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Marcia · 07-11-2006, 03:58 PM

Can anyone help me with getting myself off at all? Guys, if you found something I can do to myself or girls if you found something to drive you wild..
the raw materials I have are:
-Lingerie (loads of it) and some other sexy clothes (I love to dress up to make myself hot, and I like to taste myself, dunno if thats wierd or not).
-A 7 inch long rabbit vibrator
-A 6 inch long, fairly small dildo with a good sized head on it.

The most extreme thing I've done is DP myself with the rabbit in my pussy and the dildo in my ass (in a kind of wierd doggystyle position) which hurt but the orgasms at the end were huge. I wouldnt reccommend it unless you are already experienced with anal play, I think i was lucky not to really hurt myself cos it was my first anal.

I've read about girls who put a dildo in their pussy and put their panties on and leave it in there...does that actually work? I have my doubts and it sounds a bit painful.

Doc · 07-11-2006, 11:27 PM

Even though I don't quite get at what your asking, because you said (the orgasms at the end were huge)
So mabey go smaller, like a Butt Plug, and use plenty of lubrication. Then with the combonation with your dildo, it might work out better for you.
But it sounds to me like you have it figured out.
Doc.

Rain · 07-12-2006, 02:07 AM

I've been told for a long time to get a detachable shower head. I finally did about a week ago. If you haven't tried this, do it! It's my new best friend. My orgasms are so strong that I see spots and can hardly stand afterwards.

Marcia · 07-12-2006, 12:53 PM

i tried shower/faucet stuff, it didnt do much for me. I mean, it was nice but it wasn't really that intense...

and the orgasms at the end of the two-toy one were huge but it was painful and messy as well, I don't think I could handle it if i tried it too much.

ThornyRose · 07-13-2006, 10:28 AM

What I have to draw on for knowledge, is my male climax and my wife's climax.
What I think you are missing is the mental part of the equasion, It is well known that it takes a signal from the brain to bring on a hardon in a male. Male and female alike have to build up to a climax, and it seems that the female takes more attention. Solo, do it yourself route. Women on the average get a bigger turn on from the written romance word. Men on the average get a lot from visual, or pictures and movies.
All the tools and toys in the world will not be very successful with out the mental prep.
This works for us. A surprise of something sexy from a shop on the way home from work.. That is the signal for what the plans are for later that evening.. Mental prep. Talk about some planned fanatasy over drinks. Mental prep. Talk about some toys you have purchased and what is good or bad with each.. Draw out from the woman as to what works. Mental prep.
Solo, Home alone. A good sexy story. Plans on getting ready. Good atmosphere. Turn off the phone. Yes some women like to watch porn. Home alone they can watch what they really like and not what the hubby wants..

ThornyRose · 07-13-2006, 10:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Marcia

Can anyone help me with getting myself off at all? Guys, if you found something I can do to myself or girls if you found something to drive you wild..
the raw materials I have are:
-Lingerie (loads of it) and some other sexy clothes (I love to dress up to make myself hot, and I like to taste myself, dunno if thats wierd or not).
-A 7 inch long rabbit vibrator
-A 6 inch long, fairly small dildo with a good sized head on it.

The most extreme thing I've done is DP myself with the rabbit in my pussy and the dildo in my ass (in a kind of wierd doggystyle position) which hurt but the orgasms at the end were huge. I wouldnt reccommend it unless you are already experienced with anal play, I think i was lucky not to really hurt myself cos it was my first anal.

I've read about girls who put a dildo in their pussy and put their panties on and leave it in there...does that actually work? I have my doubts and it sounds a bit painful.

Don't loose sight of the fact that the nerve endings that make a difference are at the entrance to the pussy and not deep inside.. And yess the ass has a lot of nerve endings.. But need to be trained..

Nick Nayme · 07-13-2006, 07:58 PM

I differ to beg with you, but, my sexiest girlfriend ever had a very sensitive g spot. I never had the presence of mind to measure exactly, but guess it was about two inches up in her pussy.

And another, now that you made me think about the subject, said that the outside of her pussy didn't do anything, it was all inside up in her. She bruised my fragile male ego by telling me about it after I had been valiantly licking her pussy for a while, thinking I was really doing her some good.

Back to my sexiest girlfriend, she wanted two fingers ( so it felt like a dick ) and the motion had to be kind of wobbly. I could give her multiple orgasms until she had to stop because of muscle cramping, by giving her spot another wobble or two just as the previous orgasm was ending.

A frequent complaint lodged against boyfriends is that we neglect foreplay. Maybe a girl needs to foreplay herself when she is flying solo. She may gently rub her nipples, for example, for a while before hailing Mr. 'brator.

Rain · 07-13-2006, 08:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Marcia

i tried shower/faucet stuff, it didnt do much for me. I mean, it was nice but it wasn't really that intense...

and the orgasms at the end of the two-toy one were huge but it was painful and messy as well, I don't think I could handle it if i tried it too much.

Not intense enough? Hmmm...is the shower head detachable and does it switch to massage?

Marcia · 07-18-2006, 03:57 PM

yeah, i had it spraying right close to me...just didnt seem that good. didnt have massage though...

any more ideas? ;p

piggit · 07-26-2006, 04:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nick Nayme

I differ to beg with you, but, my sexiest girlfriend ever had a very sensitive g spot. I never had the presence of mind to measure exactly, but guess it was about two inches up in her pussy.

And another, now that you made me think about the subject, said that the outside of her pussy didn't do anything, it was all inside up in her. She bruised my fragile male ego by telling me about it after I had been valiantly licking her pussy for a while, thinking I was really doing her some good.

Back to my sexiest girlfriend, she wanted two fingers ( so it felt like a dick ) and the motion had to be kind of wobbly. I could give her multiple orgasms until she had to stop because of muscle cramping, by giving her spot another wobble or two just as the previous orgasm was ending.

