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    So I have been married to my wife for a little over a year now and we have a open relationship. I have noticed she enjoys having Fast, Hard, sex with hairpulling, But she can't do the fast and hard with me because My dick it too big for her to handle. When we first started having sex she made comments about me being "larger than average", but I just blew that off to her trying to boost my ego. Recently one of the guys she slept with was around 5inches. When I found that out I almost laughed, I personally am close to 9 inches if I havn't had sex in 24 hours, If I have it usually stays around 7 3/4 to 8 1/2.

    My question is, Is there any way I can do the fast hard and deep with my wife, Or am I doomed to have slow shallow sex for the rest of my life with her? Or does anyone know how to keep a penis from growing to its full length with still being hard enough to fuck?
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    I would say fast and shallow or slow and deep. My hubby's almost 8 and there are definitely certain angles where he hits my cervix and it fucking HURTS. But other positions I can take him just fine with only a few strokes from time to time hitting too deep.

    Plus there's always anal. He can go full force anal and we're fine.
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    @noboat - not quite that long, Grantedif I cought her in one of the hallways in the house I could.

    She enjoys Anal but only if her clit is stimulated as well. It kind of makes it diffacult to rub her clit/hold a vibe and fuck her fast. I think next time I am gonna make her take care of her clit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Axias85 View Post
    @noboat - not quite that long, Grantedif I cought her in one of the hallways in the house I could.

    She enjoys Anal but only if her clit is stimulated as well. It kind of makes it diffacult to rub her clit/hold a vibe and fuck her fast. I think next time I am gonna make her take care of her clit.
    yeah. or get her one of those strapon butterfly thingies.
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    I have the same issue...I'm not too long but I'm a little on the thick side and my partner just can't handle it for long.

    She wants me to find a younger partner to help her handle me...lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Axias85 View Post
    @noboat - not quite that long, Grantedif I cought her in one of the hallways in the house I could.

    She enjoys Anal but only if her clit is stimulated as well. It kind of makes it diffacult to rub her clit/hold a vibe and fuck her fast. I think next time I am gonna make her take care of her clit.
    I've been with longer men, and I find going doggie style, or laying on my side with him behind me, lowers the depth of penetration because I can angle my hips, and I can also play with my own clit that way. No offense, but no one ever plays with your own body exactly the right way, it leads to mind-blowing orgasms when you do it yourself while having sex. Just make sure she trims her fingernails, or she could rub the bottom of your dick raw with 'em while you have sex.
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    Just ensure there's plenty of lube. I reguarly have it with 9-12" plus, including anal.

    If you have exceptional girth, then there could be a problem.
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    post a pic of it maybe ?
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    I commend your artistry with bullshit. You seem to have the knack of having gullible people believe you. Bravo.
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    Quote Originally Posted by umpire2 View Post
    I commend your artistry with bullshit. You seem to have the knack of having gullible people believe you. Bravo.

    Thanks for the complament???
    The amazing thing is I am honestly not trolling. I was just curious about positions and such. Doggystyle now makes sence at why its her favorite. And laying on her side might be something we have to try soon.
    Reduction.....not gonna happen. I don't want to even think of having an accident in that situation.

    I have herd cock rings and things like that help. Anyone have advice there?
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    Once he's used to anal you can go a deep and fast you like ...
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    Once she's used to anal you can go a deep and fast you like ...
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    My wife refused to have sex with me the first time we actually got naked for sex, once she realized how large I was. She likes making love, not being fucked like some porno actress, so I simply proved to her that I was able to adjust to her style of love making. If you allow her to be on top, she can regulate the depth of penetration, same as doggy style, you stay still allow her to dictacte the depth of penatration. To this date, many years later, she has never had my entire penis in her vagina, and I have never been more satisfied. Anal sex is out of the question, for her at least.
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    Its all male macho bullshit. No cock is too big that a pussy cant take. Its biological impossiblilty!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by hommax View Post
    Once she's used to anal you can go a deep and fast you like ...
    Just asked her to start wearing her analplug around the house some more. Granted I like the look of it when she flashes her ass at me and I can see it there. When I first bought it for her it was to help get her prepared for me. Now I can't find it most of the time because she is using it. She also aparently wears it to work because she dosn't want to lose that feeling. Couple days ago she wanted to have Anal sex again and It was alot easier than last week to get started. Took about 15 min before I could go all the way in but for the most part I don't think she has ever taken me completely inside her. So we must be getting somewhere. Guess I'll have to move up plug sizes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by treen View Post
    Its all male macho bullshit. No cock is too big that a pussy cant take. Its biological impossiblilty!!
    Hear hear.

    The thread should really be called "I need to learn to fuck". But I suppose "penis too big" does more for the OPs ego.

    Sex is a lot about technique, and not just about equipment size. No use having good equipment if you can't use it properly.

