A Family Dilemma

[AXSO]

I think my aunt wants to have sex with me, but I am not certain. I'm 21 years old and she is not of any blood relation to me as that side of family was married in, but she's known me since I was 6.

Over the past 3 years she seems to have become very...friendly toward me. Sitting next to me at dinners over her husband, specifically finding me at family holidays to say good bye to me even though we never talked growing up, looking at me from across the room and out of the corner of her eye, casting a gentle and almost desperate smile from time to time at me, etc.

She is a complete MILF, 43 with a tight and very well taken care of body that I would destroy if I got a chance. The thing is....I have no idea if these are real signs or I'm just having fantasies.

How do I find out if she's down to fuck? I don't think asking her straight forward would be the best plan, so what do I do? All I know is that next time the family is together, I'm testing the waters.

[Old Man]

Well you say she is totally hot for her age. I think I would walk up behind her and pat her on the ass and say Aunt (her Name) you a sexy butt, but make sure it is just the two you as you don't want to cause an embarrassing situation.

[SecretSexyBlogger]

Common sense would dictate that you don't fuck your family - even if you're not biologically related.

Women aren't exactly that subtle, if she wants you, trust me you two will end up alone together at some stage and things will be clear to you.

Strongest advice? Don't be a fucking moron, don't cause a shit storm, and don't dick around. You'll make your whole family a mess.

[Yikes_Run!!]

Common sense would dictate that you don't fuck your family - even if you're not biologically related.

Women aren't exactly that subtle, if she wants you, trust me you two will end up alone together at some stage and things will be clear to you.

Strongest advice? Don't be a fucking moron, don't cause a shit storm, and don't dick around. You'll make your whole family a mess.
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This is good advice here. But reguardless of the story you may want to explor it because your curiosity will keep you second guessing yourself for years. I wouldnt touch her like Old Man suggests. I prefer a more subtle yet direct approach...

Get her alone. invite her out for a coffee or an icecream. and talk to her. Stay public and be honest. explain that you have been getting vibes and you arnt sure what then mean. and ask her to explain them. You may be suprised to find the truth. and for your familys sake DO NOT TOUCH HER unless she invites you to!!!

[scorn721]

Provided these signals are as you say. Sometimes we, as guys, can read into something that isn't really there, if we are very attracted/lustful of someone. Although, these do sound like genuine signals. That being said, the others are right to tread carefully. If I were in your situation, the next time Isee her, I would wait until she was alone, before greeting her, if possible. When you do greet her, give her a compliment a out her looks. Fof example, "Wow, you sure look stunning!". Assuming you hug as you greet, hug her a tad bit longer than usual, and squeeze gently (sincerely, heartfelt) upon release of hug, look her in eyes, smile and wink at her. Then read her body language/response.

If you have read her wrong, no harm no foul. If you are correct, there should be a more definative signal.

Would be curious to hear what happens.

Ofcourse this is just what I would do. I could be full of crap.