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    I am trying to find girls to chat with, but n one seems interested. How can I seem more interesting to the ladies?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Slickcock54 View Post
    I am trying to find girls to chat with, but n one seems interested. How can I seem more interesting to the ladies?
    Get away from the computer and get out of the house, most women are suspicious of men on the other side of a keyboard? Literal interactions are the only way to learn how to socialize and that will come through over the keyboard eventually?
    Before worrying if He or She will cheat determine what you could be doing to change that and fix it, rather then fixating on it!
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    Win about 10 million quid on the lottery, show a girl your bank balance and that guarantees you any woman, money is all they give a fuck about, ignore all this bullshit about personality and humour.
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    Don't be too much of a pervert when you first meet her. After that, you have to be able to judge things by her reaction.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Woman Beater View Post
    Win about 10 million quid on the lottery, show a girl your bank balance and that guarantees you any woman, money is all they give a fuck about, ignore all this bullshit about personality and humour.
    Unfortunately, all too true way too much of the time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Slickcock54 View Post
    I am trying to find girls to chat with, but n one seems interested. How can I seem more interesting to the ladies?
    Interesting the way you put that...you want to SEEM more interesting to the ladies while not actually BEING more interesting.

    But I'll tell you that from my perspective, a guy with 21 posts who wants to "chat" is inherently suspect. I like to get to know people a little better than that. You could be an axe-murderer for all I know.
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    Think about your interests and if there are ways that you can find women who might be interested in the same things. At the same time, you want to show you are interested in what she is interested in. If the interest is genuine, you might well be surprised.

    The worst thing you can do is be a fake. As a fake you will lose friends - men and women, so be true to yourself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kimiko View Post
    Interesting the way you put that...you want to SEEM more interesting to the ladies while not actually BEING more interesting.
    Most guys seem to these days.
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    Start by referring to women as, 'women'... not, 'the ladies'. It sounds smarmy and reveals you as objectifying them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Milo Cronos View Post
    Get away from the computer and get out of the house, most women are suspicious of men on the other side of a keyboard? Literal interactions are the only way to learn how to socialize and that will come through over the keyboard eventually?
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    1) be confident. Talk to them like you would talk to anyone else, be polite, funny, charming, smile, but do use them all at once just easy it in. You want her to be comfortable talking to you. You must know every girl has been brought up to believe men want only sex. well that make be partially true you have to break that veneer and show her you are genuine and that you want to get to know her. When i was in college i realised girls are all about themselves, some would leave a cellphone on the table and all i had to do was ask "excuse me miss, what kind of phone is that?" and they would just give you literally an ear-full about that phone they have and when and where they bought it etc... shortly after they finish i introduce myself and ask what their name is, you can even squeeze a phone number out too in this situation.

    2) try not to be in situations where the woman would have her guard up. ie, trying to pick a girl up a the bar (if she isnt drunk already). I've been told the most easiest places to get to know women are school and work. though work is really dependant on the industry you work in (some are very male dominated) and since i've been out of college, i look back and realised it was all true...a lot of the women i know are because of school. There are the odd few that you randomly run into but those are rarer cases. (then again depends how "Casanova" you are)

    3) dress to impress. girls like a guy that knows how to take care of themselves, after all why is a girl going to get all dressed up and pretty for you if you don't do it for yourself? so get yourself a nice cologne, wear clothes that fit you, and look a woman in the eyes when talking to them.

    4) get to know her. ask questions about her, if she asks you a question you answer and ask for her opinion. also don't be clingly or needy that tends to be a big turn off for most women in my opinion.

    there are more these are just off the top of my head
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    Quote Originally Posted by Woman Beater View Post
    Win about 10 million quid on the lottery, show a girl your bank balance and that guarantees you any woman, money is all they give a fuck about, ignore all this bullshit about personality and humour.
    Your name and your quote would both be turn offs for many real women. The shallow ones, you can have and deserve.


    Quote Originally Posted by FamilyFuckerIII View Post
    Don't be too much of a pervert when you first meet her. After that, you have to be able to judge things by her reaction.
    I find your quote very ironic considering your name, but hey maybe you'll find like minded girls somewhere.

    Quote Originally Posted by Charlie_creamer View Post
    Think about your interests and if there are ways that you can find women who might be interested in the same things. At the same time, you want to show you are interested in what she is interested in. If the interest is genuine, you might well be surprised.

    The worst thing you can do is be a fake. As a fake you will lose friends - men and women, so be true to yourself.

    Excellent advice!!! OP, take notes from here on. It's all about similar interests.

    Quote Originally Posted by bluntx View Post
    1) be confident.

    2) try not to be in situations where the woman would have her guard up.

    3) dress to impress.

    4) get to know her. ask questions about her, if she asks you a question you answer and ask for her opinion. also don't be clingly or needy that tends to be a big turn off for most women in my opinion.
    Great quote, shortened for clarity and space.
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    Quote Originally Posted by heycman View Post
    Start by referring to women as, 'women'... not, 'the ladies'. It sounds smarmy and reveals you as objectifying them.
    Being called a woman, just like being called a man, is something one has to earn. Not every male is a man and not every female is a woman.
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    hmm dont be overly sexual at first, especially on the interwebz. maybe get a hobby? just be yourself and dont be judgmental. when i meet guys who are super judgmental of other people i end up not liking them very much
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    Quote Originally Posted by bluntx View Post
    1) be confident. Talk to them like you would talk to anyone else, be polite, funny, charming, smile, but do use them all at once just easy it in. You want her to be comfortable talking to you. You must know every girl has been brought up to believe men want only sex. well that make be partially true you have to break that veneer and show her you are genuine and that you want to get to know her. When i was in college i realised girls are all about themselves, some would leave a cellphone on the table and all i had to do was ask "excuse me miss, what kind of phone is that?" and they would just give you literally an ear-full about that phone they have and when and where they bought it etc... shortly after they finish i introduce myself and ask what their name is, you can even squeeze a phone number out too in this situation.

