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    Exclamation Do women realy get turned on by rape?

    Ok I was with a girl who asked me to roleplay me raping her
    I did it as im very opened minded, but find it less enjoy as it felt wrong
    Anyway my question for the ladies is... Do you realy get turned on by rape?
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    rape fantasies are very common it is more about a man take control and being dominat it isn't about actual rape.
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    Ok thanks.
    Just wanted to hear what women think about this
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    I'm sure some women are turned on by it. Different people can be turned on by all kinds of things. But I would hazard a guess that MOST probably don't...
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    yeah thanks but want 2 hear from women about it
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    I know you want to hear from women, but I just wanted to say that the rape fantasy is one of giving up control and letting the partner take it. What I am impressed with is your discomfort with rape in fantasy play. I share your discomfort on rape play.

    The answer to your quesiton is really that many women want rape play in their fantasy chest, but actual rape is not desired since it is such a traumatic experience!
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    Catrina and Charlie Creamer are right...many women harbor fantasies about this, including myself. But that's not to say we want to be raped at knife-point by thugs some night in a dark alley. There's a big difference between fantasy and reality.
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    thanks all, guess i should just take control so rape role play isnt needed coz it fells wrong to me
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    I went to the vagina monologues a couple of weeks ago and they introduced it with some girls reading poetry. One of them described how she had rape fantasies. She said it wasn't because she actually wanted to be raped, but because although a guy was all rough with her (or whatev) there was still a sense of security that he wouldn't really hurt her. So for a split second it made sense to me. haha... I still woudln't like it, but I can see how other people might
    As for YOU ... if you don't like it and it doesn't turn you on then maybe you shouldn't do it...? I mean sex is about BOTH of you Wish you the best
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    Quote Originally Posted by deadly_dalia View Post
    I went to the vagina monologues a couple of weeks ago and they introduced it with some girls reading poetry. One of them described how she had rape fantasies. She said it wasn't because she actually wanted to be raped, but because although a guy was all rough with her (or whatev) there was still a sense of security that he wouldn't really hurt her. So for a split second it made sense to me. haha... I still woudln't like it, but I can see how other people might
    As for YOU ... if you don't like it and it doesn't turn you on then maybe you shouldn't do it...? I mean sex is about BOTH of you Wish you the best
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    There was a forum a couple of years back I posted in but I did not care for some of the people and left. One of the posters invited me to join a rape forum and I went and looked it over but it is not my cup of tea however the women posters there seemed to like the idea.

    The women I have been involved with that have experienced rape are real fucked up about it. They get over it but it is a mental scare for many.

    I just don't get it and never will I guess. As wacky as women seem when they are around me I would never intentionaly do anything to harm them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kimiko View Post
    Catrina and Charlie Creamer are right...many women harbor fantasies about this, including myself. But that's not to say we want to be raped at knife-point by thugs some night in a dark alley. There's a big difference between fantasy and reality.
    Damnit! ::shink:: Stand down boys... let's go get a green beer, instead.
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    Quote Originally Posted by King Nothing View Post
    Damnit! ::shink:: Stand down boys... let's go get a green beer, instead.

    Aw, c'mon....if I'd known it was you and your friends, I'd have played along!
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    it is a very odd thing. Every single other fantasy is something that you might want to act out and you might get pleasure from it, you just are scared to or dont want the social reprocausions of it.

    However, rape fantasy is the one thing that really isnt a fantasy cause it can never really happen and be enjoyable. Some women like the concept of being raped but if it ever happened to them, they would be horrified. It is a very strange an unique part of sexuality. No other fantasy has that drastic difference in reaction if it were to turn from fantasy to real.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MilfhuntingTeenfuker View Post
    Ok I was with a girl who asked me to roleplay me raping her
    I did it as im very opened minded, but find it less enjoy as it felt wrong
    Anyway my question for the ladies is... Do you realy get turned on by rape?
    Nobody is turned on by rape. Some people are turned on by the thought of rape.

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    I love rape roleplay; it's very calming to me and it's a why to kick a Dom streak out of me (very good for my health because I become ill if I Dominate)

    real rape----no. Just..fucking no.
    Too vile and far too many horrid memories of my past, and fears for my future.


    As stated before, there is a HUGE difference between play/fantasy and reality.
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    Default Just MY opinion.

    For me, rape fantasies are about being forced to do things that I would really like to do, but could never consider actually doing because of the attached stigma. In other words, there is the pleasure without the guilt.

    You know kinda like the mating call of a southern belle ..."I'm soooo drunk". Same principle. Not my fault...I was raped.

