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[voicesct]

what does it mean when the sex dies down in a relationship

[Cheltenham]

It means that you're being quieter when you fuck. I'd suggest you make more noise when the two (or more) of you are screwing.

[mt692007]

It means someone is getting it elsewhere......

[goldenman888]

Though I don't think the poster above knows what he is talking about - as often as not, someone getting something on the side is going to be more interested in getting more at home.

Might be a medical problem. Might be a mental problem. And the fact is that as some people age, their libido's change. Some people want sex less, some more.

Quite often it mean that one partner or the other is having self image problems too.

Talk it out. Sometimes though (as in my relationship) it is just a fact of life.

[vegasmon]

if its a chick thats not putting out she's fucking somebody else if its a guy he's bored of the chick and wants to trade her in for a new model...

[nikkitassassin]

Originally Posted by vegasmon

if its a chick thats not putting out she's fucking somebody else if its a guy he's bored of the chick and wants to trade her in for a new model...

Originally Posted by mt692007

It means someone is getting it elsewhere......

Not necessarily true.

Originally Posted by goldenman888

Though I don't think the poster above knows what he is talking about - as often as not, someone getting something on the side is going to be more interested in getting more at home.

Might be a medical problem. Might be a mental problem. And the fact is that as some people age, their libido's change. Some people want sex less, some more.

Quite often it mean that one partner or the other is having self image problems too.

Talk it out. Sometimes though (as in my relationship) it is just a fact of life.

This is a good answer (why is there no like button - damn you facebook!).

In a relationship then sometimes, mood, or timing can cause probles with sex. Lately my own relationship sex has died down , because we dont get much opportunity and when we do either one of us is tired, or sick, or not in the mood.

Talk to each other. Not talking ruins more relationships

[Petetp]

Time to move on

[Gooblaster]

It means that it sucks to be you. Talk it out. Do the best you can. Then live with it or leave. Stress for me is a libido killer. Being overly tired doesn't help. What are you prepared to do to make it hot in the bedroom again?

[SecretSexyBlogger]

Sex has ebbs and flows in normal relationships. Once the honeymoon period is over, and reality sets back in, you come to a point where sex is less frequent than when you first started.

There are periods where things connect better, stress is low, and sex comes more often. Other times, life seems to be full of obligations, stress and keeps you busy, net result... less sex.

It can mean cheating but it doesn't have to.

Analyse the things that you're doing differently compared to when you were having sex a lot, then analyse the things she's doing differently. If you've started new bad habits, or she has, then tackle those first. Sometimes it can be as simple as in the early days you helped out around the place, took her out, and now you're slacking in those departments.

Often when women don't want to fuck you, it's not them "punishing" you, but it's really hard for us to get all libido'd up for a guy who's sat on the couch, playing video games in his boxers at 4pm. Same goes for a partner who's gone at 6am, back at 7pm and is too stressed and cranky to talk.

Hard to give you any better clues without knowing more about the situation. But there you have it.

[Rothko]

Originally Posted by SecretSexyBlogger

Sex has ebbs and flows in normal relationships. Once the honeymoon period is over, and reality sets back in, you come to a point where sex is less frequent than when you first started.

There are periods where things connect better, stress is low, and sex comes more often. Other times, life seems to be full of obligations, stress and keeps you busy, net result... less sex.

It can mean cheating but it doesn't have to.

Analyse the things that you're doing differently compared to when you were having sex a lot, then analyse the things she's doing differently. If you've started new bad habits, or she has, then tackle those first. Sometimes it can be as simple as in the early days you helped out around the place, took her out, and now you're slacking in those departments.

Often when women don't want to fuck you, it's not them "punishing" you, but it's really hard for us to get all libido'd up for a guy who's sat on the couch, playing video games in his boxers at 4pm. Same goes for a partner who's gone at 6am, back at 7pm and is too stressed and cranky to talk.

Hard to give you any better clues without knowing more about the situation. But there you have it.

If you want a proper answer the above should do it and that is why I have quoted it just so you dont get side tracked by the bull shit answers from some posters.

It is true that sex dies down after the 'honeymoon' period but it would be good to know how long in to your relationship you are. Lots of factors can play a part, stress, lack of sleep, drugs ( prescribed or non prescribed). Less sex is one thing, no sex another, without a little more meat on the bone ( so to speak) it is a little difficult to know. Perhaps a little more information on your situation and a better answer might be forthcoming

[littlenicky6666]

ive been with my partner for nearly 10 years, and in that period the amount of sex we have has changed countless times, as people have stated it can be from stress or confidence or any external factor.

but the only thing i would add is that its what's left that matters, it doesnt indicate anything wrong with your relationship or infidelity. but it does force you to look at the aspects in your partner that arent driven by sex.

generally its also very often due to both partners not taking the initiative (whatever the reason) and unless your partner is rejecting you often it just requires more effort to engage than in the 'honeymoon' period.

[Milo Cronos]

Originally Posted by voicesct

what does it mean when the sex dies down in a relationship

Comfort breeds that feeling of security that there's always tomorrow? We're all at our best when we're searching for it but, once we have it for long enough we become complacent and don't work as hard for each others benefits. If we're always working at improving our finances, health, etc; along with our sexual outlook and treat our time together as a priority! Instead of what we do, after everything is done first (housework, chores, our job and our extracurricular activities) than we would be better off and relationships would last a lot longer naturally? Since it can happen to us all the solution lies in acting upon the problem immediately and not fearing reprisal if we are trying to improve and not accuse who's at fault here! Looking ahead in any relationship if you don't think you'll always be able to make time for your lover and your love life then your not ready for a relationship even, if it's only sexual and always be open to adapting when stress is high and time are less available!

[Rixer]

I wouldn't know..