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    Is a man who sucks a cock while in the presence of women necessarily bisexual? Why do we see bisexuality as fine for women, but often a problem for a man?

    I see myself as hetero, but I know I have sucked a cock, and had my cock sucked by a guy when we were with our partners. The sucking added to the sexual pleasure all around.

    If you are getting together with another couple would you feel uncomfortable if the men sucked each others' cocks, possibly to orgasm?
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    If you do anything with another mans penis, anything at all that is intention, from touching to fucking, you are bisexual in some way. Don't fool yourself and try to say you're straight because you're not. I don't care the circumstances of how it happened, bisexual is bisexual. I'm not saying it's wrong just don't lie to yourself. People often judge other people. Many women see bisexual women as wrong. Tv just glorifies bisexual women more. It's your business and nobody elses, don't tell anyone and you won't have a problem with that. That's what I do, I just don't tell anyone except a small handful of very trusted nonjudgemental people.
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    I agree with Icouldnotbeoriginal ! I am bisexual and damned happy that I am.
    If you have sucked a cock, regardless of the situation, you are definitely BISEXUAL!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by axsiter View Post
    I agree with Icouldnotbeoriginal ! I am bisexual and damned happy that I am.
    If you have sucked a cock, regardless of the situation, you are definitely BISEXUAL!!
    THANK YOU! I read this all day long. Something along the lines of "I suck dick and get fucked in the ass but i'm straight." It's bullshit. I'm not knocking it and you can lie to other people, but never lie to yourself. Bad things happen when you lie to yourself.
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    When I say I am hetero, I honestly don't see myself as kidding myself. I recognize that I have bisexual awareness and am not afraid to admit it. At the same time, when I have spoken with gay men they have told me they do not see me as anything other than hetero - even when they know I have sucked cock.

    If I had fantasies about being with a man without a woman being involved I would agree with you totally. Point is, I don't.

    BTW, my wife has had experiences with another woman, but it has never been something she has wanted - more to please me, not herself. I see her as definitely hetero, also.
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    Whatever the circumstances behind you fantasizing about another man is irrelevant. You fantasy about other men and you suck other mens dick. You are not hetero or straight you are bisexual at the very least. Tell yourself whatever you want to help you sleep at night but the truth is you are bisexual in some way. If you were straight, you wouldn't of sucked a dick. I don't care what a gay man told you. Just because he is gay does not mean he knows much. I've told guys they are straight before so they felt comfortable enough to mess around with me. It's a pretty effective tactic.
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    I also sucked dick and let my dick suck. I mean i could never kiss a men. but i like dick. thats it. that makes me bi as well
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    I picture sexuality more on a line them separate definite points. You don't have to be straight, bi, or gay. There are in betweens. Perhaps you are in between bi and straight - more like bi curious.

    It doesn't really matter though. If it feels good, do it. Don't worry about labels.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Charlie_creamer View Post
    Is a man who sucks a cock while in the presence of women necessarily bisexual? Why do we see bisexuality as fine for women, but often a problem for a man?
    I think you may have an issue with bisexual men yourself...

    If you engange in sexual activities with a person of the same sex your bisexual! Forget any other caveats etc you want to put on it, be honest with yourself!

    And not all women are fine with bisexuality either. Hetro, Bisexual, Homosexual are all individual comfort zones.

    I am bisexual but I have never had a problem with another women not finding it appealling. Nor do I have any issue with gay women, and have enjoyed the company of some wondefrully gay women over the years.

    Bit I don't expect every woman to be interested. Just as not all men would be interested.

    If your situation is true, I think you yourself have issues with admitting your bisexual in front of others.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nympho View Post
    I picture sexuality more on a line them separate definite points. You don't have to be straight, bi, or gay. There are in betweens. Perhaps you are in between bi and straight - more like bi curious.

    It doesn't really matter though. If it feels good, do it. Don't worry about labels.
    Frankly, it has seldom been an issue. I do, think though, that men who insist they could never even touch a cock really do have an issue with their own sexuality.

    I bet your hubby likes to enjoy you either directly or watching you with others - men or women.
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    I would not worry about labels if it feels good do it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cumuncut View Post
    I would not worry about labels if it feels good do it.
    I am not concerned about labels, but I find it interesting how rigidly some people feel bisexuality must be defined.
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    Some define "bisexual" as being capable of falling in love with either sex, not just having sex with someone of the same sex. By that definition, I am heterosexual. I have only fallen in love with women.

    Others define "bisexual" as choosing to have sex with both the opposite sex and one's own sex. By that definition, I am bisexual. Most of my sexual experiences have been with women. But I have had lots of really good sex with men and hope to again many times in the future.
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    Default I believe that I am 'bi'...

