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NU@this
06-21-2006, 06:54 AM
Ok, so I admit it I hate giving head, but I have a boyfriend that loves the erotic pleasure of me going down on him. I think I suck at ("suck" as in bad) and he bears with me. He's very patient and direct with what he wants. But my jaws lock up and I just get tired of being down there for so long. Is there any secrets or things that I can do to improve my technique? I am open to all suggestions!!!!
artep
06-21-2006, 10:30 AM
There's one magic 'cheat' that releaves the strain on you and your boyfriend will love it: use your hands! Don't back out on sucking it, but also use your hands!
Good luck. :twisted:
MintyKisses
06-21-2006, 01:18 PM
and if you put it at the enterance of your throat and sort of hum, that's good, I know my last boyfriend went crazy when I did it. He said it sort of felt like vibrations or whatever.
metalaxxe
06-21-2006, 02:38 PM
tip from a guy, the head of the penis is always the most sensitive place... the rest is all good fun, but if you want a guy to cum, the best place to get it is the head.
At least, this is what I've found
Can some other guys back me up on this?
When you're giving a blow job, you don't have to continually suck it. Lick his shaft & his balls, swirl your tongue around it. Run your tongue on the underside of his cock from the balls to just underneath the head and suck the skin there into your mouth. When you are sucking, use your hands on the base of his cock or cup his balls. You could also insert a finger into his anus. Whatever you do...just remember to use that tongue!
ChronoTriggerJM
06-22-2006, 12:23 AM
As a guy, there are a few things that drive me absolutely nuts, my recent girl is INSANE when it comes to giving head.
1.) Deepthroat + hand follow, she goes all the way down and up and follows her lips with her hand kinda tugging me off, it feels fucking insane.
2.) Teeth Scraping, as she's doing her thing she'll VERY GENTLY scrap her teeth against it, it makes me spasm no lie.
3.) Testy suck/lick, after she deepthroats me she'll pull it out of her mouth, hold the shaft and run her tonge all the way up from the nuts to the head, she'll gently pull and suck on my balls too... that gets me pretty fast...
4.) Tongue, use LOTS and LOTS of tongue... probably the best thing about gettting head is the tongue lol
5.) (little odd but drives me nuts) Choking, I'm not the biggest guy in the world (7 inch length) but man when she gags on my cock its SOOOOOO FUCKING HOT there is almost no sound I like hearing more sadly lol.
piggit
06-22-2006, 04:47 AM
try 'tickle his pickle' by sadie allison. it's got loads of suggestions on technique, sensitive spots and taste enhancers. Also handjob tips.
Mainly, I think it boils down to you being enthusiastic. And the balls and taint. ;)
Nick Nayme
06-22-2006, 07:45 AM
For me, don't use your hand! When you give me a blowjob, you only use your mouth and lips. I can put up with no deep throat if it hurts you, but when my dick is stroked, only your lips are legitimate. If you want to use your hand, then keep your head up and talk to me or kiss me, but don't try to pretend it's a blowjob if you are using your hand.
Reach Deep
06-22-2006, 04:30 PM
When you're giving a blow job, you don't have to continually suck it. Lick his shaft & his balls, swirl your tongue around it. Run your tongue on the underside of his cock from the balls to just underneath the head and suck the skin there into your mouth. When you are sucking, use your hands on the base of his cock or cup his balls. You could also insert a finger into his anus. Whatever you do...just remember to use that tongue!
I totally agree with you, especially, the finger up the anus, and stroking the prostate gland. The rubbing of the balls is also fantastic.
PlzrBob
06-24-2006, 11:08 PM
A tip from experiance of giving and recieving... Grasp the cock at the base with a firm grip and then squeeze, let loose and squeeze, like a pumping motion, the cock will swell and you will hear some very deep moans. It's a guarenteed ball buster, also dont stop0 when he starts to ejaculate, squeeze harder> :) watch the fireworks
xojillianxo
06-25-2006, 12:57 AM
Something about sucking dick that turns me on...ive found that rubbing the balls, makes them go crazy...ive done this once...if you finger a guy in the ass and really suck his dick(deepthroat) then he usually goes crazy
Khana
06-25-2006, 01:53 AM
Ok, so I admit it I hate giving head, but I have a boyfriend that loves the erotic pleasure of me going down on him. I think I suck at ("suck" as in bad) and he bears with me. He's very patient and direct with what he wants. But my jaws lock up and I just get tired of being down there for so long. Is there any secrets or things that I can do to improve my technique? I am open to all suggestions!!!
