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    I am trying to fathom what it is that attracts young girls/women to older guys.
    Some girls, aged around 18, have said "they fuck better". This then suggests they have had a sexual relationship, in some form or other, with an older man.
    I want to establish what happened, and when, to have got them interested enough to pursue a relationship with an older man.
    I am aware that in some instances, their first encounter was with a relative (usually their father?) or close friend or relative of the family (uncle?).
    This fascinates me so please, serious thoughts only.
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    I will give you a serious thought My first wife was older by 8 yrs, never made any difference to us. But my 2nd was 18yrs younger, I prefer younger women, like anywhere from SERIOUSLY from 18 to 50.

    I wish I knew the secret you are asking for. "#2 just said she fell in love with me the minute she first saw me, and I do believe her (she died at 35 in 1989.)

    The younger girls (20's) are willing to come dance with me, and I don't ask, they just come, to my amazement. I have actually asked some under 20's for a date, and while they didn't show, they did seem all for it.

    So that's from the male side. Maybe some females will tell us what the deal is. I think in some cases its that older men are usually better providers, and have more common sense and better able to deal with life's vicitudes.(Damn can't spell it right)
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    Perhaps it's a father figure kind of thing ... I had an encounter at 25 with a man of about 55. He was the first man to give me an orgasm orally.

    I suppose it's similar to why men enjoy the older woman ... there's definitely something to be said for experience.

    Of course, they could just like older men cuz they figure that's where the money is. Worked for Anna Nichole for a while.


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    Quote Originally Posted by piggit View Post
    Perhaps it's a father figure kind of thing ...
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    Can't see the attraction myself. Biggest age gap I've ever had with a guy was him being 4 years older. Since I was 27 I've always gone younger, and I've never had sex with a guy older than 30. I like them young, firm and constantly active....
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    Quote Originally Posted by johnk9159 View Post
    I am trying to fathom what it is that attracts young girls/women to older guys.
    Actually I don't understand what it is that attracts older guys to younger women!

    I mean, if sex is their basis then it is apparent to me.

    But having a relationship means having common interests and so on, so I agree with you that it must have something to do with this father-figure-thing.
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    I agree with fran, but then I agree with piggit..............Maybe it is just pure chemistry, and we are overlooking that fact. I have seen older women and thought to myself, wow I wonder how she would be in the the sack..........Then I have looked at younger girls and felt the same.........The funny thing is some of the younger gals with the Paris Hilton attitude, are a huge TURN-OFF! I don't think that women who chose to be that foolish with money and daily life are rotten to the core no matter what the age.....lol.

    That is my 5 cents worth...........Who cares about age anyway? Really? As long as it works for the couple, GO FOR IT!

    As far as experience, I had an encounter with a women 23 years senior to me, and I would do it again! She was so hot and knew how to make a man feel great! And the youngest was about ten years younger, she was really into it as well...........But throughout my lifes travels, I have ran across women who didn't have a clue in the bed, and I would have rather just masturbated...............lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ZYZX View Post
    I prefer younger women, like anywhere from SERIOUSLY from 18 to 50.
    Does that mean that girls who're younger than 18 you're suddenly unattracted to, or that you're still attracted to girls younger than that but you steer clear since it's against societies standards? Because there are 15 y/os who look 18 and 18 y/os who look 15, so how can you tell, if you saw a 15 y/o who looked 18 would you then be attracted to her until you realized she was 15, or would you still be attracted to her?
    I'm not trying to accuse you of anything or flame you or something, I'm just curious.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Perv79 View Post
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    thats not always true.
    i am attracted to older guys because they are more mature. they can make good conversation. i mean not to say guys my age arent mature, it just seems they arent.
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    Quote Originally Posted by aquafina clear View Post
    Does that mean that girls who're younger than 18 you're suddenly unattracted to, or that you're still attracted to girls younger than that but you steer clear since it's against societies standards? Because there are 15 y/os who look 18 and 18 y/os who look 15, so how can you tell, if you saw a 15 y/o who looked 18 would you then be attracted to her until you realized she was 15, or would you still be attracted to her?
    I'm not trying to accuse you of anything or flame you or something, I'm just curious.
    what a stupid question...you cant help who you're attracted to. it's not illegal to be attracted to girls of any age. you just can't do anything with them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by johnk9159 View Post
    I am trying to fathom what it is that attracts young girls/women to older guys.
    Some girls, aged around 18, have said "they fuck better". This then suggests they have had a sexual relationship, in some form or other, with an older man.
    I want to establish what happened, and when, to have got them interested enough to pursue a relationship with an older man.
    I am aware that in some instances, their first encounter was with a relative (usually their father?) or close friend or relative of the family (uncle?).
    This fascinates me so please, serious thoughts only.
    ok young mr. johnk9159......let's put the boot on the other foot for a moment. There are literally hundreds of thousands, if not millions of young men who fondly remember being educated sexually (if only just as a one off) at the hands of an older woman, simply because experience, knowledge and awareness come only with age......so, why shouldn't it be the same for younger woman with older men, if they so choose?