    I'm a male. When I was young I had sex with other males mostly because there were no females available at the time. We were horny boys, and the sex felt great and was a lot of fun. I prefer females, but although I haven't had 'same' sex for decades now, I'd engage it under the right circumstances.
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    Are you sure you are not gay?
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    Quote Originally Posted by virginal vixen View Post
    Are you sure you are not gay?
    Well he doesn't sound it as gay usually means only interested in the same sex and he is clearly having sex with women.

    I'd say bisexual, but that covers a very wide range of desires in my book, there's not a defined line between hetero and gay that marks you as bisexual, some mystical point perfectly in the middle that is the domain of the bisexual. I view it as more of a great big grey area, some people may be more hetero orientated and some more gay orientated but if you desire sexual interaction with both sexes I would say that qualifies you as bisexual.

    Just the way it works in my head, I'm also cool with the no labels thing but I do worry about people who deny bisexuality out of homophobic fear. Denying your true self out of fear is not healthy for the mind or soul.
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    I love to watch gay and bi porn, and I fantasize about sucking and fucking another man, and being sucked and fucked. Have never done either, though; no contact with another man. Wouldn't be in it for romance, either, no kissing or nipple play. Just sex.
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    Actually according to dictionary.com Bisexual is defined as - being sexually responsive to both sexes.

    Sexuality has nothing to do with dating preferences or love. It has to do with who you'll have sex with, not who you have feelings for.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Charlie_creamer View Post
    I am not concerned about labels, but I find it interesting how rigidly some people feel bisexuality must be defined.
    It sounds sort of funny that you would find it interesting that people feel bisexuality must be defined. Yet you are the one who admits to sucking a cock, yet you still see yourself as a heterosexual!
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    Quote Originally Posted by cumuncut View Post
    I would not worry about labels if it feels good do it.
    Hear, hear! I love making out and having sex with men and women, individually and together. You are so right, if it feels good, do it and don't worry about it.
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    Bisexual, hmmm it means different things to different people. I think true bisexuals are comfortable in a relationship with either sex. Not just the sex act itself. Then there are people who engage in various forms of homosexual activities which may be situational in nature. Guys in jail are a good example.

    While I consider myself straight, I will engage in some light male to male play if we're in a threesome with my wife. I wouldnt do anything with a guy solo. I don't get hung up on the label.
    If what I rarely do means I'm bisexual then okay.

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    I love pussy and like cock.I AM BI
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    do you suck cock JUST to make the female happy or do you like/want to suck cock.....thats the ????????
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    Default it's just sex

    and I agree with a lot of the posts. Explore your sexuality and enjoy sex. Cum and make your partner cum and just have fun...

    and if you want fun PM me. haha
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    Well , my opinion , Maybe if U sucked him and he sucked U and both had an orgasm , I would say it's just part of a sexual pleasure for that time being. If U would go for "anal intercourse" then I would say , "Yes" bi-sexual. Just a blow job , dont worry , U enjoyed it.
    Im straight and married and would not mind watching another male blowing my cock but I dont think I would blow his.....
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    Well , my opinion , Maybe if U sucked him and he sucked U and both had an orgasm , I would say it's just part of a sexual pleasure for that time being. If U would go for "anal intercourse" then I would say , "Yes" bi-sexual. Just a blow job , dont worry , U enjoyed it.
    Im straight and married and would not mind watching another male blowing my cock but I dont think I would blow his.........
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    Well I guess I'm bi sexual. There I said it. If I'm eating her pussy, shes not getting away until she has an orgasm! If I could, and would suck a nice hard cock, same goes for him. I enjoy getting anal from my wife, and solo with my vibe,I guess that tells the tale right there.Labels,to funny!I pissed farther than you,my dicks bigger,my tounges longer.Who the fuck cares,enjoy your sexuallity!Stay clean,be safe,and have an orgasm!
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    labels are for products not people who cares as long as u have fun
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    I have never sucked a cock but I have thought about it often It make me hard as a rock when watch gay porn My wife is on board for a threesome MMf but advice on what could change in our ives would be helpful. Also am I considered gay bi or straight?
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    Quote Originally Posted by rowdy3128 View Post
    do you suck cock JUST to make the female happy or do you like/want to suck cock.....thats the ????????
    After all she only did it for your benefit, which in your eyes makes her hetero.
    It's all about intent.
    If you intend to suck cock again, yes you ARE bisexual.
    If you sucked that cock hoping and praying that she wouldn't reject you over it, yes you ARE bisexual.
    If you did it once for her benefit and would not do it again for any other reason, you might consider yourself "curious"... until you do it again because you liked it.



    Icouldnotbeoriginal999 hit the nail on the head with an actual definition of the term.
    "means something different for everyone" is bullshit, and nothing more than changing the definition of a word to suit your own agenda.

