for the married guys

[pussy in boots]

Here's a question for the married guys in here... How many of you are not getting enough from your wives?

[Drumoman]

Ya know thats a good.......... I have been married for 15yrs And at times it seems i wasnt getting enough. But thanks this Site Our Sex life is better Sometimes ya got to spice it up a bit

[Real Soldier]

Since I am in Afghanistan and she is in Texas, I'm going to say that I am most certainly not getting enough from her.

[Julian Six]

(raises hand)

[pussy in boots]

I can understand you military guys not getting enough. My heart goes out to you. I wish you all luck and a safe return home.

[mrstennbabe]

ill answer for my husband. He's not getting it enough. I'm still in the postpartum, no sex zone. (Not medically "allowed". However...juss because the ferris wheel is broke, the whole park isn't closed. He got a blow job 3 days postpartum...has gotten them fairly regularly too.

[stronghold]

Ive been married for 16 years, and NO,..I definitely don't get it as much. Right now, it's been 2mths since we've had sex. The longest drought is 4mths.

And yeah, I think Ive tried everything imaginable. My ONLY outlet is to jack-off to porn.

Now to maybe take your question to another level,..ask if any married men have had to resort to having affairs to release the tension and to feel wanted again.

[bob1]

I don't get it at all anymore. Married 35 years, considering divorce. She became alcoholic, lost weight, got depressed and anxious, lost interest in everything. Under a doc's care, and sees a therapist, but she no longer turns me on, nor does she try to turn me on. So here I sit all irked and pissed off, came to fuck and only jacked off.

[stronghold]

Originally Posted by bob1

I don't get it at all anymore. Married 35 years, considering divorce. She became alcoholic, lost weight, got depressed and anxious, lost interest in everything. Under a doc's care, and sees a therapist, but she no longer turns me on, nor does she try to turn me on. So here I sit all irked and pissed off, came to fuck and only jacked off.

Yup,..I have a feeling when the last kiddo moves out of the house, we might as well get divorced. Even when all the kids are spending the night with friends,..she has NO interest in finally letting her guard down and having fun, chase me around the house, kinky sex with me .

[Amas-Veritas]

Im not a married man but Ima answer for my husband and my self.

Him: Not only getting more then he can handle feom me and his boy friend, but also has freedoms to go else where should he want to/find someone.

Me: Not getting enough. I have masturbated 5 times today and Im still aching. I need him to come home! Ugh.

[thinskin]

Originally Posted by stronghold

Ive been married for 16 years, and NO,..I definitely don't get it as much. Right now, it's been 2mths since we've had sex. The longest drought is 4mths.

And yeah, I think Ive tried everything imaginable. My ONLY outlet is to jack-off to porn.

Now to maybe take your question to another level,..ask if any married men have had to resort to having affairs to release the tension and to feel wanted again.

Try doing the washing up! It works every time in my house.

Thinskin

[canwemeandyou]

2 times a year maybe but she is a great wife a good person so i j/o you will have that lol

[Amas-Veritas]

Originally Posted by thinskin

Try doing the washing up! It works every time in my house.

Thinskin

LOVE THIS ANSWER! LoL

[1txwriter]

Been with my wife for 23 years, married for 17 of them (since high school). Our sex lifes is decent enough that I shouldn't complain. We average 2-3 times a month. The frustration for me is that she gets in the mood and those 2-3 times come in two days. Then the rest of the month is dry. There is also a bit of a routine to our activities that she doesn't seem willing to break from. I've tried, but she isn't interested. Part of me feels I should be happy with what I get while another part says it's reasonable to expect more.

[CDinKazoo]

My wife and I are just coming up to our 2 year anniversary. Unless she's on her period we probably fuck 2 or 3 times a week. I guess we might slow down in a few years, but there's no way to predict the future. I'm just enjoying what I've got right now!

[naughtysnap]

Originally Posted by 1txwriter

Been with my wife for 23 years, married for 17 of them (since high school). Our sex lifes is decent enough that I shouldn't complain. We average 2-3 times a month. The frustration for me is that she gets in the mood and those 2-3 times come in two days. Then the rest of the month is dry. There is also a bit of a routine to our activities that she doesn't seem willing to break from. I've tried, but she isn't interested. Part of me feels I should be happy with what I get while another part says it's reasonable to expect more.

