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nophest
01-02-2007, 06:42 AM
"To the creators publishers of xnxx.com's Rape Stories page,
The only reason I came onto this site was because I was raped two years ago and wanted to know more about a rapist's mind. My preconceptions are confirmed that they are sick monsters who deserve to rot in hell. Fair enough I don't have to read the sick and twisted stories on your site but I will do everything in my power to rid the internet of your evil site. I hope you know you probably feed people's fantasies and give them ideas and I hope you hate yourself for this. You probably don't however because if you had an ounce of conscience, you would never publish such horrific, degrading stories in the first place! You are disgusting and if you could even imagine how it feels for just one minute after being raped, you would think you were worth less than killing yourself. You are foul. They actually think girls like it. How wrong can they be."

What would you reply?

RoosteЯ
01-02-2007, 06:45 AM
First tell her that your sorry about her being rape, and than explain to her that the stories and pictues on the site aren't real.

dank
01-02-2007, 07:28 AM
Being raped is actually a very terrible and traumatic event that can scar a girl's ability to make love to or even trust a man for many, many years. However, she needs to know that what she's found here is a fantasy site, where real life mild-mannered Clark Kent types come to imagine themselves powerful and sexually over-endowed. I personally love to view pics from Necrobabes, CNB and other bloody, brutal sites. I find these fake images erotic and arousing. But in real life, I'm revolted by the sight (and the smell) of blood.

This is a purely fantasy site. People who try to 'force' their perverse views onto us as reality are banned. Please try to get past your hatred and see that we are normal, real life individuals, most of whom have secret fantasies that they never intend to act out - ever!

If you want a target, look at any horror flick where hot young chicks are getting raped, knifed, gutted, shot, etc. On a 40-foot screen, the brutal impact is much, much greater than our timid little tales. But... that's just acting, right? Make believe? Like I said... Fantasy!

Fanfiction
01-02-2007, 07:31 AM
Don't reply. She's vowed to destroy you. Don't help OR inflame her any further.

Authors mostly ignore comments on their own stories, so should you with moral outrage comments to you as well..

I know how you feel to get such email. And by allowing provocative content, you will receive a growing abundance of such letters in the future.

BUT.. also this person probably doesn't buy porn.. so from a business point of view, I believe you know better than she does how to how to build this website.

I've met the guy from EL.NL
Over 1.5 million uniques' per day.. His formula.. give a LOT for free stuff and 1.5% visitors will STILL buy something. He also has beast etc.. and gets a LOT of hate mail.. Still he also owns 3 floors of a huge building in Eindoven, several top sports copes including a porche boxer, makes his own porno for his sites etc which he feeds with his own traffic.

Stick to your guns man! You wont EVER be popular with EVERYONE.. but you'll make out just fine with your current formula. Don't fix what isn't broken imo , suck up the pain and reach high, let the others who think too much, throttle back and loose their traffic to you ;)

nophest
01-02-2007, 09:34 AM
I've met the guy from EL.NL
Over 1.5 million uniques' per day.. His formula.. give a LOT for free stuff and 1.5% visitors will STILL buy something. He also has beast etc.. and gets a LOT of hate mail.. Still he also owns 3 floors of a huge building in Eindoven, several top sports copes including a porche boxer, makes his own porno for his sites etc which he feeds with his own traffic.

You know more than the average user it seems :)

nophest
01-02-2007, 09:42 AM
He also has beast etc.. and gets a LOT of hate mail..

Beast sex is problematic even amongst pronographers, most won't link to sites featuring zoo sex, unless you are big enough to do anything you want (like el ladies).

Fanfiction
01-02-2007, 09:54 AM
Beast sex is problematic even amongst pronographers, most won't link to sites featuring zoo sex, unless you are big enough to do anything you want (like el ladies).

Most US based yes.. thanks to policy, Yeah but if you aren't USA based.. well.. build up traffic.. they will be come around.. u know..

Its a tight niche.. BUT.. well.. traffic talks.. I see 5000 on a story in a few hours.. 3 clicks in from the index.. well .. your already a contender. I assure you beast and extreme converts VERY nicely.. it is a fact.. the USA and England and AU etc can't buy it at the video store.. well.. here is your advantage. USA sites are afraid of the US gov. That's the BIG reason sites wont link.. BUT.. its an undernourished , legal (to serve in many EU) niche.. well..$$$$$..bling..:)

Rockprincess
01-02-2007, 12:12 PM
I don't think I would reply either, what could you possibly say to her to change her mind? I don't think anything would help. I'm very sorry for the horror someone has put her through and I can't even imagine what it did to her. My heart does go out to her.

bigbird
01-02-2007, 12:14 PM
Agreed - don't reply

kidda
01-02-2007, 12:17 PM
I wouldn't worry about it..

