The preferred technique for cunninglus
I did a few searched on these forums, but to no avail. If this is a repeat, my apologies.
This is where the ladies get to tell us exactly how they like it. Everyone is different in their preferences, but I'm willing to bet there are a few commonalities that we can all learn from.
I have not received any complaints about my technique, but that doesn't mean squat. Perhaps I was good enough to make her smile. Perhaps her other partners just plain sucked. Perhaps she wasn't comfortable about directing me during the act. Maybe she didn't want to hurt my feelings. Maybe I am just plain lousy at eating pussy and I don't know it.
Things I like to do:
I like to tease before I please by lightly kissing and licking around the pubis. Eventually, I work my way to the labia and give it delicate attention. Gradually, my tongue probes a bit more, splitting the labia and massaging up and down. A circular motion around the clit and some tongue flickering.
After finding a rythym with the clit, I will probe deeper into the vagina. Multiple probes, each a bit deeper than the last, fucking with my tongue. Combining the in/out stroke with a lick back up and around the clit and back had seemed to work well. Sometimes I will suckle the labia and suck it into my mouth gently.
Of course, part of the equation is the hands and other contact. Depending on the position, I like to support her ass with my hand which helps me get a good angle. I will lovingly carress the mons pubis and thighs and hamstrings. I might find a rythym on her clit with my thumb as my tongue attends to the rest of the pussy. Or vise versa, a digit or two will explore the vagina as my tongue lavishes the clit.
So this is what I am talking about. Ladies, speak up and tell us cumbersome males how you like it to be done. You will be doing the human race a great favor. :-D