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    Default Call me a slut, I DARE you.

    Am I the only person who hates in porn when the guy(s) are busy calling the girl a slut or a bitch or a whore or when the girl(s) are calling themselves that? It makes me very uncomfortable.

    Likewise, are there any people who actually like that kind of thing?

    Guys, do you like when a girl you're with calls themselves a slut or wants you to call them that?

    And girls, is it really gratifying to call yourself a whore?

    When I've been called that sort of thing during something sexual it's a total turn off. I just want to stop right then, because it makes me feel horrible.

    If a guy is going to give me that kind of title, he should at least pay me a few hundred for my time, right?
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    stupid fuckin slut learn your place
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    Quote Originally Posted by katydid696969 View Post
    stupid fuckin slut learn your place
    Wow. You're an asshole. Congratz.
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    i really dont see the point in that type of dirty talk but to each their own
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    Quote Originally Posted by silver2leaves View Post
    Am I the only person who hates in porn when the guy(s) are busy calling the girl a slut or a bitch or a whore or when the girl(s) are calling themselves that? It makes me very uncomfortable.

    Likewise, are there any people who actually like that kind of thing?

    Guys, do you like when a girl you're with calls themselves a slut or wants you to call them that?

    And girls, is it really gratifying to call yourself a whore?

    When I've been called that sort of thing during something sexual it's a total turn off. I just want to stop right then, because it makes me feel horrible.

    If a guy is going to give me that kind of title, he should at least pay me a few hundred for my time, right?

    I've never been into that, i just think its really demeaning. Thats also why hate dong cumshots on a girls face, i personally feel stuff like that is just there to make the girl feel like a lower being then the guy.

    Might just be me though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by silver2leaves View Post
    Wow. You're an asshole. Congratz.
    Now now, you should know better then to feed the trolls
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fatalmoomoo View Post
    Now now, you should know better then to feed the trolls
    Actually, I was thinking I might start handing out medals.
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    yeah its just personal preference.

    i do like calling a girl names like that in bed and i like hearing her use those terms as well. the reason is not because i actually think she is, but because it is so different than the way my girlfriend usually acts. she is very prim and proper. before me she was a virgin even so she is by no means a whore or a slut. its just a fantasy if you will. above all though both you and your partner have to be comfortable with it! if my girlfriend wasent ok with it i wouldn't do it but she likes it just as much as i do. kinda an alter-ego thing. to each is own i guess
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    To each his/her own I say. Its not particularly a turn on for me.
    My guess is that it has something to do with liking to be dominated/submissive in most cases. In porn its just lame :s
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    Its just dirty talk and it can be used to turn you on more. My man calls me a slut in bed when we talk dirty, and in fact I refer to myself that way, but its never in a derogitory way. "ooh yea your a fuckin slut!" not "you are a slut! thats gross! Im better than you!" Everyone is different but it just makes sex so much more fun. The feeling I get from being a little dirty is a turn on and the words help, but Ill tell you now that if he ever used those words in a malicous way towards me I'd slap him in the face.
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    SLUT!

    you shouldn't have dared me to.
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    I only do it on triple dares with sugar on top! Sorry!
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    Smile Slut can be fun

    Most words have this link in our psyche that rings one or another bell for pain or pleasure. When a guy calls a girl a slut/whore during sex it is his dominating bell that is rang cos he finds pleasure in being in charge. A woman who calls it herself is ringing the receiving pleasure bell because she likes to be dominated.

    I personally like a woman who is a slut but do not like to call women derogatory names during sex unless she tells me she likes it. then I do it for her because it rings my giving pleasure bells.

    Sounds complicated but if you think of it like this:
    We all like pleasure of different sorts. some like to give, some like to take, and some prefer both.

    I think the word slut should be reinvented as a good word that means a man/woman that is comfortable with the fact they love sex with more than one person.

    Also if a person tells people they are a slut it can not be used in a derogatory way as using it to describe yourself in a positive way takes away its insult power.

    Hope this is of help to people.

    By the way, yes I am a slut. I am a man who enjoys sex with any woman, or women, who is willing to share intimacy with me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by katydid696969 View Post
    stupid fuckin slut learn your place
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    Wow. You're an asshole. Congratz.
    You did ask to be called a slut.

    She, however, didn't ask to be called an asshole.

    (I think you may have missed the subtle nuance of katy's reply.)


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    SLUT OR THE NAMES LIKE THAT ITS USED IN STREET. FOR TO WIN GIRL I THINK DO NOT USE THAT!
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    Quote Originally Posted by warm man View Post
    SLUT OR THE NAMES LIKE THAT ITS USED IN STREET. FOR TO WIN GIRL I THINK DO NOT USE THAT!
    Yeah, were trying to win the slut. Who will get the slut first? Let's all run and try our hardest

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    everyone is a slut and whore at some point in their lives.
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    No, I don't like it personally. Although I have met many that do. I used to role play sometimes and I ran into a few women that wanted me to call them names. It wasn't any fun for me.