And i wouldn't reply either. She is just a silly cow who doesn't realize that the stories are not true. Also, when stories in films ect.. have a rape scene in them, does she actually go through the same trouble (posting hate mail and complaints) with the directors and so on...

Rockprincess
01-02-2007, 12:27 PM
I wouldn't worry about it..

And i wouldn't reply either. She is just a silly cow who doesn't realize that the stories are not true. Also, when stories in films ect.. have a rape scene in them, does she actually go through the same trouble (posting hate mail and complaints) with the directors and so on...
I don't think name calling in this or any situation is in order. This person has been traumatized by her rape and I think we need to respect that.

SuperMurk
01-02-2007, 12:35 PM
Its a messed up experience and i personally do not like having the rape stories on the site because it sickens me to think about a man doing that to a woman but that could be the fact that i dated a woman who had suffered through that and i know exactly what it does for future relationships and i feel terrible for this woman, but with that said i beleive she should ignore the stories i know it has to be hard for her but she should stay off the site if thats how it feels. I mean i'm 100% against those stories being on the site but there isn't much i can say to take em down

chunky
01-02-2007, 03:52 PM
I have great admiration for this woman in her quest to get inside the rapist's mind.
If I was in her position, I don't think it would be a journey that I would care to make.
I can only assume that she wants to explore the rapist mentality in order to help her come to terms with her experience, and thus find healing. Maybe I'm wrong, but I cannot see any other reason for doing this!

Unfortunately she came to the wrong place.

True healing can only be achieved through understanding of, and maybe even compassion toward the person who has hurt you. I don't read the rape stories on this site, but I seriously doubt that she would find the insight there to help her on this quest.

In her pain, bitterness and disappointment she is attacking this site for it's content, while missing the obvious point that these stories are all fantasy, but we have to understand that for her, the experience is a reality!

I sincerely hope that she doesn't waste her time and energy trying to rid the Internet of this site....not from any selfish reasons, but because it would only be externalizing and inflaming her pain and hatred, and not dealing with it on the inside.

I feel nothing but sympathy and compassion for this woman, and I hope that she finds the healing, and maybe even the forgiveness, that she so obviously needs.

getter
01-02-2007, 04:14 PM
If she really want to findout what's in the rapist's mind, she shouldn't come to this site because the writter of rape story is not really life rapist. There are whole bunch of adult site that feature rape in either pics or video format, story is the less thing she should be worry about.

Kimiko
01-02-2007, 05:43 PM
I have all the sympathy in the world for women who have been raped, but I don't for a moment believe that people reading about someone else's rape-fantasies is encouraging anyone to go out and commit such a crime. She's confusing cause and effect, at the very least.

I agree with those who said you should not reply, Nophest. This is a no-win situation, and you're never going to convince her that what goes on here is harmless. She's just lashing out at the nearest convenient target.

chnrgr
01-02-2007, 06:49 PM
"To the creators publishers of xnxx.com's Rape Stories page,
The only reason I came onto this site was because I was raped two years ago and wanted to know more about a rapist's mind. My preconceptions are confirmed that they are sick monsters who deserve to rot in hell. Fair enough I don't have to read the sick and twisted stories on your site but I will do everything in my power to rid the internet of your evil site. I hope you know you probably feed people's fantasies and give them ideas and I hope you hate yourself for this. You probably don't however because if you had an ounce of conscience, you would never publish such horrific, degrading stories in the first place! You are disgusting and if you could even imagine how it feels for just one minute after being raped, you would think you were worth less than killing yourself. You are foul. They actually think girls like it. How wrong can they be."

What would you reply?

She has read every one of those stories three and four times and keeps coming back.:rolleyes:
Seroiusly, rape is a horrible thing but this is not a news site it is only a fantasy. Most of the rape stories the victim turns around and starts enjoying the event. In reality that is the last thing that would happen.
People can have a lot of misdirected anger and will vent it on anyone that listens.
Stopping the stories will have no impact on stopping rapes just as stopping the sale of umbrellas will not stop it from raining.

J.A.W.
01-02-2007, 09:34 PM
If you know of a forum or other site that provides help to rape victims, or even just a place where those victims can get local help, you might reply with something like:

"I'm sorry for your experience and regret that our site did not give you what you were looking for. I understand that ??? provides help and support for rape victims and I hope you will look them up."

