I really hate this!

[christina2706]

It never bothered me before but I really fucking hate looking over at my guy's laptop to see that he's watching porn while sitting right next to me. He doesn't touch me or engage me in any way. He's too absorbed in his porn. UGH!!!! IT MAKES ME SO MAD!!!

*sigh* I think I just needed to get that off my chest.

[RRH78]

No I'd be irritated if someone did that to me also.

[Jimmy6512]

How to he watch porn and manage to not touch you? My hands would be all over the girl I was next to. I would be asking if you wanted to watch too, join in the fun

[christina2706]

I used to watch with him. In fact, I think I used to watch it more than he did but now things are different. It never bothered me before either but I can't tell if I was different then or if it's because I was the one doing most of the watching.

[Hottest Couple Alive]

Christina I understand what you are saying. When he watches porn and and you are there does he touch himself? Is this something new or has he been doing it for a while?

[Jimmy6512]

You should try touching him and get involved. I'm sure he would love the surprise. I love it when th girl takes the iniciative.

[NewtonInk]

the best porn is personal . . .

just sayin'

[christina2706]

Originally Posted by Hottest Couple Alive

Christina I understand what you are saying. When he watches porn and and you are there does he touch himself? Is this something new or has he been doing it for a while?

No touching and it's fairly new. I feel like he's trying to get himself ready for me. Since when is that necessary?

Originally Posted by Jimmy6512

You should try touching him and get involved. I'm sure he would love the surprise. I love it when th girl takes the iniciative.

Yeah, I know. But I'm tired of always being the one. I'm about to just roll over and close my eyes and pray for sleep (and hopefully naughty dreams) to take me.

[Jimmy6512]

True it shouldn't be a one way road. Maybe you should tell him you want more attention then he gives his porn.

[Hottest Couple Alive]

Cristina is he normally the one who initiates sex? He could be doing it in an attempt to get you to imitate sex. Did you try talking to him about it?

[minitrucker00]

Originally Posted by christina2706

It never bothered me before but I really fucking hate looking over at my guy's laptop to see that he's watching porn while sitting right next to me. He doesn't touch me or engage me in any way. He's too absorbed in his porn. UGH!!!! IT MAKES ME SO MAD!!!

*sigh* I think I just needed to get that off my chest.

have to put my $0.02 in.. so you are incredibly gorgeous, right next to him, he's clearly "in the mood" ... and he would rather watch porn than spend time with you... #whatthefuck? -____-

[sexomaniac]

Tell him to stop watching porn and to make his own porn movies with you then watch them.

[Furred Goddess]

I know the feeling. My husband will look at porn and then.... nothing. What irritates me is when he will go watch porn, jerk off and then lie about he did it. I know I shouldn't get mad but he RARELY has a sex drive so if he rubs one out, there is no sex time for me. For example, I caught him last week. He told me he would have sex with me that night to make up for it... well... it's been 5 days and he hasn't even groped me. He will whisper in my ear how he wants to fuck me, just bend me over and take me hard but never happens. He jerks off, saying he doesn't want to wake me and he is horny. He knows I am never too tired for sex. I am addicted to him. With him, it's laziness... but then gets mad if I take care of my own problem. I can jill off all day and STILL want to go a few rounds with him.

[big_ups_yo]

Have you shared your concerns with him?
If so, what does he say???

Love
big_ups

[SecretSexyBlogger]

I hope you two can sort it out, it sucks that you're feeling a little left out though!

Maybe try getting in on the action, or asking him to do it in private?

Good luck

[SecretSexyBlogger]

I hope you two can sort it out, it sucks that you're feeling a little left out though!

Maybe try getting in on the action, or asking him to do it in private?

Good luck

[mrstennbabe]

id just like to point out....

just because hes watching it.. doesnt mean he wants sex. something might have peeked his interest.

i RARELY use pornnto get in the mood... nore does my husband. lol..

so dont assume anything... the best thing to do is to tell him how you feel. and go from there.

[Frolip84]

Porn has fucked up his thoughts about sexuality. It's more complex than you think. It's all about escalation. The guy looks at porn for long periods of time and his sex drive weirds out in a different direction than the woman he is with for awhile. The woman on the other hand stays in the same sexual "place" because generally women are fantasizing and not consuming porn.