Do you talk to her about it? Do you initiate it other times or is she the initiator? Sometimes ya just need to prime the pump...meaning she may just get distracted by "life" and doesn't think about sex as much as you...but if you suggest it, turn her on, then its harder for her to say no.

[tcd2007]

No, I am not getting it at all. Im not married but engaged. I have not had it in 6 months..and I used to get it 6 times a day.

[1txwriter]

Originally Posted by naughtysnap

Do you talk to her about it? Do you initiate it other times or is she the initiator? Sometimes ya just need to prime the pump...meaning she may just get distracted by "life" and doesn't think about sex as much as you...but if you suggest it, turn her on, then its harder for her to say no.

I can't honestly say that I put as much effort into initiating things as I used to but I think that being turned down so many times is a big part of that.

So what brought you to ask this question?

[1txwriter]

Originally Posted by tcd2007

No, I am not getting it at all. Im not married but engaged. I have not had it in 6 months..and I used to get it 6 times a day.

Wow tcd, I would be more than a little concerned if your sexual activity is already dropping off before you get married. Good luck with that!

[iminatlanta]

I guess I'm fortunate. I get all I want plus some and the wife is kinky. I can't imagine it any other way! I feel for all our soldiers (men & women) that are away from their significant others.

[tcd2007]

Originally Posted by 1txwriter

Wow tcd, I would be more than a little concerned if your sexual activity is already dropping off before you get married. Good luck with that!

Yeah I know right? What sucks is that I moved up to MI to be with her and then she moved to a different city so I am stuck here and I dont know anyone here. So no any fun on the side either.

[pussy in boots]

Originally Posted by 1txwriter

I can't honestly say that I put as much effort into initiating things as I used to but I think that being turned down so many times is a big part of that.

So what brought you to ask this question?

I was in a chat room guys hitting on me kept telling me they were married but not getting any from wife.

[ATL69]

Absolutely not getting near enough at home. Her idea of a lot, is 2 or 3 times in 3- 4 months.

and yes, i now get it away from home on a regular basis. It has saved us from divorce.

[naughtysnap]

Originally Posted by 1txwriter

I can't honestly say that I put as much effort into initiating things as I used to but I think that being turned down so many times is a big part of that.

So what brought you to ask this question?

Your original post "seemed" to put a lot of the fault on your wife; I was simply asking what you have done to help the issue. I see so many posts of how its one person's fault and I think it takes two.

[naughtysnap]

Originally Posted by pussy in boots

I was in a chat room guys hitting on me kept telling me they were married but not getting any from wife.

exactly! I just think it can't always be one person's fault...there are TWO in a marriage.

[Ovid58]

After more than 20 years of marriage, I still make "mistakes"...
This morning, unshaved, seeing my wife's cunt while she was sleeping, I've gently kissed her thigh.

She woke up and admonished me I didn't let her sleep AND I did it without shaving my beard first...

Now, at my age, I didn't run to shave - I just came downstairs and entered xnxx...

So, from time to time, she needs to be punished, even if she is, generally, a very good person...

If i didn't, some years ago, decide to give up any secret lovers, now I would just get into one of my cars and go for a morning "visit"...

Anyway, in a few hours she'll get up, prepare a coffee, and "behave" with me like a kitten...

[naughtysnap]

Originally Posted by Ovid58

After more than 20 years of marriage, I still make "mistakes"...
This morning, unshaved, seeing my wife's cunt while she was sleeping, I've gently kissed her thigh.

She woke up and admonished me I didn't let her sleep AND I did it without shaving my beard first...

Now, at my age, I didn't run to shave - I just came downstairs and entered xnxx...

So, from time to time, she needs to be punished, even if she is, generally, a very good person...

If i didn't, some years ago, decide to give up any secret lovers, now I would just get into one of my cars and go for a morning "visit"...

Anyway, in a few hours she'll get up, prepare a coffee, and "behave" with me like a kitten...

you did give up secret lovers or you have them now?

[Ovid58]

Originally Posted by naughtysnap

you did give up secret lovers or you have them now?

I was almost 50 years old and... with all the diseases around the world, I've decided to stop.

Also, I am not ashamed to admit that my stamina now, isn't any longer what it used to be...

