why do guys send such dumb pm's so often?

[susi_squeeze]

First thing they want to chat about is me chatting with them on a different site with skpe yahoo or whatever for some reason, or they want me to post pictures here on this site. It's like a broken record as if they are the only one asking me these same ole questions. I might post pictures but only if i know i'm gonna stay on this site which i don't know yet.

[enslave_me]

You occasionaly get the well thought out and written response that stands out. I could point you in the direction of one such guy. We talk about all kinds of things and its really nice. Hes away for about another week but i can send you to him if you like.

[tommyturtle]

Don't hang out in the seedier parts of the forum and maybe you'll get nicer PMs. Remember that this a PORN forum and all that goes with it.

[onehandedtypist]

Everyone is unique and original. Just like everyone else. That's why

[Prurient Purveyer]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

First thing they want to chat about is me chatting with them on a different site with skpe yahoo or whatever for some reason, or they want me to post pictures here on this site. It's like a broken record as if they are the only one asking me these same ole questions. I might post pictures but only if i know i'm gonna stay on this site which i don't know yet.

Some guys do and from chats I've had with a range of lady members ( no "hitting on" involved you'll be thrilled to know) you all get it at some stage.

Just let it amuse you and know that behind the macho request a nervous male waits anxiously hoping you'll be the one who doesn't tell him to "F off"

Don't you just love the power

[m21]

you have to read between the lines.

read only lines 1, 3, 5 etc and it will make more sense.

unless it's only one line then fuck knows.

[Daddys Slut]

I have to agree...I mean, it's a PORN site...what the fuck do people expect? this is not Dr. Phil or anyone else...if what goes on in here bothers you, then perhaps you should just facebook it

[DoyleGentry]

As a guy, I find it a hell of a lot easier to chat with someone through yahoo because it notifies me right away when a message comes in. The PM system here often takes a few minutes to deliver the message, which can really disrupt the flow of a conversation, oh and quite frequently having to trim the "Quote" message thing.

Sadly a lot of guys here don't think the same way I do. They think with their 'little head' and are frequently here looking to find a way to take it out for some way to 'beat some sense' into it. Unfortunately, when that is the case, they only want something to 'stimulate the tiny mind.'

[meforyou]

Not all of we men are like that. I have a number of lady friends with whom I talk about a wide range of subjects. I do know what you mean, though; on my profile it states that I'm bi (but don't go with guys anymore), and the number og guys wanting me to Skype, etc, is staggering. Stay away from the Personals section; that's where the oddballs hang out.

[avgjoe1730]

I myself try not to open with something like that, of course I'm interested in that; but you have to think...there are so many guys here that everyone tries to do or say whatever they think will make them stand out from all the other guys. It does seem that a lot of them get the same ideas though. Lol

[Tightcuntlover]

Originally Posted by DoyleGentry

Sadly a lot of guys here don't think the same way I do. They think with their 'little head' and are frequently here looking to find a way to take it out for some way to 'beat some sense' into it. Unfortunately, when that is the case, they only want something to 'stimulate the tiny mind.'

You seem a tiny bit bothered by that....

I'm bothered by such a sweeping generalisation.....

or are you just playing the nice sensitive guy in order to get suzi_squeeze to get her tits out for you on cam?

Hi suze....by the way.

[michael saint]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

First thing they want to chat about is me chatting with them on a different site with skpe yahoo or whatever for some reason, or they want me to post pictures here on this site. It's like a broken record as if they are the only one asking me these same ole questions. I might post pictures but only if i know i'm gonna stay on this site which i don't know yet.

Originally Posted by enslave_me

You occasionaly get the well thought out and written response that stands out. I could point you in the direction of one such guy. We talk about all kinds of things and its really nice. Hes away for about another week but i can send you to him if you like.

Are you two (one) serious?

susi_squeeze and enslave_me

You call yourself these names and then complain you attract weirdos..

Fuck off you pair of obvious socks.

[DoyleGentry]

Originally Posted by Tightcuntlover

You seem a tiny bit bothered by that....