You either have to suck it up and give in to escalation and find changing ways to satisfy him (remember, he is looking at different porn all the time), or you have to find a way to get him to understand what is happening to his psychology. Get creative. Make him hold off on jerking off because you will reward him with something different than what you've done sexually.

You may not be lazy sexually per se, but the longer you are with someone, the staler and lazier you become regardless of sexual levels. Whatever you do, don't demonize the porn because you won't win against someone that doesn't understand the psychology of it all.

[gfdemosh]

i've always wished my gf would catch me watching porn and instead of laughing or being mad she would tell me to keep watching and either give me head or jerk me off
maybe try that and see what he does

[shyguyy2]

I don't know what to say. As a man I don't have a huge sex drive like most men but I've seen your pics I wouldn't be looking at porn if I was him.

[ace's n 8's]

Originally Posted by christina2706

I used to watch with him. In fact, I think I used to watch it more than he did but now things are different. It never bothered me before either but I can't tell if I was different then or if it's because I was the one doing most of the watching.

Dont blame him, if you think your habits have changed.

[Milo Cronos]

CHRISTINA, THAT'S JUST FUCKING RUDE! I love watching porn when my wife is in the shower and I turn it off till just time when we can both watch it together? Not, that it's necessary at that point we just enjoy it while we relax together, straighten him out evidently he can't see the forest beyond the trees?

[Thomas1960]

Originally Posted by christina2706

It never bothered me before but I really fucking hate looking over at my guy's laptop to see that he's watching porn while sitting right next to me. He doesn't touch me or engage me in any way. He's too absorbed in his porn. UGH!!!! IT MAKES ME SO MAD!!!

*sigh* I think I just needed to get that off my chest.

With a beautiful lady sitting next to him such as you Christina you both should be making porn not watching it!

[bongzilla]

What are you NOT doing that makes him want to watch porn????

[Operatorman]

I don't think I could sit and watch porn if you were beside me in bed. I'd give the porn up for the sex anyway. My ex would want sex everyday, and lovers to fuck whenever. My wife now could care less about sex. He is loco for not wanting the real thing over watching a movie

[christina2706]

Thanks everyone for your feedback. It's probably just some phase we're going through.

Originally Posted by Furred Goddess

I know the feeling.

Thanks FG. It's good to know I'm not the only one dealing with this.

Originally Posted by ace's n 8's

Dont blame him, if you think your habits have changed.

I know! That's why I'm not sure.

Originally Posted by Milo Cronos

CHRISTINA, THAT'S JUST FUCKING RUDE!

That's what I thought! I doubt it would have bothered me before but it just feels different lately. I have no idea what's up with me... or him... ugh.

Originally Posted by bongzilla

What are you NOT doing that makes him want to watch porn????

No idea though it does take two. And I've never turned him down for anything. Ever.

[wantsomefun]

One of two things is happening here.

1. He's lost his fucking mind. I've seen your albums, my dear. He. has. lost. his. fucking. mind.

OR

2. He's trying to decide how he's going to please you next, how he's going to reduce you to a sloppy wet mess of used-up hormones.



Let's hope for #2.

[NewtonInk]

Originally Posted by Frolip84

Porn has fucked up his thoughts about sexuality. It's more complex than you think. It's all about escalation. The guy looks at porn for long periods of time and his sex drive weirds out in a different direction than the woman he is with for awhile. The woman on the other hand stays in the same sexual "place" because generally women are fantasizing and not consuming porn.

You either have to suck it up and give in to escalation and find changing ways to satisfy him (remember, he is looking at different porn all the time), or you have to find a way to get him to understand what is happening to his psychology. Get creative. Make him hold off on jerking off because you will reward him with something different than what you've done sexually.

You may not be lazy sexually per se, but the longer you are with someone, the staler and lazier you become regardless of sexual levels. Whatever you do, don't demonize the porn because you won't win against someone that doesn't understand the psychology of it all.

1. I agree with most of this post. Porn has it's own life and personality.

2. I do NOT agree with any post that suggests it's your fault . . . no . . . fault is the wrong word . . . it's not your responsibility to lure him away. He got there on his own. Just sayin'.

