anal sex...help please???

LukiePoo · 07-23-2006, 08:41 AM

ok so at this point, my situation is an emergency. me and my girlfriend have been trying to have anal sex for about a month now and we still haven't gotten it right. We've barely even made any progress. everytime we say we'r goin to do it and i get all excited but it doesn' work. i've read that oyu need to spend alot of time working it with your finger or whatever and use alot of lube and we do that. i can fit one finger inher pretty easily but 2 is a problem and my dick is more than twice the diameter of 2 fingers. i know alot of you out there probably have anal sex regularly and if anyone could give me any kind of help i'd be very grateful. please help!??! thanks in advance.

artep · 07-23-2006, 10:50 AM

One word: Lubricant

Acoly · 07-23-2006, 01:49 PM

You gotta first get through the first part of the rectum just inside, first time it will hurt her quite a bit, just go veeeeery slow in with your penis, and stop when she says it hurts and let her rectum accomodate your penis, after that everything should be fine, and yes use a lot of lube. you wont get far with trying to open her with your fingers, you need something bigger. after the first time it will still hurt her when you first put your penis in but not much.
Well this is what i found my my own experiences of pleasuring myself anally. hope it help.

dank · 07-24-2006, 01:29 AM

My wife went to the doctor to get a set of 'butt plugs' to increase her size. She became sooo addicted to them that she wouldn't make love without one in her ass - unless, of course, I was going there anyway.

theman · 07-24-2006, 02:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dank

My wife went to the doctor to get a set of 'butt plugs' to increase her size. She became sooo addicted to them that she wouldn't make love without one in her ass - unless, of course, I was going there anyway.

I Think Dank has the right idea, go to a sex shop, and buy about four different thicknesses of dildoes, and a lot of lube. Then let her do it her self, until she can take the biggest, witch would be the size of you. Then your in!

LukiePoo · 07-24-2006, 11:22 AM

thanks guys, i hope to death that stuff will work..

ThornyRose · 07-25-2006, 08:18 PM

Good advice about the butt plugs,, or a small dildo, fingers do not do the job, and that opening needs a slow and gentle streatching..
My ex and I knew that we needed to do some streatching back there.. I got a half dozen condoms and made a dildo out of condoms and foam rubber.. In a farm town in the midwest 1950 you did not go out and buy a butt plug.. That homemade dildo lasted a long time.. Don't forget the lub..
And don't worry about the stretching, if is not dangerious, if you go slow and easy..

RaunchyShowdown · 07-26-2006, 05:44 PM

There are a few tips i can give.
1) slow and gentle
2) start small and increase the size of the dildo or butt plug a little at a time.
3) She should try keeping the buttplug in for a hour or so maybe while around the house and then increase size the same day.
4) lube like crazy.
If she keeps up tip 3 for a week or so she should be more than ready and probably begging for a cock in her ass. Also id suggest a few enemas for extended periods of anal.
These are just opinions.

sensualluvr · 07-26-2006, 10:03 PM

My husband and I had the same thing going on with us. It took us a while to get it down. What we ended up doing was I was on my side and he was on his side behind me. Most relaxing position of me (the woman) With lots of lube!! Lots of lube!! he began to play with my clit got me all hot and horney and then started playing with my butt with his other hand and at the same time my clit. As he started to insert his cock in my butt he had my mind else where(my clit) and then very very slowly started entering. He would enter and stop, enter and stop and he would constantly ask me are you ok? and relax!! and as it got unconfortable I would not tense I would bare down (as if I was using the bathroom) Bareing down helps open up the anus. I know it sounds bad but think about what you do when using the restroom. You push!! Why so it will move out... BUT in this case I am not doing it to move it out I am doing it so he has a little more playing room to get where he needs to be. I would stay relaxed and that would help him push in further and then there was sucess!!! Lots of movement the first time was not an option but, there after things got better and better!! once getting pass that hard spot of getting started it was all over. We have had some awsome anal sex sections and now the anal sex and anal play is one of my favorite things. Anal play on the outside is as much an addition as playing inside.

