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    So my girlfriend and I have decided that we want to experiment with anal sex. She's never done it before, and therefore her ass is really tight. any suggestions/tips/advice on making it easier and more pleasurable on the both of us would be greatly appreciated.
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    Take your time! Lots of fore play! Go at her pace almost let her take control. Use a good lube specific for anal play (there are some with relaxents and warming solutions). Build up. Don't be afraid to kiss lick tickle 1finger 2 etc if you have small toy she can use so she cam control it herself. Also make sure your clean! Also keep her legs together it naturally relaxes the anus.

    My first time we spent close to an hour on fore play/warming up and she went on top. Tied me up and blind folded me that way she could go as fast or as slow deep or as shallow.

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    I got a small toy to start out with, about 3/4 inch dia. Do a finger then the toy then your cock with lube! And yes, go slow..
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    LUBE and take your time be gentle and dont force her or it will not be fun
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    Well, I tried anal and didn't like it, so understand that just because she agrees to try it doesn't mean she'll like it, regardless of all the preparing you do.

    I would make sure she is cleaned out with an enema (you can get one called Fleet at the drug store) or use a laxative called Magnesium Citrate. It's a clear liquid and comes in flavors like lemon and cherry. People use it to clean out their colon before getting a colonoscopy. It TOTALLY cleans you out. It can happen fairly quickly, but not always. Sometimes it takes a few hours. Read the directions. You take the recommended dose and then drink a full glass of water.

    Yes, definitely start small - small toy or finger. In the interest of cleanliness you might want to wear a rubber glove. Keep in mind, even with an enema or laxative, the rectum is NOT sterile and the bacteria there don't belong in the vagina. So a glove for your hand and a condom for your cock is a good idea, and it just makes for easier cleanup.

    As for lube, a warming lube is good or perhaps a thicker gel type lube. Personally I think the numbing anal lubes that have things like benzocaine are a bad idea. Pain is a signal that things are going too hard, too fast. Artificially numbing her asshole could lead to an actual injury. Not good.
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    It is going to hurt there are no two ways about it its just how much it is going to hurt her so go slow (think of how slow youd need it if you had a 7 inch cock going up your ass) use lube and lots of it if you have to think have i got enough lube the answer is no and you need more and prep by foreplay and using a small anal toy
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hornyboy250 View Post
    So my girlfriend and I have decided that we want to experiment with anal sex. She's never done it before
    Bet she has
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    This is a great thread everyone especially knoxvillainswife link have good ideas how to go about anal. X
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hornyboy250 View Post
    So my girlfriend and I have decided that we want to experiment with anal sex. She's never done it before, and therefore her ass is really tight. any suggestions/tips/advice on making it easier and more pleasurable on the both of us would be greatly appreciated.
    A couple of additions that I would include:

    I prefer starting off with using my fingers, rather than a toy. It's a lot more intimate, and it gives you (the one on the giving end of the anal) much better feedback on what the bottom's butthole is doing as you play with it.

    For someone just starting off with anal, use lots of lube and spend time just massaging and teasing her butthole with a finger tip, don't even try inserting the fingertip until she's sure she's ready for it. Take your time. Dont think you're going to be power fucking her butt like she's a seasoned porn star the first time you play. Personally I love spending a lot of time teasing the bottom at this point.

    It seems counter intuitive, but it helps if the bottom pushes out gently with their butthole against your finger (or toy), then relax, then push gently, then relax. As they stop pushing against you and relax, their butt will tend to relax and pull you in. This also works for vaginal fisting, but that's a separate topic.

    If you're using your fingers, consider using gloves. Gloves are a good idea for safer sex, but even if you use unprotected sex with your partner, gloves are worth considering. Lube lasts longer if you're wearing gloves, since the lube doesn't get soaked up into the skin of your fingers. They also cover any calluses, untrimmed fingernails or rough spots that can scrape. I prefer nitrile gloves over latex, because of the risk of developing latex allergies.

    Butt play is wonderful, if you're both into it. If she finds out she's not into it, respect her wishes and find something else to experiment with.
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    Quote Originally Posted by delinquent_angel View Post

    It seems counter intuitive, but it helps if the bottom pushes out gently with their butthole against your finger (or toy), then relax, then push gently, then relax. As they stop pushing against you and relax, their butt will tend to relax and pull you in. This also works for vaginal fisting, but that's a separate topic.
    REALLY? I've really been wanting to try that...we've come close but no success. I should probably stop thinking about it, cause it'll be months till I see him, but does it really work?
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    Quote Originally Posted by knoxvillainswife View Post
    REALLY? I've really been wanting to try that...we've come close but no success. I should probably stop thinking about it, cause it'll be months till I see him, but does it really work?
    Do you mean about it working with the vaginal fisting? It works better with butt play, but it does help with vaginal fisting as well. The trick is to find the right balance between pushing enough that it helps relax the muscles when you stop pushing, without pushing too hard, which will just tense things up down there.
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    Quote Originally Posted by delinquent_angel View Post
    Do you mean about it working with the vaginal fisting? It works better with butt play, but it does help with vaginal fisting as well. The trick is to find the right balance between pushing enough that it helps relax the muscles when you stop pushing, without pushing too hard, which will just tense things up down there.
    Yes, that's exactly what I wanted too know, TY very much angel! And practice makes perfect...which I look forwards too doing
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    Quote Originally Posted by knoxvillainswife View Post
    Yes, that's exactly what I wanted too know, TY very much angel! And practice makes perfect...which I look forwards too doing
    Always happy to help someone learn something new.
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    Default thank you very much!

    thanks so much for the tips and advice, guys and girls. I will be sure to let you know how it went. :D
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