for the married guys

[tingletangel]

I know I used the wrong quote I am using my phone its not working..but my other point making uo reasons as to why its ok..doesn't make it so.. Trying to come up with gray areas to use as to reasons why isn't either.

[Rothko]

Originally Posted by tingletangel

I know I used the wrong quote I am using my phone its not working..but my other point making uo reasons as to why its ok..doesn't make it so.. Trying to come up with gray areas to use as to reasons why isn't either.

Not sure I follow.. please explain

[Mr.K Skins]

Originally Posted by tingletangel

What's sad I never saw you even answer the question that was posted rather defended cheating. Its cheating even if you are not getting any from tour partner. While I am biased right now you don't go with out. The actions of everyday life may lead to why your turned down and the actions by yoursel

Baby, I never defended it, I just said people who haven't been in those shoes shouldn't be so quick to judge.

[tingletangel]

Originally Posted by Rothko

Not sure I follow.. please explain

I didn't use the right statement that the person wrote.
Talking about coming up with reasons as to why cheating is ok is nite ok...walking that fine line of example...she said fine go find someone else...so guy or girl does..gray area..stupid if you use it to try get away with cheating too..lol

[Bulldogs]

Originally Posted by 1txwriter

Been with my wife for 23 years, married for 17 of them (since high school). Our sex lifes is decent enough that I shouldn't complain. We average 2-3 times a month. The frustration for me is that she gets in the mood and those 2-3 times come in two days. Then the rest of the month is dry. There is also a bit of a routine to our activities that she doesn't seem willing to break from. I've tried, but she isn't interested. Part of me feels I should be happy with what I get while another part says it's reasonable to expect more.

Exactly same as my situation. 21st anniversary is next week.

[bihusband]

In my sexlife with my wife the more i share her the more I get

[smtb]

Originally Posted by Rothko

Is there a chance she could be preggers?

No she is on pills and she doesn't want a baby now. It's a little impossible

[Chadpeepchad]

Originally Posted by pussy in boots

Here's a question for the married guys in here... How many of you are not getting enough from your wives?

Wow, loaded question. I'm sooooo not. My wife is more on the prude side. I would be happy with at least once a day, she once a week.

That's why I cum on here.

[Vkf2298]

Definitely not! That's why I sneak on here now. She turned super conservative and when she does want it it's missionary in bed at night lights off for about ten minutes and gets mad when I try to spice it up

[harddan]

are any of us getting enough? Lol i have sex all the time with my girlfriend and still feel like i could get more! what about you??

[Zarbixx]

Originally Posted by smtb

No she is on pills and she doesn't want a baby now. It's a little impossible

The pill might be the reason she has lost her sex drive. I know a buddy of mine had this GF completely shut down and the doctor told them to get her off the pill and apparently she's back to her perverted old self.

[DIRTYPEG]

not enugh

"Im as faithfull as my options" Chris Rock

[gamecockguy]

I've been dating my girlfriend for three years (since high school). We have always had arguments, like most couples, but we also have this unexplainable connection to each other. I love her dearly, and she is the best woman a man could ask for oustide of the bedroom. We lost our virginities together about two years ago, but her sex drive has slowed to a near stand still.

The last time she initiated sex was almost three months ago. I'm still getting it a few times a month because I think she feels obligated, which I'm sure is my fault because I don't take the daily rejections too well. She touches me multiple times during the day, but it is never to initiate sex. It is just to tease, which only makes my urges worse. Our sex life is a constant cycle of teasing and rejection and an occasional fuck.

We both come from religious families, and we're not married yet. Maybe that has something to do with it? Also, she says it always hurts her when we have penetration sex. I could understand the first few times, but we're both a lot more experienced now. I'm just average sized (6"). Idk if I'm just doing it the wrong way or what.

Maybe I just suck at sex? You would think that with all the porn I have resorted to watching, I would have picked something good up. Yes, I know a lot of porn moves don't really work.

Also, I wonder sometimes if I am not who she wants me to be. I'm a geek and sometimes a little weird, and I think that sets her off. I'm also a gamer, which she hates. Maybe her lack of interest is because of these -for lack of a better term- flaws.

I am no cheater, and I never will be. Other than sex, I follow the laws of my faith very strictly, and I have had many girls that are friends say that I'm serious "husband material". The problem is, being husband material doesn't satisfy sexual needs. It's a damn consolation prize.

Being a hopeless romantic is by far one of the worst psychological diseases in existance.
Forever unsatisfied...

