Why is Oral called sex

[ana_kostya]

Sorry if this is not the right place to post this.

I do not see how giving oral or getting oral is sex would some one explain it to me I'm to lazy to look it up.

[Drag24]

It's considered sex because you're stimulating the sex organ and getting off on the act of giving it. well at least I do when I do it to my girl. hope it helps

[Wafarer]

Originally Posted by Drag24

It's considered sex because you're stimulating the sex organ and getting off on the act of giving it. well at least I do when I do it to my girl. hope it helps

and some also say that having/performing oral sex on another wouldn't be considered "cheating"

[oWTF]

Sex? I dunno.. definitely sexy... but sex.. hmm I'll have to think about that

[umpire2]

Why is your nose called your nose? Because it is.

[Pericles]

Originally Posted by ana_kostya

Sorry if this is not the right place to post this.

I do not see how giving oral or getting oral is sex would some one explain it to me I'm to lazy to look it up.

Well... you kinda have a penis in your mouth. Do you remember the penis? Your parents may have called it your no-no. Anyway, if it's in your mouth or in someone else's mouth then you're having sex. In a big way.

[Pericles]

Yeeesh... I didn't notice until I posted it but the woman in the pic has one extremely calloused knuckle.

[Kimiko]

Originally Posted by ana_kostya

Sorry if this is not the right place to post this.

I do not see how giving oral or getting oral is sex would some one explain it to me I'm to lazy to look it up.

Well, if you think of sex only in terms of reproduction, you have a point. If you think of sex as having fun with your genitalia and those of other people, you have to broaden your definitions a bit, because sucking a cock definitely falls into that category, wouldn't you agree?

[JuliaE]

lol Ask ex US president Bill Clinton... I heard that he didn't think it was sex when an intern gave him a bj.

[Pericles]

*yawn* ... stop trying to justify having a penis in your mouth.

[armjo]

Ask bill clinton.

[SisBoomba]

Originally Posted by Pericles

Yeeesh... I didn't notice until I posted it but the woman in the pic has one extremely calloused knuckle.

Looks like a wart.

[daddy4adaughter]

i think your a lil confused about sexual intercourse.
though laws are diffrent...a bj is classed as a sexual act.....so is touching a womans breasts.
how ever only penis penetrating a vagina or anus is classed as sexual intercourse.
but if you wanna start the whole "is it cheating debate" thats all down to your own and your partners point of view.

[Destor]

I get the feeling that you think "sex" instantly means intercourse, it doesn't. The word sex can have many different meanings depending on the context and usage, just like the word Oral.

People use both oral and sex to refer to oral sex, almost like slang.

Coitus is the proper term for intercourse, btw

[nikkitassassin]

lack of any other name for the act?

[Charlie_creamer]

To me, sex is intimate touching for the purpose of stimulation.

Giving a massage is not supposed to be a sexual act, if done to give relaxation, but start adding in the "extras" and it is a hell of a great way to get somebody in the mood for more.

Somehow I can't imagine giving a bj or being eaten out as not being for the purpose of stimulation - unless it is to defer a more dangerous possibility - such as a rape or a robbery. In that case, I trust you have dialed 911 first - and left the handset off the hook!

[legsimlegs]

any act that stimulates the sexual organs really could be determined as a part of "sex"

[Twistedsister]

Its an act of sex. And giving a blowjob is like have sex with ur mouth

[Blue.Eyes]

Originally Posted by Pericles

Yeeesh... I didn't notice until I posted it but the woman in the pic has one extremely calloused knuckle.

Originally Posted by SisBoomba

Looks like a wart.

It could also be a scar... I was once grating cheese and somehow managed to grate about half my knuckle off and I now have a scar that looks similar to that...

[gspotterpro]

Originally Posted by armjo

Ask bill clinton.

lol , Enjoyed this reply ! The world never did get a straight answer from him about that.

[Young Mormon girl]

The way I figure it, if a penis is going Inside of the woman, it's sex, oral is sex anal is sex and of course if it's in a Pussy it's sex, kissing and licking isn't sex, just as grinding on the dance floor isn't sex, even though it is stimulating. Although I suppose this does make titty fucking and handjobs not sex... I dunno I'm not an expert on the defenitions

[1159022]

Originally Posted by Young Mormon girl

The way I figure it, if a penis is going Inside of the woman, it's sex, oral is sex anal is sex and of course if it's in a Pussy it's sex, kissing and licking isn't sex, just as grinding on the dance floor isn't sex, even though it is stimulating. Although I suppose this does make titty fucking and handjobs not sex... I dunno I'm not an expert on the defenitions

So if in the 69 position and the guys penis is in her mouth and he is just licking her pussy then by the way you figure it is he is having sex and she isn't.

