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sexyteen
06-26-2006, 03:07 PM
What is something I can do to turn a girl on?
ShAnOoKiN
06-26-2006, 05:26 PM
kiss the neck, nibble on an earlobe, kiss her stomach...these work with my girlfriend...but women are different, if these dont work try something new
baller16
06-26-2006, 07:18 PM
you know i think the only way to find out what turns YOUR girl on is to try things with here because all women are different. just pay attention to her reaction every time you try something with her. if she starts to get into it you're golden, if she slaps you and tells you to get the hell away from her well then that means she doesnt like it and will probably cut your nuts off if you do it again. GOOD LUCK
Nympho
06-26-2006, 07:45 PM
you know i think the only way to find out what turns YOUR girl on is to try things with here because all women are different. just pay attention to her reaction every time you try something with her. if she starts to get into it you're golden, if she slaps you and tells you to get the hell away from her well then that means she doesnt like it and will probably cut your nuts off if you do it again. GOOD LUCK
Yea, I agree. Just try different things and you'll find out if she likes it or not
Nick Nayme
06-26-2006, 08:18 PM
Become really rich. And make sure it's not a secret.
It always works.
sensualluvr
06-26-2006, 08:33 PM
Be romantic!! That always helps!! A sensual lover is always a turn-on.. for most women!! An understand, compassionate lover is always what a women wants because then she gets exactly what she wants and needs. Communication is extremely important. Always be willing to try and do new things.
valkyrie
06-26-2006, 09:04 PM
It varies depending on her mood. Sometimes when we're in the chair watching TV, I can just slide my hand up her shirt and rub her nipples and she gets turned on. Other times I can just come home from work and kiss her and ask how her day was, and she jumps me.
One time she was in the kitchen cooking bacon in her robe, and I reached up the robe and grabbed her tits and kissed her on the back of the neck, and..well...the bacon got burned.
And if we're watching a movie and it has a sex scene in it (R-rated, cause she's disgusted by porn) she'll start rubbing my cock.
Sometimes it's just a look, something nice that you say to her, and even occasionally I can just walk up to her without saying a word...kiss her deeply and just start yanking her clothes off.
Alright, she's still on vacation, I gotta go take a shower now. :twisted: :wink:
I can only tell ya what turns the wife on! She likes her ear nibbled on, her neck kissed, but no hickes!
She likes it when I roll her nipples with my fingers,
And loves having her body stroked...all with a soft touch!
gibino
06-28-2006, 09:11 PM
Obviously, the key is to know your girl and learn what her buttons are. Being romantic and emotionally available is the most obvious answer, but there are other keys, too.
The toughest part is learning how to act when you're wanting sex but she's on the opposite end of the spectrum. On one hand, you should know how to approach her to get her in the mood. On the other hand, there are times when you just need to learn that sex isn't what she wants, and that it's your job to get over yourself and give her what she really needs. Once you can do that, the two of you will be more in tune with each other, which is more intimacy that just plain sex.
sensualluvr
06-30-2006, 04:56 AM
I can only tell ya what turns the wife on! She likes her ear nibbled on, her neck kissed, but no hickes!
She likes it when I roll her nipples with my fingers,
And loves having her body stroked...all with a soft touch!
I second that statement!! Totally agree!!
Reach Deep
06-30-2006, 12:54 PM
What is something I can do to turn a girl on?
This is a broad topic, but the golden rule is.. be yourself. Get the timing right, then make your move.
There's no need trying to get a grumpy girl/woman turned-on. The more you try, the more counter-productive it would be.
Good luck. :wink:
Furred Goddess
06-30-2006, 04:09 PM
In the rare instances when I am not in the mood and my hubby is, he learned that my toes are the most sensitive part of my body. My feet are always super soft because I am off them all day and wear shoes only once a week. He likes to suck on my toes to get me in the mood and it has never not worked.
El Cheapo
07-03-2006, 09:03 PM
Romance, Flowers, Chocolate, Kissing on ther neck, me wispering sweet things to her in her ear.
And ther she Blows :twisted:
Chicks love it when guys get really drunk.
PlzrBob
07-04-2006, 03:43 PM
Ohhhhh Yeah thats what turns them on, A staggering baffon, with foul breath and a perpensity to get sick, puke, and then fall fast asleep....Thats what I call sexy... don't you Ladies??? :roll: :roll: :roll: :idea:
Nympho
07-04-2006, 10:29 PM
Ohhhhh Yeah thats what turns them on, A staggering baffon, with foul breath and a perpensity to get sick, puke, and then fall fast asleep....Thats what I call sexy... don't you Ladies??? :roll: :roll: :roll: :idea:
HAHAHAHAHAHA! um, no.