Otherwise, as others have said, I would ignore it.

amac
01-03-2007, 12:51 AM
Meh, if she's on a porn site looking for an insite in to a rapist's mind, than she's probably been through all the online help guides, she also might view that as condenscending, or even as an insult. I'd let it go, if you reply no matter what you say it'll only fuel her more.

Another slant on this is that it could be some random kid making shit up, and not a person who's been raped at all. Just food for thought.

x__orion
01-03-2007, 01:16 AM
...when dealing with some women, (or women hearted men) you got to put things down on them...

That sounds charming. How exactly do you 'put things down on them'? By flaming them and spouting nonsensical crap?

TLWA
01-03-2007, 01:19 AM
The woman deserves a reply. You need to at least give her that. Give her your utmost sympathies. She has been through too much to not deserve that. Just or not, she feels wronged. Explain to her your philosophy on free speech and leave it at that. If I was in her position, I'd probably try to bring this site down too. She's tortured, she doesn't know how else to express it..

baller16
01-03-2007, 02:46 AM
yea, like almost everybody else said, don't reply

even if she isn't looking to pick a fight, which it looks like she is, there's no way to reason with her

Monkeybutt
01-03-2007, 04:10 PM
Won't do any good to reply.

But here is a true story. A respected Japanese film studio was loosing money in the 1960's because the Japanese were staying home watching television. In a desperate attempt the studio decided to make movies with sex in it this was during the 1970's.

The studio put out a series of films known as "Angel Guts". The movies highlighted rape. European and American movies that highlight rape are typically revenge films where the rapist gets the worst of it at the end. Angel Guts is not a revenge film. The film's story line doesn't center around getting revenge like the European and American films.

The Japanese studio did make money from those films.

The moral of all this: Rape films made money in Japan.

I have the box set and they are very good films. Another bit of trivia. Angel Guts was originally a Manga out of the 1960's.

jeffsonlygirl
06-24-2008, 07:16 AM
it doesnt matter f u say they are fake, because it is real so somebody, and its real in your mind. how coould you even think to make up a rape story to getoff to, obviously you wuld rape someone if you like the story. i really hope that all you rape fantasy storywriters and readers do the honerable thing and kill yourself, it would really make the wrld a better place. and i hope satan rapes you forever in your afterlife, cause i know you are for sure going to hell!

Tightcuntlover
06-24-2008, 09:09 AM
"To the creators publishers of xnxx.com's Rape Stories page,
The only reason I came onto this site was because I was raped two years ago and wanted to know more about a rapist's mind. My preconceptions are confirmed that they are sick monsters who deserve to rot in hell. Fair enough I don't have to read the sick and twisted stories on your site but I will do everything in my power to rid the internet of your evil site. I hope you know you probably feed people's fantasies and give them ideas and I hope you hate yourself for this. You probably don't however because if you had an ounce of conscience, you would never publish such horrific, degrading stories in the first place! You are disgusting and if you could even imagine how it feels for just one minute after being raped, you would think you were worth less than killing yourself. You are foul. They actually think girls like it. How wrong can they be."

What would you reply?

Whilst I have sympathy for any rape victim, with victim being the operative word, I wouldn't reply either.

She's just venting. Allow yourself ten seconds to think that her having written and sent the above may just have helped her feel a little bit better.....and then just forget about it.

CasaDan
06-24-2008, 09:41 AM
I often wonder why noobs revive posts that have been dead for over a year. To the noob who revived this thread, your statement fails. Just because someone writes something or reads it, doesn't mean they'll act it out. If that were true, then why aren't you off killing people like they do in the movies you watch you hypocritical bastard? It's the exact same thing, just a different media format.

marco ten
06-25-2008, 03:03 AM
Don't reply, the woman? won't understand anything but her point of view.

skype-to-chat
06-25-2008, 03:11 AM
She should open her own thread and see the reaction of people, i am sure she will find that a lot of people will agree with her and she might find other people to share their horrific experiences and find a way to cope with it or might even find help from the members of this site.

scottystevens
06-25-2008, 03:22 AM
One of my exes was gangraped. It's a fucked up thing. They more fucked up thing is they all walked.

It happens unfortunately. Some people actually enjoy reading stories about it. It's human nature to be curious about it. Fiction is one thing. Raping someone is something else.

I hope the guy who raped her dies a horrible death.

bonzeben23
06-27-2008, 09:13 PM
i'd tell her your a guy who got gang-raped by females personally, and then i'd remind her it's called a fantasy sight for a reason.

Nightowl12398
06-27-2008, 10:07 PM
I often wonder why noobs revive posts that have been dead for over a year. To the noob who revived this thread, your statement fails. Just because someone writes something or reads it, doesn't mean they'll act it out. If that were true, then why aren't you off killing people like they do in the movies you watch you hypocritical bastard? It's the exact same thing, just a different media format.

