Also, "if she can't handle your farts, she don't deserve you!" -Confucius

 

Philosophically, I'd like to say, don't have sex with anyone until you are as sure as you possibly can be, that this is the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with in an exclusive relationship. Once you're in this relationship, don't be afraid to try new things, anything at all. And any sexual activity that the two of you can agree on is OK, and any sexual activity that the two of you cannot agree on is not OK.

 

Great thread. i can't limit it to one piece so here goes lol

For Men
- Make her cum first
- Realize that women love to fuck just as much, if not more than we do. Society just dictates that women have to act as if they dont like sex as much. So don't be afraid to pursue a variety of women, but be classy about it.
- Related to the above point...don't judge a woman for having more than one partner.
- Make sure she's on birth control.
- Try a same-sex experience (at whatever level u choose) at least once.
- Have sex with partners of vastly different ages, (legal age of course) just to experience and learn/teach.

For Women
- Get on birth control. There's a wide variety, its easily available and affordable. Will remove a lot of the stress of sex outside of a relationship, don't rely on the guy to pullout or wear a rubber
- Don't buy into the Disney fairytale of monogamy....men want more than one sexual partner, its how we are wired...its not a judgment on your beauty/sexual skill... accept it and be at peace
- Don't rush into relationships just b/c your girlfriends are getting married/having kids.
- Learn to love porn. Lots of it.
- Try a same-sex experience (at whatever level u choose) at least once.
- Have sex with partners of vastly different ages, (legal age of course) just to experience and learn/teach.

 

Love like you mean it, be genuine, and seek out the true answers to your desires without shame. Take care with the hearts of others, and find no time for those that do not take care with yours. Walk the path to the top of the mountain where lust is concerned, do not run, too far too fast may seem like fun, but eventually there is nowhere left to go that you want to be and the most pleasurable things about sex can become mundane to the senses. Your drives and how far you have taken them can shape your life.

Life is long and every moment matters, make those moments into memories that you smile at and that cast you in the light you wish to recall yourself in later...Especially with sex, it's so powerful and volatile.

 

Sorry, double post

 

Never, ever let anyone tell you how you must feel or love.

 

This.

OT

 

Communication and trust.
Don't be afraid to try something new or different.
If you don't want to do it, have a reason why.

 

Be direct, honest and non-judgemental with your partners. Tell them what turns you on and WHY. Listen to what turns them on. Don't hold anything back for fear of rejection. If your partner can't handle the truth, keep looking. If he/she CAN and accepts you, you may have found a mate you can be happy with the rest of your life.

A relationship built on lies and secrets is unhappy and A LOT OF WORK.

 

No such thing as normal!
And this:

 

1. Realistically, no, you can't do anything you set your mind to. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't give it a shot or two.

2. You're not dumb, you're learning. The same as every other human on this planet. Know that, and you'll be fine.

3. Don't trust anyone who tells you that a certain time period is the best years of your life. It means they aren't doing it right.

4. Advice tends to be something you don't truly appreciate until you wish you had taken it. It's not just you; we all do it.

5. Self-control is the hardest skill you'll ever have to master.

6. Always use a condom until you're ready to be a parent.

 

Fantasies are fun but memories are sweeter. You owe it to yourself to fully explore your sexuality. Time flies, git busy, have fun, play safe.

 

Don't expect everyone to know how to please you. Talk to them and guide them.

 

DON'T pick up the soap!

Hush....an alias

 

...never pass up sex...you may never get the offer again...

 

...all the advice given was good...damn good...

 

Stop worrying about your boob size or penis length and have fun.

 

1. Be open and honest with your lover. Don't keep secrets, secrets become lies and lies bite you in the ass!

2. Don't be quick to judge someone try to see things the way they do. Before you make a informed decision.

3. People only change things when they want to for themselves. So do expect anyone to change who they are and when you do see changes it almost alway real and always meaningful.

4. As far as sex. Be true to yourself, you don't have to do anything that make you uncomfortable! And no always means No!

 

Lick the alphabet!

 

Give your heart some credit. It's got something worth hearing even if all your family and friends say differently.
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