I've been asked a lot since I joined the site about me, so this is an explanation of my way of life.


The basics are - I live with my partner, we aren't married and we've been together for 5 years. I also have a bf that my partner knows about. I've been seeing my bf for just over a year.


How did we get here? Well my partner and I had an average sex life but not great. Neither of us were really fulfilled sexually and over time it sort of petered out to practically no sex which for me was not good I like sex.


Now I love my partner but as I say I like sex as well so after a lot of discussion it transpired that my partner has a low sex drive for normal sex, always has. However, he does have a submissive side and gets turned on thinking or watching me having sex. He also has a bi side (now that was a shock) or rather he's turned on by being humiliated which includes cleaning my boy friends cock and licking his cum off or out of me. Maybe that's not truly bi neither of us has worked that out.


So there we were low sex drive unless humiliated and a high sex drive. Neither wanting to split up but neither entirely fulfilled.


We tried a few things I won't go into here but eventually we found my bf. He's dominant so happy to entertain my partners needs as a submissive and also my submissive side.


He's dominant but understands it's about mutual enjoyment so we all work well together.


Ok so about my bf - to look at him you'd think he was a bad boy covered in tattoos good looking and fit. Nice cock great stamina and just amazing recovery powers. That man can fuck me until I pass out lol.


Now I say my bf is dominant and he is. But it's not like you see in porn films or read in bdsm stories. I definitely get tied up (and omg do I enjoy that) and I get punished if I'm a bad girl but it's more about me doing what he tells me.


So far I've never said no to him in anything he wants (though of course I can it's not that sort of relationship) - why would I I get so turned on when I'm with him he's opened my eyes to new things. For example I would never have tried anal without him - now I love it. DP with my bf and partner is just amazing. I wouldn't have ever ever indulged in water sports.


So there we are, as I keep telling people I chat with it's complicated lol but fun very good fun.


Sally

 

Not really all that complicated. You guys make it work for all of you. Good job

 

Sounds to me like having your cake and eating it too. Nothing wrong with that.

 

Oh god I love DP

 

Dp is so hot

 

I've been asked a lot since I joined this site to keep my comments to myself. I hope everyone's happy?

 

I fell asleep half way through the post... Was the ending worth it?

 

Welcome to the site @shysally , and thank you for sharing a bit of your life. If you hang around awhile you will discover that what you described isn't out of the ordinary around here.
As long as all three of you are happy then keep living your life and pushing your sexual envelope.

Also brevity is your friend.

 

Welcome @shysally
My wife and I have also recently started enjoying sharing her with a friend or two. We haven't quite worked out DP yet but we will!

 

So you have a cuckold relationship.