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    Default pulling out before ejaculating - just for the camera or a reflection of real life?

    It seems as though the majority of homemade porn videos have the guy pull out before ejaculating, even the ones between husbands and wives. Do you think that most of them are just doing it for the camera, for the "money shot" and if the camera wasn't there the guy would just come inside the female? Or do you think that it's a reflection of what those couples do even when the camera isn't filming, whether they do it as a form of "birth control" (I use the quotes because it's such an unreliable method) or just because that's the way they prefer to do it?
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    Quote Originally Posted by LuvMyDildos View Post
    It seems as though the majority of homemade porn videos have the guy pull out before ejaculating, even the ones between husbands and wives. Do you think that most of them are just doing it for the camera, for the "money shot" and if the camera wasn't there the guy would just come inside the female? Or do you think that it's a reflection of what those couples do even when the camera isn't filming, whether they do it as a form of "birth control" (I use the quotes because it's such an unreliable method) or just because that's the way they prefer to do it?
    No, I think it's all about the cumshot. Porn directors have always been fixated on the need to prove that the whole thing is real.

    To the extent people do that sort of thing in real life, I think they're just emulating porn. If they're doing it for birth control reasons, as you suggest, they're playing Vatican roulette and are sadly delusional.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LuvMyDildos View Post
    It seems as though the majority of homemade porn videos have the guy pull out before ejaculating, even the ones between husbands and wives. Do you think that most of them are just doing it for the camera, for the "money shot" and if the camera wasn't there the guy would just come inside the female? Or do you think that it's a reflection of what those couples do even when the camera isn't filming, whether they do it as a form of "birth control" (I use the quotes because it's such an unreliable method) or just because that's the way they prefer to do it?
    In porn, I'm sure it's just for the "money shot" and My husband and I after marriage, Used the "pull out" for birth control. ( we were married, we were ok with the risk)
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    At first the pull-out in porn was to show that the guy had cum; in those days they used hot lights and lighting 'the business' was difficult and hot work. You never knew until you developed the film whether you would have a good exposure. Also, it would take a little while for some of those loads to find their way out because they would get planted deeply.

    Nowadays it is just the same old boring stuff with bald beavers and guys desecrating the women with spooge on the face or tits. Yawn. JMHO.
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    Depends on the mood for me. Sometimes I cum in her sometimes I pull out and cum on her. Has nothing to do with porn or imitating anything it's all just how I feel at the time.

    An ex-gf and I used the pull out method as birth control for a fairly long time and she never got pregnant. I know it's by no means guaranteed as birth control but it is still better than nothing
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    We do it both ways. Sometimes I like to make it a little easier to clean up and sometimes he just loves to see it, especially if we're doing it doggy. But we don't make it a regular practice.
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    My partner had to come off birth control so its pulling out or rubber j's for us at the moment. Eithers fine. I love external cumshots, I love watching them and shooting a load over her after oral. But with sex, when she was on the pill, there is nothing alive that would've made me pull out. Its just alot more... Fun for both of us.
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    I'm pretty sure most couples that do this in regular life got the idea from porn. And I have to admit, I'm guilty of being really turned on by the cumshot. Its definitely made its way into my sex life. My girl loves it too. Often times, she'll start talking dirty when I'm getting close, telling me how bad she wants it and where she wants me to shoot it. Usually its in her mouth or on her tits.
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    I guess it depends on the people doing it. To some it is indescribably sexy and a huge turn on, to others its gross and degrading. I've known women of both type, but one thing they all agreed on was that I was not going to cum inside of them, even with a condom on and them on birth control, so I always pulled out and finished on them somewhere. Most preferred it on their tits, a few liked to swallow and only a couple liked it on the face. There is one who absolutely loves cum to the point of being a self admitted sex addict and cum slut who will take it anywhere at any time. She's the best one I've had lol.
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    it could be a sad indictment on Soceity as a whole.
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    Quote Originally Posted by titop1mp View Post
    I guess it depends on the people doing it. To some it is indescribably sexy and a huge turn on, to others its gross and degrading. I've known women of both type, but one thing they all agreed on was that I was not going to cum inside of them, even with a condom on and them on birth control, so I always pulled out and finished on them somewhere. Most preferred it on their tits, a few liked to swallow and only a couple liked it on the face. There is one who absolutely loves cum to the point of being a self admitted sex addict and cum slut who will take it anywhere at any time. She's the best one I've had lol.
    Hey man, I wouldn't complain if the girls you've been withactually like it when cum on their tits, in their mouths and a couple even let you do it on their faces! Its a really sexy thing. I'm lucky enough to have dated mostly girls that were very open about where they let me cum. But not everyone is!
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    Quote Originally Posted by hugeballs View Post
    Hey man, I wouldn't complain if the girls you've been withactually like it when cum on their tits, in their mouths and a couple even let you do it on their faces! Its a really sexy thing. I'm lucky enough to have dated mostly girls that were very open about where they let me cum. But not everyone is!
    Oh I'm not complaining, its just a small example to show that some girls like it and some don't.
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    Quote Originally Posted by titop1mp View Post
    Oh I'm not complaining, its just a small example to show that some girls like it and some don't.
    Definitely true. Some girls are way more into it that others. Honestly its kind of a turn off when a girl doesn't want anything to do with your cum. Not in the mouth, not in the pussy, and definitely not on the face.

