Call me a slut, I DARE you.

[silver2leaves]

Am I the only person who hates in porn when the guy(s) are busy calling the girl a slut or a bitch or a whore or when the girl(s) are calling themselves that? It makes me very uncomfortable.

Likewise, are there any people who actually like that kind of thing?

Guys, do you like when a girl you're with calls themselves a slut or wants you to call them that?

And girls, is it really gratifying to call yourself a whore?

When I've been called that sort of thing during something sexual it's a total turn off. I just want to stop right then, because it makes me feel horrible.

If a guy is going to give me that kind of title, he should at least pay me a few hundred for my time, right?

[Resident of Maryland]

SLUT

Sorry, couldn't resist.


It's just dirty talk. Some like it, some don't. Everybody's different.

[silver2leaves]

-.-;

[katydid696969]

stupid fuckin slut learn your place

[silver2leaves]

Originally Posted by katydid696969

stupid fuckin slut learn your place

Wow. You're an asshole. Congratz.

[7H3ROOK13]

i really dont see the point in that type of dirty talk but to each their own

[Fatalmoomoo]

Originally Posted by silver2leaves

Am I the only person who hates in porn when the guy(s) are busy calling the girl a slut or a bitch or a whore or when the girl(s) are calling themselves that? It makes me very uncomfortable.

Likewise, are there any people who actually like that kind of thing?

Guys, do you like when a girl you're with calls themselves a slut or wants you to call them that?

And girls, is it really gratifying to call yourself a whore?

When I've been called that sort of thing during something sexual it's a total turn off. I just want to stop right then, because it makes me feel horrible.

If a guy is going to give me that kind of title, he should at least pay me a few hundred for my time, right?

I've never been into that, i just think its really demeaning. Thats also why hate dong cumshots on a girls face, i personally feel stuff like that is just there to make the girl feel like a lower being then the guy.

Might just be me though.

[Fatalmoomoo]

Originally Posted by silver2leaves

Wow. You're an asshole. Congratz.

Now now, you should know better then to feed the trolls

[silver2leaves]

Originally Posted by Fatalmoomoo

Now now, you should know better then to feed the trolls

Actually, I was thinking I might start handing out medals.

[ckycodyh]

yeah its just personal preference.

i do like calling a girl names like that in bed and i like hearing her use those terms as well. the reason is not because i actually think she is, but because it is so different than the way my girlfriend usually acts. she is very prim and proper. before me she was a virgin even so she is by no means a whore or a slut. its just a fantasy if you will. above all though both you and your partner have to be comfortable with it! if my girlfriend wasent ok with it i wouldn't do it but she likes it just as much as i do. kinda an alter-ego thing. to each is own i guess

[mifi3475]

hoe!

[nishkigoi]

To each his/her own I say. Its not particularly a turn on for me.
My guess is that it has something to do with liking to be dominated/submissive in most cases. In porn its just lame :s

[Rectal Pertruder]

Its just dirty talk and it can be used to turn you on more. My man calls me a slut in bed when we talk dirty, and in fact I refer to myself that way, but its never in a derogitory way. "ooh yea your a fuckin slut!" not "you are a slut! thats gross! Im better than you!" Everyone is different but it just makes sex so much more fun. The feeling I get from being a little dirty is a turn on and the words help, but Ill tell you now that if he ever used those words in a malicous way towards me I'd slap him in the face.

[baller16]

SLUT!

you shouldn't have dared me to.

[Bluekur]

I only do it on triple dares with sugar on top! Sorry!

[Jason_Mackinnon]

Most words have this link in our psyche that rings one or another bell for pain or pleasure. When a guy calls a girl a slut/whore during sex it is his dominating bell that is rang cos he finds pleasure in being in charge. A woman who calls it herself is ringing the receiving pleasure bell because she likes to be dominated.

I personally like a woman who is a slut but do not like to call women derogatory names during sex unless she tells me she likes it. then I do it for her because it rings my giving pleasure bells.

Sounds complicated but if you think of it like this:
We all like pleasure of different sorts. some like to give, some like to take, and some prefer both.

I think the word slut should be reinvented as a good word that means a man/woman that is comfortable with the fact they love sex with more than one person.

Also if a person tells people they are a slut it can not be used in a derogatory way as using it to describe yourself in a positive way takes away its insult power.

Hope this is of help to people.

By the way, yes I am a slut. I am a man who enjoys sex with any woman, or women, who is willing to share intimacy with me.

[piggit]

Originally Posted by katydid696969

stupid fuckin slut learn your place

Originally Posted by silver2leaves

Wow. You're an asshole. Congratz.

You did ask to be called a slut.