http://youtube.com/verify_age?next_url=/watch%3Fsearch%3Dsex%2Blesson%26v%3Dvv8Ne8uiMxQ
For those visual learners 8)
ShakeZula
06-30-2006, 12:31 PM
Ok, so I admit it I hate giving head, but I have a boyfriend that loves the erotic pleasure of me going down on him. I think I suck at ("suck" as in bad) and he bears with me. He's very patient and direct with what he wants. But my jaws lock up and I just get tired of being down there for so long. Is there any secrets or things that I can do to improve my technique? I am open to all suggestions!!!
http://youtube.com/verify_age?next_url=/watch%3Fsearch%3Dsex%2Blesson%26v%3Dvv8Ne8uiMxQ
For those visual learners 8)
That lady's funny as hell. :lol:
I just wish they had someone hot on that show. It's weird watching my "grandma" give sex advice.
–S–
WiltallicA
07-03-2006, 06:38 AM
^LOL whos grandma is that?
Ok, so I admit it I hate giving head, but I have a boyfriend that loves the erotic pleasure of me going down on him. I think I suck at ("suck" as in bad) and he bears with me. He's very patient and direct with what he wants. But my jaws lock up and I just get tired of being down there for so long. Is there any secrets or things that I can do to improve my technique? I am open to all suggestions!!!!
Anyway I love getting head, and if it's done right I think it's the best pleasure you can get. Here are my personal tips I give to girls who want to suck on it right, along with some notes:
1st. The head of the cock has no sexual nerves in it, so make sure you're always sucking on it past the head.
2nd. Make sure your lips are wet, and tightly around the cock.
3rd. Keep sucking on it, keep your lips on it, and use your tongue, along with drool to relube them. Always monitor for friction.
4th. "Slow & Steady" is probably the most efficient back&forth speed to go for pleasure.
5th. Steady is very important when he's cumming, and cumming is the whole point of a blow job. It's also nice to still have it sucked on after an orgasm, so stick around until its soft.
Do it!
Furred Goddess
07-03-2006, 09:06 AM
^LOL whos grandma is that?
5th. Steady is very important when he's cumming, and cumming is the whole point of a blow job. It's also nice to still have it sucked on after an orgasm, so stick around until its soft.
Do it!
Funny, my husband HATES for me to suck on it after he comes, he says it's entirely too sensitive. I still try though.
Milker
07-03-2006, 02:24 PM
I agree with artep, use your hands. I once had a girl friend that didn't like the taste of cum but loved to give head, so she had to figure out how to do it without ruinning it for me or her and she did. She used to hold onto it, like it was a sucker and keep squeezing on it, with her hand wrapped around it, while she was sucking on it and just before it blew and somehow you girl's know just when it's about to do it, she'd slip the head out of her mouth and start rubbing her thumb all over the head, like trying to light a bic lighter, [ MAKING IT FEEL LIKE SHE WAS STILL USING HER TONGUE ] and [ I NEVER KNEW WHEN SHE HAD SWITCHED FROM HER TONGUE TO HER THUMB ] NEVER. And both of us got what we wanted, everytime.
Peace...MILKER
El Cheapo
07-03-2006, 08:38 PM
I agree with artep, use your hands. I once had a girl friend that didn't like the taste of cum but loved to give head, so she had to figure out how to do it without ruinning it for me or her and she did. She used to hold onto it, like it was a sucker and keep squeezing on it, with her hand wrapped around it, while she was sucking on it and just before it blew and somehow you girl's know just when it's about to do it, she'd slip the head out of her mouth and start rubbing her thumb all over the head, like trying to light a bic lighter, [ MAKING IT FEEL LIKE SHE WAS STILL USING HER TONGUE ] and [ I NEVER KNEW WHEN SHE HAD SWITCHED FROM HER TONGUE TO HER THUMB ] NEVER. And both of us got what we wanted, everytime.