I happen to be happily married, and my wife, now, is enough for my sex drive - or, should I say, more than enough, since she doesn't need an erection to have sex with me - it's only my "job" to be hard and enter her cunt...

Now I think it's my son's "job" to go around and discover as much cunt as possible - he's the next generation!

[Charles "Bad Boy" Bronson]

When I was married I got what I wanted the whole time. Up until we decided to divorce, LOL.

There was a couple periods when my ex didn't seem interested but there was always some underlying issue that quickly cleared up once we talked it over. But 98% of the time we fucked pretty much every day and if we didn't it was because we didn't have time together.

[DLGBLG]

Iam the one who feels we don't have sex often enough. He is content with once a week. I need way more than that. If I bring it up then I'm just being "bitchy".

My favorite line is the next day after we have had sex, and I ask for more..."See! This is why I don't give you any. Anytime I give you some you just want more!!". I swear if he could use having a period as an excuse he would. He says we are just on different ends of the spectrum. Oh well.

[Ovid58]

Originally Posted by DLGBLG

Iam the one who feels we don't have sex often enough. He is content with once a week. I need way more than that. If I bring it up then I'm just being "bitchy".

My favorite line is the next day after we have had sex, and I ask for more..."See! This is why I don't give you any. Anytime I give you some you just want more!!". I swear if he could use having a period as an excuse he would. He says we are just on different ends of the spectrum. Oh well.

I don't know where you live, but, anyway, I'm almost sure that, legally, you have the institution of divorce...

Let the bastard go!

Find yourself a nice fucking husband/friend to fulfill your needs!

Let him save his loads at the bank or wherever he considers!

NOTE: If you don't divorce him, and just cheat on him with another man, he'll just have the evidence that you are a bitch! So, divorce him, first!

[Rothko]

2.5 years and counting, she wont let me touch her and sure as hell refuses to touch me Oh Well

[Ovid58]

Originally Posted by Rothko

2.5 years and counting, she wont let me touch her and sure as hell refuses to touch me Oh Well

Really, WHY are you still married?!?

[tdogluv]

I am not getting enough so I have resorted to male companionship.

[pbr333]

Originally Posted by DLGBLG

Iam the one who feels we don't have sex often enough. He is content with once a week. I need way more than that. If I bring it up then I'm just being "bitchy".

My favorite line is the next day after we have had sex, and I ask for more..."See! This is why I don't give you any. Anytime I give you some you just want more!!". I swear if he could use having a period as an excuse he would. He says we are just on different ends of the spectrum. Oh well.

As I was reading this my first thoughts were " how was your sex life before?"
that's what I would ask myself ,if in that situation.I'd then use the answer to that question to tell me whether to stay around long enough to ask the next question " honey do you have low T(testocerone)?

[Ovid58]

Originally Posted by pbr333

As I was reading this my first thoughts were " how was your sex life before?"
that's what I would ask myself ,if in that situation.I'd then use the answer to that question to tell me whether to stay around long enough to ask the next question " honey do you have low T(testocerone)?

I don't want to sound like a teacher, but it's TESTOSTERONE, not the shit you've been writing...

[Ohhi]

Originally Posted by Real Soldier

Since I am in Afghanistan and she is in Texas, I'm going to say that I am most certainly not getting enough from her.

thankyou for your service

[Rothko]

Originally Posted by Ovid58

Really, WHY are you still married?!?

Well believe it or not I still love her, we are great friends and for the sake of the kids.

It is not as if we argue, or dislike each other. She simply has zero interest in sex and perhaps more importantly zero interest in how I feel let alone any wilingness to try and please. A hand job or BJ you would think wouldnt be that difficult but apparently it is so I get zilch. It used to upset me and still does but to a much lesser extent. I masturbate and have resigned myself to the fact that this is how it is from now on in.

[naughtysnap]

Originally Posted by Rothko

Well believe it or not I still love her, we are great friends and for the sake of the kids.

It is not as if we argue, or dislike each other. She simply has zero interest in sex and perhaps more importantly zero interest in how I feel let alone any wilingness to try and please. A hand job or BJ you would think wouldnt be that difficult but apparently it is so I get zilch. It used to upset me and still does but to a much lesser extent. I masturbate and have resigned myself to the fact that this is how it is from now on in.