[mdesk66]

if you need some time away you can come see me!! he he

Im sorry. . .you are so beautiful I wouldnt need a laptop to get ready-

[N.E. Woman]

I sometimes wonder if men have the equivalent of PMS.

My husband and I have been together for 21 years and there are times that he just isn't in the mood. Other times I get a look and him telling me everything he's going to do to me.
Is this normal or should he be on hormone replacement (of testosterone?)

I on the other hand would have sex every night at least. Thank god for silicone products and batteries!

[NewtonInk]

Men ARE built different . . . just not as predictable.

PMS???

as in Pissy Male Syndrome???

yes . . . we have our quirks.

[N.E. Woman]

Originally Posted by NewtonInk

Men ARE built different . . . just not as predictable.

PMS???

as in Pissy Male Syndrome???

yes . . . we have our quirks.

Men are built different??? Shocking! .

I like the Pissy Male Syndrome definition.... Can I use that?

[NewtonInk]

All rights reserved unless specifically denied by MLB, NFL and ummm . . .

ok . . .

use as you wish

[Frolip84]

Originally Posted by NewtonInk

1. I agree with most of this post. Porn has it's own life and personality.

2. I do NOT agree with any post that suggests it's your fault . . . no . . . fault is the wrong word . . . it's not your responsibility to lure him away. He got there on his own. Just sayin'.

When two people are together and have been with each other for awhile and are committed, then yes, responsibility is shared. Leaving someone else to figure out stuff on their own assumes that everyone is a self-analyzing person of above average intelligence with ample consideration for others. Which is incredibly not true.

[Jerry626]

He should be fucking your brains out, not wanking to porn. Shot I know if you were next to me, you'd soon be under me lol

[sab2055]

what kind of porn is he watching? is it kinky stuff that u would not conseder doing with him? if it is maby thats why maby he is rly into a certent type of sex and gets off to waching this becouse he thinks u would never go for it. just pay attention to what he is watching

[DickDodge]

This issue has probably gone on for years. Well now women are doing the same thing.
Millions of women are reading the phenomenon of "Fifty Shades Of Gray" while sitting right next to their husband who happens to have a cock. While some probably do jump on their man after reading, I am sure there are plenty that will handle business on their own.

[scottMaster]

Originally Posted by christina2706

It never bothered me before but I really fucking hate looking over at my guy's laptop to see that he's watching porn while sitting right next to me. He doesn't touch me or engage me in any way. He's too absorbed in his porn. UGH!!!! IT MAKES ME SO MAD!!!

*sigh* I think I just needed to get that off my chest.

I would rather be making porn with you than watching it he must have serious issues time for a new friend that respects and wants you beautiful

[N.E. Woman]

Originally Posted by DickDodge

This issue has probably gone on for years. Well now women are doing the same thing.
Millions of women are reading the phenomenon of "Fifty Shades Of Gray" while sitting right next to their husband who happens to have a cock. While some probably do jump on their man after reading, I am sure there are plenty that will handle business on their own.

I don't agree.... There are things that having sex with a man can do that my silicone and battery boyfriend can't.

1. The feel of his chest hairs rubbing against my breasts
2. His weight holding me down into our bed
3. The manly smell as we get heated up
4. Him saying all the dirty things in my ear as we're going at it
5. The heat of his mouth all over my body
6. The look in his eyes telling me how he loves me
7. The flavor of him on my taste buds
8. The pulsating feeling deep inside me as he finishes

The books are fine to warm up my libido, but the "8 Reasons for a Real Man" are better in my opinion.

[frank1234]

My GF keeps saying that i can get her off better than she can herself. So there's that.

(she may just be lying:P)

[ital35m]

Guessing he knew it didn`t bother before. Does he know it pisses you off now?

[Mnt2cum4U]

Originally Posted by christina2706

No touching and it's fairly new. I feel like he's trying to get himself ready for me. Since when is that necessary?


Yeah, I know. But I'm tired of always being the one. I'm about to just roll over and close my eyes and pray for sleep (and hopefully naughty dreams) to take me.

What I hate is that my husband will get me dressed up in my leather stockings and shoes and make up then I lay there on the bed like a stick in the mud while he watches porn. Getting board I wil mess with him is my thoughts. While ust get unsweetened coco.