    I'm also a little bit worried as to why abuse by family members fascinates you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lazio123 View Post
    Can't see the attraction myself. Biggest age gap I've ever had with a guy was him being 4 years older. Since I was 27 I've always gone younger, and I've never had sex with a guy older than 30. I like them young, firm and constantly active....
    Or...in other words....you being in control.
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    Quote Originally Posted by aquafina clear View Post
    Does that mean that girls who're younger than 18 you're suddenly unattracted to, or that you're still attracted to girls younger than that but you steer clear since it's against societies standards? Because there are 15 y/os who look 18 and 18 y/os who look 15, so how can you tell, if you saw a 15 y/o who looked 18 would you then be attracted to her until you realized she was 15, or would you still be attracted to her?
    I'm not trying to accuse you of anything or flame you or something, I'm just curious.
    That's cos you're only 21 hon. Most guys in their 30s and 40s can tell how old a girl is not by the way she looks but by the way she acts. so even if a girl is 15 and looks 18, they can usually tell that she is in fact only 15.

    Read this post again in 15 or 20 years and you'll understand what i mean....
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    id say most guys would fuck anything... exspecally Virgins (gah cant spell)
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    Quote Originally Posted by kdsradius View Post
    id say most guys would fuck anything... exspecally Virgins (gah cant spell)
    you are totally stereotyping your own gender.
    guys have standards too.
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    the reason that young girls are attracted to older men is because we see our daddy's in them. I'm speaking from experience here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by fran View Post
    Actually I don't understand what it is that attracts older guys to younger women!

    I mean, if sex is their basis then it is apparent to me.

    But having a relationship means having common interests and so on, so I agree with you that it must have something to do with this father-figure-thing.
    I wish there was an explanation of why at 65 I literally fell head in love with a student and could never let her know it, and there was no possibility of anything physical. She was 15, I wrote a song with her, it was basically her lyrics and melody I provided the harmony and chords and manuscripting, an experience I will always fondly remember, and forever we each own half of it. It was not only her looks, being redheaded with long hair has always been a thing for me, but honestly the first look I had at her took my breath away. She liked me, but I am sure that in no way were my own feelings reciprocated, not that I even cared.
    Thinking of her makes me warm even 7 years later.
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    I feel that younger girls/women, are attracted 2 older guys because its tabboo. The same reason men are attracted 2 young girls. Society says it shouldnt be done, so as humans, that normally want what we cant have, we find ourselves fascinated w/ the idea. Back in the late 1800's and early 1900's it was common for older men to take young wifes. Men would be established financially in their mid to late 20's, and would marry a young 14-15 y/o girl and all was well. Now, society says its wronge and thats what we as humans fantasize about. I myself am dating a girl 10 yrs my junior. I'm 28 and she just turned 18, she says that i'm mature enough to know what I want, in life and relationship wise, thats y shes w/ me. She thought I was only 21-22 when she 1st saw me, but fell in love w/ me as we got 2 know each other.
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    I currently have a 27 yr. old g/f. We are both married but enjoy the excitment of our sex. She says she enjoys sex with hubby but that my experience clearly shows. Not making this up. Just trying to answer the question.
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    i sucked my first cock at 14 the guy was 50 plus and lived next door i sucked him off 3 times a week for 2 years and i loved it he was great
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    While there are cases of younger women only interested in an older man for his money, or because the "father figure" thing, I don't think that is the case for most May-December relationships.

    The fact is that females mature faster than males. By our early twenties, we are thinking of falling in love, settling down, having a family, etc. Its biological.

    Guys, however, mature very slowly. There is very little difference between an 18 year old and a 24 year old guy (whereas an 18 y/o and 24 y/o female are two totally different people). Guys are primarily interested in having sex with as many women as they can during that time period. They are not at a maturity level for family life, etc yet. It is really that way until they are almost 30, then something seems to click and they are suddenly ready to settle down.

    This is a broad generalization, and there are exceptions to every rule, of course, but for the most part this is how it is. And frankly, some of us girls get tired of being used and manipulated by guys our own age so they can get laid. So we turn to someone who can give us what we want/need. Stability. Safety. Commitment.

    And I think I can pretty safely speak from experience, as I have dated my share of older men. But most of those kinds of relationships just can't work. So I'm back with someone my own age and its great.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ZYZX View Post
    I will give you a serious thought My first wife was older by 8 yrs, never made any difference to us. But my 2nd was 18yrs younger, I prefer younger women, like anywhere from SERIOUSLY from 18 to 50.

    I wish I knew the secret you are asking for. "#2 just said she fell in love with me the minute she first saw me, and I do believe her (she died at 35 in 1989.)

    The younger girls (20's) are willing to come dance with me, and I don't ask, they just come, to my amazement. I have actually asked some under 20's for a date, and while they didn't show, they did seem all for it.

