Why wont men learn if you want to start chatting saying "hey" won't do it.

[Red Headed Raleigh Ride]

Maybe its me, but I'd at least like to be said hello to and maybe a name. Hopefully I'm not the only lady that feels like this.

[Kenster]

well i would be shy especially if the lady is really good looking or nervous at the start

[Red Headed Raleigh Ride]

I was mostly talking on here...but I see what you mean. If you can say "hey" you can say hello and "my name is ______".

[Kenster]

mmm i think the Net took over instead of saying "hello" its all became "hey" as the year went by.

[I hate implants]

Originally Posted by Red Headed Raleigh Ride

I was mostly talking on here...but I see what you mean. If you can say "hey" you can say hello and "my name is ______".

a lot of people don't like to give out real names. Can do a lot of damage with a name and an email address. Doesn't seem right to start out with a lie, even if it is a stage name.

[Red Headed Raleigh Ride]

A first name cannot hurt, as for email I totally agree. Im Gina, how is everyone doing?

[Kenster]

Hi Gina, im well thanks and how are you?

[I hate implants]

Originally Posted by Red Headed Raleigh Ride

A first name cannot hurt, as for email I totally agree. Im Gina, how is everyone doing?

I'm good Gina, I think the problem is that there are ways to find an email through a few of the chatting features.

But I'll keep in mind not to use hey, even though it's code for "are you online?"

[Red Headed Raleigh Ride]

lol...well at least I have helped one person. Can you really find email adresses?

[I hate implants]

Originally Posted by Red Headed Raleigh Ride

lol...well at least I have helped one person. Can you really find email adresses?

on a few if you know how to handle it. Many you need to become acquintances or some such which usually grants some access to the profile.

[realsexkitten256]

Unless your name is something extraordinarily unique, a first name isn't going to reveal much of anything.
And email addresses are free; make one for friends/family and one for debauchery.

[Red Headed Raleigh Ride]

Thats what I have done, I have one that is only for here and my husband and mines dirty little secrets.

[I hate implants]

Originally Posted by realsexkitten256

Unless your name is something extraordinarily unique, a first name isn't going to reveal much of anything.
And email addresses are free; make one for friends/family and one for debauchery.

good advice

[Kimiko]

Originally Posted by Red Headed Raleigh Ride

Maybe its me, but I'd at least like to be said hello to and maybe a name. Hopefully I'm not the only lady that feels like this.

No, you're not. And more to the point, I'd like to feel that the message I just got sent wasn't also being received verbatim by a dozen other people. So guys, a little customization might be in order.

[Red Headed Raleigh Ride]

I totally agree Kimiko. I post some general info about me for a reason, I want to feel special and to be a little like you want ME not just a hot body.

[Oweena]

Originally Posted by Red Headed Raleigh Ride

Maybe its me, but I'd at least like to be said hello to and maybe a name. Hopefully I'm not the only lady that feels like this.

You are not alone. Most guys haven't a clue how to start a conversation with any one. So they say "Hey" Thinking they are getting your attention.

I know I am guy and when I was young I was just like them. I had to get old to learn how to talk to people.

[pedro45]

I've tried being creative and it does help....by the way I'm Jake.

[albertjones6262]

Full sentences and corrot spell are very seldom seen in a type on the net. Most things are implied. Hello Red

[Ripple69]

Yep I think most women just want a little intelligent converstion. Insted of just something like "hey baby what's up?"

[sapphire_angel]

Originally Posted by Ripple69

Yep I think most women just want a little intelligent converstion. Insted of just something like "hey baby what's up?"

Exactly...it's nice to get something other than "Hey BB wanna watch me cum on cam?"

(HINT: Answer = NO)

[susi_squeeze]

Some guys dont have any ballz even behind a screen

[ZowieLovesAnal]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

Some guys dont have any ballz even behind a screen

You're right, everyday it's the same fucking message, just a different username. "hey wanna <insert skye/yahoo/msn> I'm <age> and have a huge throbbing four inch cock."

