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    Have been living (trial seperation) apart with my wife for a while and have found out that she has been fucking someone for a while. She has admitted this and basically said that it was her doing as she needed spomeone and I was not there. She wants us to work things through and Im all for it, but I cannot get the image out of my head of her fucking someone else.......I get so horny thinking about it,I wank over this atleast 2-3 times a day. Even the porn I watch is geared towards this type

    WTF is wrong with me? Is it normal?
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    Sounds like you have discovered a new aspect of your sexuality. There are many people who enjoy voyeurism and watching their partner have sex with others. The question I would have is does she know this about you or is it possible she is trying to hurt you emotionally by admitting her sexual encounters? It sounds like she told you to try and cause some sort of reaction to her, either demanding she come back or telling her it was over, not that she was trying to patch things up.

    Your reaction indicates you have needs that you did not realize were unmet, her tossing her infidelity (separation is not divorce, she has been unfaithful to the marriage as it stands now) at you makes me think she wants out but wants you to do the leaving.

    Best bet, get couples counseling if you want to save it, if not you now have something else to look for in a potential partner going forward. Good luck, I wish you all the best in dealing with this!
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    Quote Originally Posted by JohnEllas View Post
    Have been living (trial seperation) apart with my wife for a while and have found out that she has been fucking someone for a while. She has admitted this and basically said that it was her doing as she needed spomeone and I was not there. She wants us to work things through and Im all for it, but I cannot get the image out of my head of her fucking someone else.......I get so horny thinking about it,I wank over this atleast 2-3 times a day. Even the porn I watch is geared towards this type

    WTF is wrong with me? Is it normal?
    So, are you complaining? Seems like she hit on the perfect way to get you off.
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    If she wants to get back together but in any way feels guilty about fucking someone else, it is NOT a good sign that her screwing other guys turns you on.

    If you suggest that she keep doing it while you are back together or suggest a MMF threesome and she's already guilty, you will be torpedoing your chance of staying back together.

    IF, however, she's NOT guilty about it, and seems open to an open marraiage (at least from her end), you may very well have found a way to keep her AND keep her satisfied. Be warned, however, the latter is also a tightrope walk.
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    Tell her how you feel she might like the idea
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    I can, from experience, though somewhat different in situation, go along with the previous poster. Tell her that you get aroused by the idea of watching her or even have threesome with her (whatever you'd like). Apart from maybe very hot sex encounters it will probably clear up the dark cloud this has cast over your marriage.
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    When I found out my wife was cheating, I was devistated. Thoughts of divorce, seperation, how could she do something like that, all ran through my head. She said it was lust, not love, etc. She just got so horney in the middle of the day, she thought she'd go nuts. Then she met this guy & they had sex once in a while. ( I later found out this was a lie, she had sex with a lot of guys, a lot of times, like nearly every day.) Anyway, she talked me into watching her have sex with another guy. It took a lot of talking, but I agreed. And I watched and I watched and I watched. I was never so turned on in all my life. I have to confess, I came on the floor, just couldn't hold it back. Now we have partners quite often and enjoy each other even more.
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    I think I would find out first if her intent was to hurt you by giving you that information. If not, then approach her with the idea others have mentioned.
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    Every male gets horny at the thought of their wife, girlfriend, spouse, whatever, getting it on with someone else. It is hard-wired evolutionarily because your selfish genes want to compete with the other guys. Therefore the image of your mate fucking some-one else stimulates you so that your sperms will compete with his when you fuck her immediately after he has finished with her.

    Since in today's civilised society we do not get the same opportunity as Sabre tooth tiger dodging man we have to bottle up such urges.

    My advice is when you suspect she has been at it, you clean her out immediately and make your own deposit while she describes the entire event to you while so that you remain at peak stimulation and shoot as best you can!

    Upon conception you can either convince yourself of your prowess or resort to science which will give you a definitive answer which you are free to do with as you see fit.

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    a few years ago my wife cheated on me...and during that time our sex life was the best it had been in 15 years of marriage. At the time I did not know she was cheating on me...I just knew that I was getting sex on a regular basis rather than once every 3-6 months. After I found out, I was very upset, and our sex life went back to the once every few months. Now, I get extremely turned on by the thought of her being fucked by another man. After 20 years together, we recently started talking about our fantasies for the first time....and our sex life has again improved.

    Talk to her about it. Let her know that you are upset that she cheated...but that the thought of her with another man also turns you on.
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    Speaking from experience I would say that the best way forward is to talk to her about it. There's nothing worse than having a dirty little secret that turns you on but you have to keep it from her. It'll come out in some way eventually anyway.
    If you talk to her about it and explain how aroused (don't say "turned on" at first as it may make you sound cheap and sleazy) it makes you, you can at least start exploring it verbally.
    She may like it and want to indulge you by taking it further, or she may not like it and at least you know.
    Bear in mind that once an act is done it can't be undone and her fucking someone else when you weren't there is possibly far more erotic than watching some hairy-arsed bloke sweating and grunting between her legs. It aint a porno movie.
    Be patient with her. Understand that she may be very surprised and worried that you're suggesting something she may never had thought of. She may think you want an excuse to go fucking other women or she may just feel repulsed. Help her to understand that it's not a bad thing and that it might be fun to explore. Help her to understand that it's surprised you as well.

    Talk.

    However, having spent two years in a semi-open relationship where my partner is free to fuck whomever she wants (I'm not in the least interested in other women), I've got to say that it's an incredible turn on. I've watched her being fucked and joined in, listened to her being fucked several times, sent her out on dates where she's sucked guys and being fingered and groped in public, licked and fucked her straight after a man's finished ass fucking her, and I get regular photos on my phone of what she gets up to while I'm at work. I wouldn't change it for the world.

    For some men who are strong enough and kinky enough to enjoy it - it's fantastic. For others, it isn't.

    Good luck.
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    Wanting to watch your partner have sex with somebody is sick and perverted.
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    Well, that's something. You might want to talk with your wife about it.It's really hard when you just keep it to yourself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by thinskin View Post
    Every male gets horny at the thought of their wife, girlfriend, spouse, whatever, getting it on with someone else. It is hard-wired evolutionarily because your selfish genes want to compete with the other guys. Therefore the image of your mate fucking some-one else stimulates you so that your sperms will compete with his when you fuck her immediately after he has finished with her.
    not true. I've been over this several times with hubby and he has absolutely no interest in sharing what is "his" with ANYONE. He's joined the army and I've pointed out that I highly doubt that I could remain faithful if he gets deployed for a year or more. I asked if we could discuss acceptable ways to open the relationship while he's away and he pretty much shut down. I just personally would rather have his permission and not need it then fuck up and screw someone after promising I wouldn't. But he won't even discuss the issue. Just keeps saying "we'll cross that bridge when we get to it". Personally, I don't care what his restrictions/conditions are. He could tell me I can only have sex with a specific person of his choosing. Or I'm only allowed to have sex five times while he's gone. Or that it has to be someone he doesn't know... or someone he does. I really don't care. But I'd much rather know his preference before I just give up and fuck someone that makes cheating even worse just because of WHO it was with, ya know?

    Anyhow, point is, not ALL men get off on this. I've even asked for a MMF and he's against the idea. I really do just love the idea of giving while receiving. And getting two guys off at once would just make me feel AMAZING. But hubby's not into it. So it just won't happen.
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    not saying theres anything wrong with it... im into lots of crazy shit... but i dont want anyone fucking my wife but me and what ever woman i can convince her to fuck...(i met her in a 3-sum)... now (in my own delusional world) i can fuck whom ever i want.... but her... nope...... just my opinion ...take it or leave it
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