for the married guys

[jhnthis]

Originally Posted by naughtysnap

Do you talk to her about it? Do you initiate it other times or is she the initiator? Sometimes ya just need to prime the pump...meaning she may just get distracted by "life" and doesn't think about sex as much as you...but if you suggest it, turn her on, then its harder for her to say no.

Really- Did you listen to the man? Have you ever dealt with a woman? They are not like us guys. If they don't feel like it (after a certain length of time in a relationship) they are NOT going to change their mind. And if the issue is pushed the sex is lousy!

[mandyw1265]

im a female and i want it more than my man. maybe its cause i give him 2 many bjs

[stickdik1970]

me me me

[Whitey44]

Originally Posted by CDinKazoo

My wife and I are just coming up to our 2 year anniversary. Unless she's on her period we probably fuck 2 or 3 times a week. I guess we might slow down in a few years, but there's no way to predict the future. I'm just enjoying what I've got right now!

You should try fucking while your wife is on her period. You will probably like it too!

One thing that will definitely cut into your sex life is having kids.

[bigamp04]

Originally Posted by Real Soldier

Since I am in Afghanistan and she is in Texas, I'm going to say that I am most certainly not getting enough from her.

i have a similar problem, i am stationed in germany and she is in georgia. wanting to give me all she can but i cant reach. this shit is killing me

[Whitey44]

Originally Posted by bigamp04

i have a similar problem, i am stationed in germany and she is in georgia. wanting to give me all she can but i cant reach. this shit is killing me

Yes, but, when you get reunited, the sex will be super!
As they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder.
It's an aphrodisiac of sorts.

[Yaztromo]

I am purposely trying to avoid sex with the wife at the moment. Not because I don't want to, I do, but because I am trying to show her that I love her regardless of the sex side.

Not just because I want to prove something, there's something deeper going on at the moment. The main thing is I'm doing it because I love her.

[jjharden]

Absolutely not. It's been five weeks today and before that it was three weeks. I've been married three years (47 years young) and she knows this is an issue.
We've had discussions, arguments, discussions. Sometimes she claims I'm whining.

After our last time, she said she would work toward having sex twice or three times a week. That hasn't happened.

I get to a point where I say I'm going to try this night or that night and then just say the hell with it.

*And no, I refuse to cheat on her. Aside from the sex issue, she really is a good woman. So if anyone has some thoughts ...

[ahaf]

first 2 years okay then never enough as and as year pass by

[sexynicole69]

Originally Posted by Ovid58

Anyway, in a few hours she'll get up, prepare a coffee, and "behave" with me like a kitten...

I just have to say this "ugh"

[sexynicole69]

Originally Posted by jhnthis

Really- Did you listen to the man? Have you ever dealt with a woman? They are not like us guys. If they don't feel like it (after a certain length of time in a relationship) they are NOT going to change their mind. And if the issue is pushed the sex is lousy!

Ya know the best sex is make up sex only I have to work to get it from my guy because usually he'll withhold it from because of an argument we've had but once his cock is in my mouth he's puddy in my hands

[sexynicole69]

Originally Posted by Vkf2298

Definitely not! That's why I sneak on here now. She turned super conservative and when she does want it it's missionary in bed at night lights off for about ten minutes and gets mad when I try to spice it up

my husband is too conservative for me at times Id love to get it on in a public place in our car! But he wouldnt be down for it

[sexynicole69]

Originally Posted by AlonA2

Wow! First of all---I want a monogamous marriage and that is what I signed up for. I did NOT change the rules about sex in my marriage. My wife, for whatever reasons, lost her interest in sex long before I even gave a thought to cheating. You can go ahead and judge me for not having the strength to live without sex but given the agreement that you have with your husband, I doubt that you have much personal experience with that particular temptation. Second---divorce is a terrible option, in my opinion, and I still hold out hope that something will change that will return my otherwise good marriage into a great and sexually fulfilling marriage. Believe it or not, but my role as a father was and is very important to me and I will never give it up willingly by means of a divorce. And let's look at these "sorry assed" excuses from the other angle. Have you ever given thought that maybe the reason my wife doesn't like sex anymore or pay any attention to me is because SHE is the one who wants out of the marriage but doesn't want to divorce because of the kids? Maybe SHE is the one who is lying to me when she says she loves me? Third---I have asked my wife many, many times if there are emotional or physical reasons why she doesn't like sex. Her reply has always been "NO". If she had answered yes, then there is at least something to work on and I would be the first in line to support her and help find a solution. Put yourself in my shoes when given an answer like that. Pretend for a minute that your husband no longer wants sex with you and has no real answer as to why. Now pretend that he expects you to remain faithful to him and him only, in every way regardless of your past agreements. Pretend that this goes on for many years with little or no change in his attitude. Pretend that you truly love him and do not wish to divorce since there are many, many other aspects of your marriage that you value. Pretend that you have an opportunity to enjoy sex with someone other than your husband without him finding out. I hope that the day never comes for you when you don't get to pretend anymore and you find yourself with a real decision to make.