Peace...MILKER
Wow I would like to try that :twisted:
Great tip, Milker. Sometimes I don't always like for him to cum in my mouth, but his orgasm isn't the same if I finish him in my hand, so I'm going to have to try that.
Furred Goddess, my husband is the same . . . too sensitive after he cums.
El Cheapo
07-05-2006, 02:26 PM
Great tip, Milker. Sometimes I don't always like for him to cum in my mouth, but his orgasm isn't the same if I finish him in my hand, so I'm going to have to try that.
Furred Goddess, my husband is the same . . . too sensitive after he cums.
Who is not sensitive after cumming?
All the nervs in the head of the penis are all ajitated... :twisted: soo much that it even hurts
Furred Goddess
07-05-2006, 05:35 PM
Great tip, Milker. Sometimes I don't always like for him to cum in my mouth, but his orgasm isn't the same if I finish him in my hand, so I'm going to have to try that.
Furred Goddess, my husband is the same . . . too sensitive after he cums.
Who is not sensitive after cumming?
All the nervs in the head of the penis are all ajitated... :twisted: soo much that it even hurts Yeah, he says it hurts but last hight he asked me to keep going, he wanted to feel my mouth that much. I am just glad he finally wanted something other than hugs and kisses before bed hehe.
bnthrdntht
07-16-2006, 04:17 AM
^LOL whos grandma is that?
Ok, so I admit it I hate giving head, but I have a boyfriend that loves the erotic pleasure of me going down on him. I think I suck at ("suck" as in bad) and he bears with me. He's very patient and direct with what he wants. But my jaws lock up and I just get tired of being down there for so long. Is there any secrets or things that I can do to improve my technique? I am open to all suggestions!!!!
Anyway I love getting head, and if it's done right I think it's the best pleasure you can get. Here are my personal tips I give to girls who want to suck on it right, along with some notes:
1st. The head of the cock has no sexual nerves in it, so make sure you're always sucking on it past the head.
2nd. Make sure your lips are wet, and tightly around the cock.
3rd. Keep sucking on it, keep your lips on it, and use your tongue, along with drool to relube them. Always monitor for friction.
4th. "Slow & Steady" is probably the most efficient back&forth speed to go for pleasure.
5th. Steady is very important when he's cumming, and cumming is the whole point of a blow job. It's also nice to still have it sucked on after an orgasm, so stick around until its soft.
Do it!
First and foremost to the author make sure he washes it before you suck it because if you don't like doing it then he can at least make sure it's clean before you do
Second of all since you are inexperienced with it take time to explore it with your mouth and if he rushes you tell you that you're uncomfortable with doing it in the first place and you need time to get comfortable with it
Third of all when you are going down place your hand around the shaft at the base and go down as far as you can then wiggle your tongue back up and tickle the back of his head where it meets the shaft with your tongue while sucking and pumping...makes my man's eyes roll back in his head
oh and this is directed to w... by the way, the majority of the nerves are located in the glans (head) of the penis this is common anatomical knowledge the shaft if composed of blood vessels and erectile tissue the nerve endings (which are the most sensitive) end in the head (im a nursing major)
lidia
07-24-2006, 04:35 AM
i like to pull him all the way in and rub the head of his dick with my throat
sexboi_is_back
07-24-2006, 04:57 AM
omg i need a head
Nympho
07-24-2006, 06:51 PM
omg i need a head
What you need is a fucking brain
baller16
07-24-2006, 06:56 PM
nice insult, Nympho
seconded by the way
bnthrdntht
07-25-2006, 04:33 AM
yah i agree... honestly i think *puts on Freud glasses* his situation stems from lack of attention from his mother
wotto
07-25-2006, 02:25 PM
the chick im with at the moment doesnt mind giving me head...but i have some concerns....
it isnt as pleasurable as usual and it ususally takes some time for me to get really aroused by her giving me head... and lately shes been using the my throat is sore excuse to get out of it...
the chick im with at the moment doesnt mind giving me head...but i have some concerns....
it isnt as pleasurable as usual and it ususally takes some time for me to get really aroused by her giving me head... and lately shes been using the my throat is sore excuse to get out of it...
