wats a safe way of meeting someone from the net?

[balz27]

Any tips or on ways of verifying cleanslyness ?

[Kenster]

Public place and be sure you have spoken to them on phone beforehand

[balz27]

Is it okay to give out Ur number?

[Kenster]

if you feel you can trust the person then yeah. Otherwise talk to each other on cam or something

[wickednsweet]

http://www.tampabay.com/news/publics...ve-sex/1243929


The thing about the internet is that people lie. Odds are that you won't get set up by someone, but still be smart about meeting total strangers for sex. Like Kenster said, meet in a public place. And try not to keep your meeting hush-hush. Have at least one person you can trust that will know where you're going. Wear a condom for crying out loud because unless they have their test results with them, you have no way of knowing if they have an STD.

[Mini Me]

Fact is noone knows if they are carrying some kind of disease.

A very nice and prude girl I knew got separated from her husband and within a week had herpes. By the time the idiot that gave it to her told her (a week later) she could have slept with you and not even know she gave you a present. If she called you to tell you and you ignored her phone calls you wouldn't even know how it hit you.

So even if the person looks safe that does not mean they are safe.

And once again - when you put that condom do NOT think you are bulletproof. Viruses can get in your system trough you skin, especially the thin skin on the mouth or external sex organs. Lick-lick a few times and you are done Don't forget that!

[krait]

Originally Posted by wickednsweet

http://www.tampabay.com/news/publics...ve-sex/1243929


The thing about the internet is that people lie. Odds are that you won't get set up by someone, but still be smart about meeting total strangers for sex. Like Kenster said, meet in a public place. And try not to keep your meeting hush-hush. Have at least one person you can trust that will know where you're going. Wear a condom for crying out loud because unless they have their test results with them, you have no way of knowing if they have an STD.

i met someone off of YOUTUBE almost two years back. we hit off
really good. we PM each other for a month or so. she surprised me,
when she PM her number to me.

we spoke for 6 1/2 hours on the first initial phone call. i believed i call
her first. it was long distance. we were in the same time zone too.
we never met face to face. although, i have seen a pic of her.

very good looking woman. BEST TO MEET IN PUBLIC.

IT'S SAFER.

[SweetHemiStud]

Originally Posted by balz27

Is it okay to give out Ur number?

Well, I recently started chatting with someone online and we occasionally joke about meeting, and it most probably will happen in due time. But as far as giving out your phone number...I reactivated an old phone onto a dormit third phone line on my cell phone plan. For a couple reasons, one of which we have gotten past the trust issue, never really had the thought that it would actually happen cuz we had such great intellectual, intelligent conversations, but just to cover my ass, I wanted to make sure she wouldn't turn out to be some jealous psycho bitch and call me all hours of the night and such, and calling/texting me without my discretion of that time, as I am still technically married. But I completely trust that nothing even close would happen now that I have gotten to know her pretty well.

Also the second reason, and now the only reason, I don't want the texts and call records on my main phone incase my wife decides to be a total bitch and get court REAL ugly, they can pull my phone records and decide its most likely infidelity, and then I'd be raped in court, even though all I want to take is my tools and my truck (truck wouldn't be a problem, cuz my dad's name is on it as well.) So having my third line makes it discreet, especially being that we've talked about reactivating it so a friend of mine can have a phone when he splits with his business partner whom he currently has a phone with...so if things get ugly in court and they pull records and see a third line with 5 million calls and texts from California, I can simply say that it is my freinds phone, I have no idea what he does with it.

As far as verifying cleanliness, is about impossible, unless you state that you want a record of a test from a couple days prior to the meeting...I'm not sure, I don't claim to know everything, or even anything about women, but pretty sure asking her for a copy of paperwork stating that her pussy isn't some nasty ass cesspool would be a TOTAL turnoff to her, and you wouldn't be getting any. Any ladies want to chime in on that one?

Only thing you can do is try to get to know that person via phone txt and online chat and build some trust in one another. Which may seem like a lot of effort just to get laid by someone met online, but any bar floozy is just as capable of being clean (or dirty) as anyone online. So you really need to just be as judgmental if you can as to whether or not you trust the person to be clean.

I, myself get tested every year or two, even now that I have been with the same woman for nearly 8 years, and she is WAY too lazy to go out and cheat, so I never dreamt it to be an issue, I guess I just got into the habit of getting tested years ago when I found out a gf had cheated on me, I got tested to see if she brought anything home to me...and then after that I went on a wild spree to fill the void in my chest where my heart used to be with sex and alcohol, after about a year decided that that particular life wasn't for me.

So just be cautious and you should be fine. And get yourself checked regularly cuz anything can happen. I mean hell, you can get something from a toilet seat.