    On the other hand, one of the hottest things in the world is when a girl is REALLY into it. It is so sexy when a girl tells me how bad she wants my load. Even if she's just "acting" or doing it for my benefit. The absolute best is when they tell you where they want it. "Shoot it all over my tits and face baby!" Ahhhh yes, so dirty, so hot, and soooooooo good.
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    If the guy I am fucking pulled out to shoot on me I will kick his ass out of my bed and my life too forever!
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    Quote Originally Posted by treen View Post
    If the guy I am fucking pulled out to shoot on me I will kick his ass out of my bed and my life too forever!
    Come on Treen, I've seen that sexy ass of yours. I bet it would be hard not to pull out and cum all over it.
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    If pulling out is "it" for you, enjoy.

    For me, being buried deep inside during my orgasm was the best feeling and I would have to have a very good reason to give that up. Cumming outside just doesn't feel as good.
    Plus the benefit of eating her out afterwards was an extra for me.

    But, alas, those days are gone now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LuvMyDildos View Post
    It seems as though the majority of homemade porn videos have the guy pull out before ejaculating, even the ones between husbands and wives. Do you think that most of them are just doing it for the camera, for the "money shot" and if the camera wasn't there the guy would just come inside the female? Or do you think that it's a reflection of what those couples do even when the camera isn't filming, whether they do it as a form of "birth control" (I use the quotes because it's such an unreliable method) or just because that's the way they prefer to do it?
    I'll bet the ones who are filming for the expressed prupose of displaying their 'work' online are pulling out to emulate the professional porn business.

    That being said, there are few things hotter than having a woman gasping out the words, "I wanna see it, I wanna see it!" right before you're going to release.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Old Tool View Post
    I'll bet the ones who are filming for the expressed prupose of displaying their 'work' online are pulling out to emulate the professional porn business.

    That being said, there are few things hotter than having a woman gasping out the words, "I wanna see it, I wanna see it!" right before you're going to release.
    And, on the other side of that coin, there are few things more dramatic than watching a long-awaited eruption of eager, pent-up cum from a man's penis, and hearing his strangled groan as it rhythmically pulses and spurts and gushes...
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    mmmmmm, spurts and gushes
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kimiko View Post
    And, on the other side of that coin, there are few things more dramatic than watching a long-awaited eruption of eager, pent-up cum from a man's penis, and hearing his strangled groan as it rhythmically pulses and spurts and gushes...
    Get your hot body over here, Kimi, I'm ready to cum......in spurts and gushes......anywhere you'd like!!!
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    I love to see a man cum - so for me, having him cum on my tits or face is fantastic. Porn is almost certainly to blame for this cum obsession of mine, as I do watch quite a lot.
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    Honestly I doubt porn had anything to do with the obsession for cum and seeing it on the body. Look back through history at all of the sexual activities people engaged in and you have to realize that recorded history only goes back so far. If its been recorded, that means that people were doing it before it was written down. Orgies, gangbangs, swinging, anal, oral, gay/lesbian, the list just keeps going. Modern day porn is not the starting point for any of these activities and I'm willing to bet that the "money shot" was just as popular in Antiquity as it is today.
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    Quote Originally Posted by titop1mp View Post
    ... I'm willing to bet that the "money shot" was just as popular in Antiquity as it is today.
    Well, women have been enjoying cum shots at least since biblical times:
    Yet she became more and more promiscuous as she recalled the days of her youth, when she was a prostitute in Egypt. There she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses. [Ezekiel 23:19]
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    Quote Originally Posted by treen View Post
    If the guy I am fucking pulled out to shoot on me I will kick his ass out of my bed and my life too forever!
    I agree.
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    Quote Originally Posted by clubsixty9 View Post
    Get your hot body over here, Kimi, I'm ready to cum......in spurts and gushes......anywhere you'd like!!!
    Give it to me, baby...I want you to pump out every last drop, all over me. You and all of your friends!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kimiko View Post
    Give it to me, baby...I want you to pump out every last drop, all over me. You and all of your friends!
    I can help you out, Kimiko! Hold those beautiful tits together for me!
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    Quote Originally Posted by hugeballs View Post
    I can help you out, Kimiko! Hold those beautiful tits together for me!
    Ooooh, yeah, right there, on my perky little puffy nipples. See how they stand at attention? They just LOVE to be bathed in cum!