Great, good for you, why would you want to share that misfortune with me?

or if I'm really unlucky I just get a picture of the 4" member. It's no surprise that women probably make up less than 1% of the population here.

[lifeslayer696]

Originally Posted by Red Headed Raleigh Ride

Maybe its me, but I'd at least like to be said hello to and maybe a name. Hopefully I'm not the only lady that feels like this.

I don't know exactly what you are referring too. If you mean in a pm, than yes...people should articulate a little more. But, if you chat through im's, I guess that a/s/l can be told during the conversation.

But I do agree with you on the fact that many people on here (both males and females, trust me) pm with just a word or without any purpose.

[nativepimp]

Why do people freak out on the word hey so much? I say just hey to people all the time it tells me if they want to chat. If they want to then we can have a conversation if not oh well . But for the first message sent its usually just going to be hey for me

[drayman9]

i wanna talk to someone, im puttin up pics soon

[drayman9]

any girls that are freaks message me

[skinsman82000]

Hello, I'm David, nice to meet you all, haha.

[susi_squeeze]

Originally Posted by ZowieLovesAnal

You're right, everyday it's the same fucking message, just a different username. "hey wanna <insert skye/yahoo/msn> I'm <age> and have a huge throbbing four inch cock."

Great, good for you, why would you want to share that misfortune with me?

or if I'm really unlucky I just get a picture of the 4" member. It's no surprise that women probably make up less than 1% of the population here.

A girl cant even get rp raped properly either they kill the mood right away with wanting my phone # or to join skype yahoo shit lol they like have ZERO imagination lol

[bmxrider23]

Would u rather a guy say hey everytime or him suck my cock lol I still thank hey is better but like u know its up to u

[wickednsweet]

Originally Posted by susi_squeeze

A girl cant even get rp raped properly either they kill the mood right away with wanting my phone # or to join skype yahoo shit lol they like have ZERO imagination lol

What is it with guys? Guys, if we were in the middle of sex, would you stop and ask me for my email address?

Perhaps Susi, you should make up a form or an application for rp with you and do a job interview. Lol

[asdasdasxde]

actually you're right but you know hey is a simple and the easiest meeting word

[Old Tool]

Originally Posted by Red Headed Raleigh Ride

Maybe its me, but I'd at least like to be said hello to and maybe a name. Hopefully I'm not the only lady that feels like this.

Hello to Walter.

[imova]

I have no balls when it comes to starting conversations in real life, but if I chat with someone on the 'net I always say hello to start off, and eventually my name. I find it better than 'hey, you wanna cyber?' And *gasp* I actually like having REAL conversations.

[Jerry626]

I usually only use hey, hi, hello as the subject header, not the context. Is that fine? I'm Jerry by the way

[Sgtgunner]

Hello everyone my name is John.

[Rygy]

I normally only say hey when it comes to my friends because of the fact that it feels to informal especially if your trying to meet someone new but I don't like hello either I'm more of a guy who uses hi my name is Ryan not hello my name is Ryan it seems like that should be on a name sticker that you put on your shirt!

[Gooblaster]

Women like to feel special. Hey does not cut the mustard. Women are special. Cock pics do not cut the mustard. Men do learn communication skills. But there will always be the masses who suffer the ignorance of youth, the stupidity of drunkeness, or are just plain shy or uncivilized. I do sympathize.

[ThomP]

Originally Posted by Gooblaster

Women like to feel special. Hey does not cut the mustard. Women are special. Cock pics do not cut the mustard. Men do learn communication skills. But there will always be the masses who suffer the ignorance of youth, the stupidity of drunkeness, or are just plain shy or uncivilized. I do sympathize.

This also works the other way around

[babyunicorn]

There are a lot of fake accounts out there and unfortunately after a while you just say hey to see if the other person is real or trying to get you to join their site. I'm new to this one though so hopefully It's better here.