I'm bothered by such a sweeping generalisation.....

or are you just playing the nice sensitive guy in order to get suzi_squeeze to get her tits out for you on cam?

Hi suze....by the way.

A "sweeping generalization" would be to say that about all men on here.

But if you prefer, I can catagorize you into a group of men who get offended easily when another guy shows interest in a woman you're interested in. What are they called? Oh yeah...douchebags! I figured leave some room for potentially nice guys, but you've proven my point by getting upset that I haven't left any room for your 'special needs' group.

The world does not revolve around you or your heathen clique so shut your mouth and maybe you'll be able to retain the appearance of being intelligent.

[Rixer]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

First thing they want to chat about is me chatting with them on a different site with skpe yahoo or whatever for some reason, or they want me to post pictures here on this site. It's like a broken record as if they are the only one asking me these same ole questions. I might post pictures but only if i know i'm gonna stay on this site which i don't know yet.

Do you swallow?

[Pandorius999]

Well let me give a guys perspective. You post PM s for around 15 odd personals threads. Half of them don't respond and quarter turn out to be pre programmed bots. How do you expect people to write sweet unique messages when for all you know the other person may just give you a link to the same cam site that the two others before gave? Or don't respond at all?

I know you'll say post less and post where it seems real but unfortunately for laymen there's now way to tell unless some telltale signs are there. As for why yahoo bcoz it's a chat programme unlike here which is like a mail programme. Why pics? How else would you know the person's real? Especially when they make specific requests like emailing them pics before they come to chat or give info. It's a valid logic on both sides live with it.

And there are some who'll jump are any girl/silverback who creates a damn profile. *sigh*

[Opium11]

This thread is ALOT of food for thought thanks susi_squeeze for bringing this up. Peace

[N.E. Woman]

Two words..... testosterone poisoning

Having said that, you have to understand that the men out number the women something like 10:1, maybe even 100:1. You'll get requests everyday, but some of these requests actually turn into decent conversationalists.

NEW

[Pandorius999]

NEW...quite true. The gender ratio according to a thread I made was 9:1 by Lainie s measure. And I think it's pretty accurate.

[Distant Lover]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

why do guys send such dumb pm's so often?

They do it because they have high libidos and low intelligence.

[michael saint]

Originally Posted by Pandorius999

NEW...quite true. The gender ratio according to a thread I made was 9:1 by Lainie s measure. And I think it's pretty accurate.

Are you fucking insane?

[Pandorius999]

9 men to 1 woman. :P

[AzzPazz80]

low intelligence? sorry but its not that simple, 90% of men me included deep down are just scared teenagers trying to get girls to notice them.

[michael saint]

Originally Posted by Pandorius999

9 men to 1 woman. :P

Probably the best possible answer to my question, well played.

Oh, you're counting the empress as a woman.....................
Silly boy.

[pis742]

They are trying to get a girl to have cyber sex with.Since the most of them will reject them they try to sent to as many girls as they can so their messages cant be unique every time.Its been hard for me to get to know a girl cause even if there was a girl who could be interested to chat with me, i just get lost in so many guys trying to do the same and because most females are pissed off by their flooded pm box...

[AzzPazz80]

true but the question is why the lack of intelligence in said pm's

[Distant Lover]

Originally Posted by AzzPazz80

low intelligence? sorry but its not that simple, 90% of men me included deep down are just scared teenagers trying to get girls to notice them.

I hear you. Still, I doubt that men will make a positive impression by sending a woman a PM that expresses a desire to have sex with her, while revealing poor grammar and spelling.

If a woman attracts me I express my appreciation publicly, with respect, and evidence that I paid attention during high school English classes.

[AzzPazz80]

you've got a point their but if i am that attracted to a woman my IQ drops to that of your average garden plant. i have to get to know them first before i can talk to without stumbling all over my words. then i become their friend and nine times out of ten i stay as just their friend

[JoeDirty]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

First thing they want to chat about is me chatting with them on a different site with skpe yahoo or whatever for some reason, or they want me to post pictures here on this site. It's like a broken record as if they are the only one asking me these same ole questions. I might post pictures but only if i know i'm gonna stay on this site which i don't know yet.