A frequent complaint lodged against boyfriends is that we neglect foreplay. Maybe a girl needs to foreplay herself when she is flying solo. She may gently rub her nipples, for example, for a while before hailing Mr. 'brator.

Definitely, definitely, DEFINITELY try to find your g-spot. I had a toy (it's broken now

) that produced amazingly creamy hard orgasms

Maybe you use a mirror and watch yourself, and/or watch some porn while you're doing it. Good luck. We should all have glorious orgasms.

Nympho · 07-26-2006, 06:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Marcia

yeah, i had it spraying right close to me...just didnt seem that good. didnt have massage though...

any more ideas? ;p

The massage does make a differene..
And I agree with rain, it's awsome.

guitar · 02-03-2008, 08:28 AM

well, i don't know if you've tryed this already, but most of the girls that i know that have tryed it say that it works! you need to stimulate your g-spot and your clit at the same time. that should be REALLY intense. if that doesn't work, try putting something in your ass at the same time just to switch things up a bit.

onehotmama · 02-03-2008, 03:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rain

I've been told for a long time to get a detachable shower head. I finally did about a week ago. If you haven't tried this, do it! It's my new best friend. My orgasms are so strong that I see spots and can hardly stand afterwards.

tell me more bout this...dont guess i've ever heard of it...thanks

07-11-2006, 03:58 PM	#1
Marcia Porn Surfer Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 18	girl masturbation Can anyone help me with getting myself off at all? Guys, if you found something I can do to myself or girls if you found something to drive you wild.. the raw materials I have are: -Lingerie (loads of it) and some other sexy clothes (I love to dress up to make myself hot, and I like to taste myself, dunno if thats wierd or not). -A 7 inch long rabbit vibrator -A 6 inch long, fairly small dildo with a good sized head on it. The most extreme thing I've done is DP myself with the rabbit in my pussy and the dildo in my ass (in a kind of wierd doggystyle position) which hurt but the orgasms at the end were huge. I wouldnt reccommend it unless you are already experienced with anal play, I think i was lucky not to really hurt myself cos it was my first anal. I've read about girls who put a dildo in their pussy and put their panties on and leave it in there...does that actually work? I have my doubts and it sounds a bit painful.

07-13-2006, 10:28 AM	#5
ThornyRose Porn Star Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 1,998	Climax tools what is missing What I have to draw on for knowledge, is my male climax and my wife's climax. What I think you are missing is the mental part of the equasion, It is well known that it takes a signal from the brain to bring on a hardon in a male. Male and female alike have to build up to a climax, and it seems that the female takes more attention. Solo, do it yourself route. Women on the average get a bigger turn on from the written romance word. Men on the average get a lot from visual, or pictures and movies. All the tools and toys in the world will not be very successful with out the mental prep. This works for us. A surprise of something sexy from a shop on the way home from work.. That is the signal for what the plans are for later that evening.. Mental prep. Talk about some planned fanatasy over drinks. Mental prep. Talk about some toys you have purchased and what is good or bad with each.. Draw out from the woman as to what works. Mental prep. Solo, Home alone. A good sexy story. Plans on getting ready. Good atmosphere. Turn off the phone. Yes some women like to watch porn. Home alone they can watch what they really like and not what the hubby wants..

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07-11-2006, 11:27 PM	#2
Doc Porn Star Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 1,507	Even though I don't quite get at what your asking, because you said (the orgasms at the end were huge) So mabey go smaller, like a Butt Plug, and use plenty of lubrication. Then with the combonation with your dildo, it might work out better for you. But it sounds to me like you have it figured out. Doc.

07-12-2006, 02:07 AM	#3
Rain Femme Fatale Join Date: May 2006 Age: 38 Posts: 13,411	I've been told for a long time to get a detachable shower head. I finally did about a week ago. If you haven't tried this, do it! It's my new best friend. My orgasms are so strong that I see spots and can hardly stand afterwards.

07-12-2006, 12:53 PM	#4
Marcia Porn Surfer Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 18	i tried shower/faucet stuff, it didnt do much for me. I mean, it was nice but it wasn't really that intense... and the orgasms at the end of the two-toy one were huge but it was painful and messy as well, I don't think I could handle it if i tried it too much.

07-13-2006, 07:58 PM	#7
Nick Nayme Sex Lover Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 117	I differ to beg with you, but, my sexiest girlfriend ever had a very sensitive g spot. I never had the presence of mind to measure exactly, but guess it was about two inches up in her pussy. And another, now that you made me think about the subject, said that the outside of her pussy didn't do anything, it was all inside up in her. She bruised my fragile male ego by telling me about it after I had been valiantly licking her pussy for a while, thinking I was really doing her some good. Back to my sexiest girlfriend, she wanted two fingers ( so it felt like a dick ) and the motion had to be kind of wobbly. I could give her multiple orgasms until she had to stop because of muscle cramping, by giving her spot another wobble or two just as the previous orgasm was ending. A frequent complaint lodged against boyfriends is that we neglect foreplay. Maybe a girl needs to foreplay herself when she is flying solo. She may gently rub her nipples, for example, for a while before hailing Mr. 'brator.

07-18-2006, 03:57 PM	#9
Marcia Porn Surfer Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 18	yeah, i had it spraying right close to me...just didnt seem that good. didnt have massage though... any more ideas? ;p

02-03-2008, 08:28 AM	#12
guitar Porn Star Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: At the pants party Age: 22 Posts: 3,841	well, i don't know if you've tryed this already, but most of the girls that i know that have tryed it say that it works! you need to stimulate your g-spot and your clit at the same time. that should be REALLY intense. if that doesn't work, try putting something in your ass at the same time just to switch things up a bit.