My Boyfriend's Demands...

[angelacandy1]

I have a new boyfriend...just about ten days since we are together. I am a very deep sleeper, and my boyfriend is a very light sleeper. He often wakes up at various times, and insists that I take care of his needs at all times. During our waking hours, ofcourse we are together, and have a very active sex life. But he insists that at night when he is awake, and nudges me, my first reaction should be to get closer and hold his cock...and service him. He wants this to be some kind of reflex action. While, when asleep, I am really asleep. We had a fight over this last morning. Am I being unreasonable?

[Ovid58]

Originally Posted by angelacandy1

I have a new boyfriend...just about ten days since we are together. I am a very deep sleeper, and my boyfriend is a very light sleeper. He often wakes up at various times, and insists that I take care of his needs at all times. During our waking hours, ofcourse we are together, and have a very active sex life. But he insists that at night when he is awake, and nudges me, my first reaction should be to get closer and hold his cock...and service him. He wants this to be some kind of reflex action. While, when asleep, I am really asleep. We had a fight over this last morning. Am I being unreasonable?

If, after only ten days, things go as you describe them, just make your boyfriend be an EX boyfriend!
HE is being unreasonable!

[Milo Cronos]

Originally Posted by angelacandy1

I have a new boyfriend...just about ten days since we are together. I am a very deep sleeper, and my boyfriend is a very light sleeper. He often wakes up at various times, and insists that I take care of his needs at all times. During our waking hours, ofcourse we are together, and have a very active sex life. But he insists that at night when he is awake, and nudges me, my first reaction should be to get closer and hold his cock...and service him. He wants this to be some kind of reflex action. While, when asleep, I am really asleep. We had a fight over this last morning. Am I being unreasonable?

No! If your being open when your awake he should respect your sleep and seems like he could be a controlling asshole in the works, be aware and follow your instincts!

[angelacandy1]

Originally Posted by Milo Cronos

No! If your being open when your awake he should respect your sleep and seems like he could be a controlling asshole in the works, be aware and follow your instincts!

Ya, I dress as he wants me to, do all things he wants me to, give him as much sex he wants, talk dirty to him, sext him all the time, and now he wants me to give up my sleep and be onn the lookout if he is awake. In fact I told him that I dont mind if he fondles me when I am asleep...but dont expect a very active participation. But he refuses to listen...

[Capnip-Everdeen]

If you're being serious, leave him. But if this is real and you're like a lot of women, you probably enjoy the way he treats you during waking hours. What makes sleep any different?

[curvedcock]

sounds like you are being a very willing girlfriend to him when your awake. You deserve to get a good nights sleep every night. i understand that occasionally he wanting you to service him in the middle of the night, but not every moment he wakes up. sleep is necessary for everyone, and he already makes you do what he wants every waking moment of the day. I suggest you talk to him about it and let him know you are not his fuck hole and he needs to respect you. and if its only been 10 days of being together he's already this way, consider this. it will only get worse with time.

I think he is being a complete ass, and you really need to find someone a bit less controlling. Unless you really like being totally and completely dominated and submissive to him, then stay with him and have no life outside of fucking him, sexting, being his slave in every way, and losing friends and not seeing family and whatever else you currently are allowed to do.

[Ovid58]

Originally Posted by angelacandy1

Ya, I dress as he wants me to, do all things he wants me to, give him as much sex he wants, talk dirty to him, sext him all the time, and now he wants me to give up my sleep and be onn the lookout if he is awake. In fact I told him that I dont mind if he fondles me when I am asleep...but dont expect a very active participation. But he refuses to listen...

Girl! (I hope that you will excuse my word, but at 53 I just take this liberty).
GIRL!
Get out of this combination AT ONCE!
Take care where you go!
He might try to force you to stay with him!
In my opinion, the guy is dangerous, probably violent, and surely does not accept NO for an answer!
If things get complicated, go to the police!
DON'T tell him that you intend to go to the police, because he might try to force you not to do it!
I'm afraid that you are not only young, but quite unexperienced!
These guys may become a pain in the ass!
Take care!

[angelacandy1]

Originally Posted by Capnip-Everdeen

If you're being serious, leave him. But if this is real and you're like a lot of women, you probably enjoy the way he treats you during waking hours. What makes sleep any different?

Nice point...actually I like that he wants me that bad...but dont want him to get that demanding...

[christina2706]

Not at all. He's being an unreasonable dickhead. My advice to you would be to make him your ex-boyfriend asap.

[angelacandy1]

Originally Posted by curvedcock

I think he is being a complete ass, and you really need to find someone a bit less controlling. Unless you really like being totally and completely dominated and submissive to him, then stay with him and have no life outside of fucking him, sexting, being his slave in every way, and losing friends and not seeing family and whatever else you currently are allowed to do.

