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    So on a typical day at work I will surf this forum and look at pictures, read stories and watch video. I have also gotten into watching chaturbate.com. I will edge myself 3-5 times a day. Now when I say edge, I don't mean that I get myself to the breaking point and I stop. No, I masturbate through my pants until I reach orgasm, but I clinch my muscles tight enough that nothing but a little pre-cum escapes.

    Later, at night when I get home (since my wife is preggo with twins and has -100% libido) I will masturbate to ejaculation. Since I started this routine, my ejaculate has been watery. My question is: Is this kind of edging harmful? Am I creating a problem internally by reaching climax without actually ejaculating? There are no other symptoms beyond the watery, and usually mostly clear, ejaculate at the end of the day.

    Any advice, answers, suggestions are most welcome!
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    I'm no expert on this, so will happily be corrected by anyone with more knowledge, but I am quite experienced with more conventional masturbation

    My opening suggestion would be this - forget the "edging" thing that you're doing for a while (as far as I know, you're not edging technically anyway) and try just jacking off to completion 3-5 times a day and see what happens. When you do your final wank at home I think you'll find your cum looks about the same as you're currently seeing it. As you ejaculate throughout the day, the percentage of sperm to ejaculatory fluid will shift in favour of the fluid, which results in a much more watery load (you can only produce so many swimmers a day).

    Fundamentally, it cums down to this - you are ejaculating. Just because you are using your muscles to hold it back, doesn't mean it isn't happening - it'll come out later, probably when you pee.

    Edging is a different thing all together. You take yourself to the point of orgasm but don't allow release. I've tried it a few times, but the thing I realised is it takes more practice than I'm willing to put in to get it right consistently. When you get it right, you eventually "sit" at that sensation of being just about to cum for ages which is incredibly intense. When you eventually shoot, it's amazing.

    Perhaps someone who actually edges regularly can chime in, 'cos I know you guys are out there
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    As far as I know there are no health issues specifically related to this. I believe the currently viewpoint is that in order to maintain testicular health a man should ejaculate at least three times a week. I think I also read somewhere that ejaculating too frequently can lead to prostate problems in later life, but I'm not sure I'm convinced by that.
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    I thought edging means stopping before you have an orgasm! or is it different for guys
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    I don't call what I do edging....I like to be hard for an hour or so then I can cum hard...sometimes it's so good it hurts a little...
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    Quote Originally Posted by cinnamonlisa View Post
    I thought edging means stopping before you have an orgasm! or is it different for guys
    Nope, not different for guys! It's taking yourself to the point of orgasm then stopping (or at least slowing down a lot) until the urge passes, at which point you go for it again. There are guys who masturbate for literally hours that way before allowing themselves release. It's supposed to be incredible. Personally, the longest I've managed is an hour before I couldn't control myself!

    It's also an excellent domination technique, BTW!
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    Quote Originally Posted by AnythingForMistress View Post
    Nope, not different for guys! It's taking yourself to the point of orgasm then stopping (or at least slowing down a lot) until the urge passes, at which point you go for it again. There are guys who masturbate for literally hours that way before allowing themselves release. It's supposed to be incredible.
    I can do that too! well not for hours
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    just started edging and I must say it feels great. you need some time as it's not a quick technique. found that rubbing my palm in a circular motion around the head of my dick is the best feeling, drives me crazy!! love taking myself to the point of cumming, stopping and starting the process over again. precumm just drips out of my dick....
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    Quote Originally Posted by cinnamonlisa View Post
    I can do that too! well not for hours
    Glad to hear you don't do it for hours - just based on your "My Boobs" pic, someone as hot as you going hours without an orgasm would be criminal! Even aside from the edging discussion
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    Yea, I should have not called it edging. I know that its not technically edging, which I try to do. Most of the time I am successful for about 20-30 minutes before I have to have the orgasm. I am glad to see that it seems as if I am not doing any harm to myself by edging and holding my ejaculate when I cum.

    I have started working on edging at night, since I last posted. While my wife is in the bed asleep, I will slowly and lightly get myself hard and wanting to cum and then I let it go soft. I do it for about 45 minutes at a time, but I have yet to bring myself right to the brink and stop.
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    Quote Originally Posted by horny bi-guy View Post
    I have yet to bring myself right to the brink and stop.
    thats the toughest thing to do!! stop right on the brink I mean. i lose my willpower the closer I get to the brink.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cinnamonlisa View Post
    thats the toughest thing to do!! stop right on the brink I mean. i lose my willpower the closer I get to the brink.
    I was able to have my girlfriend edge for over an hour. When she finally got off all she did was touch her breast and suddenly squirted so big and hard, I tried to get her to simmer for a while and build her back up for another explosion, but she was so exhilarated and coming so hard she almost couldn't catch her breath. It was amazing.
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