why do guys send such dumb pm's so often?

[michael saint]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

Old to me is how you live, dress and act. My best friends boss is 62 and plays in a classic rock band as is a very fun and interesting guy and he smokes weed.
Age has no merit in my book.

Age to me is how YOU FEEL inside, not the image that you present to the outside world.

If you think a 62 year old that smokes weed is cool, you are just projecting your definition of the word onto him..........

In other words maybe the guy just likes a smoke.

[Lioness]

Originally Posted by michael saint

Age to me is how YOU FEEL inside, not the image that you present to the outside world.

If you think a 62 year old that smokes weed is cool, you are just projecting your definition of the word onto him..........

In other words maybe the guy just likes a smoke.

Growing older is inevitable; growing up is optional!!

[Paramore_]

Originally Posted by Lioness

Growing older is inevitable; growing up is optional!!

Good thing, I don't ever want to grow up.

[JayneyRedd]

Originally Posted by Pandorius999

9 men to 1 woman

Now that's my kinda odds!



In reponse to the OP - yes, we all get them and yes, they can be a bit tiresome at times but you can just delete them...?

Occasionally a random naughty message turns out to be someone nice. A PM I got on my first day here was from someone who I still message now, he's a lovely chap (but don't tell him I said that ).

[ABEODD]

Jayney. I think by the time you have got naked like above.... you don't need to worry about 'odds'......

You're gonna get some

[Tightcuntlover]

Originally Posted by michael saint

That's probably the only true thing that you have posted for a very long time.

I prefer quality over quantity.....

and you are a quality joke.

[Tightcuntlover]

Originally Posted by DoyleGentry

A "sweeping generalization" would be to say that about all men on here.

But if you prefer, I can catagorize you into a group of men who get offended easily when another guy shows interest in a woman you're interested in. What are they called? Oh yeah...douchebags! I figured leave some room for potentially nice guys, but you've proven my point by getting upset that I haven't left any room for your 'special needs' group.

The world does not revolve around you or your heathen clique so shut your mouth and maybe you'll be able to retain the appearance of being intelligent.

The simple fact that you believe I am part of any clique on here makes any other judgement or opinion of yours nothing but laughable.

[DoyleGentry]

Originally Posted by Tightcuntlover

The simple fact that you believe I am part of any clique on here makes any other judgement or opinion of yours nothing but laughable.

My opinion of you formed from what you said about me being being nice just to see her tits. Assuming that someone is nice to get something in return is how all the douchebags I've encountered in person have acted.

There are nice people in the world who do not expect anything in return.

You are allowed your opinions. You can even voice them if you like. I am allowed to disagree with you and voice that disagreement.

Why don't we do the civil thing and agree to disagree, then ignore the other person and not bore the others here with needless jabs.

[Tightcuntlover]

Originally Posted by DoyleGentry

My opinion of you formed from what you said about me being being nice just to see her tits. Assuming that someone is nice to get something in return is how all the douchebags I've encountered in person have acted.

There are nice people in the world who do not expect anything in return.

You are allowed your opinions. You can even voice them if you like. I am allowed to disagree with you and voice that disagreement.

Why don't we do the civil thing and agree to disagree, then ignore the other person and not bore the others here with needless jabs.

Fair enough...but you might want to be a little less free with your personal insults in future if you want to be taken seriously.

[sullygom]

Originally Posted by Tightcuntlover

Fair enough...but you might want to be a little less free with your personal insults in future if you want to be taken seriously.

TCL...you have reformed !!!

[RandyKnight]

I can't beleive some of the PMs I get...

One girl wanted some money to make a car payment...

WTF she gave me the wrong address and the mail was returned as wrong address....not deliverable...

[Pandorius999]

Maybe the car shop guys took jer email as part of the payment? Alomg with her holea of course.

[susi_squeeze]

Originally Posted by Yaztromo

Duh, because they are horny?

If you don't like horny men sending you countless PMs then please leave this site now!

PS - I will not be one of those men, because I'm much better than them, and respect women.

PS - will you cyber suck my cock?

Well obviosly you are kinda stupid because horny men on a forums dont ask girls for a chat, they ask them for a blowjob. Any women who is put off by that here is the one who should leave including you since you have no balls :/

You sound like a lame fuck with the nice guy act so many try like women cant see it but hey at least it soothes your ego you poor dear:/

[susi_squeeze]

Originally Posted by michael saint

Age to me is how YOU FEEL inside, not the image that you present to the outside world.

If you think a 62 year old that smokes weed is cool, you are just projecting your definition of the word onto him..........

In other words maybe the guy just likes a smoke.

How you feel inside is going to reflect how you dress and carry yourself though which means how you look.

Plus i never said smoking weed was cool but the guy is doing what he wants and doesnt care about social expectation on how a 62 year old is supposed act.

[Alyssa145]

The men are horny, I can not at all answer

[susi_squeeze]

Originally Posted by RandyKnight

I can't beleive some of the PMs I get...

