I love my wife and don't want to cheat on her but she is absolutely boring as hell in bed I've brought up swinging and introduced toys into the mix but she's very vanilla in the sack. I can get her drunk and she's open to more things but drunk sex loses it's fun when it's done every night. Anyone have any suggestions?

 

Have you asked her what she wants??

Thinskin

 

I have she claims she wants to try new things but it's never the right time

 

Work on your oral skills and drive her into a hedonistic frenzy leaving her begging to be fucked

 

Try having the conversation about sex when you are not having sex!

If you cannot talk about sex you will never have good sex!

Thinskin

 

My oral skills are top notch lol I don't stop til she begs me to and have spoke to her on many occasions about sex when we are together she just doesn't want to come out of her shell and begging and pleading isn't working. I have several tempting offers from old girlfriends who love to get freaky but they are all ex's for a reason lol

 

If this is true then I would suggest a good sound spanking and aftercare........then she will be in the mood to talk!

Good luck!

Thinskin

 

we watch porn, then ask could/would you like to do that ????

 

Move to Colorado and get her high every time. No hangover. And stones sex is AMAZING!!!

 

Try slipping a finger up her ass when you have her really worked up. Soon you will turn her out and she will be your dirty little girl. I speak from experience

 

Buy her a plug and a blindfold

 

If I waited for my wife to be ready, we would have never explored possibilities @Missouri mule you have to be more organized and plan your changes accordingly (swinging will take more and her permission.)

 

Try a ball peen hammer and pry bar. If that doesn't work, may have to drill and blast.

 

when I marryed my ex I know she liked to play and had a kinky side to her when we dated, so don't know why u didn't see this before?

 

Don't pressure her. Take it easy and one step at a time. Try fantasy and role play until she is comfortable with something new. Consider a sexy vacation, where she is more willing to let her hair down. Play close attention to see where her interests lie. We all have an inner slut. With patience you can unleash it.

 

Take your time and explore her mind. Get her to talk about her fantasies and wants. Tell her you won't judge her for it.

 

Fuck her like a whore. If you don't someone else will. Start with grabbing her hair while she blows you and tell her that's her cock she's sucking.

When you fuck her tell her that's her cock inside her while you gently grab her neck.

Then pull out and cum on her face and tell her that she turns you on and her cock is satisfied.

It's her cock and she needs to know that. Women need to know her man and ownership. Let her know that your cock belongs to her and she does what she wants

This will open up to other things too.

 

She's absolutely boring as hell in bed? Did you ever think that you might be boring her, or that she might be bored with you? What do you do that's so electrifying and exciting that you think should make her melt and desire you? Instead of talking to her about swinging, how about telling her how sexy she looks and how horny she's making you.Try bringing home flowers, taking her out for a romantic dinner. Show her she's special and how much that you love her. Make love to her, don't just have sex. Be tender, loving and caring when making love to her. Then when you have her in total sexual bliss, that's when you whisper in her ear, wouldn't you love to be fistng and jerking two thick heavy pricks, getting your mouth fucked by a bbc, while I'm making love to you like this?

 

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