[MtnTom]

I am not. I'm thinking about getting some on the side but the higher stress level isn't worth it....

[notdescriptive]

Originally Posted by gamecockguy

I'm also a gamer, which she hates....

If she wants you to lay off the gaming, tell her to offer sex every time you pick up the controller.

[Yogi50]

I get most of what I want excpet variety. My wife has no sexual prowess. She rolls over and plays with my cock, I play with her tits, she rolls over and we do it doggie. Done!!

[Hypotenuse]

I get more than enough. We have great sex, but her libido outstrips mine. Unfortunately, she sucks at giving head, so even though she would blow me all the time, I don't really want it. She gets mad if I tell her to do anything different when she does.

[Chadpeepchad]

I've been married 6 years, and there are periods when we're having sex every other day, and then there's times when it's once a week. Always changing. But one thing is constant....my masturbation schedule.

[cachico]

Me Either ;(

[Diaxis]

Reading this thread makes me want to cry haha. I think the best idea is not to get married. That way if one persons sex drive goes in the hole, the other partner is not fucked ( in a bad way ) for life.

There really should be a better way of pairing up couples who like to fuck often, and then re-pairing the ones who stopped wanting to fuck with each other. That way everyone is happy.

[Diaxis]

Originally Posted by Hypotenuse

she sucks at giving head, so even though she would blow me all the time, I don't really want it. She gets mad if I tell her to do anything different when she does.

Haha I can relate to that.

[anxlyaw8ing]

I'm not even married and I don't get even close to enough!! maybe once every week and a half.

[AlonA2]

It would seem that the most common answer is "not enough". Sad to think that the most enjoyable thing in life is not fully utilized by some people. And to think---it's even free! I figured up the other day that if I live to the age of 80 and the amount of sex keeps declining as I get older, I have only about another 100 fucks to enjoy! Pathetic! Thanks honey!!

[thinskin]

Originally Posted by Hypotenuse

I get more than enough. We have great sex, but her libido outstrips mine. Unfortunately, she sucks at giving head, so even though she would blow me all the time, I don't really want it. She gets mad if I tell her to do anything different when she does.

Try asking rather than telling.

Thinskin

[vincenzz]

Originally Posted by pussy in boots

Here's a question for the married guys in here... How many of you are not getting enough from your wives?

I'm pretty content. Sure my sex-drive is larger than hers and wouldn't mind a little more, but back when our kids were much younger, I was getting much less.
So now we seem to be catching up.

[MtnTom]

Originally Posted by pussy in boots

Here's a question for the married guys in here... How many of you are not getting enough from your wives?

Our marriage stared out great but now once a month, maybe is making me consider having fun on the side. I love her and don't want to leave her. Just need something different

[ted_cincy]

I'm not a math major, but there is a direct relationship between years married and how much you get. Basically, the longer your married, the less you get.

I no longer even try, just jump in the car and drive to my friends house and get a fantastic bj. 3x better than the wife.

[camelips]

LOL...my husband would say i want it too much...but I know from talking with the guys at work and around...they dont get it enough

[cumdumper]

My ex-wife and I had stopped having sex for about 8 months when her Dr. told her she was pregnant, obviously from one of the guys she had swore up and down that she was not sleeping with. The day our divorce was final I started getting calls from her GF's, and I fucked damn near all of them, and they all made sure she knew it. To this day (13 years later) our son will not have anything to do with her or his 1/2 brother.

[sensualluvr]

Been married 20 years! My husband gets it as often as he wants! I even want it more than him. So our sex life is great and getting even better!!

Take it all while you can!! Loving it!

[mrluvpuss99]

I have been married for 17 yrs today and it's better than the first year. I also travel a shitnload and we still manage to have cyber sex damn near every night

[CROMS THUNDER]

Always a drought. They were right when they say marriage and kids kill the love life.

[horndogginit1]

My wife and I are at the "hallway sex" stage of our marriage. Our sex life consists of passing each other in the hallway and saying "FUCK YOU"

Seriously though, our sex life is over. we've been married 23 years and I havn't got any for the past 2 1/2yrs. I plan on divorcing but due to financial matters I have to wait. I would get sex elsewhere if I could as I don't consider it cheating anymore. We really aren't together anymore, just sharing a house.
I don't know if she's getting any anywhere else, but I doubt it. ALthough in the past she has cheated. Now days she just doesn't seem to be interested. My libido has slowed down in the past few years but it hasn't gone away entirely.
I'm not as young or good looking as I once was so I've just resigned myself to having a good wank in front of the computer once in a while.