Grow up....

The worst thing that can happen if you are polite is that people start listen to you and perhaps respect you.

Or is the following perhaps needed for you to get the point?

IF YOU STUPID, IGNORANT, FUCKING SON OF A BITCH DON'T STOP USING BAD LANGUAGE I WILL NEVER AGAIN READ ANYTHING WRITTEN BY YOU.

Using such language actually causes me to totally miss the content of the comments involved.

Don't hesitate to comment on my suggestion if you are so inclined.

Kind regards
J. Bailey

QQShoe
06-27-2008, 10:48 PM
I would write a story about being raped and then sending hate spam to innocent people who just wanted to make a website, not considering the fact that it may be offensive to rape victims. Then the story would take a plot twist, and that person would become a total bitch.


Wait, thats not a plot twist, that a plot LINE

Lame.

scavenger456
06-29-2008, 03:50 AM
Being raped is actually a very terrible and traumatic event that can scar a girl's ability to make love to or even trust a man for many, many years. However, she needs to know that what she's found here is a fantasy site, where real life mild-mannered Clark Kent types come to imagine themselves powerful and sexually over-endowed. I personally love to view pics from Necrobabes, CNB and other bloody, brutal sites. I find these fake images erotic and arousing. But in real life, I'm revolted by the sight (and the smell) of blood.

This is a purely fantasy site. People who try to 'force' their perverse views onto us as reality are banned. Please try to get past your hatred and see that we are normal, real life individuals, most of whom have secret fantasies that they never intend to act out - ever!

If you want a target, look at any horror flick where hot young chicks are getting raped, knifed, gutted, shot, etc. On a 40-foot screen, the brutal impact is much, much greater than our timid little tales. But... that's just acting, right? Make believe? Like I said... Fantasy!

hey guys can get raped too

people never think about the men and the boys getting raped.

pimp ur mom
08-10-2008, 06:20 AM
go fuck yerself. enuf said

ecesis
08-10-2008, 06:36 AM
it doesnt matter f u say they are fake, because it is real so somebody, and its real in your mind. how coould you even think to make up a rape story to getoff to, obviously you wuld rape someone if you like the story.

see the interesting thing here is that i read, and am aroused by, stories involving non-consent. conversely, i am incredibly scared of this ever happening to me in real life.

what i read/write and what i actually want to happen to myself; what i condone occuring in reality, are two very different things.

7th heaven
08-11-2008, 04:22 PM
lol

Hush
08-12-2008, 05:00 AM
Without going into great detail, my life has been nothing but sexually based in the negative........All starting when a very young child with my father till I ran away at 10, to then being quickly caught up in the white slave trade from 12-24, part of that foreign jails simply meant to terrorize their own people which I got caught up in and that simply adding to the too numerous to count rapes, torture like you cannot fathom. Naturally throughout, illiterate and in places I was totally lost in you can pretty quickly figure out the only means I knew of was prostitution the sad result of much of it....

Yet at 30 it all changed with my husband.

At 43 I too still wrestle my demons, in fact by the way the letter writer mentions by education, yet more so facing them daily and making them my own. In fact that the very reason I came here to vent some experiences as to some degree it helps.

However, I don't buy into she came here only to learn....As her motivation is to kill the site and makes it rather clear from the beginning. Don't get me wrong, I have MAJOR issues with all the underage BS.....In fact that something to this day I refuse to deal/compromise upon in any form.

Yet frankly she's not looking to understand.......She's looking to shut you down and "X" is her reason and justification that she hopes sways you.

Personally, I believe the word is put out more, and those that would cross the line from fantasy to reality better deterred by pointing out their errors to them.............Does it inspire fantasy as to it? You bet......Yet it can also be used to show the wrong in it as well.

Most of all, to have those that contemplate such things never have opportunity to see negative response IMO simply grants license to investigate it further having no social input from others. Forcing criminals be they pedo or rapists cowering underground one thing and has value, yet they need to know why they need to hide, crush their desires and never step past the line.

The letter writer needs to consider, as she claims to have been forced, so she is trying to force you.

There is no answer that is acceptable to her past you bend to her will....As today it's stories about rape, tomorrow it's talking about breasts and then naturally there is some horror story about that.

*select .eml>delete>are you sure you want to delete this email?>yes

Hush.....an alias

Pussaholic
08-13-2008, 06:18 AM
ide tell that person to get over it. Xnxx is the best shit ever and people enjoy it. And if u come 2 a PORN site 2 learn about Rapeist u need 2 get a life