One girl wanted some money to make a car payment...

WTF she gave me the wrong address and the mail was returned as wrong address....not deliverable...

Alot of men are happy to be push overs for women because men think women are impressed by a guy who will do anything for her like a good little servant which is kinda cool as long as he has a cute broke best friend i can fuck on the side when i dont have a "headache".

[susi_squeeze]

Originally Posted by Alyssa145

The men are horny, I can not at all answer

Maybe some want a girlfriend too but in that case they should visit a relationship forums.

[ace's n 8's]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

Maybe some want a girlfriend too but in that case they should visit a relationship forums.

I just want to see your tits,,how are those chances.....

[N.E. Woman]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

Maybe some want a girlfriend too but in that case they should visit a relationship forums.

Susi,
Ummm, I just read your responses and I think you are taking this a little too seriously. People posting on this site, but especially in General Discussion, thrive on sarcasm.

It's a great place to "talk" of various topics, but sometimes you need a thick skin. (a lesson I learned the hard way). Most of the people on this board are quick thinkers, typers, super sarcastic, extremely witty, very intelligent and never forget a thing you said. Ever. Then there are the others.

NEW

PS- some of the best entertainment is reading along when some of the men bicker back and forth.

PPS - all females, and some silverbacks get ridiculous PMs everyday. That is the beauty of the delete button.

[michael saint]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

How you feel inside is going to reflect how you dress and carry yourself though which means how you look.

Nonsense.

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

Plus i never said smoking weed was cool but the guy is doing what he wants and doesnt care about social expectation on how a 62 year old is supposed act.

Nonsense again.

It's not social expectation, it's YOUR expectation.

Kids like you think that you invented everything, part of growing up is realising that you didn't.

[littlenicky6666]

sounds like you know what you want, you call a spade a spade and a slut a slut. most of us are just looking to get fucked or fantasise about it at least, but you can never expect everyone to want the same thing

http://forum.xnxx.com/showthread.php?t=291821

[Hurzey]

micheal saint, I can't really support your words. Of course there is social expectation of how people in a special age act. If a 16 year old teen or a 39 year old actor smoke weed or take other drugs, people will react in another way as they would do normally, if the 64 year old man, maybe a veteran and still a working man, smokes weed. What would most people say, if their childs teacher drinks a beer in his break? They would be shocked and do everything to get their children away from this teacher or kick him out of the job. But if a normal builder does and they see him, they wouldn't even care in any way.
This is a social exception. This is what your parents, friends, media and all those things teach you. In your life you can get off this way, but there would still be the things you learned and if you got some weird fetishes, you will know, that it could be a stupid idea, to tell your boss in the bank or stuff like that. You know, because you know what people except you to do.

Back to topic: In forums like that and even more harmless ones, men see the word sex and they don't really think further. It's like seeing a movie, which is totally boring, but suddenly there are breasts and everybody is like **. But the greatest part of the work is done, by the anonymity of the internet. People can do, write and watch, whatever they want (not everything, but nearly everything). This is why we got all those porn sites, open for the 9 year old boy, which looks for the word "tits" on google, cause he heard in school. Many men just think it's kinda "cool" or "masculin" to say things like:"You're so hot! Wanna suck my dick?". They just think every woman which doesn't act classical "ladylike" on the internet, is a dirty whore and will do whatever they want. They think their cock is the best and they're the best.
In the end there is a thought like that:" Internet = freedom ----> xnxx.com = all women here are whores ----> my cock is the best ----> every woman is interested into my cock, of course she is -----> writing pm to all those women with the content: My dick is the longest, send me some pics, I'm so horny...blablabla..."
Of course this is a very one-sided argumentation, but I think you all do understand what my point is.

Awesome first post...

See ya!

[N.E. Woman]

Susi has a sock already!!

[NoTrouble]

Considering that men have to pump blood to both heads at the same time (and this is a porn forum), the smaller head usually wins out.

Way to stereotype men btw and some of us fit into the 10% that aren't "scared teenagers wanting to get noticed". The "do you swallow" post about sums it up for the most part though.

[oddbod]

Originally Posted by Pandorius999

Well let me give a guys perspective. You post PM s for around 15 odd personals threads. Half of them don't respond and quarter turn out to be pre programmed bots. How do you expect people to write sweet unique messages when for all you know the other person may just give you a link to the same cam site that the two others before gave? Or don't respond at all?

I know you'll say post less and post where it seems real but unfortunately for laymen there's now way to tell unless some telltale signs are there. As for why yahoo bcoz it's a chat programme unlike here which is like a mail programme. Why pics? How else would you know the person's real? Especially when they make specific requests like emailing them pics before they come to chat or give info. It's a valid logic on both sides live with it.

And there are some who'll jump are any girl/silverback who creates a damn profile. *sigh*

Totally agree

[timfree]

This is all the time I will waste with this newbie!!!