She, however, didn't ask to be called an asshole.

(I think you may have missed the subtle nuance of katy's reply.)

[warm man]

SLUT OR THE NAMES LIKE THAT ITS USED IN STREET. FOR TO WIN GIRL I THINK DO NOT USE THAT!

[join993]

Originally Posted by warm man

SLUT OR THE NAMES LIKE THAT ITS USED IN STREET. FOR TO WIN GIRL I THINK DO NOT USE THAT!

Yeah, were trying to win the slut. Who will get the slut first? Let's all run and try our hardest

[redluver]

everyone is a slut and whore at some point in their lives.

[unhappy_mudkip]

No, I don't like it personally. Although I have met many that do. I used to role play sometimes and I ran into a few women that wanted me to call them names. It wasn't any fun for me.

In play or not, it is just too derogatory for me to enjoy it.

I do enjoy my women to have some wildness, but there's no way I'm going to call them names for it. There's a difference in being a bit "slutty" for someone you love, than it is to go out and bang every guy you meet. I wouldn't want that.

[N'ricco]

Originally Posted by Fatalmoomoo

I've never been into that, i just think its really demeaning. Thats also why hate dong cumshots on a girls face, i personally feel stuff like that is just there to make the girl feel like a lower being then the guy.

Might just be me though.

No, it's not just you.

In porn it's a turn-off for me - calling the girl a slut, facials, deepthroating-gagging when the girl's obviously not enjoying it... it's just derogatory and the girl's being USED. More so in real life.

[SmizZ]

everyone should just get some manors

[Lookn4awillin1]

If I drop a few bills on the nightstand, will you shut up and suck my cock...whore?!Seriously, I have never called my girl a slut or a whore, even when doing a little rp.

[Lookn4awillin1]

Originally Posted by SmizZ

everyone should just get some manors

Then we'll have some places to store our whores.

[ketts]

i love being called a slut or a bitch, i love feeling 'used and abused' during sex. its so hott

[Bishop]

it IS degrading,and thats the point.

like other members have said,its a domination/submissive thing.

submissive women LIKE to be degraded sexually.
You and your partner should talk about these sorts of things before you actually engage in sex,just to make things smoother.

I happen to be a sexually submissive chick,and during sex i can dig it.
but..call me a name like that outside the realms of sex,and ill bitch slap you.

haha.

[onenauhgtygirl29]

Originally Posted by Lookn4awillin1

Then we'll have some places to store our whores.

This made me giggle sooooo hard! I wish I had a manor.


And in the bedroom it turns me on to have a guy call me names. But outside of that it would piss me off.
Everyone has their own kink. *shrugs*

[Lookn4awillin1]

Originally Posted by onenauhgtygirl29

This made me giggle sooooo hard! I wish I had a manor.


And in the bedroom it turns me on to have a guy call me names. But outside of that it would piss me off.
Everyone has their own kink. *shrugs*

Now Bruce Wayne had a manor...wonder what he stored in the bat cave. And what about Hef, wonder what we're to classify the young ladies who enhance his manor?If someone wants to pay me they can call me whatever they like.

[rfarhanali]

so what you can do

[beninabox]

"If a guy is going to give me that kind of title, he should at least pay me a few hundred for my time, right?"

If I am giving you a few hundred for your time, I am going to do more than call you a slut, I am going to treat you like one.

In all seriousness, I have had many partners that enjoyed dirty talk that included calling them sluts and whores. It was all part of the mind fuck that got them off.

[TylerDurden069]

Seriously, the quality of ANY banter in porn has eroded to the point that I more or less keep the films on mute. It is either embarassingly fake, insulting or silly.

[Dippin Dots]

slut

[~*Realigned*~]

Well - I am a woman that likes to me dominated and even degraded during sex. I don't know why - it just turns me on soo much. When I am giving a guy oral and he is forcing himself down my throat to make me gag - if he'll call me a slut and spit on my face - it just does it for me. I have no clue why!!!

Some women would be appalled and probably kill someone lol, but everyone does have their own thing.

[unhappy_mudkip]

Originally Posted by ~*Realigned*~

Some women would be appalled and probably kill someone lol, but everyone does have their own thing.

So very very true.

[scavenger456]

If i was in bed with my lady friend ^.^ i wouldnt call her a slut unless i knew she would like it. i wouldnt risk upsetting her or making her feel bad. i personally treat women like goddesses. And its odd because i havent had many girlfriends. but all the guys i see who are douches to women get a new one every month. im still kinda puzzled by that fact.

oh well makes sense i like guys to eh?

almost forgot
if i am the one catching i like it rough and to be called those things. but its just my taste
(im waiting for the creepy pms because i just said that ^)

[scavenger456]

Originally Posted by onenauhgtygirl29

This made me giggle sooooo hard! I wish I had a manor.


