zero self confidence

[Snowman_M]

hi.

well to me im 20 yrs old and i have like zero self confidence. its just so fucking hard to go to a women and speak to her. its no problem for me to talk in general with women, like girlfriends of friends of mine and women i know. but when im in a club or a disco its so hard to talk with them for me. i have no clue why.. it just works when im extremely drunk lol

http://forum.xnxx.com/showthread.php?t=303094

everybody tells me i look good. but i dont know where the problem is..

sometimes i feel a little pathetic because some women come and talk with me and i think thats not how it should be... a man should show courage and talk to a women and not a women to a man

sorry bad english

[Druidoak]

Confidence is a learned skill, to very few does it come naturally. Some guys learn it from their fathers, others from playing sports and then others learn it in the military.

Do not confuse arrogance, or giant egos with confidence. Confidence comes with knowing yourself, being secure with your abilities. Not just your skills with the ladies, but with your whole life.

Your 20 years old, get out there and don't be scared of the word "NO". It's about selling yourself. Some will buy, some will not. It's also about numbers, the more you try, the more you will succeed.

[Milo Cronos]

Originally Posted by Snowman_M

hi.

well to me im 20 yrs old and i have like zero self confidence. its just so fucking hard to go to a women and speak to her. its no problem for me to talk in general with women, like girlfriends of friends of mine and women i know. but when im in a club or a disco its so hard to talk with them for me. i have no clue why.. it just works when im extremely drunk lol

http://forum.xnxx.com/showthread.php?t=303094

everybody tells me i look good. but i dont know where the problem is..

sometimes i feel a little pathetic because some women come and talk with me and i think thats not how it should be... a man should show courage and talk to a women and not a women to a man

sorry bad english

You seem like an attractive kid but, just lost on the self confidence? So women come up to you use that to learn how to speak to them, get feedback from your friends who are girls and learn as much as you can about them? My best friends have always been women I don't relate to the whole sports, cars and cheap women mentality but, I listened to my girlfriends when they'd say what they didn't like about guys and what they did like? Druid Oak is exactly right, it takes practice to get good at it every step one at a time you'll get it, worrying makes it worse! O.K.

[krait]

Originally Posted by Snowman_M

hi.

well to me im 20 yrs old and i have like zero self confidence. its just so fucking hard to go to a women and speak to her. its no problem for me to talk in general with women, like girlfriends of friends of mine and women i know. but when im in a club or a disco its so hard to talk with them for me. i have no clue why.. it just works when im extremely drunk lol

http://forum.xnxx.com/showthread.php?t=303094

everybody tells me i look good. but i dont know where the problem is..

sometimes i feel a little pathetic because some women come and talk with me and i think thats not how it should be... a man should show courage and talk to a women and not a women to a man

sorry bad english

first, STOP THE DRINKING.

second, find yourself a HAND DANCING class.

there are lots of MATURE/OLDER WOMEN ( 50 plus ) in hand dancing class.
GOOGLE hand dancing classes in ( your state here ), to see if any are
near you. you will have lots of confidence after your course is over.

[bongzilla]

You are a good looking stud and confidence comes later
when you really don,t care what anyone else thinks about you or says to you.

I say around 25-30 ish.