Two reasons....

1. They want to get into your pants.

2. Barring #1...they want something (pics, chat, etc) to jerk off to.

Simple really.

Oh...and one more thing...

Rules are rules. ...

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[richief]

Some may send you odd PMs, others see a picture and build shrines to them, at which they worship daily upsetting the neighbours, scaring the kids and exciting the dogs.

[smcaaphd]

You really need to turn your intellect option to stun. You'll still receive the dumb messages, but it'll make you feel better knowing all you have to do is PRESS THE RED BUTTON - and pshwah!! - not only does their account disappear, but also in real life. One minute they're there, the next, gone - like they'd never existed in the first place

[susi_squeeze]

Originally Posted by Tightcuntlover

You seem a tiny bit bothered by that....

I'm bothered by such a sweeping generalisation.....

or are you just playing the nice sensitive guy in order to get suzi_squeeze to get her tits out for you on cam?

Hi suze....by the way.

The nice guy thing here is annoying and uncalled for in a place like this with some mama's boy trying to tap into my intelectual or romantic side. LoL

[susi_squeeze]

Originally Posted by Distant Lover

I hear you. Still, I doubt that men will make a positive impression by sending a woman a PM that expresses a desire to have sex with her, while revealing poor grammar and spelling.

If a woman attracts me I express my appreciation publicly, with respect, and evidence that I paid attention during high school English classes.

What woman is expecting anything less than sickos in a place like this? Men are at home maybe alone, bored, maybe drunk thus making them horny and some girl is gonna get offended over a dirty pm from some guy? LoL even if you are just here to observe the male human mind as a female you still should expect some weird "wrong" sexual happenings.

[Tightcuntlover]

Originally Posted by michael saint

Are you two (one) serious?

susi_squeeze and enslave_me

You call yourself these names and then complain you attract weirdos..

Fuck off you pair of obvious socks.

Fuck me sideways...

You obviously enjoy portraying yourself as some kind of half baked fuckwit.

Please continue.....laughs for me are few and far between these days.

[michael saint]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

What woman is expecting anything less than sickos in a place like this? Men are at home maybe alone, bored, maybe drunk thus making them horny and some girl is gonna get offended over a dirty pm from some guy? LoL even if you are just here to observe the male human mind as a female you still should expect some weird "wrong" sexual happenings.

If you are an 18 year old girl *he says, laughing as he types* and you really are here to "observe the male human mind as a female" Do you actually believe that you can find out about men here.

Truly amazing.

[Tightcuntlover]

Originally Posted by smcaaphd

You really need to turn your intellect option to stun. You'll still receive the dumb messages, but it'll make you feel better knowing all you have to do is PRESS THE RED BUTTON - and pshwah!! - not only does their account disappear, but also in real life. One minute they're there, the next, gone - like they'd never existed in the first place

hello dear....

Have you got your head around these forums yet....

Quote button is somewhere down there bottom right I think.

You DO understand what a quote button is I take it?

[Tightcuntlover]

Originally Posted by michael saint

If you are an 18 year old girl *he says, laughing as he types* and you really are here to "observe the male human mind as a female"

Tosser.

Go fuck yourself.

[ladygodiva123]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

What woman is expecting anything less than sickos in a place like this? Men are at home maybe alone, bored, maybe drunk thus making them horny and some girl is gonna get offended over a dirty pm from some guy? LoL even if you are just here to observe the male human mind as a female you still should expect some weird "wrong" sexual happenings.

I think men that watch a lot of porn, especially YOUNG men hat watch a lot of porn get the misconception that all women in real life want get turned on by being talked to like the women in porn movies. The average man under 35 has spent far more time playing video games and watching porn on the internet than interfacing with real people face to face. They don't know how to talk to women because they haven't done it much. So they're just inept.