Sounds to me like she might not enjoy giving head.
bnthrdntht
07-25-2006, 09:36 PM
the chick im with at the moment doesnt mind giving me head...but i have some concerns....
it isnt as pleasurable as usual and it ususally takes some time for me to get really aroused by her giving me head... and lately shes been using the my throat is sore excuse to get out of it...
Sounds to me like she might not enjoy giving head.
yeah i second that
lidia
07-25-2006, 09:54 PM
I agree too. And it seems like the best turn on for a guy when you give him head is knowing that your into it too (guys correct me if I'm wrong), so that might be why your not enjoying it as much either.
gibino
07-26-2006, 12:28 AM
True. I'd rather get no head than bad head. And especially bored head.
And especially bored head.
lol
piggit
07-26-2006, 02:25 AM
and lately shes been using the my throat is sore excuse to get out of it...
Hahaha ... mine's sore after the fact.
bnthrdntht
07-26-2006, 03:21 AM
mine doesn't get sore for some odd reason it's like i could do it forever lol
i dated this one guy who told me he could absolutely not get off when a girl gives him head...that problem didn't last long
piggit
07-26-2006, 03:56 AM
mine doesn't get sore for some odd reason it's like i could do it forever lol
i dated this one guy who told me he could absolutely not get off when a girl gives him head...that problem didn't last long
::claps:: That's what I like to hear!! Does your husband ever NOT smile?
sexboi_is_back
07-26-2006, 05:56 AM
omg she must be good at bj
baller16
07-26-2006, 05:59 AM
ya think???
LittleMiss
07-26-2006, 09:47 PM
I was the first one to make my boyfriend cum through head - so he says lol - How proud was I!?
sensualluvr
07-26-2006, 11:54 PM
I enjoy giving head but at times I feel I am not giving my husband exactly what he is wanting. He won't communicate it to me or guide me but sometimes it seems to take forever for him to cum. If anyone has some awsome out of control ideas for me to do for my husband to get him off faster and harder and sooner feel free to let me know. But back to original question I enjoy giving head.
bnthrdntht
07-27-2006, 03:15 AM
well my gag reflex is not very sensitive and i can roll my tongue and pretty much for a lot of guys that's all it takes lol plus practice makes perfect and i've had a lot of practice i was extremely young when i gave my first one
bnthrdntht
07-27-2006, 03:15 AM
mine doesn't get sore for some odd reason it's like i could do it forever lol
i dated this one guy who told me he could absolutely not get off when a girl gives him head...that problem didn't last long
::claps:: That's what I like to hear!! Does your husband ever NOT smile?
not often it just depends on the time of day...he doesn't like things in the morning (which i have no clue WHY)
I enjoy giving head but at times I feel I am not giving my husband exactly what he is wanting. He won't communicate it to me or guide me but sometimes it seems to take forever for him to cum. If anyone has some awsome out of control ideas for me to do for my husband to get him off faster and harder and sooner feel free to let me know. But back to original question I enjoy giving head.
My husband doesn't communicate during, but he does after. Tells me he really liked this or that. I tell him he should tell me while I'm doing it, because I do so much, I don't know what he's talking about afterwards.
If I want to get him off in a hurry, I massage his perenium (sp?) (the area between his balls and asshole) and then slide a finger into his ass. That usually has him go off right away.
vincenzz
08-09-2006, 12:13 AM
Among several things, I love eye-contact. Swallowing is nice but sometimes I prefer to see my come drip down her chin over the head of my cock.
DrUnKeNLullAbie
08-09-2006, 09:26 PM
mmm she wants 2 know HOW 2 give good head not what 2 do when you cum.... suck it nice n hard and use your hands ... i like it slower but some guys like it fast.... and if you get tired... move around a little into a different position well hope i helped
baldnutz
08-10-2006, 01:19 AM
If I want to get him off in a hurry, I massage his perenium (sp?) (the area between his balls and asshole) and then slide a finger into his ass. That usually has him go off right away.[/quote]
i love it when my girl does that, i sound like the virls in a porn movie, loll
willpleazu
08-23-2006, 03:13 PM
I had the same problem the first couple times I tried giving head. Just relax. Get comfortable. change positions frequently. Stop and caress the shaft of his cock periodically. Tell him what you're thinkng and what you want him to do.
I really enjoy giving head for hours now that I am more relaxed. Try it.