How could I persuade my husband for threesome? Any IDEAS?

[FONT=&quot]I love my husband and he’s a kind person, he is not bi, but open minded, he is a little old fashion when it comes to sex. I would appreciate ideas, on how I could (indirectly) persuade him to try it. Especially from those with experiences in this area.[/FONT]

Thank you!

 

Alcohol!

 

Go with a FFM first.
Bring home a gf. Start making out with her. He'll join in.
Then tell him if he wants another one you want a MMF.

 

hi

did you licked his ass yet ?

 

a little red wine, some truth or dare with a friend of yours female of course, female then male.

 

Sit down and have a good old fashioned honest communication with him then everytime you have sex talk about it and say things when you are fucking him like how much you would like to experience 2 cocks at the same time or have a cock in your mouth while he fucks you then act all super horny like he hasn't seen before and cause it turns you on it should turn him on.

 

Yes Brandi you are so good at seeing someone else's point of view!:wall:


Thinskin

 

? What the heck? Am I not allowed an opinion when one was asked? Why drag things from one thread to another, are you still mad and bent out of shape from a month ago when you didn't get your way or the responses you wanted and I ignored you, aaawww poor thing get over it. I told you before I didn't care for drug users and I guess you are proving me right by your continued obsessive behavior.


I still conclude that I wouldn't be passive I would directly tell my man what I wanted. If you don't like my views put me on ignore or don't read my posts.

 

I agree with the above posters but why not see how the ground lays,bring a toy into the bedroom with you.Ask him to use it on you, then comment loudly about how much you love the thought of 2 cocks fucking you.Be rampant and lewd and show him how much it arouses you.Then talk to him after about fantasies....LET HIM START THE CONVO most guys love the idea of a 3some you just have to allow him to feel free enough to admit it

 

Tell him you had a dream that shocked you, but turned you on. You can't be judged for your dreams, right?
When he sees how hot a dream of a MMF threesome makes you, he WILL consider the proposition.
:-E

 

Ask him if he want to see you fuck a dildo

let him watch you fuck a dildo. tell him to pretend he is watching porn, only the actress is you! next tell him you want to try it with a real cock. if you are hot, he's gonna want to see it. it's not love, just sex...real good sex. my wife and i always fantasize about bringing another man into the action. I'm straight, but the thought of seeing my wife's tight pussy being fucked by a fat cock turns me on. when I'm fucking her real hard and she's going wild, she'll spontaneously cry out that she wants another cock in her mouth. it turns me on so much that I just explode my load into her!

Once in Napa, we came close to inviting a stranger at the hotel bar to join us in our room. after a few drinks my wife was so horny with wine, that she suggested I walk up to him and ask him if he would like to fuck my wife while I watched. I of course chickened out, but afterwards wished I didn't. While i fucked her doggy that night, i imagined how exciting it would be to have another man fucking her other hole. we already use butt plugs, dildos and vibrators, why not take it to the next level. i know that it's going to happen some day. it's just a matter of time before my wife gets dp'ed and two loads on her face.

 

Indirectly wont work.. You need to to talk to him openly about it. I would suggest you start by asking casually if he likes the idea. If he is positive then ask a little more firmly at a later date if he was serious about it or not. Tell him you would like to try a threesome but only with him there and with his agreement.

Not every guy wants to see their woman with another guy ( or woman ) and in fiction or fantasy it may seem like a lot of fun but the reality of seeing their loved one having sex with someone else maybe a step to far.

You need to think this one through yourself and talk properly to your husband about your desires. If he isnt keen then it will probably just have to remain a fantasy for you. But what ever the outcome try and make sure something positive comes from it. It might be that having an adult conversation about your desires leads to a better and more fulfilling sex life for both of you. He may have stuff he wants to do but hasnt voiced and if it isnt a threesome it might be something else which could be equally enjoyable

 

This whole fued start with you critisizing some of my posts that you did not like.

How is what I have done here different.

Can you spell hypocrite?

Thinskin

 

Yes. If you want your husband to have a threesome, you make sure you always licked his ass!!

 

Tease him and before he cums, ask him for a threesome :twisted:.

 

Tlk about your sexual fantasies. The best time i found to bring things up is during foreplay . When you got him all excited. Say things like would you like to watch my girlfriend eat my pussy?? Or do i taste good?? Will you let another man taste me?? Just you get the picture. Have fun with it. But know your limits on how far to take it. If he's a really jealous type person like my husband. He may not be so open to the idea of another partner joining. First you need to decide if you want it to be a female or male. Then you can persuade him from there. Good luck to you on your sexual adventures.

 

Tell him you are going to go out and fuck other guys, but you'd rather do it with him, too, because you love him. You don't want to cheat, but you need more cock.

 

GOT TO AGREE HERE

Even though my wife may never accept another man with us I still opened up that communication that gets brought up from time to time in hopes. Be honest and make it a part of your love play, it's the best way to gauge the possibilities.

 

wow I am sorry that you don't like someone having a different opinion then yours. People are allowed to do that and adults should be able to do it respectfully. How is it different well you came here to post for other reasons then to post a genuine difference of opinion and don't even argue about that cause your non stop pm's make that clear. Please grow up. I am sorry that you can't put your big boy pants on and let a difference of opinion we had over a month ago over drug use go that you have to continue to carry a hatred around the board instead of looking at each post on its own merit. Your actions are not making me think any different on drug users if anything you are proving me right by your childish behavior. I am sure there will be more as you always feel that you have to get the last word in so knock your self out. We are here to discuss sexual things and have fun if you want to carry grudges well that is your choice, had you been able to let little differences of opinion of drug use go we might even be agreeing on something and having fun now.