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  1. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    This is slightly against my better judgment but I've been wanting to do it for a long time, so here goes...

    Some basic facts: I'm in a consensual Master/slave relationship with my husband. I'm polyamorous with, at current count, five serious relationship partners and four people I see on a casual basis. I'm pansexual, which means I'm attracted to men, women, and transgender people. I'm heavily into BDSM, mainly as a masochist, but I also have a dominant side.

    Curious about any of that? Or what makes me tick in general? Or the etymology of the word "boustrophedon"?

    Ask me....anything.
     
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      I can't even begin to tell you how much I wish that I could have even 10% of what you do!!
       
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      good morning sexy can I ask you a quick question please I've just looked at you pic and wow so sexy ...my new girlfriend has never tied anything like this till she meet me and know she has tired it she wants to keep going harder but not sure I feel about being rough with her
       
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  2. sealfan

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    The last thing, that word. Explain please, I think you're making shit up again like remolaude lol
     
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    "Boustrophedon" refers to writing in two directions on the same page: left to right on one line, then at the end of the line you just go straight down and write right to left. It was done in some ancient languages. It literally means "as the ox plows" - a modern analogy would be mowing a lawn.

    My boss didn't even know that word and he teaches ancient languages. Score!
     
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      I mow my lawn in circles.
       
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    Woah. So do you have to read it right to left then also?
     
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    Yeah, a number of ancient languages could be read either way. Egyptian hieroglyphs can read left, right, up, and down.
     
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      I would love to be able to read and write hieroglyphically
       
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      I actually can, I studied it in college. I've lost most of it, but I can still pick apart a standard funerary inscription.
       
      VenusInFurze, Feb 25, 2017
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      That is awesome! reading and writing in a language that hasn't been spoken in thousands of years is truly fascinating!
       
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    Out of interest, do you think you'll stop at five and four or keep on going?
     
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  7. Shopdog

    Shopdog Porno Junky

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    Hopefully she keeps going and invites me over ;)
     
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    I consider myself polysaturated at this point. I do have time for everyone, but that's partially because some of them are long-distance and we only see each other once a month or even less. I don't think it would be fair to get involved with anyone else, either to that person, to my other partners, or even to myself!

    The number does change; I've had a few breakups (mostly being broken up with), and people have moved from the "casual" to the "serious" category.
     
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  9. Shopdog

    Shopdog Porno Junky

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    You're educated and very intelligent Venus!
    That makes you even sexier in my book!!!
     
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  10. John227

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    You stated that you are heavily into BDSM. I recently learned that there is something called "mental BDMS / mental dominance". What does that term mean to you? And are you more into physical BDSM than mental BDSM, the reverse, or into about more or less equally?
     
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    Pssst....someone ask more about sex or they'll move me to the dystopia that is GD!
    Edit: Oh good, @John227 to the rescue already.
     
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  12. Shopdog

    Shopdog Porno Junky

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    OK.....
    What's you favorite position???
     
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  13. VenusInFurze

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    Mental BDSM, the way I think of it, involves things like mindfucks, humiliation, and degradation. I think it needs to be treated as seriously as the most intense physical torture - or even more seriously, because you can really damage someone emotionally and psychologically if you push too far. For instance, in a humiliation scene, I want to know what my partner's real insecurities are, and what's truly off limits. One of my partners has a small penis humiliation fetish so I can insult his dick size all I want - but he's ultrasensitive about his weight, because he used to be morbidly obese. If I called him fat, it would hurt him more than if I laughed at his dick. And if I made fun of something that's part of his personality I could really fuck him up.

    Mental dominance I think is more to do with being able to exert your will over someone without physical techniques. Just the look in your eyes and the tone of your voice can influence someone; you don't need a whip in your hand or a collar around their neck. I know a Dom who uses a wheelchair and it's incredibly sexy for me to play with him, because although I could physically overpower him (or just walk away) he's got a quality that makes me want to obey him.

    The mindfuck/humiliation aspect of mental BDSM does not appeal to me on the receiving end. I've suffered mental illnesses throughout my life and I don't want anyone messing with me psychologically. At first it was hard for me to give it, too, but the boyfriend I mentioned above was so into it, I wanted to try it. It took a long time to get into it, at first I felt horrible about myself because I kept imagining how bad I'd feel, rather than seeing how good he felt. We had to negotiate some things to make me more comfortable with it. But now we both really enjoy it; I absolutely love how turned on he is. The more I make fun of his dick, the bigger and harder it actually gets, which makes it more fun for me! As long as I don't say that, lol....
     
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  14. VenusInFurze

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    Reverse cowgirl. I don't cum from vaginal penetration, but in that position I can put a vibrator on my clit and cum with him inside me. Plus, he gets stimulated by the vibrator too, and most guys I've encountered enjoy that!
     
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    1. Shopdog
      Ummmm, YEAH, I would too!!! :)
       
      Shopdog, Feb 25, 2017
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    2. MR&MRScuntlapper
      my wife is the same she can not get off with my monster cock fuck her cunt but once i start licking her cunt she will come all night she will also has multiple orgasms when i fuck her in the ass and she feels my cream shooting in her ass
       
      MR&MRScuntlapper, Nov 5, 2017
    3. rixxx69
      Count me in on enjoying that . Also nice when a woman puts a vibe in one hole and your in the other
       
      rixxx69, Mar 3, 2020
    4. Minikat
      I love cumming with the vibrator on my clit. I'm in the same boat. I get off better when doing both.
       
      Minikat, Jun 20, 2020
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  15. thinskin

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    Hi Venus

    I think you have been very brave starting this thread but nevertheless my compliments!

    Now I am up far too late so I will mull over a few questions for you tomorrow!

    G'night all play nice!

    thinskin
     
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      I'm going to try to make sure everything I say about BDSM starts with a version of "....for me"!
       
      VenusInFurze, Feb 25, 2017
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  16. justanotherslut

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    Is it okay if I just watch and read this awesome thread! I wouldn't even know what question I would ask! So I'm going to be silent and learn a whole bunch! Thank you @VenusInFurze for being this open!
     
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      same here; I have so much to learn about everything
       
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  17. Hussie6776

    Hussie6776 Occasionally. So what..?

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    I echo the sentiments of ts, this is worthy of thought.
     
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  18. CFH3ll

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    Taking notes....
     
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  19. VenusInFurze

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    LOL now I'm worried I scared everyone off.
     
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      Having seen some of your pics and having read most of your threads talking about what you like I can see where you could scare people off.
      I admire your passionate approach to life and how you live it on your terms.
       
      seafoam1, Feb 25, 2017
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      Nope; I just found the thread
       
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  20. thinskin

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    Good morning Venus!!

    A gentle one to begin but you can already see I intend to be testing!;)

    Has your recent exploration of your dominant side given you a new appreciation of your dominant(s)?

    What has surprised you about your dominant side??

    I know they sound like essay questions so take your time!

    Thinskin
     
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    1. VenusInFurze
      Definitely worth pondering, I'm assembling some ideas.
       
      VenusInFurze, Feb 25, 2017
    2. Generl1985
      Yes please
       
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