    And I want to lick it all off afterward.
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    That is what I do, if not I would have quite a few children!!!
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    I personally don't care for money shots. I'd much rather shoot my load inside the girl I'm with whether or not there's a condom, or when watching porn I prefer creampies. I don't know whether I think it's more intimate that way, or that I'm turned on by the risk factor, or even something as primal as "marking territory", or a combination of all three, it just excites me far more than any other form of porn and it's a shame it isn't as common.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IrishEight44 View Post
    I personally don't care for money shots. I'd much rather shoot my load inside the girl I'm with whether or not there's a condom, or when watching porn I prefer creampies. I don't know whether I think it's more intimate that way, or that I'm turned on by the risk factor, or even something as primal as "marking territory", or a combination of all three, it just excites me far more than any other form of porn and it's a shame it isn't as common.
    I think the marking territory applies more to the money shot, than it does to cumming inside.

    I think cumming inside is more intimate. Also a man has to interupt the act to perform a moneyshot. In my mind, that suggests that he's not able to just let go and let it be. Sex should be about letting go.
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    I let them do it their way - I quite enjoy watching and or helping them them ejaculate and I will take it over my body - not on my face.
    In my early days the "pull (out) and pray" method was used often. I would always enjoy watching them cum on me so I knew it wasnt inside although some never made it - and we prayed. They never got a second opportunity.
    I quite enjoy watching some of the compilations in the porn video section.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xiara74 View Post
    I think the marking territory applies more to the money shot, than it does to cumming inside.

    I think cumming inside is more intimate. Also a man has to interupt the act to perform a moneyshot. In my mind, that suggests that he's not able to just let go and let it be. Sex should be about letting go.
    I agree about the intimacy factor, although when I suggested cumming inside for marking territory, I was referring to the mentality that once their seed is implanted in the woman, said woman is his and no other man can claim her. It's not the way I think personally but I've known others with that level of possessiveness.
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    Ooooh, yeah, right there, on my perky little puffy nipples. See how they stand at attention? They just LOVE to be bathed in cum!

    And I want to lick it all off afterward.
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    I usually cum on my girlfriends stomach above her pussy. she likes the feeling of the hot cum, knowing she made me cum and getting to rub my cock as i do it...also the increased chance of not being pregnant is a bug plus (shes on the pill but we dont trust that entirely)
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    I have pulled out on occasion, when the wife asks me to because she wants to see me squirt. We never have done this as a form of birth control. Everyone knows the pull and pray meathod is about the worst form of birth control around lol.
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    Give it to me, baby...I want you to pump out every last drop, all over me. You and all of your friends!
    MMMMMMMMM........take it all baby........some on your face..........some on your hot pussy........you can suck my cock clean and I'll lick your luscious pussy clean!!
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    been using pull out for over 3 years with what is now my fiance. i have enough control that I know when i will go off and never had an accident. trust it more than rubbers and pills. had a friend get his girl pregnant using both
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    Quote Originally Posted by IrishEight44 View Post
    I personally don't care for money shots. I'd much rather shoot my load inside the girl I'm with whether or not there's a condom, or when watching porn I prefer creampies. I don't know whether I think it's more intimate that way, or that I'm turned on by the risk factor, or even something as primal as "marking territory", or a combination of all three, it just excites me far more than any other form of porn and it's a shame it isn't as common.
    i also love to cum inside a girls pussy with or with out protection it doesnt matter to me at all as long as theirs pussys are full of my cum its all good to me
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