First time concern (gay)

[Youngbicutie]

Hi I have a question I have got a friend who wants to fuck me tommorow night and I accepted but I don't know what it feels like to receive so I would like some help and understanding and what I can do to arouse him more?

[bongzilla]

First make sure and get your ass cleaned out very well, thats probably the first thing.
Then just go with the flow, when he thrusts, you push your ass towards him,
ride that fucker dude.
I know you will figure it out.

And because its your first hard dick, maybe have him lay down dick up and ride him, you can position the dick just right and ride him at your own pace.

[Youngbicutie]

Originally Posted by bongzilla

First make sure and get your ass cleaned out very well, thats probably the first thing.
Then just go with the flow, when he thrusts, you push your ass towards him,
ride that fucker dude.
I know you will figure it out.

And because its your first hard dick, maybe have him lay down dick up and ride him, you can position the dick just right and ride him at your own pace.

Thanks. Is there anything in particular that I can wear to his place that will turn him on more?

[Milo Cronos]

Originally Posted by Youngbicutie

Hi I have a question I have got a friend who wants to fuck me tommorow night and I accepted but I don't know what it feels like to receive so I would like some help and understanding and what I can do to arouse him more?

There's no way of knowing how it'll all turn out so, go slow and warm up together until you feel comfortable enough to try. Lots of foreplay and lube (with condoms) you can easily over think this into oblivion but, no one truly knows how a new sexual partner is going to be until, they're in the thick of sex? Relax and have a good time no pressure to perform, just be there in every moment and if you don't feel it be honest and say, "maybe next time" Hope it all goes well, Milo

[bongzilla]

Originally Posted by Youngbicutie

Thanks. Is there anything in particular that I can wear to his place that will turn him on more?

Every dude is different, for me come in wearing worn jeans, a t shirt, maybe sunglasses.

My dick would be rock hard all night dude.

[Rothko]

Maybe its me but it seems a little like you are trying to run before you can walk. I wouldnt get to engaged in the whole fucking thing before you have explored each other without going the whole nine yards.

That said if you are going to do it then as others have said, wash. Bring condoms and lube with you. Just wear whatever you think is nice. Wear a decent pair of udergarments.

When you are ready to get down to business go with the flow. But remember it is your body and if there is anyting uncomfortable or painful dont be shy at saying so

Most of all enjoy

[stevem]

The first time can be very special, but like anything you have to have the right mind set. Before you go to him, be sure to prepare yourself. Cleaning yourself out, will make it a more enjoyable, in that you will not have that fear of making a mess. Several Fleet enemas, done just before going to him should do the trick. Don't go out to dinner, as being nervous can cause diarrhea to hit at a time you would least want to happen. Have plenty of foreplay, especially with lubed up fingers working to expand and relax your anal muscles. Learn to enjoy the feeling of having something rubbing against your prostrate. You'll know it when you feel it, and your dick will start dripping as your friends gently rubs on your prostrate. Now think about how great it's going to feel with his dick rubbing against it as he fucks you slowly. Don't be afraid to try different positions to find the one feels the best to you. Trust me they will all feel great to him.. So: 1. Get clean, really clean. 2. Relax. 3. Foreplay. 4. Lots of lube ( both on & in your anus, all over his dick. 5. And play safe, be sure you use a condom everytime. Doesn't matter how good a friend he is. If he doesn't want to play safe, he doesn't respect you enough for you to give it up.

[milltek]

Get ready for a sore arse afterwards

[Youngbicutie]

Originally Posted by stevem

The first time can be very special, but like anything you have to have the right mind set. Before you go to him, be sure to prepare yourself. Cleaning yourself out, will make it a more enjoyable, in that you will not have that fear of making a mess. Several Fleet enemas, done just before going to him should do the trick. Don't go out to dinner, as being nervous can cause diarrhea to hit at a time you would least want to happen. Have plenty of foreplay, especially with lubed up fingers working to expand and relax your anal muscles. Learn to enjoy the feeling of having something rubbing against your prostrate. You'll know it when you feel it, and your dick will start dripping as your friends gently rubs on your prostrate. Now think about how great it's going to feel with his dick rubbing against it as he fucks you slowly. Don't be afraid to try different positions to find the one feels the best to you. Trust me they will all feel great to him.. So: 1. Get clean, really clean. 2. Relax. 3. Foreplay. 4. Lots of lube ( both on & in your anus, all over his dick. 5. And play safe, be sure you use a condom everytime. Doesn't matter how good a friend he is. If he doesn't want to play safe, he doesn't respect you enough for you to give it up.

Thanks I'll let you know how it goes.

[Iminuit2]

so we're anxious to know, how did it go?

[Glory Me]

Originally Posted by Youngbicutie

Hi I have a question I have got a friend who wants to fuck me tommorow night and I accepted but I don't know what it feels like to receive so I would like some help and understanding and what I can do to arouse him more?

Anal from my point of view's in the category of "different strokes for different folks." I've gone that was a couple of times but am now sworn off other the a little finger wave once in a while. I'd just rather suck and masturbate.

As far as wondering how to arouse him more I don't think you have to worry about that.

[thespadez]

Originally Posted by milltek

Get ready for a sore arse afterwards

Couldnt agree more. The guy who popped my anal cherry was a little over 6 inches long and my ass was sore for nearly 2 weeks afterwards. Just take your time and enjoy it because it does feel good once you get used to it.

[AndySL91]

How did it go? I'm bicurious and want to do something with a guy, I'm in the UK too

[FatCat12]

Looks like he is banned so we will never know how it went.