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  1. littlewanker

    littlewanker Porn Star

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    This is one of the biggest cliche's. I know. But I have to ask. Do you believe a heterosexual guy & a girl who are not blood related be the best of friends and can have a totally asexual relationship? Would any of you guys like to be friend zoned for ever? Girls, do you have guys friends in the friend zone? Why do you even put them in the friend zone? Don't you think it's a bit cruel?

    (I don't know if there is a post similar to this one in here. I am not going to go over the thirty thousand plus threads in here to find out)
     
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  2. ejls

    ejls Siren of the Seaway

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    Why can't a man and woman be friends and not be sexually involved? Do you feel if they are heterosexual they have to hook up? I feel very sorry for you and any young woman who would think you could respect her enough to be her friend.
     
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  3. ace's n 8's

    ace's n 8's Porn Star

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    This thread certainly cant be because Texas couple wont fuck you. . . is it ?;

    https://forum.xnxx.com/threads/is-it-wrong-to-ask-someone-to-phone-sex-your-ex.363051/unread
     
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  4. osakisbl

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    I have several female friends with whom sex has never entered the equation. What is wrong with the concept of a platonic relationship that you have trouble believing that it is even possible. I find the opposite impossible. That every hetero friendship must include sex. You must live in a very small place inside your mind. I admit that as a young man before I got married, I looked at a lot of women as possible sex partners, but there is a wide gulf between those thoughts and actually having sex with them. There were a lot of samples taken before final choice. but not every friend was thought of that way.
     
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  5. atomicROBOT

    atomicROBOT Sex Lover

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    Truthfully I don't mind being a females friend. I think there's nothing wrong with it at all. As long as you both have the same mindset about the relationship.
     
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  6. shootersa

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    Shooter snickers.
    The answer is obvious.
    Ask any married man over 40 with more than 1 kid.
    That would be the definition of a heterosexual guy & a girl who are not blood related be the best of friends and can have a totally asexual relationship
     
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  7. littlewanker

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    The condescension in your post made my skin crawl. I am going to calm myself and down and reply to your post. If you read my previous post you would see that I have used the words 'best of' as prefix to the word 'friend'. Thats makes a hell of a lot of difference.

    No, I don't. I do have a couple of female friends myself. That doesn't necessarily mean they have let me inside their pants. But I do shamelessly flirt with them.

    Why, exactly?

    Uhm... so you think that I have no respect/ less respect for women who sleeps with me? Is that it? Is that why women prefer to remains a guy's friend & not his sexual partner.
     
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  8. littlewanker

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    Again why can't you people understand the concept of best friend. Frankly, if my best friend was a woman I would probably marry her. Maybe I should have explained myself more clearly.
     
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  10. littlewanker

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    To be honest, I want to bang 90% of the women I lay my eyes on. Am I the only guy that feels that way? That doesn't mean I go ahead with it. But the sexual attraction is there.
     
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  11. osakisbl

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    Ok my best friend is my wife. But in todays world the term best friend is worn out. I am 67 years old and in my life I have had A lot of best friends. As a youth in Alabama, in northern Va. in the Military at each posting, and several in Vietnam( some died, some went home) to be replaced as times and circumstances changed. I have held several small jobs and two careers, I have moved at least 17 times that I can remember. I have no idea where or what my childhood best friends are now. Most of my adult best friends have changed a dozen times. Just what do you define as a best friend. The best friend (other than my wife) I ever had was a mixed breed dog named Checkers. Other than wifes / husbands I doubt that there are very many lifelong best friends. It is sort of sad, but modern life is so mobile and fluid that these things don't seem to last long enough. I would love to know what happened to the following. Henry Hudson, Arlington, Va. Bill Nelson, McLean, Va. John Carpenter, Mc Lean Va. Bruce Lee Nystrum, Houston Tx The list is very long. At each time we were inseparable, but time moves on and once we lose touch it is almost always gone forever. A very sad thing.
     
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  12. littlewanker

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    Aaha!!! Busted. :)

    Is it? But what would I know? I'm in my twenties.

    That is a bit ironic. I assumed that friendships would be easy to keep in these modern times. You have the internet with you my friend. Staying in touch has never been this easy. Facebook, Twitter, Google plus...etc. Ofcourse it is probably difficult to actually meet them physically for a cup of coffee or at the bar.

    What I would like to know is that, assuming you are single and your best friend/friend is a girl. Wouldn't you be comfortable dating them or hooking up with them or having a more intimate relationship with them? If so, would you agree that the possibility of a romantic/sexual relationship between you two have always been there, albeit in a dormant state.
     
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  13. osakisbl

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    I think that in your twenties, the line between girl, friend, girlfriend, sexual partner is so blurred by hormones that in your case go for it dude. all you can get is rejected.
     
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  14. sky458

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    Is it wrong for my penis to ever not be in every vagina? Sometimes when my penis is not in every vagina I feel weird.
     
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  15. ejls

    ejls Siren of the Seaway

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    So, you didn't like the tone I used when responding to your question? Awww, I'm sorry. But YOU were the one who implied it was cruel to have an asexual relationship with a person of the opposite sex, while being the best of friends. Your words - why do you even put them in the friend zone?

    Being friends is cruel? You don't have to sleep with your best friend.
     
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  16. littlewanker

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    You seem to have forgotten to bolden those particular set of words.

    Again, You seem to have forgotten to bolden those particular set of words or read it. I think it is cruel to put a guy in the friend-zone for ever and ever. If I am single, which I am right now, I would prefer to date or try to have an intimate relationship with a friend, rather than go meet a total stranger. What would you do? Keep your guy friends in the friend zone, for ever?

    Yeah. So?
     
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  17. Tommiecd

    Tommiecd The voice of reason

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    I guess it's mostly a young guy thing, they think they "have' to screw every girl they know. They'll learn.
     
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  18. littlewanker

    littlewanker Porn Star

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    Damn!! How old are you people?? :p
     
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  19. osakisbl

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    There is one hell of a wide gulf between "I want to fuck every female I see" and actually having sex with every female you see. Even James bond ain't that good.
     
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  20. littlewanker

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    We think about it. Well I can't speak for others, but I do think about it. But that doesn't mean I am going to go ahead with it.
     
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