What can increase sex drive?

[bigdickdaddyfromthenati]

I'm 21 years old, been with alot of women but for some reason my sex drive has gone way down. I can masturbate fine and I just had a girlfriend of 2 years and got it up no problem but for some reason alot of the time with other women I have trouble getting in the mood. I just slept at this co-workers house last night and I know she wanted it and so did I but I couldn't get it up! She is very attractive but I would like to know what can increase my sex drive so that I'm more horny because as of now my confidence has gone way down and it's not just the co-worker it has been like this in the past with other women.

Also during sex it can go soft because I'm not into the mood. Should I go to a doctor? It would be silly if I'm 21 and need viagra but I know I don't because I can go to my ex house and fuck her no problem. This is the first time I've ever talked/posted this problem about me so please be respectful I'm sure I'm not the only one.

[LuckyChucky420]

You said you can go to your ex gfs house and fuck her fine, if thats the same gf you were with for 2 years maybe you still have feelings for her and can't get it up for other girls. But if its a different ex then idk whats going on. But good luck with that and hope everything turns out good!

[Gooblaster]

I find that oft when something is wrong the problem is quite evident. You're working too much or partying too hard or stressed over money or a bitch or whatever. Get some rest. Not three hours, but sleep until you can't sleep no more. Then sleep some more. Eat healthy. Get some exercise. Take care of yourself. If you are stressed out resolve the issue. Once you are back in the saddle again all will be well. If you are uncertain rent a piece and rail her relentlessly.

[bigdickdaddyfromthenati]

Thanks for the response. I am really stressed about alot so maybe thats it, I also realize I think to much right when I'm about to have sex just about random things in my life, also another thing is I like foreplay and with that co-worker I was talking about she doesn't. She expects me to just have a hard on and pull down her pants and fuck her. I wanna bj first or let me do something to you, jeez she wont even take her shirt off. I'm starting to think she just doesn't turn me on and I have no problem

[SecretSexyBlogger]

Do you still have feelings for your ex? Sometimes if you do, that can interfere with your sex drive with other women.

If you're also not getting some of your needs met (foreplay, kissing etc) then perhaps the lack of intimacy causes some of those issues.

Good luck,
SSB

[Ovid58]

Now, if you do a little "research" you'll see that I am a guy who has experienced really lots of sex...
I shall try to give you some hints.

1. If you are tired (and bored), even if the lady is "hot", you won't be performing too good, or you won't be performing at all!!!
2. If your ex has made a "habit" in sucking your dick before you had vaginal/anal sex, than, be sure that ALL the other women will have to follow the same "rules" - I've experienced it, and it's been around a six months ordeal to get back to track...
3. Believe it or not, there are women with whom, even if socially you are doing great, just won't fit "chemically" - you won't get a hard dick even if you pray to Mother Theresa!!!
4. If you are mentally "connected" to your ex, everything you do out there is, in your mind, cheating, or something of the genre, and might be keeping you from performing...
5. If, financially speaking, you are all right, a visit to a doctor, not essentially explaining him/her that you have a boner problem, is not, really a bad idea, even if you are so young!
6. The more you worry about it, the lesser the chances are to get you back on track!!!

I hope my post will be of help, if any.
Good luck!

[Milo Cronos]

It sounds like a mental block probably (like some have mentioned) attached to your ex and the comfort you had with her, it may just take some time to get back in the swing and your forcing getting in th mood just doesn't work! Take a break to get back in shape mentally and physically start weightlifting or some form of strength training, it really boosts testosterone and sex drive?

[krait]

herbal stores.

there are various herbal stores around, to help you with your problem.

your right, taking a " BLUE PILL " at 21 seems kind of RIDICULOUS.

herbal stores, chinese stores, & new age stores, can help in this area.

they can guide you in this direction. there even sex teas you can drink,
that would take affect in roughly about 10 minutes, to give you an
erection. you don't need a prescription for it.

BLUE PILLS, you do need one. who wants that on their medical record.
not to mention, if you were to have a HOT NURSE attending to you.

just check out these types of stores, by looking in the yellow pages
or going on a search engine for herbal stores.

who knows, you may be the next RON JEREMY or JOHN HOLMES.

[vegasmon]

i had the same problem, i couldnt get it up and stay up long enough to cum when i broke up with one of my girlfriends. it was a mental block i just kept fucking and i did get over it after a couple girls.. Also the sun is a great way to increase sex drive sit out in the sun naked for 15 minutes a day its important to get sun on your cocks skin.

[knFML]

Try less sex, more exercise and eat healthy to build your body back up.
Both physically and mentally.
Do something else for a fucking change is the best advise you need.