Yeah...thats news to me..

 

I still maintain that the feelings and emotions are what dictates sexuality. When I see a hot girl, the emotions I feel and reactions I get are very clear to me. When I see a good looking guy, I get absolutely none of that. I am straight.. but very sexually open so if I want to get off with a guy that wants the same it doesn't mean I'm gay or even bi. I could never date or even kiss another guy so how could I be bi?

What about all the kids, I'd say 60-70% of kids have sexual experiences with the same sex when young and figuring things out. They didn't do it because they like men, they did it because their dicks were hard, period. This is why I think gay/bi do no describe me.

Even further I will go down on women and don't mind some smell, because the emotions and chemical effects of sex with women make all of that not matter at all. However with guys, they have to be squeaky clean because I have none of the emotions making me ignore things. As such its purely physical.

 

Originally i was just horny and curious and the opportunity arose... having since tried it, i can say it didnt really do much for me

 

I know what u mean. But once in a while I WILL give a guy a little licking and sucking...more of a "thank you" for him sucking me. I have yet to have a guy cum in my mouth or even bring one off. I too think of gitting fucked, and have men try but always too fast, too dry and too hurry.

 

Great discussion by all. It is within human nature to label and stereotype. Seeking acceptance is part of our instinct to seek recognition. Sometimes our sexual sensibilities are threatened by the way we have been taught to approach sex. The vast majority of my sexual activity is as a hetero. However, I occasionally have a burning urge to engage with a guy. I don't make it public because of the aforementioned stereotypes and plus it's nobody's fucking business except the guy whose cock I am sucking or maybe someday when I dare to let him do me in the ass. What I have discovered in my few gay encounters is that men tend be more appreciative and less judgmental.

 

The way I see it personally in my mind is that sucking cock and having anal sex are for me just purely sexual acts of pleasure that are added choices and variety to my sex life. I love my wife and dont find guys attractive but if I can be pleasured in any possible way sexually outside the normal MF boundries well thats a win to me. I dont consider myself 100% straight as have probably indulged in same sex activities more than just curious or experimental so even though i dont like labels Im not shy to admit what gets me off and that i have had numerous encounters doing such acts well then i must have some sort of bisexuality in me. While i hold no emotional or physical attraction to other guys I can say for sure that a nice looking cock will get me going any day of the week!!

 

I think it's simple. No one needs to justify sexual activity. What is the harm if part of me desires to please a same sex partner? If you have a beautiful erect cock that is in my face, I am going to respectfully ask if I can suck it swallow your cun. This turns me on and hopefully pleases you.

 

anyone from Swansea area want to fill my mouth with cum gotta be shaved and not camp itl be my first cock I want a nice 1 x

 

I'm always looking for stroke and suck buddies.

 

Perfect. I love to suck.

 

That first time someone cums in your mouth must be amazing

 

I'm not gay. I'm not bi. I'm a cock sucker. If you want to use labels, label me that.

 

There are some great looking cocks out there who deserve a mans mouth and throat

 

You have made a good point here but I will admit that like all fantasies in my life, most of them thus far I have fulfilled. This may be one also that is in need of fulfillment and I must admit as time grows on I feel stronger about trying it out. I have no attraction to men but a firm erect cock as shown often here, does have some attraction of late. Frottage perhaps as a start and then we sill see where it goes.

 

I am beginning to feel the same after reading about all of this here.

 

I am starting to have the same thoughts but fucking a man is not part of the scheme. Frottage and maybe a sucking. Who knows it could go further. This talk here does arouse me to tell the truth but pussy still is of constant interest.

 

I agree with you wholeheartedly and I too am beginning to think of this as a possibility. However, being fucked by a man will never happen. Perhaps frottage and maybe sucking in time but I am interested in firm hard cocks but not necessarily turned on by the male gender in a sexual way.

 

I agree but again it seems a distinct possibility to do so on my part. I am at loss why it should suddenly interest me to this degree. Never even thought of it nor experienced anything of this sort in real time. It must be that I fear having missed out on something or it has just become more fashionable to suck cock.

 

The conversation here just proves that sexuality in all its forms, can not be pigeonholed into one or another label. It's too dynamic. Just when we have figured out a situation, someone else throws a wrench into the mix that changes the whole dynamic. And then we are left arguing if it's still bi, gay, or straight.
On the other hand, the only way a person can discribe a situation is with a label. Arguing about said label just distracts from the real question. Don't let labels get in the way of an interesting topic.

 

Labels are meaningless in today's world. Forums like these have opened up whole new tolerance for all forms of sexual behavior. As long as it is between consenting adults it is of no consequence