    So that's from the male side. Maybe some females will tell us what the deal is. I think in some cases its that older men are usually better providers, and have more common sense and better able to deal with life's vicissitudes.(Damn can't spell it right)
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    Having been with a "LOT" of younger women in the last 13 years, for me at least, it's the soft, tender young flesh and the wide eyed enthusiasm that the young girls have. The willingness to try something different and they donít have all the baggage that older women carry with them. They are more likely to experiment with things and donít have all the taboos that some older women have to things.. Like anal sex, oral sex to completion, 3 sums, soft bondage, etc....

    For the girls, I think it's the money at first, then maybe after a while it changes into something else.. Not love but something....
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    Quote Originally Posted by johnk9159 View Post
    I am aware that in some instances, their first encounter was with a relative (usually their father?) or close friend or relative of the family (uncle?).
    This statement suggests that young women with older men is a pathalogical response to early sexual abuse, which is only the case in a small fraction of instances. The Freudian worldview, now almost entirely discredited, is still stuck in our collective unconscious. For most women, the attraction to older men is grounded in healthy and adaptive factors.

    I'm generalizing here, but..

    Women are attracted to power. Some examples of power are confidence, social standing, vast life experience, mastery of a skill or field of knowledge (sex, for example), fame, and money. All of these things are more likely to be possessed by an older man than a younger one.

    Also, women are very flexible and adaptible. They can reconcile conflicts between their hearts and minds in order to justify going for what they want. And they can adjust their thinking and behavior to match an older man's (this is what people are talking about when they say women are more mature). Thus the problems of inner conflict and incompatible personalities are avoided.

    Does that mean these relationships are always healthy and good? No, but they're no worse than those between people of similar ages.

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    the reason that young girls are attracted to older men is because we see our daddy's in them. I'm speaking from experience here.
    This is true for some women, but a little misleading. A person whose father was a strong influence grew up with him as the role model for what a 'man' is. So it's not that these women are attracted to their fathers, but rather they're attracted to good or strong men, and in their mind 'good man' or strong man' = 'like daddy.'
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    there is more to this than I can go into right here. Case A I was married but seperated, and active in a lot of things.. Girl 17 years younger and I hit it off.. and a few years later I asked her why she latched onto me.. She wanted to be part of my life, because of the things I did. Lasted 10 years. although we are still lovers when we can.

    Next 18 years younger, and for much the same reason,, she thought I led and exciting life. we had a fantastic 17 years together.. I helped raise her two daughters and thursday I will go the SC to pick one up for a move back to live with me..

    father worship, I do not think so. Matter of fact I know that had nothing to do with it.. A better life, maybe, excitement. the first one loved the racing that I did, Well so did the second one, but to her it was more being able to go all over the world.

    Sex was fantastic, why did we split, The pace was faster than they immagioned..
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaulT View Post
    Having been with a "LOT" of younger women in the last 13 years, for me at least, it's the soft, tender young flesh and the wide eyed enthusiasm that the young girls have. The willingness to try something different and they donít have all the baggage that older women carry with them. They are more likely to experiment with things and donít have all the taboos that some older women have to things.. Like anal sex, oral sex to completion, 3 sums, soft bondage, etc....

    For the girls, I think it's the money at first, then maybe after a while it changes into something else.. Not love but something....
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    Quote Originally Posted by daddyslilslut View Post
    thats not always true.
    i am attracted to older guys because they are more mature. they can make good conversation. i mean not to say guys my age arent mature, it just seems they arent.

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    Because of my many years of my "practice" of observation, I can walk in a room, look at someone, and from almost every position of their body and the emotion I feel coming from them, I can tell exactly what kind of person they are, or hell maybe even what they just did or are thinking about, all from perspective.

    It's when I look at someone's picture where she's leaning out her window looking and I tell her there was something drastic on her mind, and I defined all her base emotions, logic, and worry - and I hadn't seen her in a year that reminded me of that today.

    It's a strange world.

    Just remember; age - though it really helps - does NOT define experience.

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    Quote Originally Posted by daddyslilslut View Post
    thats not always true.
    i am attracted to older guys because they are more mature. they can make good conversation. i mean not to say guys my age arent mature, it just seems they arent.
    It was a half joke.

    Since I'm typing here anyway I'll throw in that I don't see the draw of having a relationship with a young girl (18-20 give or take.) Not only do they tend to be less experienced, in my experience, they tend get get annoying quick.

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    Personally, I think older men DO fuck better than young men, as a general thing. They're less selfish, more appreciative, less inhibited, more adventurous, and they know what they're doing. But I'm sure money plays a role in many such cases. I don't think Anna Nicole was dedicated to servicing that 90-year-old cock as much as she was dedicated to his money.

    Young men do have their plusses, though. They have lots of energy, lots of stamina, and there are times when a good hard fuck by an arrogant guy in love with his cock is just what a girl needs.
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