[hardcock402]

The longer I have been married the less and less sex I get from her. So to answer you question no I am not getting enough.

[mdesk66]

Originally Posted by camelips

LOL...my husband would say i want it too much...but I know from talking with the guys at work and around...they dont get it enough

Im really turned on by that statement right now!

As guys I think we typically want it more than most women just because thats why we are here on earth. . .to procreate And to answer the question, yes I could use more sex than I am getting right now

[steikevare666]

I think that anybody who gets enough sex should not judge those who dont, veritas and others who fuck around and call that normal..All i want is a good life with my wife and sex is a part of that...Divorce is not an easy thing to do as i love my children very much and want to be a part of their life no matter what..

[RidetheTounge]

My wife comments all the time that we must be strange. After 17+ years we still have sex 3-5 times a week.

Blog : goo gl/kLDNz

[senorlongo]

Wow, reading all these replies reminds me just how lucky I am. I'm 68, been married almost 46 years, and I still get all I want. It's not as often as when we were younger, but it is still more than once a week. That probably puts me in the top 1% for guys my age. I really feel for all these younger guys who aren't getting much. What the hell happened to the sexual revolution?

[ncbymail]

I've been married 35 years and I'm close to 60. About 10 years ago the wife lost interest. I waited, begged, got mad, jacked off. After a couple of years of this I hooked up with a couple of women. Sex was good but there was always drama after awhile.
I started getting BJs in bookstores. Started watching gay porn. Soon I was giving BJs too.
That was 8 years ago and every year I suck more (or try to) cock. I've also fucked and been fucked by guys a few times. I'd say sex with men is my favorite sex now. Even when I'm fucking her (less that 6 times a year) I'm thinking about man2man sex and would rather be draining a big cock. So I'm definitely a cocksucker now and don't intend to stop.
If I could find another married guy near by my sex life would be great. Now I don't get enough cock to satisfy me either...sex hog! Part of that is, of course, having to feel safe from STDs and discreet.
Cocksucking is great, if I'd known that sooner I wouldn't have waited until my 50's to start. I recommend it to any married guys not getting it from the wife.

[courtlovescum]

I don't condone cheating but if you cant get at least a few times a week then Id say your right to seek it elsewhere hopefully just internet porn but as the saying goes, boys will be boys...

[Vkf2298]

Originally Posted by courtlovescum

I don't condone cheating but if you cant get at least a few times a week then Id say your right to seek it elsewhere hopefully just internet porn but as the saying goes, boys will be boys...

I'd love to be getting it a couple times a week! its been almost 2 months! that's why I have an account on here and talk to people like you court!

[innocentoutlaw]

Widowed now but when was married never got enough

[bentsteel]

I think the reason we're here is that none of us are satisfied! I love my girlfriend but HOLY CRAP! Could she be any more of a Victorian puritan!

[marriedguy1982]

We have been married a few years now. To answer the question no I don't get it enough. I would like it atleasr a few times a week, but its only once a week if I'm lucky.

[kevinbrody]

is there such a things as enough? I sure as hell have never had enough....

[hungryShark]

Originally Posted by courtlovescum

I don't condone cheating but if you cant get at least a few times a week then Id say your right to seek it elsewhere hopefully just internet porn but as the saying goes, boys will be boys...

few times a week? I have not got it for three and a half years. My wife uses sex as a weapon to get what she wants. If I don't agree to her unreasonable demands, I cannot get anywhere near her. She treats me like a doormat. About 4 years ago I stopped taking shit from her and that's when sex stopped. Man! How do I crave for the warmth of a female body!!!

[itiswhatitis]

----- if you're not getting any and like it that way then you're getting enough...

[hungryShark]

Originally Posted by itiswhatitis

----- if you're not getting any and like it that way then you're getting enough...

Don't understand your point. As far as I see, none of those replied they are not getting enough didn't say they 'like it that way'

[hrlv]

Been married for 12 (together for 16) years and we're having sex once or twice a month if I'm lucky. A few years ago, it was once every 2 months.....So at least it's picking up.
We used to do it several times a week in the first 7 years, gradually declining.
But in my 40s now, I couldn't perform and be as hard as in my 20s. So I compensate by watching a lot of porn, and she's ok with it!
I just have to know how to get her in the mood once in a while. And to me that's still better than cheating or paying hookers!