07-23-2006, 08:41 AM	#1
LukiePoo Porn Surfer Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 19	anal sex...help please??? ok so at this point, my situation is an emergency. me and my girlfriend have been trying to have anal sex for about a month now and we still haven't gotten it right. We've barely even made any progress. everytime we say we'r goin to do it and i get all excited but it doesn' work. i've read that oyu need to spend alot of time working it with your finger or whatever and use alot of lube and we do that. i can fit one finger inher pretty easily but 2 is a problem and my dick is more than twice the diameter of 2 fingers. i know alot of you out there probably have anal sex regularly and if anyone could give me any kind of help i'd be very grateful. please help!??! thanks in advance.

07-25-2006, 08:18 PM	#7
ThornyRose Porn Star Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 1,998	A look back Good advice about the butt plugs,, or a small dildo, fingers do not do the job, and that opening needs a slow and gentle streatching.. My ex and I knew that we needed to do some streatching back there.. I got a half dozen condoms and made a dildo out of condoms and foam rubber.. In a farm town in the midwest 1950 you did not go out and buy a butt plug.. That homemade dildo lasted a long time.. Don't forget the lub.. And don't worry about the stretching, if is not dangerious, if you go slow and easy..

07-26-2006, 10:03 PM	#9
sensualluvr Amateur Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Central Valley Posts: 76	Anal Sex My husband and I had the same thing going on with us. It took us a while to get it down. What we ended up doing was I was on my side and he was on his side behind me. Most relaxing position of me (the woman) With lots of lube!! Lots of lube!! he began to play with my clit got me all hot and horney and then started playing with my butt with his other hand and at the same time my clit. As he started to insert his cock in my butt he had my mind else where(my clit) and then very very slowly started entering. He would enter and stop, enter and stop and he would constantly ask me are you ok? and relax!! and as it got unconfortable I would not tense I would bare down (as if I was using the bathroom) Bareing down helps open up the anus. I know it sounds bad but think about what you do when using the restroom. You push!! Why so it will move out... BUT in this case I am not doing it to move it out I am doing it so he has a little more playing room to get where he needs to be. I would stay relaxed and that would help him push in further and then there was sucess!!! Lots of movement the first time was not an option but, there after things got better and better!! once getting pass that hard spot of getting started it was all over. We have had some awsome anal sex sections and now the anal sex and anal play is one of my favorite things. Anal play on the outside is as much an addition as playing inside.

Thread Tools	Search this Thread
Show Printable Version Email this Page	Search this Thread: Advanced Search
Display Modes
Linear Mode Switch to Hybrid Mode Switch to Threaded Mode

07-23-2006, 10:50 AM	#2
artep Sex Machine Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Holland Posts: 966	One word: Lubricant

07-23-2006, 01:49 PM	#3
Acoly Sex Lover Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 104	You gotta first get through the first part of the rectum just inside, first time it will hurt her quite a bit, just go veeeeery slow in with your penis, and stop when she says it hurts and let her rectum accomodate your penis, after that everything should be fine, and yes use a lot of lube. you wont get far with trying to open her with your fingers, you need something bigger. after the first time it will still hurt her when you first put your penis in but not much. Well this is what i found my my own experiences of pleasuring myself anally. hope it help.

07-24-2006, 01:29 AM	#4
dank Porno Junky Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: mousetown Age: 66 Posts: 441	My wife went to the doctor to get a set of 'butt plugs' to increase her size. She became sooo addicted to them that she wouldn't make love without one in her ass - unless, of course, I was going there anyway.

07-24-2006, 11:22 AM	#6
LukiePoo Porn Surfer Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 19	thanks guys, i hope to death that stuff will work..

07-26-2006, 05:44 PM	#8
RaunchyShowdown Porn Surfer Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 12	There are a few tips i can give. 1) slow and gentle 2) start small and increase the size of the dildo or butt plug a little at a time. 3) She should try keeping the buttplug in for a hour or so maybe while around the house and then increase size the same day. 4) lube like crazy. If she keeps up tip 3 for a week or so she should be more than ready and probably begging for a cock in her ass. Also id suggest a few enemas for extended periods of anal. These are just opinions.