    Again, just my opinion, and you did ask for a woman's take on it.
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    This is one of the sexual fantasies that no woman should ever wish to become a reality. Over the years I have met many women who have borne the mental anguish associated with the realities of rape in their lives. My suggestion would be to select any number of other sexual fantasies available to dwell on. This is one, that I feel sure will not serve one well in reality.
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    i can say i have had those fantasies, i can even say that when walking alone on the street that when i hear someone walking behind me that my heart starts to race, but it doesnt actually mean i would enjoy the rape i think, i guess u wouldnt know until it happened but i think that would just make me sick if i did enjoy it.
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    Yes just fantisies though. I don't think anyone wants to be raped. It's the feeling of being helpless and humaliated.
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    girls who were taught sex was wrong or was a sin, fantazise bout that kinda stuff. its psychological, i seen it on a documentary or sumthn. its not that big a deal i guess, hope i helped
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    A rape fantasy (fantasy, that is) can be very exciting for some women.

    Actually being raped is a horrible experience that violates a woman's person in many awful ways and is very traumatic and can take a long time to recover from. No woman wants to be raped for real.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LORCO View Post
    A rape fantasy (fantasy, that is) can be very exciting for some women.

    Actually being raped is a horrible experience that violates a woman's person in many awful ways and is very traumatic and can take a long time to recover from. No woman wants to be raped for real.

    ya but then its not an actual rape fantasy, we use the wrong terminology for agressive forced concensual sex.

    a true rape fantasy would be for a girl to want to truely be raped.
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    Quote Originally Posted by diaco View Post
    ya but then its not an actual rape fantasy, we use the wrong terminology for agressive forced concensual sex.

    a true rape fantasy would be for a girl to want to truely be raped.
    But since it's a fantasy, she knows she WON'T be "truly" raped, so she's perfectly safe.

    By the same token, if you act out such a fantasy, it's consensual and therefore not rape.
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    It's all semantic when she's bent over a trash can screaming in the alley behind the bar...
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    Quote Originally Posted by King Nothing View Post
    It's all semantic when she's bent over a trash can screaming in the alley behind the bar...
    This isn't working for me, King...I TOLD you I wanted it to be in the back room of a biker bar, on the pool table! And ten guys, minimum!
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    I can organize the engineers lunch room where I work, with about 25+ guys Kimi? :P
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kimiko View Post
    This isn't working for me, King...I TOLD you I wanted it to be in the back room of a biker bar, on the pool table! And ten guys, minimum!
    When did this fantasy become about what YOU wanted?
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    Quote Originally Posted by DarethMortuus View Post
    I can organize the engineers lunch room where I work, with about 25+ guys Kimi? :P
    I don't know....it seems so clean and white-collar....
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    Quote Originally Posted by King Nothing View Post
    When did this fantasy become about what YOU wanted?
    Well, if it's YOUR fantasy, what do you need ME for?
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    I guess I don't need ALL of you...

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    As far as I know "rape" justifies alot of things for a woman that actually wanted it. It is an escape of responsibility and personal shame. I know this because I once dated a religious girl, and "raped" her after she followed me into my bedroom late at night.

    I understand that rape is wrong. But I'm almost positive a great many woman wants a man to take initiative in a situation where she doesn't want responsibility but still craves the pleasure.
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    Couldn't have said it better.
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    Maybe not actual rape but I love to be held down and maybe roughed up a little in the right way... when my bf grabs my hands and makes me take every inch of him exactly how he wants it... throw in a little rough stuff and I can keep cumming for days...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kimiko View Post
    I don't know....it seems so clean and white-collar....
    white collar? lol. I'm not so sure. Clean, definitely not :P. Besides, i'll be there. I'll make sure we have plenty of tape to tie you up and some nice big tools to fuck you with... cocks too :P
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    Yes rape videos turn me on so much; of course not real rape though. I suppose I'm more attracted to the dominating aspect of it, rather than the violation and stuff.

    I most definitely am against rape in real life though, it's a disgusting thing that should NOT happen.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VioletAshes View Post
    As far as I know "rape" justifies alot of things for a woman that actually wanted it. It is an escape of responsibility and personal shame. I know this because I once dated a religious girl, and "raped" her after she followed me into my bedroom late at night.

    I understand that rape is wrong. But I'm almost positive a great many woman wants a man to take initiative in a situation where she doesn't want responsibility but still craves the pleasure.
    And I agree with you, but make sure it's okay before you do it because a lot of the time men can get misinterpreted signals.
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