[ace's n 8's]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

First thing they want to chat about is me chatting with them on a different site with skpe yahoo or whatever for some reason, or they want me to post pictures here on this site. It's like a broken record as if they are the only one asking me these same ole questions. I might post pictures but only if i know i'm gonna stay on this site which i don't know yet.

It's a porn site,,,,THUS,,,tits are widely accepted......

Speaking of that,,Do you need a camera??

[Tightcuntlover]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

The nice guy thing here is annoying and uncalled for in a place like this with some mama's boy trying to tap into my intelectual or romantic side. LoL

Way to go Suzi...

Tell it like it is!!

[susi_squeeze]

Originally Posted by michael saint

If you are an 18 year old girl *he says, laughing as he types* and you really are here to "observe the male human mind as a female" Do you actually believe that you can find out about men here.

Truly amazing.

I never said that and i'm not some loser who sits back and watches life pass me by because i doubt what i can do for myself and i am not a narrow minded geek who assumes age has something to do with wisdom.


Truly stupid.

[pornversion]

[michael saint]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

I never said that and i'm not some loser who sits back and watches life pass me by because i doubt what i can do for myself and i am not a narrow minded geek who assumes age has something to do with wisdom.


Truly stupid.

One of the sad things about the internet is that sometimes I find myself interacting with smartarse knowall kids.

The very fact that you would type " age has something to do with wisdom." means that i'm in one of those situations now.

Age has EVERYTHING to do with wisdom.

You stupid child.

[Tightcuntlover]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

Truly stupid.

Nuff said.

[tmac32]

Its a porn site what do you expect to get!!! go to facebook or twitter if you want normal conversation :/

[michael saint]

Originally Posted by Tightcuntlover

Please continue.....laughs for me are few and far between these days.

That's probably the only true thing that you have posted for a very long time.

[Prurient Purveyer]

Originally Posted by michael saint

Are you two (one) serious?

susi_squeeze and enslave_me

You call yourself these names and then complain you attract weirdos..

Fuck off you pair of obvious socks.

That is really unfair Micheal! You should be ashamed of yourself.

They are not a pair of obvious socks; they are a pair of attention seeking obvious socks.

[susi_squeeze]

Originally Posted by michael saint

One of the sad things about the internet is that sometimes I find myself interacting with smartarse knowall kids.

The very fact that you would type " age has something to do with wisdom." means that i'm in one of those situations now.

Age has EVERYTHING to do with wisdom.

You stupid child.

You're only saying that because you are old and dont meet many people in person so you dont know that many people and different walks of people but old people can be wise but there are many that are stuck on stupid to just like young ones except old people tend to chill out more being old and tired.

You might be a loner guy and thinking too much these days which makes people build up a false sense of ego.

[michael saint]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

You're only saying that because you are old and dont meet many people in person so you dont know that many people and different walks of people but old people can be wise but there are many that are stuck on stupid to just like young ones except old people tend to chill out more being old and tired.

You might be a loner guy and thinking too much these days which makes people build up a false sense of ego.

Well, you sound like a people person.


I suppose that when I was 18 I thought everyone over 30 was old too.

Nevermind.

[Yaztromo]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

First thing they want to chat about is me chatting with them on a different site with skpe yahoo or whatever for some reason, or they want me to post pictures here on this site. It's like a broken record as if they are the only one asking me these same ole questions. I might post pictures but only if i know i'm gonna stay on this site which i don't know yet.

Duh, because they are horny?

If you don't like horny men sending you countless PMs then please leave this site now!

PS - I will not be one of those men, because I'm much better than them, and respect women.

PS - will you cyber suck my cock?

[susi_squeeze]

Originally Posted by michael saint

Well, you sound like a people person.


I suppose that when I was 18 I thought everyone over 30 was old too.

Nevermind.

Old to me is how you live, dress and act. My best friends boss is 62 and plays in a classic rock band as is a very fun and interesting guy and he smokes weed.
Age has no merit in my book.