Why does that have to be the way it is.... TALK TO HER!
Tell her that sex is important to you and is there something that you could to help get her in the groove again

[Rothko]

Originally Posted by naughtysnap

Why does that have to be the way it is.... TALK TO HER!
Tell her that sex is important to you and is there something that you could to help get her in the groove again

I admit to be ing good at dishingf out medicine but rather reticent to taking some of my medice myself. YEs you are right and I have tried talking to her. I have told her how upset it has made me. Rather stupidly I believed that perhaps there was somehting missing, that she wanted to have new experiences, perhaps she waned more time to be left alone to explore herself on her own. I told her she was welcome to have new experiences, that if she wanted any time she was to say so and I would go out with the kids. I rather hoped she would tell me she wanted to fuck the local football team but she told me she just wasnt that interested, she didnt want to masturbate and didnt feel the need to have sex. So there we are, there is simply nothing there to build on or develoip. If someone just doesnt want to know then there is nothing to work on.

[nermal]

I havent had any in some time, I have been fortunate to have had two wives whose sex drive was low. First one I divorced, second one is everything else a husband would want in a woman and I will not lose what I have doin something dumb. We have been together 26 years now.

[DLGBLG]

Well as far as the bank, it's mine. I make 5 times what he does.

My concern is the kids. They love him to pieces and he is a good father to them. I have asked him about having an "online only" relationship, but he still considers that cheating. I'm shocked he hasn't tried to get into my account yet, thankfully he is not computer savvy.

I have debated it quite often. I'm sure at some point it will come to that.

[ShynInnocent1]

Who says the married girls aren't getting enough from their husbands...???
Two way street you know.

[abean696]

I get plenty from my wife, in fact I can't always keep up with her. There are times when we go more than a few days without sex but i'm happy as hell. Sex is just a part of the relationship. Been married 24 years.

[sixcir6]

We tied the knot last November and havent had sex since. We were never more than once a week prior to getting married, but the stress and difficulty of life this past year has really contributed to each of our cases of depression.

Hers is worse than mine so she has quite literally no sex drive. Im not the type to push so we just deal. I wack off every day.

[stronghold]

Originally Posted by ATL69

Absolutely not getting near enough at home. Her idea of a lot, is 2 or 3 times in 3- 4 months.

and yes, i now get it away from home on a regular basis. It has saved us from divorce.

Do you mean that you get laid elsewhere by a different woman??

[stronghold]

Originally Posted by thinskin

Try doing the washing up! It works every time in my house.

Thinskin

Man,...I do ALL the laundry (wash, dry, fold, even iron),..I cook and clean up the kitchen, (we take turns cooking),..I do the dishes,.. Im at her side pushing the grocery cart at the store,..I gas up her truck each weekend,..vacuum , dust, windows, toilets, blinds,..all of it my friend. I do way more than 50% of running the house. I dont mind at all,..I watched my dad help around the house growing up. But you would think, that perhaps this would make her feel, "wow, my man does so much, I should let him eat some of my sweet pussy tonight to thank him". Hahaha

[stronghold]

Originally Posted by DLGBLG

Well as far as the bank, it's mine. I make 5 times what he does.

My concern is the kids. They love him to pieces and he is a good father to them. I have asked him about having an "online only" relationship, but he still considers that cheating. I'm shocked he hasn't tried to get into my account yet, thankfully he is not computer savvy.

I have debated it quite often. I'm sure at some point it will come to that.

.......east coast ,...how is that from Texas,.....hmmm,..damn, too far.

[DLGBLG]

Originally Posted by stronghold

Man,...I do ALL the laundry (wash, dry, fold, even iron),..I cook and clean up the kitchen, (we take turns cooking),..I do the dishes,.. Im at her side pushing the grocery cart at the store,..I gas up her truck each weekend,..vacuum , dust, windows, toilets, blinds,..all of it my friend. I do way more than 50% of running the house. I dont mind at all,..I watched my dad help around the house growing up. But you would think, that perhaps this would make her feel, "wow, my man does so much, I should let him eat some of my sweet pussy tonight to thank him". Hahaha

That would certainly earn you the ability to lick all you wanted and even fantastic blowjobs anytime, anywhere. Switch spouses? lol

[stronghold]

Originally Posted by DLGBLG

That would certainly earn you the ability to lick all you wanted and even fantastic blowjobs anytime, anywhere. Switch spouses? lol