Actually he is a nice guy...just that this was a little too much. Am a little submissive by nature, so am enjoying it. There aint slavery involved...just two normal guys doing the normal thing. I hope we are able to sort it out.

[curvedcock]

if he really liked you he would be understanding and reasonable, which he is NOT.

i get that you like being WANTED that much by a guy and his cock. Sounds like you just want attention and i'm not trying to be mean, but attention and what HE is giving you is not the same, and what he's giving you isn't good for you.

You deserve someone who'll like you for who you are and NOT demand you do everything they want to do and not do anything you want to do, or to try to CHANGE you. you need to be yourself and let them be their own and like each other for that.

[angelacandy1]

Originally Posted by Ovid58

Girl! (I hope that you will excuse my word, but at 53 I just take this liberty).
GIRL!
Get out of this combination AT ONCE!
Take care where you go!
He might try to force you to stay with him!
In my opinion, the guy is dangerous, probably violent, and surely does not accept NO for an answer!
If things get complicated, go to the police!
DON'T tell him that you intend to go to the police, because he might try to force you not to do it!
I'm afraid that you are not only young, but quite unexperienced!
These guys may become a pain in the ass!
Take care!

I think neither of us wants to give up on this relationship and are more sort of testing the limits of the other person....

I dunno, but I think it happens in every relationship...lets see how things move forward....

[angelacandy1]

Originally Posted by christina2706

Not at all. He's being an unreasonable dickhead. My advice to you would be to make him your ex-boyfriend asap.

Dont wanna give up that fast/...if we can sort it out, we would rather continue. But dont wanna stay a moment more than is ok. Lets see.

[ace's n 8's]

Originally Posted by angelacandy1

I have a new boyfriend...just about ten days since we are together. I am a very deep sleeper, and my boyfriend is a very light sleeper. He often wakes up at various times, and insists that I take care of his needs at all times. During our waking hours, ofcourse we are together, and have a very active sex life. But he insists that at night when he is awake, and nudges me, my first reaction should be to get closer and hold his cock...and service him. He wants this to be some kind of reflex action. While, when asleep, I am really asleep. We had a fight over this last morning. Am I being unreasonable?

Yes you are being very unreasonable,,you need to be alert and ready to have a cock inserted in every orifice that you have at all times.

I think, if I were your boyfriend, you would suddenly be awoken with my hard thick cock being forced into your asshole tomorrow morning, due to your unruliness.

[Ovid58]

Originally Posted by angelacandy1

Actually he is a nice guy...just that this was a little too much. Am a little submissive by nature, so am enjoying it. There aint slavery involved...just two normal guys doing the normal thing. I hope we are able to sort it out.

I insist!
It's only been 10 (ten) days and he's acting as you say!...
You are walking on thin ice - VERY thin ice!...
But, the choice is yours!

[curvedcock]

i half wonder if this thread isn't actually about a problem, but a made up issue for some attention?

If that isn't the case, then you really need to leave him. he's not worth it. trust me, there are plenty of guys out there... or women for that fact

[umpire2]

Originally Posted by angelacandy1

Nice point...actually I like that he wants me that bad...but dont want him to get that demanding...

He is very unreasonable. My suggestion is that you dump him and move in with me. After having sex 4 or 5 times a day, I would let you sleep to rest up for the next day.

[angelacandy1]

Originally Posted by Ovid58

I insist!
It's only been 10 (ten) days and he's acting as you say!...
You are walking on thin ice - VERY thin ice!...
But, the choice is yours!

Let me see...shall talk it out once more...shall keep everyone posted of what I do...Thanks so much. Am so happy that the folks here are indeed so helpful and things that would be considered somewhat taboo in other forums elicit honest replies here...with no value judgements. Thanks so much. Any other advice is most welcome...

[ace's n 8's]

Originally Posted by umpire2

He is very unreasonable. My suggestion is that you dump him and move in with me. After having sex 4 or 5 times a day, I would let you sleep to rest up for the next day.

What a nice guy you are...

[angelacandy1]

Originally Posted by umpire2

He is very unreasonable. My suggestion is that you dump him and move in with me. After having sex 4 or 5 times a day, I would let you sleep to rest up for the next day.

lol...Thanks for the offer...

[Ovid58]

Originally Posted by curvedcock

i half wonder if this thread isn't actually about a problem, but a made up issue for some attention?

If that isn't the case, then you really need to leave him. he's not worth it. trust me, there are plenty of guys out there... or women for that fact

I totally agree with you - the only problem is that I know of some similar cases that have happened here, and that have had really ugly ends...
So, this is why I insist so much.
I've seen women beaten the shit out of them, deprived of liberty, and even some murders...
Ugly, very ugly...