    And getting her to stretch her butthole out to compensate for the fact that you can't fuck. . .
    what a travesty!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by treen View Post
    Its all male macho bullshit. No cock is too big that a pussy cant take. Its biological impossiblilty!!
    True and False. Some guys are just TOO BIG for some girls...not ALL girls. Yeah, they can just ram it in there and it'll fit but not without LOTS of pain on her part and possible damage. I know from experience that sometimes hubby loses control in a position I can manage if he's being careful. But once he's really into it and lets loose, it hurts a LOT! My hubby's just under 8 inches and from experiences with him, I can honestly say I'd never let anyone longer than that try to ram it home.

    The biological truth is that just as penises are different lengths, so are vaginas. Some women are deep others are shallow. A 4'9" woman isn't going to have a vagina as deep as a 5'10 one. It's just a fact of nature. Just as legs and arms are proportional to the body, so is the vaginal cavity. Girth, however is something almost any woman should be able to adjust to. If you can stretch and tear enough to push out a kid, you can certainly take a fat cock. But can a guy be too LONG? hell yes! My hubby has to be especially careful cause I have PCOS and too much banging at the wrong time of the month has (on more than one occasion) burst a cyst and landed me in the ER.

    That's not to say you can't make certain adjustments to technique to accomodate a woman (usually just not going in all the way). I would think most women can name at least one guy they've been with who was just so long he was hitting home too damn hard.

    Soft and slow with a long cock, yeah. You could probably take on any cock. But if you're in a body slapping, ass pounding, bed shaking fuckfest...there is such a thing as "too long".
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    Quote Originally Posted by Snoochies View Post
    True and False. Some guys are just TOO BIG for some girls...not ALL girls. Yeah, they can just ram it in there and it'll fit but not without LOTS of pain on her part and possible damage. I know from experience that sometimes hubby loses control in a position I can manage if he's being careful. But once he's really into it and lets loose, it hurts a LOT! My hubby's just under 8 inches and from experiences with him, I can honestly say I'd never let anyone longer than that try to ram it home.

    The biological truth is that just as penises are different lengths, so are vaginas. Some women are deep others are shallow. A 4'9" woman isn't going to have a vagina as deep as a 5'10 one. It's just a fact of nature. Just as legs and arms are proportional to the body, so is the vaginal cavity. Girth, however is something almost any woman should be able to adjust to. If you can stretch and tear enough to push out a kid, you can certainly take a fat cock. But can a guy be too LONG? hell yes! My hubby has to be especially careful cause I have PCOS and too much banging at the wrong time of the month has (on more than one occasion) burst a cyst and landed me in the ER.

    That's not to say you can't make certain adjustments to technique to accomodate a woman (usually just not going in all the way). I would think most women can name at least one guy they've been with who was just so long he was hitting home too damn hard.

    Soft and slow with a long cock, yeah. You could probably take on any cock. But if you're in a body slapping, ass pounding, bed shaking fuckfest...there is such a thing as "too long".
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    Her post actually explains alot of my problem right there. I am 6'7" and she is 5'0". I have read that during arousal the vagina can increase to 3X the normal size and after talking to my wife she let it slip that I was the biggest she had ever slept with. Granted she keeps sleeping with me so I guess it dosn't feel that bad, but every now and then she feels the need to have those wild and crazy fuckfests that i just can't do. I have the endurance and the staying power, It just hurts her too much which is a turnoff for me. So we talk more now than before and we are in an open relationship. So it works out. Still looking for the girl I can enjoy fast and hard thought. Any suggestions?
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    I'm going to preface this with the facts:
    I am a very tiny person, im short and have a small build.
    any penis over like 7 inches hits my cervix.
    my g spot is literally right by my cervix...so the pain is the good kind.

    BUT i know some woman A: Dont share my love of pain B: Dont have a weird G spot

    But, their are cremes you can use to make your Gspot be more, ahh...descended? i dont know what the phrase is, but basically you feel that pleasure more then the pain of a big penis, i know because i used to use it.

    also, you can slowly get her used to it, i know she will probably never get fully used to it, but slowly pushing the limits, maybe even buying a toy thats a similar size, can help get her able to handle it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sixcir6 View Post
    This post makes me glad to be average length!
    lol! There's nothing wrong with any size. But the general belief that guys need to be built like a steel reserve can to be the "best" lover is absurd. I know a lot of women who have said they got right up to the minute and saw his equipment and said "hell no" cause he was just too damn big.

    And I've seen just as many large men complain about how hard it is to get laid with a big cock as I've seen small guys ask if size really matters.

    In the long run, it all depends on the woman and how she's built. As well as the guy and how he's willing to accommodate her...smaller cocks with good technique or larger cocks with care and ease. All comes down to caring about your partner and talking about how to make the experience best for both parties.
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    My last boyfriend was large and we had some issues in the beginning, but things worked out, (or worked in), lol. I just had to take it slow and get used to him
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    well I didn't go out searching for a large guy, it was just part of the, "package".
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    Just takes more foreplay....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tuninyabum View Post
    Just takes more foreplay....
    Agreed, It just takes more foreplay and getting used to the size.
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