You really have to be in those type of shoes to know what that's like and believe me I do

[sexynicole69]

Originally Posted by pussy in boots

Here's a question for the married guys in here... How many of you are not getting enough from your wives?

How about reversing it? how many wives arent getting enough from their husbands?

I wont ever turn my guy down and I look forward to when I dont have to worry about getting pregnant.

My dad was a horndog in his day, I know that's not something most women would say about their dads, but it's true and maybe it's in the genes. I really hope I never get tired of having sex because I love it so much and I only want to have it with my husband as many times and days as possible. Now yes I have strayed and was unfaithful one time and I can tell you from both sides of the fence, a guy will feel abandoned by his wife as much as a wife will when the sexual love as well as the emotional love isnt given.

It's part of what binds you and makes you one. It's what keeps both of you happy and in a good mood and brings u closer together when you can let him in and not withhold if from him. Some of these husbands sound like they're really considerate of their wives feelings and if the two would talk to each other, I bet their sex lives would be off the charts. It's not good to keep it bottled up. Let your sex life bring you closer together and abandon all barriers in the bedroom.

[juice7978]

I am so glad I found this thread. I have been married for coming up on 12 years in October. I would say now we avg 5-6 times a year. I have heard all the excuses from postpartum which is understandable to she is not emotionally connected to me. We have tried counciling and I do as much around the house as she does and more on the times I have been out of work and still nothing. I have cheated in the past which IMO has saved the marriage. There have been times where the fights from this have resulted in her or I asking for an open marriage but she bulks at the idea after she calms down and promises to try harder which will last about 2weeks. Now in her defense there have been a slew of medical issues and being a healthcare professional I always have respected that she may not feel well enough but she never takes the good days to makeup for the bad. We have talked of divorce but with her health so up and down I can't bring myself to do that to her and my kids. So I jo from time to time. What is the worse is I feel my libido dropping partly do to my low T which I can't afford my rx anymore and my ED due to my diabetes but that rx I have plenty of and it's WAY better then the little blue pill

[jarhead43]

i have been married 24 years and there are times when we all want more .thankfully my wife and i have a very active sex life .

[Operatorman]

After mine had all her plumbing removed her drive went to zero. I could fuck 3 times a day. She has no desire to do shit.

[Kimiko]

Just checking back to make sure my husband hasn't commented on this thread...

[tiyahotty]

Female here, we are married 8 years, we still do 3-4 times a week, and it lasts about 30m to an hour at most. I think he is getting enough. Personally, I would like to do everyday

[BibB77]

With wife 16years. Married for 13. I can get it almost any time I want, just one problem. It's always the same fucking things. Never wants to give head, never wants me to go down on her. Won't shave her pussy for me. We have had anal sex, but, it might be once every couple years.

[notdescriptive]

Originally Posted by Kimiko

Just checking back to make sure my husband hasn't commented on this thread...

I'm sure you'd like the comment if he did. I'm envious of this stranger.

I am thinking of giving the wife this web site address, with the suggestion that she enjoy, right before I take a solo vacation. Not sure that she'd ever visit this porn site or any other on her own.

Married 40+ years and still daily active. Suggestions?

[pervdaddy]

i'm not, but I think that's just going to be the situation for the rest of my life simply because I want it every day, and she's good with 2-3 times a week. So not really complaining, also because we've been getting freakier with our sex life.

[Ripple69]

Yea I do think sometimes it's not enough. But at 51 I still feel like I could do it 2-3x a week for a guy. Instead of 3-4x a month as it is now.

