit u lol
Buff Male
09-14-2006, 02:41 AM
My wife and I love anal sex me doing her. Lately we've talked about getting her a strap on and her doing me.
She's used a finger in me when she sucks me and I love it. A couple times she even stuck a slim dildo up me and I liked it to.
I really think I'd like to be on my hands and knees, her doing my but while a guy fucks my face.
fuck123456789
09-17-2006, 12:18 AM
Any one have any tips on how to get my wife to be open to trying anal sex
bnthrdntht
09-17-2006, 12:27 AM
just tell her how much you like it and ask her if she'll just try it once and if she says no respect that or when you're going down on her slip some anal play into it (nothing traumatic for her but just something simple like licking her ass or something or just rub your thumb along her asshole)
Rams Dixon
09-17-2006, 01:01 AM
Best answer here depends on what she has said. If you have asked and she said no, leave it at that. If she's said she's not sure or she'll think about it, then you can talk to her about it when the time is right.
It's never good to talk her into doing something she doesn't want to do. You'll most likely pay for it.
I asked my wife about it, she didn't say no. She said maybe,-- someday. Lots of playing, kissing and licking later, (couple of years also, and no I didn't push.) she asked me to do it, said she enjoyed it and is now a part of our playtime. Not always, but when she's in the mood.
When you do talk to her, set rules. If you were to try this, she must be relaxed and willing. Use lots of lube. GO SLOW, if she says stop, you stop. If she says get out, you pull out. Take your time, let her get used to it. She may or may not like it, alot of that depends on you, and how you do it and your attitude towards the whole thing. Also how she really feels about it.
Good luck, but if she says no, it's best to leave it at that and move on.
borvorius
09-17-2006, 12:09 PM
It probably also won't even vaguely appeal to her unless she is REALLY turned on already, so wait until then, and be subtle!
My wife surprised the hell out of me the first time - I'd suggested itmany times before and been knocked back every time, then one night in the middle of a fuck she just said "so are you wanting to fuck me in the ass?" :D Lots of oil and I was in there straight away :D :D :D
Go gently, loads of lube, let her dictate the pace and ALWAYS respect her wishes if she wants to stop.
I know that once she's done it she won't want to stop. It's pure BLISS.