so i'm thinking about buying a dildo/vibrator for my gf. she's never used one before and i've never bought one before so i dont really know what i'm looking for. any suggestions ladies?

 

Start with the pocket rocket.

 

Take her shopping with you. Let her take a look and decide what she would liketo try.

 

I think that's a really good idea, I second that

 

That is what we did,we both went when we went to buy one for the wife.

 

If my lover bought me The Rabbit, we'd both know how amazing sex with that thing is!!!

 

buy a dildo.

I have purchased several to have on hand for video shooting.. What I have found it the ones that are more realistic in size are the most popular.. So don't go for the giant, or the little winnie.

 

Show her my favorite web site for toys http://www.sextoysex.com/valkyrie
Good luck!

 

You need to get a glass toy!! She will never use another!! I have many toys and my husband bought me a glass toy and I prefer it over all the others. Its very smooth and slick and feels wonderful on the clit or in your butt and is extremely easy to clean. Also add a little more pleasure put it in the freezer for a few minutes then use it awsome and also (OR) put it in very warm water that too is an awsome feeling. Its a fun toy for both of you!! Lot to choose from!! Take a look at any adult toy store or even online under glass toys.

 

I love my Rabbit, i've tried a few but the Rabbit blows my mind everytime!

 

First of all, if you go with a vibrator, be sure to get something waterproof.

I got my gf a simple guy like this one below. It's not too intimidating, for her or for me. Sure, she moved on to bigger and better things, but It was a good place to start, as it made her comfortable.

 

joy toys

The vibrator above was the second choice my wife and I made, and we stuck with the vibrator. One thing though buy one that takes at least C cell batterys, or D cell if you can fine one.. This type vibrator has been the winner for 30 years.. Wore several out.. see the red one below

 

Well big or small is her pussy she like long or gerth or bith like me if you think she can take more buy her more or get someone you trust or sranger to have 3 sones with

 

water proof......and about the same size as you are.........

 

Definitely take her with you, she'll get what she wants and it builds anticipation. So much fun! And you can get great advice from the employees there. Don't be shy, if you ask for help and answer their questions honestly, you'll end up with a better toy.

I guess a good first question would be how she masturbates when she's alone. If she just rubs her clit, probably an egg, magic wand, or bullet. If she penetrates herself, a dildo or phallic-shaped vibe. If she likes both, rabbits can handle that task.

I hate to suggest cheaping out, because you really get what you pay for; but there's so many different kinds that it might be best to get a couple different types of inexpensive toys, try them out, then upgrade to an expensive model of the one that is the most fun. Our two expensive toys are Lelo, but there's other great quality brands out there.

Check what kind of batteries it needs, I once got one that took like 12 watch batteries. Expensive ones now often have built-in rechargeable batteries.

Check for compatibility with the kind of lube you prefer. Some lubes can damage some toys.

 

5" or 6" soft looks like a penis.

 

Jeez, 11 years after the original post I hope he stopped thinking about it and actually bought one, no matter which one he opted for!