So, in all seriousness here, I found my dad's stash of porn on his computer. A lot of it is taboo daddy-daughter and BDSM which have always been kinks of mine. I would love to ask him about it but honestly have no idea how to bring it up and I worry it would ruin our current relationship. Not too sure how I feel about incest personally (no judgment here!!), but I think even talking about it would be a huge turn on. Anyone have any advice or personal stories dealing with this type of situation?

PS: If you're going to write something negative or judgmental, please do us all a favor and move on. Thanks!

 

Well you could be walking on thin ice telling your daddy that you found his stash. I know I would not have a problem with it if my daughter found it and knowing that she is of legal age. I know she wouldn't ever say anything to me about it but in a way I wish she would if she did. But then again my family has always been pretty open and honest with one another.

I do have some friends that would freak out if their kids found out that they had a porn stash. I know there would be no way for the kid to get a open answer from them because they would be ashamed that they found it in the first place.

 

The first thing to consider is your dads view of porn? Would he deny it if you asked.....Or would he be honest about it?
The second thing is your current relationship between you and your dad.....Because once you ask you can`t take it back.....Though you might not ruin your relationship.....
It may be strained for a time.

If you would like to talk some more....please feel free to message me anytime.
But these are my first thoughts about your question.

 

Simple answer , don't.
Firstly you'd be hugely putting him on the spot.
You'd be admitting betraying his trust .
Snooping
You'd certainly change your relationship for ever.
(if you wouldn't be , you wouldn't be asking the question)
and you'd compromise the whole family dynamics.

Mixed messages.
Imagine he snooped your account here , and found this post of yours :

your huge turn on;
I have to say getting fucked/played with by my three older brothers while my dad watched

along with your other posts , the teachers , bfs brother , and so on

 

Ya my question is why would you even be concerned with what is on your dads computer? This day and age i would be too concerned i might find some personal pics my parents posted and i would be scarred for life. Lol

 

Very true statement Sweetpassion. Very true

 

Don't do it.. As much as you may like the though of it

 

Why would you even consider bringing it up to him? Probably most guys have a stash so why shouldn't your dad? If you are concerned about the type of porn, just realize that it's probably just pure fantasy. If you bring it up to him, the best case scenario is it will embarrass him and strain your relationship. Worst case scenario is he (or you) might be tempted to take it beyond fantasy, and in that case (please pardon the negativity) you both need help, and not from each other.

 

Only reason to bring it up is if you really want it?

 

My Advice DONT.

It is his computer, his pics, his life and nothing to do with you. You probably shouldn't have been snooping but thats not the point.

You found them so accept that he is an adult, but he is also your dad..so move on.

Anthing else is going to be disasterous for you and probably him too.. Is that what you really want ?

 

I would not mention it, If it's your fantasy there is plenty of guys here that would happily pretend to be your dad

 

Don't say anything. Go talk about your fetishes with a close friend or a stranger from here.

 

She wants daddy, that why she wants to mention it.

 

Well, Think about it, A LOT. You say you are not sure how you feel about incest, so figure that out before you act. If you act first, and things don't go completely sideways, you will be in a terrible position if you determine that you don't like incest, yet you've set yourself up for that with your father. Your best bet is to let him keep his fantasy, and you to develop some new ones of your own, but to not take this any further physically.

I was going to talk about how I would suggest taking it further, but I don't think the would be appropriate here. Like the others say, leave the sleeping lions alone, or you might find yourself getting eaten...

 

Find a man to play Daddy with you and stay out of your father's stuff.

 

Fantasy or reality? I'm guessing you want to talk with your father about his kinks as a way to enhance your fantasies. If so, bring up the subject in regards to someone else, but be willing to joke about it. That way if he takes offense you can laugh it off. For example talk about how a friend of yours finds her father sexy and go from there. Some people are open to conversation on the subject with anyone, some are very private. Dip a toe in and you'll get a sense of the climate.

I wouldn't mention finding his "stash." These days a computer is as personal as a diary used to be. You wouldn't want your father reading your diary would you?

Reality is an entirely different situation. I would vote with many of the other comments here and find someone to play out your fantasies with.

 

I can't tell you what would be best in your situation, but as a father with an adult daughter, I'll give you my personal perspective.

So, I very much enjoy daddy/daughter porn myself. I absolutely love the idea of a much younger woman calling me 'daddy'. However, even though I'm into that fantasy, I have absolutely no interest in my actual daughter. If she came across my porn and thought that I was wanting that with her, I'm not sure what I would do. I would be embarrassed, and not sure what to say. Unless there are any signs from him that he would be interested in you personally, I wouldn't bring it up.

 

It all depends on your present relationship with your dad. If he discussed sex with you as you matured and you two have an open communication relationship, then I think you could bring up the subject of sex on the computer, probably in general and see where it leads.
A question to think about...why do you want to talk to him about his porn? To learn more about him? To share your sexual feelings? To have a daddy/daughter relationship? Know yourself first.

I have a grown daughter. If she were to find my porn and ask me about it, I would answer any of her questions and not feel embarrassed, but I am me. I do not want a sexual relationship with her, nor do I think she wants one with me. But we are close and talk about lots of subjects; not often since she lives in a different city.

It is good that you are using this forum to ask this hard question. Everyone seems to want to be helpful and you are getting good advice. Good luck.

 

I found my dad's porn stash as a teen. It was wild, he had this secret tape full of women being raped. I creamed myself! The other reoccuring thing was the women tended to look a bit like me and mom...freaky huh? I kept that hush.

 

I'm not shaming him for what I found. Simply asking for other accounts input. No need to quote me and go through my page. I'm aware of what I like and what I've posted.