    In play or not, it is just too derogatory for me to enjoy it.

    I do enjoy my women to have some wildness, but there's no way I'm going to call them names for it. There's a difference in being a bit "slutty" for someone you love, than it is to go out and bang every guy you meet. I wouldn't want that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fatalmoomoo View Post
    I've never been into that, i just think its really demeaning. Thats also why hate dong cumshots on a girls face, i personally feel stuff like that is just there to make the girl feel like a lower being then the guy.

    Might just be me though.
    No, it's not just you.

    In porn it's a turn-off for me - calling the girl a slut, facials, deepthroating-gagging when the girl's obviously not enjoying it... it's just derogatory and the girl's being USED. More so in real life.
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    everyone should just get some manors
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    If I drop a few bills on the nightstand, will you shut up and suck my cock...whore?!Seriously, I have never called my girl a slut or a whore, even when doing a little rp.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SmizZ View Post
    everyone should just get some manors
    Then we'll have some places to store our whores.
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    i love being called a slut or a bitch, i love feeling 'used and abused' during sex. its so hott
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    it IS degrading,and thats the point.

    like other members have said,its a domination/submissive thing.

    submissive women LIKE to be degraded sexually.
    You and your partner should talk about these sorts of things before you actually engage in sex,just to make things smoother.

    I happen to be a sexually submissive chick,and during sex i can dig it.
    but..call me a name like that outside the realms of sex,and ill bitch slap you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lookn4awillin1 View Post
    Then we'll have some places to store our whores.
    This made me giggle sooooo hard! I wish I had a manor.


    And in the bedroom it turns me on to have a guy call me names. But outside of that it would piss me off.
    Everyone has their own kink. *shrugs*
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    Quote Originally Posted by onenauhgtygirl29 View Post
    This made me giggle sooooo hard! I wish I had a manor.


    And in the bedroom it turns me on to have a guy call me names. But outside of that it would piss me off.
    Everyone has their own kink. *shrugs*
    Now Bruce Wayne had a manor...wonder what he stored in the bat cave. And what about Hef, wonder what we're to classify the young ladies who enhance his manor?If someone wants to pay me they can call me whatever they like.
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    so what you can do
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    "If a guy is going to give me that kind of title, he should at least pay me a few hundred for my time, right?"

    If I am giving you a few hundred for your time, I am going to do more than call you a slut, I am going to treat you like one.

    In all seriousness, I have had many partners that enjoyed dirty talk that included calling them sluts and whores. It was all part of the mind fuck that got them off.
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    Well - I am a woman that likes to me dominated and even degraded during sex. I don't know why - it just turns me on soo much. When I am giving a guy oral and he is forcing himself down my throat to make me gag - if he'll call me a slut and spit on my face - it just does it for me. I have no clue why!!!

    Some women would be appalled and probably kill someone lol, but everyone does have their own thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ~*Realigned*~ View Post

    Some women would be appalled and probably kill someone lol, but everyone does have their own thing.
    So very very true.
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    If i was in bed with my lady friend ^.^ i wouldnt call her a slut unless i knew she would like it. i wouldnt risk upsetting her or making her feel bad. i personally treat women like goddesses. And its odd because i havent had many girlfriends. but all the guys i see who are douches to women get a new one every month. im still kinda puzzled by that fact.

    oh well makes sense i like guys to eh?

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    if i am the one catching i like it rough and to be called those things. but its just my taste
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    Quote Originally Posted by onenauhgtygirl29 View Post
    This made me giggle sooooo hard! I wish I had a manor.


    And in the bedroom it turns me on to have a guy call me names. But outside of that it would piss me off.
    Everyone has their own kink. *shrugs*
    that is exactly what i mean
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    I simply can't pass up a dare. So you are a slut??? I don't think so from some of your comments. I have to agree with Bishop on this.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jason_Mackinnon View Post
    I think the word slut should be reinvented as a good word that means a man/woman that is comfortable with the fact they love sex with more than one person..
    Agreed. I think we (women, especially) need to own the word, actually.

    As others have said, it depends on the person/people involved. I enjoy using dirty language in bed (or wherever) - it gets me off. But I can certainly see why some women wouldn't like it, especially if they associate the word a negative imagery.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Caitlain View Post
    Agreed. I think we (women, especially) need to own the word, actually.

    As others have said, it depends on the person/people involved. I enjoy using dirty language in bed (or wherever) - it gets me off. But I can certainly see why some women wouldn't like it, especially if they associate the word a negative imagery.
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