I guess I'm looking to the women of XNXX for a little advice. I'm a virgin and enrolled in my first few years of college. I really want to lose my virginity, and I have two ideal situations in mind:
1. With a sexually experienced guy that I trust, but am not necessarily romantically interested in.
2. With a boyfriend who (regardless of sexual experience) I care about.
So. Any advice on making this happen? I don't want to go up to guys and be like, "Hey. I'm a virgin. Do me?" Are there more tactful ways of getting some in those contexts?
I also worry about just making out with random guys. Will they think I'm leading them on if I'm not interested in one night stands? I'm also inexperienced with oral sex. Would most guys be really shocked that I've never given head?
As you can tell, I'm a very sexual girl. I always have been. I've just never had sex. I'd love your advice!