On thing I found that helps is "set things up" Like on Wed I'll say "honey lets go get a nice dinner this sat OK?" Then we'll come home and watch a netflix movie or something like that.

Then I'll say "lets go check out the hot tub....." and then lets goto the bedroom and light some candles and put some soft music on...and the rest is history!!

[paulsuna]

Originally Posted by stronghold

Ive been married for 16 years, and NO,..I definitely don't get it as much. Right now, it's been 2mths since we've had sex. The longest drought is 4mths.
And yeah, I think Ive tried everything imaginable. My ONLY outlet is to jack-off to porn.
Now to maybe take your question to another level,..ask if any married men have had to resort to having affairs to release the tension and to feel wanted again.

After my wife went through menopause she lost interest in sex and our sex life went to zero. Several years after that my oldest brother coerced me into letting him have anal sex with me, and I loved it. I craved more, and I eventually joined an adult dating site to clandestinely meet with men to get laid ...sure beat jacking off.

[AJC2012]

Originally Posted by tcd2007

No, I am not getting it at all. Im not married but engaged. I have not had it in 6 months..and I used to get it 6 times a day.

I'm engaged too, and I'm lucky to be with her twice in a month, only when kids aren't around. Even then, it's hit or miss.

[AJC2012]

Originally Posted by Operatorman

After mine had all her plumbing removed her drive went to zero. I could fuck 3 times a day. She has no desire to do shit.

My fiance had hers removed a while back, before we met and hers is almost there. Twice a month if that. I try to tell my self its okay, but I can't help feeling like WTF?

[Dulcet_Rainbows]

Funny enough I'm always afraid the guy I end up committing myself to for the rest of my life is going to be the one who decides he isn't interested in sex or doesn't feel half as interested as I am about it

[Nightcock]

I don't get as much as I'd like, I've been jerking off like crazy tho. Lots of porn on the forum too, I've been watching lots of bi and gay stuff, gets me going like crazy, I'm afraid that if she ever found out that I'm watching those guy vids she lose her shit

[naztypanty]

Originally Posted by pussy in boots

Here's a question for the married guys in here... How many of you are not getting enough from your wives?

'All' would be the quick answer. The question should be 'how many are getting enough?'

[Torodon]

First, in answer to the question...I have never gotten enough sex from my wife...not even remotely close.

Second, I have decided that I just want to send my wife to Sexynicole69, and see if she can just teach her how to be completely pre-occupied with sex...LOL.

Appreciate seeing women on here that are all too happy to take care of the needs of their men.

In all fairness, I have always felt that I was an incredible husband. I am a wonderful provider, and never neglect my duties at home even though I have always been the one working and bring home the "bacon" hehe. Guess I just always felt as though I deserved far more than I was getting, and to not give it was ungrateful.

[whatwhat2]

Almost a year since I posted something on this thread no change, once a month if the stars , planets, and bowling pins are aligned just right:-/

[hot bull]

Originally Posted by pussy in boots

Here's a question for the married guys in here... How many of you are not getting enough from your wives?

a bull hi my love I am what is I love women, and no to satisfy from sex however, I will also fuck you. to sees pic my cock in my album

[Mini Me]

I've lived in 4 countries and the situation is the same - married people fuck each other pretty seldom. There are exceptions of course but overall it is a sad state of affairs.

I've heard that in Germany there are legal brothels with medical supervision and so on. Got no idea if the German wifes are ok if their men went there to take care of the urges. I wish there was an arrangement like that here in the US that was both civilized and truly safe.

And of course there are the mentally retarded folk like me which can't just fuck, pay, and be happy - for people like me the emotional part is what cannot be resolved in a civilized manner. At least not in a white society.

In one of the countries I lived in any man that could afford it and was so inclined had as many wifes as he wanted. They knew about each other and there was no problem. Guy had kids with all the wifes. He spent a few days here and a few days there. Everybody knew where he was at any time. No drama about it. No imagine an US suburbia housewife even hearing that. She'd have a cow right then and there. But most of them won't fuck their man on a regular basis... Go figure. And they can't even handle an affair in a good way. Maybe I'm wrong but my suburbian neighbour's wife is ready for some serious fuck. But she will definitely mess up her marriage, the life of her kids, and whoever gets involved with her. Pathetic. Catch 22.

I believe that porn flourishes exactly because of the lack of sex in the majority of marriages.