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08-16-2012, 10:06 PM
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Newcumer
Join Date: Aug 2012
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How can i attract my bf again?
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08-16-2012, 10:09 PM
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Don't bother with him again. If he left you its his loss and your gain babe.
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08-16-2012, 10:13 PM
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Newcumer
Join Date: Aug 2012
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he didnt leave me....he just takes me for granted as he knows that he has slept with me n i wont leave him.nw
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08-16-2012, 10:13 PM
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Tell him you want to marry him and have his babies...
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08-16-2012, 10:15 PM
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Start showing interest in his best friend.
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08-16-2012, 10:16 PM
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08-16-2012, 10:20 PM
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Newcumer
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he already knows that i love him a lot that is also one reason that he takes me for granted.
i just want to make him realise my worth...can u guys give me some ideas how can a guy feel insecure abt his girls n feels that if i do something she can also leave me. i want him to be mad abt me lyk i was... i hv olrdy stopped sleepin with him so that he feels that i m nt just a gud fuck |
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08-16-2012, 10:29 PM
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Stop doing the little things for him. People always snap outta a fog when others don't buy their favorite cookies or stuff like that.
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08-16-2012, 10:33 PM
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You cant fix it, once it happens its gone...my wife has been the same way with me.....just leave him and find someone else.
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08-16-2012, 10:58 PM
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...yeah, I am in the same boat. My wife is exactly the same way with me, I've tried so many things over 8 years...well, 6 yrs, things were great for 2 yrs. I am a very imaginitive and creative individual and came up with so many different ideas to bring the spark back, and I got nothing in return, and have finally decided it's time to seperate. It's unfortunate, cuz you'd think that you were able to win them over once, you should be able to do it again, but nothing is further from the truth. It hurts like hell to leave, trust me, I know, but it'll hurt even more in the long run to stay in an unhealthy relationship like that.
The only advice I can give you is that stopping certain things, in hopes that he will see your value, isn't the answer, it'll just reiterate to him that he is right. He won't see it as oh damn, I guess she always was great about that. He will see it as good thing I am slowly distancing myself, because this bitch is getting lazier and lazier every day. Sad, but true. |
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08-17-2012, 12:09 AM
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if you stop sleeping with him, he'll leave your ass and find a willing girl. Sex should not be used as a weapon.
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08-17-2012, 04:01 AM
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Porno Junky
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Buy some new lingerie or sext bra/panty sets and take some photos of yourself, let him find them on your computer and wonder why you would have taken them.
especially if he hasn't see you wearing them around him |
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08-17-2012, 04:11 AM
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Talk to him, tell him how you feel. Don't nag, or whine, don't be accusatory, or use words like "always" and "never". Saying things like: you never tell me you love me, or you always ignore me, automatically puts people on the defensive. just be honest...this is how you feel. Now, don't take that wrong, not saying you nag or whine, I am just saying be open and honest. Then ask him if there is something you can do to help things change.
My wife and I used to argue all the time till some friends sat us down and told us to be honest with each other, say what we really feel...just the same way I just explained it to you. We have been a lot happier since. We can have open discussions about anything, sex , money whatever is bothering us. One of two things will happen if your honest and open, your get your issues out in the open where you can work on them, or you'll agree to go your separate ways. Either way you'll be happier in the long run. |
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08-17-2012, 04:40 AM
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08-17-2012, 05:56 AM
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Stopping having sex with him is the lat thing you want to be doing if you want your bf to start attracting your bf and get him to treat you with respect.
Im guessing by the moronic way you write that you are very young. I'm afraid that some guys are just like that. It is tough but if he cannot treat you the way you want then it is time to move on. My advice work on getting yourself a bf you have a proper connection with and don't sleep with them simply to get their approval |
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08-17-2012, 06:28 AM
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08-17-2012, 10:53 AM
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Waste of time
When a man/woman loses interest, or takes it for granted, than... the best objective and heartless solution is to let each other go on separate ways!
Arguing, reasoning, discussing, role playing, etc is just a delay and a waste of time!...
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08-17-2012, 11:21 AM
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Amateur
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Honest and open communication. If he is showing signs of being less attracted, find out why. Maybe he wants to try some new stuff out. Just be honest. NO ONE enjoys having mind games played on them.
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08-17-2012, 12:28 PM
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Amateur
Join Date: May 2011
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i advise you do what ever you did to attract him to begin with. if you think he is really unattracted to you talk to him and find out what he wants. i would hate to advise you to leave him. but if you are the only one working to keep it together maybe it is time to, any good relationship takes two people to work.
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08-17-2012, 01:42 PM
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Cook some bacon and eggs.
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08-18-2012, 01:27 AM
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Porn Surfer
Join Date: Aug 2012
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try ignoring him hun, it always works.
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08-18-2012, 01:53 AM
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As to the OP, this guy sounds like a d-bag if he started ignoring you after sex. Move on and find someone that treats you right and get to know them before you share yourself with them. |
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08-18-2012, 06:57 AM
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Porn Surfer
Join Date: Aug 2012
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People seem to be so cynical........ just because you're taken for granted or he lost interest for now doesn't mean it will be forever..
Just, try / keep telling him you don't feel appreciated... but don't stop doing things for him, if you stop then, he will stop doing other things, then you're just flinging shit at each other expecting to find a diamond in it... Something to avoid is saying like "___(guy/girl)__would say __(something nice/good)_about all the __(something you don't like doing / do anyway)__ I do around here/ for you!" It's just bad to go there, in my experience any way |
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08-18-2012, 07:00 AM
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I'm not being objective here but . . .
blah . . . blah blah blah . . . . Blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah!!!! Blah.
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