[bostonmasstina]

Originally Posted by Young Mormon girl

The way I figure it, if a penis is going Inside of the woman, it's sex, oral is sex anal is sex and of course if it's in a Pussy it's sex, kissing and licking isn't sex, just as grinding on the dance floor isn't sex, even though it is stimulating. Although I suppose this does make titty fucking and handjobs not sex... I dunno I'm not an expert on the defenitions

[knoxvillainswife]

I consider it sex because there is an amount of trust and attraction to the other person. You wouldn't let a random stranger off the street eat you out, unless that happens to be what gets you off. I think oral is actually an even more intimate activity then straight up sex, those are pretty tender bits your letting him get his teeth mighty close too. I'll have one-night-stands where I won't let them eat me out, but we can do a lot of other stuff.

[Snoochies]

I consider it sex when your genitalia comes into contact with another person intentionally. If you're going to rub, finger, suck on another person's genitalia, then you're doing something sexual. And, thus, having sex... But that's my own personal definition. I consider a hand job sex. If one or both participants are doing it for the purpose of pleasuring themselves then yeah, I consider it sex. Do I consider it intercourse? no.

But how do people define that? Most consider intercourse something that could result in pregnancy... does that make homosexual sex (male or female) NOT intercourse? not in my book.

Likewise, some say any form of penetration (oral, anal, vaginal/finger, cock, tongue) is intercourse... well that fucks all the little girls running around having anal so they can claim they're still virgins. lol.

There are all different shades of grey where sex is involved. Does it really matter what it's called or what neat little columns it can be fit into? Who cares?! if you enjoy it, do it! Why does it matter if it is or isn't sex?

[Duskguy]

For me oral is forplay,to get me nice and hard from being sucked and licked,and a very good way to make her wet for penitration whithout pain,so oral can be the beginig acts of sex,to make the act of intercourse more pleasuable

[Wraith666]

Originally Posted by Young Mormon girl

The way I figure it, if a penis is going Inside of the woman, it's sex, oral is sex anal is sex and of course if it's in a Pussy it's sex, kissing and licking isn't sex, just as grinding on the dance floor isn't sex, even though it is stimulating. Although I suppose this does make titty fucking and handjobs not sex... I dunno I'm not an expert on the defenitions

I agree with YMG. An extremity is penetrating an orifice. Vaginal, anal or oral. Perhaps the word 'act' was dropped at the end of the phrase. So it should read: Oral sex act. Not for reproduction, but to allow for a sexual response , an orgasm. Just my humble opinion.

[aztec161]

Originally Posted by Wafarer

and some also say that having/performing oral sex on another wouldn't be considered "cheating"

"Eatin ain't cheatin".

[SweetHemiStud]

Originally Posted by aztec161

"Eatin ain't cheatin".

"And suckin' ain't fuckin'"

Well, blow jobs could easily be termed sex...anal sex is when a penis penetrates the anal cavity...so a blow job is when a penis penetrates the oral cavity, this is deemed oral sex. As far as eating pussy, it isn't as straight forward, but oral essentially means "mouth" if you are giving an oral presentation at school or at a board meeting, etc, it means you are speaking, thus using your mouth; so using your mouth for sexually related pleasure is oral sex.

[rowdy3128]

mouth to sex parts.....duh.........

[chosuke]

I had a girlfriend with whom the only sexual activity we had for 4 years was some oral and touching of the genitals. During a fight she yelled at me that she was tired of having 'simulated sex'.
There are many people who don't consider it sex even though it is clearly a sexual act.

[SW1]

Ana-K, lie back, spread your legs and I'll please you to sexual climax.
If I'm realty good you share your nectar with me.
SW

[Milo Cronos]

Originally Posted by ana_kostya

Sorry if this is not the right place to post this.

I do not see how giving oral or getting oral is sex would some one explain it to me I'm to lazy to look it up.

The Karma Sutra defines any form of (paraphrasing for understanding) entrance of an appendage into an orifice a "congress" all congresses are sex penile, finger, tongue or phallic representation! Tit fucking and frottage not, technically sex?

[N.E. Woman]

I overheard a story told by someone who went to a very religious college. The school had mandatory curfews/ no members of the opposite sex in rooms with the door shut, etc.. The parents of these students expected there children to arrive and graduate a virgin.


Back to the story.... This woman was saying that every girl she knew did in fact keep their hymen intact except one. BUT, since were talking about horny young people, most of this woman's friends were proficient at oral sex and most had at least tried if not enjoyed anal sex.....

So to the OP, if you are defining sex as something that could break a hymen. Only cock to pussy sex qualifies. Then there is the question of what the gay/ lesbian community considers sex.

I would bet most people gay or straight, would define it as manipulation of genital areas by your partners genitals/ mouth. (hopefully to "completion").

There is a reason hand jobs or pussy fingering isn't called sex!

[SW1]

Originally Posted by N.E. Woman

..., since were talking about horny young people, most of this woman's friends were proficient at oral sex ....'

Dated a Catholic girl that was a "vaginal virgin" but gave the best head.
Dr. SW curred her!
All in the outlook.
SW

[1159022]

[sockaraus]

Why are we humouring the lazy cunt?

[1159022]

Originally Posted by sockaraus

Why are we humouring the lazy cunt?

This thread is 2 years old.

[gspotterpro]

Whoud you agree that eating is not cheeting?