[sullygom]

coz some of us are wired to make you think you are a genius !!!

[steve_vme]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

First thing they want to chat about is me chatting with them on a different site with skpe yahoo or whatever for some reason, or they want me to post pictures here on this site. It's like a broken record as if they are the only one asking me these same ole questions. I might post pictures but only if i know i'm gonna stay on this site which i don't know yet.

Its called copy and paste, it is easyer than using the brain.

[Torodon]

This whole time these women are just pawing and gawking over my manliness. All I ever wanted was a good sweet southern girl who knows how to cook, clean, and birth pretty babies to want a good wholesome hearted man to provide and take care of her...but here...all i get is sex crazed sluts who can only think about sex and self-gratification.

Sheesh...what does a man have to do to find a good woman on a XXX rated sex sight these days. Can't I just be treated like a man instead of a piece of raw meat to be devoured.

HEHE...and that is what we call sarcasm ladies and gentlemen.

Now that that is out of the way...you can't expect a guy that is sitting there watching every kind of porn in the world to want to talk about normal every day things. We are just not programmed that way. When we see a naked woman, the intelligence module in our brain shuts off, and the sex module in our cock clicks on. It is kind of like the air conditioner and heater in the car...they two are just not designed to work at the same time. LOL

[sockaraus]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

First thing they want to chat about is me chatting with them on a different site with skpe yahoo or whatever for some reason, or they want me to post pictures here on this site. It's like a broken record as if they are the only one asking me these same ole questions. I might post pictures but only if i know i'm gonna stay on this site which i don't know yet.

Because we can?

[curiousscouser]

Well at the risk of sounding bitchy, you go onto the personals board of a porn forum and post:

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

Since i been here i have got tons of pms and never did one guy come at me for sex. They only want a conversation i have to always make the first move to make it sexual every fucking time! Lol sum guys want you to do everything like they are a dunce. Lol

Now a bunch of guys will do it only cuz i said with their pms.

Well, you've got to expect guys are going to see that as an invitation and some of the freaks will start crawling out of the woodwork.
If you don't want random PMs, change your settings to friends only and be selective about which friend invitations to accept. Voila, problem solved.

[rowdy3128]

I don't know about all guys but my typing suck all the time I read it back just don't sound right.......but thinking to typing just not the best......

[m21]

Originally Posted by Hurzey

micheal saint, I can't really support your words. Of course there is social expectation of how people in a special age act. If a 16 year old teen or a 39 year old actor smoke weed or take other drugs, people will react in another way as they would do normally, if the 64 year old man, maybe a veteran and still a working man, smokes weed. What would most people say, if their childs teacher drinks a beer in his break? They would be shocked and do everything to get their children away from this teacher or kick him out of the job. But if a normal builder does and they see him, they wouldn't even care in any way.
This is a social exception. This is what your parents, friends, media and all those things teach you. In your life you can get off this way, but there would still be the things you learned and if you got some weird fetishes, you will know, that it could be a stupid idea, to tell your boss in the bank or stuff like that. You know, because you know what people except you to do.

Back to topic: In forums like that and even more harmless ones, men see the word sex and they don't really think further. It's like seeing a movie, which is totally boring, but suddenly there are breasts and everybody is like **. But the greatest part of the work is done, by the anonymity of the internet. People can do, write and watch, whatever they want (not everything, but nearly everything). This is why we got all those porn sites, open for the 9 year old boy, which looks for the word "tits" on google, cause he heard in school. Many men just think it's kinda "cool" or "masculin" to say things like:"You're so hot! Wanna suck my dick?". They just think every woman which doesn't act classical "ladylike" on the internet, is a dirty whore and will do whatever they want. They think their cock is the best and they're the best.
In the end there is a thought like that:" Internet = freedom ----> xnxx.com = all women here are whores ----> my cock is the best ----> every woman is interested into my cock, of course she is -----> writing pm to all those women with the content: My dick is the longest, send me some pics, I'm so horny...blablabla..."
Of course this is a very one-sided argumentation, but I think you all do understand what my point is.

Awesome first post...

See ya!

I don't. I haven't got a fucking clue what you are babbling on about.

[Charlesa1]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

Im wasted with a dildo in me but need sum real shit

just like in life people react to the surroundings around them, especially the people in their environment. that's how we all determine how everyone is like and make our own views about them. i know when i come here i do it for my own sexual gain to find and talk to people like me.

[christina2706]

They send the messages in the hopes of snagging a cute chick to chat up.

I used to respond to them to decline the offers and I've also tried to have something in my sig to discourage them from contacting me in the first place but neither tactic worked very well. What has worked for me is to just ignore them. If someone is especially nice and friendly I'll reply but most are pretty obnoxious.

[AZRIEL]

Originally Posted by Tinycocklover

The simple fact that you believe I am part of any clique on here makes any other judgement or opinion of yours nothing but laughable.