    It must suck fearing one's own sexuality, and need to validate it with denial. (no pun intended)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Charlie_creamer View Post
    Is a man who sucks a cock while in the presence of women necessarily bisexual?
    No it makes him a cocksucker.

    Why do we see bisexuality as fine for women, but often a problem for a man?
    Because a lot of men are afraid of their own sexual feelings towards guys or have been conditioned by their upbringing.

    I see myself as hetero, but I know I have sucked a cock, and had my cock sucked by a guy when we were with our partners. The sucking added to the sexual pleasure all around.

    If you see yourself as hetero then that's what you are. Nobody else's opinion is relevant to your own feelings towards yourself.

    If you are getting together with another couple would you feel uncomfortable if the men sucked each others' cocks, possibly to orgasm?

    In my case I would expect it and therefore would not feel uncomfortable. Orgasm is a completion mechanism. One may or may not wish to complete the process in this way simply a matter of circumstances at the time.

    I've been sexually active for over 40 years and guess what - during that time I have had experiences with both sexes and enjoyed most of them.

    I really couldn't care less whether narrow minded people feel the need to label me, but from the above posts there are plenty who do!!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by racer cx View Post
    labels are for products not people who cares as long as u have fun

    Labels are for people too.How else can we be able to date someone that we actually want to date?
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    Quote Originally Posted by virginal vixen View Post
    Labels are for people too.How else can we be able to date someone that we actually want to date?
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    Some obviously believe there are hard lines. Gay or Strait. Others will see some shade of grey and will see Gay, Strait and Bi. I personally believe there are many, many "shades of grey" (haha) in there. The way I see it is, if you are sexually attracted to the opposite sex only, you're strait. If you're sexually attracted to the same sex only, you're gay. If on the other hand you're equally attracted to both, you're bi. But I think there are different levels to being "bi". A Kensey scale.

    I'll give an example of someone I would not exactly classify as gay or strait, or even really bi. Say a guy is into BDSM/humiliation and he sees himself as a bottom. He's only sexually attracted to women. Now, he's with a woman who is a Top and into the same things. She gets off on humiliating him with "roll reversal" "forced fem" type scenarios, where she pounds him with strap-ons, dildoes, vibes, and even fists. And to top it off, she "forces" him to suck other guys cocks and get fucked by them. He may get off, but he gets off on the humiliation of doing something he doesn't like and being forced to. I'd say he's mostly strait.

    I'd just say, stop worries about gay/strait/bi and do what you enjoy!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Morbidreams View Post
    Some obviously believe there are hard lines. Gay or Strait. Others will see some shade of grey and will see Gay, Strait and Bi. I personally believe there are many, many "shades of grey" (haha) in there. The way I see it is, if you are sexually attracted to the opposite sex only, you're strait. If you're sexually attracted to the same sex only, you're gay. If on the other hand you're equally attracted to both, you're bi. But I think there are different levels to being "bi". A Kensey scale.

    I'll give an example of someone I would not exactly classify as gay or strait, or even really bi. Say a guy is into BDSM/humiliation and he sees himself as a bottom. He's only sexually attracted to women. Now, he's with a woman who is a Top and into the same things. She gets off on humiliating him with "roll reversal" "forced fem" type scenarios, where she pounds him with strap-ons, dildoes, vibes, and even fists. And to top it off, she "forces" him to suck other guys cocks and get fucked by them. He may get off, but he gets off on the humiliation of doing something he doesn't like and being forced to. I'd say he's mostly strait.

    I'd just say, stop worries about gay/strait/bi and do what you enjoy!
    I hate labels. I started watching gay porn. I really enjoyed watching two men give each other blow jobs. I then thought about tring giving a blow to a guy. When I got the chance I went for it. And I loved if. I thought thats all I wanted to do but the second time I had the chance to be with another guy I decieded I wanted to try everything with a guy. Kissing each other from head to head. He then talked me into tring anal. That feeling of a dick in me was the best feeling in the world. My next thing I want to try is to have 3 or 4 guys at one time. I want to be there slut for the weekend. Thats next on my list. Just need to find the men to help me with that.
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    In my years of wrestling I'm pretty sure my cock rubbed against other guys cocks or balls more than a few times.. does this make me "bi" ?

    Some people love to over analyze the shit out of stuff.

    Girls get drunk and make out with each other, touch each others tits, mainly for attention, that doesn't mean they are gay or bi.

    Imagine if dudes acted like this?
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    I think that most people are attracted to the same sex to a certain degree, just depends wether it's only 0.1%, 5%, 10%, 20%, 50% etc etc.
    Women and men are becoming more and more like each other so bisexuality will become more and more common.
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