Chicks love it when guys get really drunk.
I can't think of anything to say that doesn't tell you that you're a dumbass. :roll:
judydoo
07-05-2006, 12:34 AM
Oh shit I have to agree with rain sick slobs no no no no no!!!!!!!!!
baller16
07-05-2006, 02:02 AM
Chicks love it when guys get really drunk.
you're supposed to get THE GIRL drunk dumbass
Furred Goddess
07-05-2006, 06:43 AM
Chicks love it when guys get really drunk.
you're supposed to get THE GIRL drunk dumbassWell safest bet is neither get drunk, it avoids alot of disappointment and regret for both involved. Had a friend who was drunk and hanging on a guy but the next morning she thought he raped her. She forgot giving him consent but I was in the room so sadly, I had to side with the guy.
El Cheapo
07-05-2006, 02:20 PM
Chicks love it when guys get really drunk.
What world do you come from you dumbass :evil:
El Cheapo
07-05-2006, 02:22 PM
Give her a massage.
Yhea mi Girl love it when i give her a full body oil massage especially a foot massage she just melts & even fall a sleep...
its a bit hard for me to wake her up after that :twisted:
finland
07-06-2006, 10:54 PM
Give her a massage.
Yhea mi Girl love it when i give her a full body oil massage especially a foot massage she just melts & even fall a sleep...
its a bit hard for me to wake her up after that :twisted:...lol know that one m8 just rub her up for a little too long and bang out like a light... he hee heeee
What is something I can do to turn a girl on?
Talk to her.
Its simple but its true (I've found), get to know her, get close to her.. and if you dont know by then, just ask! :lol:
HeartlessBitch
09-16-2006, 06:51 PM
I like getting foot rubs. Those turn me on almost as much as shoe shopping. I have a good story about giving a guy a footjob while I was shoe shopping once, if you want to hear it.
bnthrdntht
09-16-2006, 11:51 PM
intelligent conversation
boney
09-23-2006, 11:50 AM
The best thing i found is to talk to her and ask her questions during foreplay and let her ask you questions my mrs is really shy when it comes to sex but i found talking goes a long way we have been together for almost 4 years with 2 kids now and before it was just sex but after our second child her sex drive dropped almost to the point i was begging :cry: but now thanks to talking we have a great sex life and she's come out her shell alot even to the point i went out a bought a sex toy :D where as before that would have been a big no no. give it a go you'll both get alot out of it both sex and relationship wise just remember women are not like us men most need to feel loved and relaxed :wink:
Kimiko
09-23-2006, 04:48 PM
I agree...talking is one of the keys. And let's face it, talking about sex is HOT!
Do it over dinner, in a nice restaurant, and by the time you pay the tab, you'll both be ready to rip each other's clothes off in the parking lot.
Caffeine
09-24-2006, 06:13 AM
Gotta agree with you, Kimiko, but how do you bring it up? In a new dating situation, I mean?
Or even casually once you're in a relationship? If she's not in the mood, she probably won't feel comfortable discussing it.
boney
09-24-2006, 06:38 AM
Gotta agree with you, Kimiko, but how do you bring it up? In a new dating situation, I mean?
Or even casually once you're in a relationship? If she's not in the mood, she probably won't feel comfortable discussing it.
Slowly.. i mean if its your first date don't say anything about sex or past partners unless she brings it up.. she won't get turned on if you start going on about past one nighters or g/f's try not to talk about yourself to much girls like it when your asking questions about them it shows that your intrested, and i wouldn't really talk about sex while eating out if your new g/f is shy then you'll just make her wish she wasn't there.. wait untill you get back to hers or yours (coffee etc..) get her relaxed then move in for the kill start slow they like it slow give her a kiss she how she takes it (her reaction will tell you alot, the more you get to know her the better you can read her signs) then just ask things like how do you like to be kissed? and build it up from there but remember to keep talking and touching asking if she likes it.. try not to come up with "so what turns you on?" she'll just be thinking "great another man that just wants one thing" but if your talking to her and touching her you'll soon see what turns her on (half the fun is exploring)..remember this.. if your pleasing her then she'll open up more and be more willing. but if your idea of foreplay is to stick 2 fingers up straight away for 30 secs then to jump on it without saying nothing then she won't get much out of it and be less willing to do it/you again. take your time and move the speed she sets (if you've just started dating)