    2) try not to be in situations where the woman would have her guard up. ie, trying to pick a girl up a the bar (if she isnt drunk already). I've been told the most easiest places to get to know women are school and work. though work is really dependant on the industry you work in (some are very male dominated) and since i've been out of college, i look back and realised it was all true...a lot of the women i know are because of school. There are the odd few that you randomly run into but those are rarer cases. (then again depends how "Casanova" you are)

    3) dress to impress. girls like a guy that knows how to take care of themselves, after all why is a girl going to get all dressed up and pretty for you if you don't do it for yourself? so get yourself a nice cologne, wear clothes that fit you, and look a woman in the eyes when talking to them.

    4) get to know her. ask questions about her, if she asks you a question you answer and ask for her opinion. also don't be clingly or needy that tends to be a big turn off for most women in my opinion.

    there are more these are just off the top of my head
    This is solid advice.
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    Quote Originally Posted by N.E. Woman View Post
    Your name and your quote would both be turn offs for many real women. The shallow ones, you can have and deserve.




    I find your quote very ironic considering your name, but hey maybe you'll find like minded girls somewhere.




    Excellent advice!!! OP, take notes from here on. It's all about similar interests.



    Great quote, shortened for clarity and space.
    Wow,,you really think the usernames are a reflection of a real person, his name and his interests?....wow, you must be dumb...no really you must be...no honestly I mean it, you have to be so backwards uncle fucking retarded to think a username on a forum concentrated on sexual activity and fantasy is a true and honest reflection of a human being...really
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    Impress us with your words and someone will chat you up.
    No girl wants to chat with someone who can't turn them on.
    Words can be far more sexy then pics when you can use them, I'm looking for a man who can give good word.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Woman Beater View Post
    Wow,,you really think the usernames are a reflection of a real person, his name and his interests?....wow, you must be dumb...no really you must be...no honestly I mean it, you have to be so backwards uncle fucking retarded to think a username on a forum concentrated on sexual activity and fantasy is a true and honest reflection of a human being...really
    Not really. The fact that you would think it was even remotely the least bit okay to have a username like "Woman Beater" speaks volumes about you whether you want to acknowledge it or not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Slickcock54 View Post
    I am trying to find girls to chat with, but n one seems interested. How can I seem more interesting to the ladies?
    I will only say that chatting is the beginning of a relationship. Whether that relationship is for love or lust, it is the goal of the woman to determine.

    My strongest advice I could possibly give is this:

    I never had more women until I stopped looking.

    I should hope that causes you to pause and take note. The woman chooses her mate afterall. Your best effort should be placed in being the mate they would choose.

    Of course, it is always best to be a gentleman.
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    Quote Originally Posted by baller16 View Post
    Not really. The fact that you would think it was even remotely the least bit okay to have a username like "Woman Beater" speaks volumes about you whether you want to acknowledge it or not.
    .....hmm?, sorry baller did you say something?, I couldn't hear you over the sound of not giving a fuck about anything a child says.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DizzyFanGirl View Post
    Impress us with your words and someone will chat you up.
    No girl wants to chat with someone who can't turn them on.
    Why are you "encouraging" him, in vain, almost for sure, to keep on using his keyboard, instead of going out, in the real life?!?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Woman Beater View Post
    Wow,,you really think the usernames are a reflection of a real person, his name and his interests?....wow, you must be dumb...no really you must be...no honestly I mean it, you have to be so backwards uncle fucking retarded to think a username on a forum concentrated on sexual activity and fantasy is a true and honest reflection of a human being...really
    There is some reason you chose your particular name.... It wasn't randomly given to you. You could be in the BDSM lifestyle, there are other members that are, but you don't see them with your chosen name.

    As for all your insults, I just look at the source and easily dismiss them and you. You obviously have issues where women are concerned, being on a porn forum has nothing to do with common decency, or the lack of it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ovid58 View Post
    Why are you "encouraging" him, in vain, almost for sure, to keep on using his keyboard, instead of going out, in the real life?!?
    Because confidence doesn't happen so easy.
    maybe if he learns how attract girls online he can use that as a start.
    Once he learns how to talk to a girl he can move away from the keyboard.
    For some guys its a step by step process.
    Words can be far more sexy then pics when you can use them, I'm looking for a man who can give good word.
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    Quote Originally Posted by N.E. Woman View Post
    I find your quote very ironic considering your name, but hey maybe you'll find like minded girls somewhere.
    It is your right to fear your latent sexual urges. I thought you would have heard of polygamy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by N.E. Woman View Post
    There is some reason you chose your particular name.... It wasn't randomly given to you. You could be in the BDSM lifestyle, there are other members that are, but you don't see them with your chosen name.

    As for all your insults, I just look at the source and easily dismiss them and you. You obviously have issues where women are concerned, being on a porn forum has nothing to do with common decency, or the lack of it.
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