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Old 07-16-2012, 09:11 PM   #1
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Hi all, I've been abit of a lurker for awhile not really postng anything but recently I've run into a little trouble.
I've being seeing my girlfriend for about 4 months and it's been going very well, untill recently. I noticed that she seemed to be making less of an effort (in regards to texting/calling and not really looking forward to seeing as much). After mentioning this she said we are spending too much together and have rushed things.
She wants to slow things down and see eachother less often, which i have no problem with to make things better.

Has anyone been in a similar situation?
Is there anything else I could do to help make things better?
Thanks in advance
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Old 07-16-2012, 09:12 PM   #2
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Old 07-16-2012, 09:16 PM   #3
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You are too clingy.

She is backing you off.

She will dump you soon.

Be a man, take the initiative and tell her it's over, she will be dumbstruck.
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You are too clingy.

She is backing you off.

She will dump you soon.

Be a man, take the initiative and tell her it's over, she will be dumbstruck.
You two are both right of course! Yeah man it's over. Sorry.
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Old 07-16-2012, 09:22 PM   #5
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Relationship advice??? Don't have one.
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Old 07-16-2012, 09:38 PM   #6
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Old 07-16-2012, 11:01 PM   #7
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You are fucked, if she was "the one" go buy two bottles of whiskey and drink till you can't remember her, if she wasn't head for the pub and pick up one of her mates and give her a revenge fuck.

Or not.
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Old 07-16-2012, 11:04 PM   #8
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It's time to give her a good hard ass fucking before she dumps you.
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Old 07-16-2012, 11:11 PM   #9
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You could always post on her FB page that she needs to go to the special clinic for a check up.
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Old 07-16-2012, 11:16 PM   #10
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You could always post on her FB page that she needs to go to the special clinic for a check up.
That is evil.... Very funny, but evil!
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Old 07-16-2012, 11:23 PM   #11
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Old 07-16-2012, 11:59 PM   #12
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I have given this a lot of thought....almost 10 minutes...

If you have been looking at any other women and thinking about them.

She has given you time to check them out ....if it works with a new chick, then she will be claiming you are cheating on her and you just turned the tables...
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Old 07-17-2012, 12:16 AM   #13
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All this good advice and not one note of thanks. Why do we bother.
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Old 07-17-2012, 12:54 AM   #14
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Have you tried switching her off and then back on again ?
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Old 07-17-2012, 12:55 AM   #15
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if she wants to slow it down...she has someone she wants to see....if she says ( want to see others)...she is.....
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Old 07-17-2012, 02:14 AM   #16
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Old 07-17-2012, 02:35 AM   #17
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Maybe he's already deleted his account?! So he can't thank everyone for the advice.
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I think maybe he took the clinic advice and now resides in a shallow grave near Vegas.
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Just stop callin g and texting her. Make every effort to avoid any and all contact with her. Women are funny creatures that will chase men who are emotionaly unavailable or who are notoriously untamed because they love the chalenge. Like the deep purple song...its not the kill, its the thrill of the chase. Soem women are maried to men they arent sure are going to be there the next day and they love it. They complain to their friends and cry a lot and feel put out and taken advantage of. Women love the drama. Once you start calling and texting her and clinging to her she looses interest because there is no chalenge anymore.

Now get out there and ignore her like a man!
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Old 07-17-2012, 07:31 AM   #22
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Break it off, move on - it's unsalvageable. She has already moved on in her mind, so the best you can do at this point is end it yourself. At least you'll keep some of your dignity, that way.
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Old 07-17-2012, 07:39 AM   #23
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She's done with you, I'm willing to bet. I've done this to a boyfriend before. I tried getting him to break up with me by giving the "we talk/text too much" line, because I was young(er) and was way too nice to break up with him.. (then did it a week or two later because of something he said, but anyway..) Best bet? Break it off. Don't be a dick, she might come crawling back and options are nice.
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Say okay and start ignoring her, ans also start looking for a new girl. Your breakup is on the horizon be ready with revenge when it comes.
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Definitely concur with Richie's advice about fucking one of her mates. Otherwise what are you going to do? Sit around the house listening to EBTG.

Get back in the game!

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Hi all, I've been abit of a lurker for awhile not really postng anything but recently I've run into a little trouble.
I've being seeing my girlfriend for about 4 months and it's been going very well, untill recently. I noticed that she seemed to be making less of an effort (in regards to texting/calling and not really looking forward to seeing as much). After mentioning this she said we are spending too much together and have rushed things.
She wants to slow things down and see eachother less often, which i have no problem with to make things better.

Has anyone been in a similar situation?
Is there anything else I could do to help make things better?
Thanks in advance
Not sure what the guys above had said. But to be 100% honest (I don't bullshit I swear to you), you need to do as she requests and make her jealous.

Give her ZERO attention. No "good morning"--- no "hey how is your day".

Even when she texts or calls- don't answer (I know this is sooo hard). But don't do it. Show her you have a life outside of her and you have other things going on.

If she wants to hangout, fake plans with someone else. You could be home like a loser doing other stuff, but you have to know women like the chase as well. And women get easily bored when things are going a bit too easily.

And I know other people will say "You don't need someone if you/them are going to play mind games". But that's the name of the game, and it's all it is. You may want to consider someone else who will appreciate your time, but if you truly want this girl-- ignore the shit out of her.

Especially if she's pretty.
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