And in the bedroom it turns me on to have a guy call me names. But outside of that it would piss me off.
Everyone has their own kink. *shrugs*

that is exactly what i mean

[Oweena]

I simply can't pass up a dare. So “you are a slut???” I don't think so from some of your comments. I have to agree with Bishop on this.

[Caitlain]

Originally Posted by Jason_Mackinnon

I think the word slut should be reinvented as a good word that means a man/woman that is comfortable with the fact they love sex with more than one person..

Agreed. I think we (women, especially) need to own the word, actually.

As others have said, it depends on the person/people involved. I enjoy using dirty language in bed (or wherever) - it gets me off. But I can certainly see why some women wouldn't like it, especially if they associate the word a negative imagery.

[piggit]

Originally Posted by Caitlain

Agreed. I think we (women, especially) need to own the word, actually.

As others have said, it depends on the person/people involved. I enjoy using dirty language in bed (or wherever) - it gets me off. But I can certainly see why some women wouldn't like it, especially if they associate the word a negative imagery.

I feel the same way about "cunt" ...

[Doug1137]

Personal choice is suppose. Judging by what I've seen on this site, there are LOTS of gals and guys that probably do like it. As for me, it doesn't do anything for me and my wife isn't really into that kind of verbal abuse.

[zorbas]

Originally Posted by redluver

everyone is a slut and whore at some point in their lives.

You sir, have one hell of a sad perspective on life. Did your mother take away your rattle too soon or did you someone just fire your ass for not performing well. Bitterness is self defeating. Chill out!, not every one is a slut or whore , only those apparently you are associated with, to give you that kind of perpective.

[dartmaster]

Originally Posted by ketts

i love being called a slut or a bitch, i love feeling 'used and abused' during sex. its so hott

i totally agree with you , if it doesnt bother us then why should it bother any one elsemrs d

[zorbas]

Originally Posted by dartmaster

i totally agree with you , if it doesnt bother us then why should it bother any one elsemrs d

You are absolutely correct in that it is no one else's business and this is why a forum such as this exists. A forum is a platform for discussion and all views are to be accepted but of course not necessarily to be agreed with. The right to keep a position on a subject should be respected as I now respect yours.

I will say, however, and again only from my own perspective of course ,that the term slut and whore has never been used throughout the ages as anything but a demeaning salacious epithet.. It is a tool often used to demean an individual and even in the throes of a sexual embrace remains sublimely so.. It may be exciting to some women as in your case, but I question sincerely the motiivation and intent of the man using it.

In a world today, where we are expected to accept all things said and done without question we must never forget that all words when used have an intent and a meaning and are never used without gauging the impact they can make.

Do have fun and live well, but as you grow a bit older to see what it takes to make a strong self image, being called a slut or whore and accepting it as you do now may have some lasting personal consequences to your inner sense of self worth. This is just a thought and ceratinly not a judgement. Be well and prosper.

[Samantha James]

Hey nothing wrong with it, I enjoyed it last night when I had my brother,father and cousin fuck,, Dad said I'm a nympho//Samantha xxx

[zorbas]

Originally Posted by Samantha James

Hey nothing wrong with it, I enjoyed it last night when I had my brother,father and cousin fuck,, Dad said I'm a nympho//Samantha xxx

You must have a happy kangaroo as pet too. Don't you?

[N'ricco]

Originally Posted by zorbas

You must have a happy kangaroo as pet too. Don't you?

LOL, and the brother is 9-year old and they all piss on each other...

[zorbas]

Originally Posted by N'ricco

LOL, and the brother is 9-year old and they all piss on each other...

No! In the outback you don't piss on any body, water is too a precious a resource.
The sadness is I have an absolute fondness for the Australians . She must be newly arrived from some other place. Either that or she is so far in the out back that no one but family is there to for her to fuck. Could be in a hundred years from now, there will be discovered a tribe of dwarfs with kangaroo tails.

[Desert Rat]

Originally Posted by ~*Realigned*~

Well - I am a woman that likes to me dominated and even degraded during sex. I don't know why - it just turns me on soo much. When I am giving a guy oral and he is forcing himself down my throat to make me gag - if he'll call me a slut and spit on my face - it just does it for me. I have no clue why!!!

Some women would be appalled and probably kill someone lol, but everyone does have their own thing.

Yes, but we like you just the way you are, and wouldn't want you to change.

[rider01]

Agree with silver2leaves. I watch less and less professional porn movies, because actors often insult their sex partners, pull their hair or spank. I much prefer amateur movies.