[john_l45]

From a guys point of view I say that's bull shit!! Sounds like an extreme control freak. I think you should cut your loses. Be glad its only ten days!! Obviously all he cares about is getting off and using your body to get it done. Most likely he don't care about you as a person or your wants and needs!!

[curvedcock]

yes i know this can be real, and there are plenty of cases where it is. just hope she realizes it before its too late and she gets cut off from the outside world and forced into slavery to him or worse, abused or killed by him because she didn't fuck him enough or something

[Yikes_Run!!]

SLEEP IS IMPORTANT... Eventually the deparvation will start to put you on a very irritable edge and you will stop wanting to have sex at all. Sex being the reason for the impass it will hurt the relationship. How old is this guy? Im thinking hes still a snot nosed, wet behind the ears jerk who doesnt know how to balance the relationship.

I agree with Chrissy... make him an EX_B/F.. NOW

[shyguyy2]

HE is being a ass and HE is unreasonable.

[angelacandy1]

Originally Posted by shyguyy2

HE is being a ass and HE is unreasonable.

Talked to a female friend on the phone: she warned me about this relationship...am getting a lil apprehensive now. shall decide in a day or two. Shall keep all u friends here posted. Thanks.

[tupelohoney]

10 days, and he's being like that?

walk away. Its only been 10 days.

[mrwhite480]

Originally Posted by angelacandy1

I have a new boyfriend...just about ten days since we are together. I am a very deep sleeper, and my boyfriend is a very light sleeper. He often wakes up at various times, and insists that I take care of his needs at all times. During our waking hours, ofcourse we are together, and have a very active sex life. But he insists that at night when he is awake, and nudges me, my first reaction should be to get closer and hold his cock...and service him. He wants this to be some kind of reflex action. While, when asleep, I am really asleep. We had a fight over this last morning. Am I being unreasonable?

He Sounds like a jackass to me.. he gets mad at you if he wakes up and you're sleeping are you don't wake up to suck him off. If he is being this demanding only ten days into the relationship just imagine how he's going to be in a few weeks or a month or two. You're not being unreasonable, he is. If I were you I'd tell him to get the he'll out. He's definitely acting like a possessive controlling moron.

[Milo Cronos]

Originally Posted by angelacandy1

Ya, I dress as he wants me to, do all things he wants me to, give him as much sex he wants, talk dirty to him, sext him all the time, and now he wants me to give up my sleep and be onn the lookout if he is awake. In fact I told him that I dont mind if he fondles me when I am asleep...but dont expect a very active participation. But he refuses to listen...

WARNING: Dump him now before it's too late or your in a restraining order situation!

[bongzilla]

Sounds like a man I would like to get a hold of, I love to service a hard dick 24/7.

[Cheltenham]

Originally Posted by angelacandy1

Talked to a female friend on the phone: she warned me about this relationship...am getting a lil apprehensive now. shall decide in a day or two. Shall keep all u friends here posted. Thanks.

I'd have been fine with the 'playing with you while you're asleep'. Your boyfriend wanting you to be an active participant at all hours of the day and night is unreasonable. As long as you were okay with being played with, I would get myself off and be done with it.

The guy is an asshole not because he has needs, but mainly due to his inability to exhibit some self control. It's not difficult to say to yourself that your partner is sleeping and that sometimes you have to take matters into your own hands.

[atmsbmb]

You need to heed the sincere advice of just about everybody that has posted. You are both young and desirable and fodder for the mind games this idiot is playing with you. He's an absolute control freak and although you see it as affectionate attention, it's really just about him getting what he wants regardless of the damage to the "relationship" (which he's incapable of having by the way). This kind of personality is the kind you read about in the papers after he goes off the deep end. Put as much emotional, psychological and even literal distance between yourself and this "person" as possible before it's too late.

[Rixer]

A good woman does what her man says..

[angelacandy1]

Originally Posted by Cheltenham

I'd have been fine with the 'playing with you while you're asleep'. Your boyfriend wanting you to be an active participant at all hours of the day and night is unreasonable. As long as you were okay with being played with, I would get myself off and be done with it.

Exactly...I made him the offer...he didnt use it. Lets see...Thanks

[angelacandy1]

Originally Posted by atmsbmb

You need to heed the sincere advice of just about everybody that has posted. You are both young and desirable and fodder for the mind games this idiot is playing with you. He's an absolute control freak and although you see it as affectionate attention, it's really just about him getting what he wants regardless of the damage to the "relationship"

Am veering around to this view too....Shall talk it out over the weekend...Thanks.

