Should losing your virginity be monumental?

[Monsieur_Buttersworth]

what do you think?

[artep]

I was 15 and completely in love with my 20-year old neighbour. Het took my cherry in the bushes behind a bus-stop. :) I'm glad he was the one, but we've only done it one more time after that because he had a girlfriend. So that was a bit of a bummer. But I'm really glad he was the one. He was very gentle and caring(He was my first love :oops: )

[Rain]

Oh wow, I'd loved to be able to do that over! I lost my virginity to rape at the age of 15. Being 15 and pissed off as hell, I decided to have sex with another guy soon after. I was trying to replace him in my mind as my first. We didn't mean anything to each other. I would have really liked to lose my virginity to someone I was in love with or at least really cared about.

[Rain]

Ah, forgot to add, I would have waited until I was older and more mature to handle it.

[artep]

Oh wow, I'd loved to be able to do that over! I lost my virginity to rape at the age of 15.
Damn! I hate it when that happens. I hope they cought the guy and hung him by his balls :evil: :evil:

[Rain]

Oh wow, I'd loved to be able to do that over! I lost my virginity to rape at the age of 15.
Damn! I hate it when that happens. I hope they cought the guy and hung him by his balls :evil: :evil:

Unfortunately, no. I didn't know him or who he was and I didn't report it either. It happened when I had run away from home. I know better now, but at the time, I thought I deserved what I got for putting my family through what I did.

[citybone]

Oh wow, I'd loved to be able to do that over! I lost my virginity to rape at the age of 15. Being 15 and pissed off as hell, I decided to have sex with another guy soon after. I was trying to replace him in my mind as my first. We didn't mean anything to each other. I would have really liked to lose my virginity to someone I was in love with or at least really cared about.
ya poor thing
i just lost mine to someone i just did not really care about and regretet it but my next time was much better

[A.GreyFoxxx]

I lost my virginity to my then g/f, now ex-wife. It was the most memorable, but not the greatest sex I've had! To anyone out there who is still a virgin... keep it until you find someone you really care for. That is the difference between love-making and sex.

[Furred Goddess]

I was raped at 13 and it nearly turned me against men completely but after 9 years being celibate after it, I reclaimed my virginity and gave it to the man I am married to now. It was very important for me to give it to someone I loved completely and trusted. So yes, losing my virginity was a huge deal for me... hell... right after we finished I had to call home and tell my step mom about it.... she was happy for me.

[Supercreampie]

Oh wow, I'd loved to be able to do that over! I lost my virginity to rape at the age of 15. Being 15 and pissed off as hell, I decided to have sex with another guy soon after. I was trying to replace him in my mind as my first. We didn't mean anything to each other. I would have really liked to lose my virginity to someone I was in love with or at least really cared about.

I'm very sorry for you, sweetheart. :cry: But you're a very strong person, to reply in this way. Is not so easy having sex when you have been raped.
You're a very beautiful person. Your husband it's very lucky. :wink:

[kingfiend]

i was 12 when i lost mine to my 16 yearold neighboir and now we've had sex like 14 times

[TheSickness]

umm..i went to nyc with my gf at 15 and we were in a hotel and one thing led to another...we stayed together for another year :roll:

[wh1337]

nobody has lost it past the age of 16? well i guess im the first then...16 for me. with someone i cared about alot.

[Tian]

heh, there are plenty of people on this site who are over 16 and still have their virginity...

[gibino]

I was 21, actually. A lot of messing around for years leading up to it, but it was actually pretty good to wait.

[Furred Goddess]

nobody has lost it past the age of 16? well i guess im the first then...16 for me. with someone i cared about alot. Seeing that I don't consider being raped having sex, I was 22 when I lost my virginity. Virginity is something willingly given, not forcefully taken.

[Nympho's Man]

I lost my virginity to my one and only true love, my Fiancee. I was 17 at the time.

[baller16]

nobody has lost it past the age of 16? well i guess im the first then...16 for me. with someone i cared about alot. Seeing that I don't consider being raped having sex, I was 22 when I lost my virginity. Virginity is something willingly given, not forcefully taken.

seriously that sucks i think anybody who rapes a girl is just a piece of shit who cant get ass himself

[Nympho]

I lost my virginity to my one and only true love, my Fiancee. I was 17 at the time.
:D

[Furred Goddess]

nobody has lost it past the age of 16? well i guess im the first then...16 for me. with someone i cared about alot. Seeing that I don't consider being raped having sex, I was 22 when I lost my virginity. Virginity is something willingly given, not forcefully taken.

seriously that sucks i think anybody who rapes a girl is just a piece of shit who cant get ass himselfHe was my exboyfriend. We had just broke up because he was pressuring me for sex and I was just 13 so I knew I was far from ready for it. If he had been willing to wait a few more years or find a willing girl, he would not have a stretched out asshole today.

[Sex Marine]

I lost my virginity to my sexy sister!! I took her's too! That was my only incest exp. :D

[Chrissy_Love]

I had sex with a girl first when I was 17, but I don't know if you'd consider that losing your virginity or not. I have yet to have sex with a guy.

[Lonely Wolf]

i still am one *sigh*T~T

[jakob777]

I lost mine at 16, to a girl i liked at the time. Had sex with her once more, then she finished me for someone 2 years older than us. I didn't regret it at the time, but I do now.

[surrenderdorothy]

I was about 19 or 20, I guess. I had a hot, pretty short relationship that started with comfort and moved quickly to burning lust. It was good and I'm glad it happened that way. But if I could choose again, I would want it to have been with my first girlfriend. We were both too young but all the sparks certainly were there. She moved away to go to college and I was still 15 or 16 and we lost track. What a wonderful lady she was; that would have been heaven.

As it was, I never told my first that she was it. Oh well. She probably knew anyway.

I was reading the posts about losing it to a rapist and my blood pressure went off the charts. Ladies, I hope your anger over that has settled in a healthy place. The way I see it, a rapist isn't motivated by a need for sex, but for power. A rapist is the lowest kind of coward and probably will always know it.

Anyway, my heart goes out to you who have had to withstand that kind of abuse. Always know that there is nothing in that experience that should ever cause you shame and that there is nothing your attacker could ever do that would redeem him in the eyes of real men.

[Zuri]

i was 15 and me and this 18 year guy had been hooking up for like three months so yeah i am happy i did.

[ecesis]

when my current boyfriend and i got together, a few years ago, we both said that we were going to wait, that neither of us were ready yet, etc...

then we ended up having sex anyways. to be completely honest, i don't really remember it that much, but i do know that i've yet to regret it. hiding it from my parents was difficult on more than one level, but the experience itself was good.

i don't think you necissarily have to be in a relationship with the person you lose it to, but there should be an element of care there.

[Rider68]

I lost my virginity in a random drunken college hookup. I don't regret it, I just wish I remembered more of it.

[pantsareevil27]

I lost my virginity in a random drunken college hookup. I don't regret it, I just wish I remembered more of it.

Mine was getting drunk as hell freshman year. Same situation though. Don't remember much of it.

[HardHead]

Losing virginity for a guy is about as monumental as waking up with morning wood...no big deal.

[ready&willing]

"Losing virginity for a guy is about as monumental as waking up with morning wood...no big deal."

that is utter crap, we care as much as the girl,not every guy thinks with their cock thank you very much.:mad:

[zyzy]

I guess it would be monumental if your prick ws monument sized.:rolleyes:

[ThunderedEchoes]

I don't think it matters, but at the same time, I think it does. Oh, I am so torn.