[abean696]

he needs to be respectful of you which he isn't right now. If I were you I would dump him. He is making unreasonabe demands after only being with you for a week and a half. I dread to think what his future demands will be. Again, just like most are saying, dump him and move on.
by the way, i saw your album and you are such a beautiful and sexy woman.

[angelacandy1]

Originally Posted by abean696

he needs to be respectful of you which he isn't right now. If I were you I would dump him. He is making unreasonabe demands after only being with you for a week and a half. I dread to think what his future demands will be. Again, just like most are saying, dump him and move on.
by the way, i saw your album and you are such a beautiful and sexy woman.

Dont wanna do that unless I give him a chance. After that lets see. Thanks for the compliment...

[shyguyy2]

I've seen your pics too and beautiful and sexy is a understatment.
If your boyfriend doesn't change his additude he doesn't know what he has.

[albertjones6262]

He only thinking of hisself. You should told the jerk to go suck his own cock 12 days ago. DUMP HIM

[bloodonthemoon]

Originally Posted by angelacandy1

Ya, I dress as he wants me to, do all things he wants me to, give him as much sex he wants, talk dirty to him, sext him all the time, and now he wants me to give up my sleep and be onn the lookout if he is awake. In fact I told him that I dont mind if he fondles me when I am asleep...but dont expect a very active participation. But he refuses to listen...

Tell him to wack off, then fuck off. He's an asshole.

[bloodonthemoon]

Sweetheart, I just looked at your album for the first time. Kick this loser to the curb! You can have ANY man you want, (or men for that matter) and do not have to put up with this shit stain of a guy. You are a certified baby doll!

[Puggie]

A Relationship is supposed to be a two way street give and take it sounds to me like this guy is ALL Take Take Take and after seeing your pictures as others have said you ARE beautiful and could have the pick of any Man.

Please take care would hate to hear that something awful has happened to someone so pretty

[okieblueyes]

Babygirl trust me on this . I'm 55 and have seen it all this youngman is a control freak and this is just the beginning of a very bad experience for you. He will build on this control and completely dominate you . If after 10 days he has you dressing as he wants , has you doing things you are uncomfortable with it will come to the point he will be telling who you can and can't talk to , who you can and can't see and then if you don't do exactley what he says when he says it the abuse will begin

I know this because my daughter went through a relationship like this before finally coming to me for help . I had to have a small chat with the dickhead and to this day if he sees me anywhere he is gone like the wind

[the fox]

he seems like a dick head to me.....

[ReBzY]

Don't mean to be rude but your boyfriend seems to be a bit of an idiot. There is no way I would act the way he's to you towards my own wife. Sex is the closest thing a couple can do. It seems to me that he only enjoys being with for the simple fact that he can get what he wants when he wants.
I personally think he's in it for himself. Sex is great and a solid aspect of a relationship but parties must want it.
That's just my opinion... best of luck!

[apriliasxv]

Next time wake up before he does and demand he eats your pussy

[Wolf_Knight]

Originally Posted by angelacandy1

Actually he is a nice guy...just that this was a little too much. Am a little submissive by nature, so am enjoying it. There aint slavery involved...just two normal guys doing the normal thing. I hope we are able to sort it out.

This thread could be real or not considering the account is so new, but I think the above points out a Freudian Slip from the writer behind the account.

If the thread is real, she should use her brain and get out of the situation now, if not I would prefer not to have my time wasted completely

[N.E. Woman]

Originally Posted by angelacandy1

Actually he is a nice guy...just that this was a little too much. Am a little submissive by nature, so am enjoying it. There aint slavery involved...just two normal guys doing the normal thing. I hope we are able to sort it out.

Originally Posted by Wolf_Knight

This thread could be real or not considering the account is so new, but I think the above points out a Freudian Slip from the writer behind the account.

If the thread is real, she should use her brain and get out of the situation now, if not I would prefer not to have my time wasted completely

Wolf, I had the same exact reaction.

[Wolf_Knight]

Originally Posted by N.E. Woman

Wolf, I had the same exact reaction.

As they say in one of my favorite quotes:

The Devil is in the Details

[Mr Gimp]

Originally Posted by angelacandy1

I have a new boyfriend...just about ten days since we are together. I am a very deep sleeper, and my boyfriend is a very light sleeper. He often wakes up at various times, and insists that I take care of his needs at all times. During our waking hours, ofcourse we are together, and have a very active sex life. But he insists that at night when he is awake, and nudges me, my first reaction should be to get closer and hold his cock...and service him. He wants this to be some kind of reflex action. While, when asleep, I am really asleep. We had a fight over this last morning. Am I being unreasonable?

Why even put up with that?? Do you think maybe he is seeing another women?? If not then you should try and talk to him and if that does not work then I hate to say it dump him.